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Uk is in big trouble - what do you think will happen?

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hippysun · 13/08/2025 10:03

Thames water on brink of collapse. All those CEOs getting fat bonuses. Water shortages and rising bills.

the cost of living is off the chart. Every bill has gone up. Pop in to Tesco for toothpaste, butter and chicken and it costs an insane amount for just a few items.

the government are crap and taxing the hell out of us.

my salary is stuck. I feel constantly poor now. 10 years ago when I earned significantly less, I felt ok money wise. Chatted today to a colleague about science graduate son who is stuck doing a minimum wage job as there are no jobs here. I’ve noticed this myself in my town. The council have a few, other companies outsourced to India years ago, the pharma company moved out years ago and the land will soon be a new housing estate.

the nhs is a total mess.

housing costs make me want to weep! No chance of moving. Feel bad for my kids. They just keep building expensive houses here all packed into poorly designed estates. Tiny gardens. But no infrastructure. The promised schools get cancelled and drs surgeries and hospitals are rammed with patients. My mortgage of course is up.

in my industry… everyone is obsessed with AI and I’m sad to say it has taken some jobs already. There is a huge push towards AI.

there seems to be underlying tension here re migrants. People getting increasingly annoyed.

this country feels like a right mess. Making rich people richer and poor people even poorer. The middle earners are getting squeezed. I hate it.

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

why is it so terrible? And what do you think will happen?

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anotherside · 13/08/2025 18:12

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 18:02

Labour is fucking up big time. After the local elections in May there were two paths for it to take. One was to win back its own core supporters. The other was to win over Reform supporters.

Labour chose the latter and it is one big mess right now.

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I’d agree with that. All he really actually needed to do was follow most of Corbyn’s economic-social policy - just without being Corbyn. IE, the controversial Jewish stuff, the terrorist supporter jibes, the unprofessional scruffy student look, being too anti military. He’s tried to be too clever, trying to appeal to the New Labour floating voters that hardly exist anymore. He only won the election because people wanted the Tories out.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 18:21

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 18:02

Labour is fucking up big time. After the local elections in May there were two paths for it to take. One was to win back its own core supporters. The other was to win over Reform supporters.

Labour chose the latter and it is one big mess right now.

Edited

I do agree that Labour is playing a funny game. It’s difficult to work out what, if any, political principles Starmer is guided by.

My assessment - and I’ll acknowledge straightaway that this is disparaging and open to objection - is that Starmer is guided by his own vanity and ambition and nothing else.

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 18:32

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 13/08/2025 18:21

I do agree that Labour is playing a funny game. It’s difficult to work out what, if any, political principles Starmer is guided by.

My assessment - and I’ll acknowledge straightaway that this is disparaging and open to objection - is that Starmer is guided by his own vanity and ambition and nothing else.

All PMs have vanity and ambition to a certain degree, tbf, otherwise they wouldn't have made it to PM.

I am reserving final judgement on Starmer for a couple of years.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 18:34

BurntBroccoli · 13/08/2025 16:30

Agree 100%. There is a lot of dark money being pumped into social media to upset the balance of power.
It was very obvious before Brexit and took off again shortly after July 2024.

Even Reddit has been infiltrated.

So all the anti-Tory stuff was OK but not anti-Labour stuff?
At least we've moved from "Tory bots" which was the accusation flung out prior, during and immediately after the election.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 18:36

derxa · 13/08/2025 15:51

Well the farm was their workplace

Tbf, most females in the 60s/70s weren’t “employed” by their husbands/fathers.
I very much doubt that the majority of women working in mills/factories/retail/typing pools/schools/airlibes, etc., experienced the same degree of autonomy as your average farmers wife.

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 18:37

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 18:34

So all the anti-Tory stuff was OK but not anti-Labour stuff?
At least we've moved from "Tory bots" which was the accusation flung out prior, during and immediately after the election.

Maybe those who think this did the former so it’s harder to see, they notice the anti Labour stuff as it’s their party.

Really most people are just not happy with how it’s going and expressing that online.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 18:41

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 18:32

All PMs have vanity and ambition to a certain degree, tbf, otherwise they wouldn't have made it to PM.

I am reserving final judgement on Starmer for a couple of years.

Well, yes. Anyone who believes that they ought to be in charge of the nation really shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near number 10.
Our grandson, just turned 5, recently told us that he was going to be “a king” when he grew up. Sent shivers down the spines. Thankfully he didn’t add “of the world”, so there’s time to turn it around. “A” and not “the” also gave us hope!
Tbf, he’s quite into Arthur and his round table atm and we suspect he just likes horses and lances. But we’ll be keeping a close eye 😁

Britneyfan · 13/08/2025 18:42

AntikytheraMech · 13/08/2025 17:28

I was asked to help develop AI swarm drones for the British military forces and I declined about 9 years ago.
I didn't subscribe to the principal.
I also walked out of a very well paying job when I walked past departments called DEW and WMD.
I quit the next day. One wasn't allowed to step off the carpet into areas that were color coded depending on your badge.
The kind of place where you had to put your mobile phone into a locker before you went into a meeting.
So many people have no idea what's going on in the background.
This is what is starting to happen in warfare using drones.

And this is over five years old and technology has progressed massively since. The last couple of minutes are by a professor from Oxford who talks about AI drone technology.
Just take a look at Boston dynamics.
12 years ago when I first noticed them they were producing some noisy diesel mule type Project.
The current version does parkour.
I'm not trying to scare anyone but if you give one of these or their robot dogs are gun or one of the drones small explosives and things go tits up, there's no hiding from it.
https://youtube.com/shorts/3QRtVZRblmg
This is happening people. The technology you see on the street today is 30 years behind what has been developed by military companies.
Just teach your children to be resilient and recognize the signs.
Please.

Terrifying! Both the videos you posted. Though I can’t help but be impressed at the achievement of that robot moving so fluidly and fast!

MelliC · 13/08/2025 18:50

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 18:34

So all the anti-Tory stuff was OK but not anti-Labour stuff?
At least we've moved from "Tory bots" which was the accusation flung out prior, during and immediately after the election.

I just read Careless People by Sarah Wynne Williams, ex Facebook director of Global Public Policy. Social Media is very squarely focused on political advertising these days. If you look at too much social media, you will be as miserable as they tell you to be. That's how politics works these days.

rainingsnoring · 13/08/2025 18:52

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 14:48

My take on the UK is to stop trying and then, you’ll stop caring by default.

Example . I had one child and then realised that I would never be able to do enough for them to make their life better than what mine was. My childhood in the 80’s was idyllic.
So I stopped at one.

My husband and I both earn between £55,000- £60,000 a year and have good saving capacity. But we don’t bother. Instead we’ve spent the past 20 years buying what our son needs and blowing the rest. Indulging in extremely expensive holidays and on beautiful jewellery. After 25 years of work, we have less than 10,000 in our bank accounts. £5000 in a joint account and then a couple of grand each in our current accounts.

We are currently on a month long trip to the states, blowing last years earnings. When we come back we will book for next year.

We will continue to live like this, as it makes life spectacularly enjoyable. When we die, we will leave the house to our son, but I might transfer that over to him sooner and buy a camper van.

My husband and I made a decision to live out our lives having a fabulous time and leave as little as possible that could be taxed - then we don’t have to worry about tomorrow. The UK is very poorly governed and much too socialist for my liking. The government love other people’s hard earned money, so spend it and enjoy it is my mantra and if you start accumulating too much (as mortgages are paid off etc) then reduce working time and earnings.

Will you suddenly undergo a transformation to a card carrying socialist in your old age when you need care and feel entitled to a pension though?

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 18:56

MelliC · 13/08/2025 18:50

I just read Careless People by Sarah Wynne Williams, ex Facebook director of Global Public Policy. Social Media is very squarely focused on political advertising these days. If you look at too much social media, you will be as miserable as they tell you to be. That's how politics works these days.

I'm talking about MN specifically. Lots of anti-Tory posts which were "fine" and no accusation of dark funding etc. Any anti-Labour rhetoric is funded by dark forces???

rainingsnoring · 13/08/2025 18:58

AntikytheraMech · 13/08/2025 17:46

The takeaway message I gave to the sixth formers at that school... Don't focus on one particular career but choose a field that you want to work in and be flexible in your learning so that there are a multiplude of options in one's chosen path. That way, one is not just restricted to one particular job, but gives one multiple options to apply for with relevant skills, which show the core skills are there and refinement may be necessary for the particular role.
Just my opinion and open to criticism as long as it's constructive criticism.
Affiliate people set their goals on being role a, and or role b, but meeting the industry criteria is going to be fundamental in the future.
IMHO.
I've had 30 jobs since 17 looking for nirvana.

I completely agree with you. I don't lecture to sixth formers but do attempt to impart this flexibility of mind to my kids but you know how much children listen to their parents, some are better than others.

rainingsnoring · 13/08/2025 19:00

Jaduria · 13/08/2025 15:24

Overall, things have been declining since around the turn of the century.

Where on earth are you getting all this from?!

I’d love to see the stats for the claims you’re making here.

Obviously the official stats don't confirm this. There are alternative places online that calculate things differently. I am happy to send you links if you did want to PM me. Some of it is also my own observations as someone who works with the general public and is interested in these things.

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:06

Samanabanana · 13/08/2025 16:01

The amount of "the UK is doomed" posts at the moment is off the chart. Almost like there's an ulterior motive behind them

Fwiw, life seems ok in our neck of the woods. People holiday, pay their mortgages, kids do well at school, get Dr appointments when needed, can heat their homes and put food on the table. While it's undoubtedly difficult for some, it's not all doom and gloom, is it?

I wonder if it's outside agitators, Russia, Iran, China infiltrating and trying to destabilise the UK alongside the outages,cyber attacks on UK companies,NHS etc.

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:08

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:06

I wonder if it's outside agitators, Russia, Iran, China infiltrating and trying to destabilise the UK alongside the outages,cyber attacks on UK companies,NHS etc.

Are you really unaware of people not within that description in the post you’re replying to?

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:09

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:06

I wonder if it's outside agitators, Russia, Iran, China infiltrating and trying to destabilise the UK alongside the outages,cyber attacks on UK companies,NHS etc.

What rather than UK citizens not liking the government and publicly saying so?

Get the tin foil hats out ......

It was all OK when everyone was slagging Tories off though wasn't it? Now it's Labour being torn apart you can't just accept that it's cos 80+% of population don't like them, it must be Russian/foreign interference?!

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 19:13

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:08

Are you really unaware of people not within that description in the post you’re replying to?

I don’t suppose she/he is but it’s really not that unlikely these days, is it? It’s a tactic that worked very well for Putin during the US elections, so why not expand it? Throw in AI and it can be pretty difficult to distinguish.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 19:15

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:06

I wonder if it's outside agitators, Russia, Iran, China infiltrating and trying to destabilise the UK alongside the outages,cyber attacks on UK companies,NHS etc.

It's partly coming from Farage. He's telling people that the UK is lawless, the fabric of society is breaking down, it's full of immigrants, we're bankrupt and he's the hero that's going to save us.

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:15

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:09

What rather than UK citizens not liking the government and publicly saying so?

Get the tin foil hats out ......

It was all OK when everyone was slagging Tories off though wasn't it? Now it's Labour being torn apart you can't just accept that it's cos 80+% of population don't like them, it must be Russian/foreign interference?!

Quite. Although I think Labour themselves have fallen into the trap of thinking people can’t dislike them as much as they do.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:15

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 19:13

I don’t suppose she/he is but it’s really not that unlikely these days, is it? It’s a tactic that worked very well for Putin during the US elections, so why not expand it? Throw in AI and it can be pretty difficult to distinguish.

Funny though how the accusations of being a Russian bot etc though only gets thrown out to those opposing Labour .....

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:15

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:08

Are you really unaware of people not within that description in the post you’re replying to?

I'm replying to the doom and gloom posts that are all over SM plus all the were being invaded etc.
When we're clearly not.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:16

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:15

Quite. Although I think Labour themselves have fallen into the trap of thinking people can’t dislike them as much as they do.

When the reality is that they are more unpopular than they could ever imagine

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:18

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:15

Funny though how the accusations of being a Russian bot etc though only gets thrown out to those opposing Labour .....

It’s typical Labour they must be bots stuff, in a way the GE will be more of a surprise if they carry on thinking it’s all fine for them. So keep going I guess.

Milliejacksonhouseforsale · 13/08/2025 19:19

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 19:15

It's partly coming from Farage. He's telling people that the UK is lawless, the fabric of society is breaking down, it's full of immigrants, we're bankrupt and he's the hero that's going to save us.

The extreme right have been using that tactic for decades.
I looked at some National Front/BNP newspaper headlines from their newspapers, leaflets..it's not a million miles away from the rhetoric that Reform use.

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 19:20

EasternStandard · 13/08/2025 19:18

It’s typical Labour they must be bots stuff, in a way the GE will be more of a surprise if they carry on thinking it’s all fine for them. So keep going I guess.

Do you think they spend all their time being "surprised"? The leadership certainly seem to spend a lot of time being surprised.

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