Oh wow.
Total self-sabotage and destruct mode on steroids🤦🏽♀️
Peter Andre loved her, but you cannot save someone or love someone out of acting out trauma like this. You can never love them enough. I bet she was either drunk, high, or did it to get back at him for something but just didn't understand the implications. KP does not understand or trust love. If she has it she will destroy it, because she doesn't think it's real or deserves it or even understands it. All of which might be understandable.
Poor girl. Whatever happened to her must of been bad. Then she compounded it by choosing a career based on sex based exploitation, like so many emotionally wounded women do. You get lots of 'love' and 'attention' and you think that's what you're good at.
This doesn't excuse her behaviour, but I suspect she has a personality disorder of some kind perhaps coupled with something else on top of everything else.
I don't like people saying she was a bad mother to Harvey or she was wrong to eventually give him up to 24/7 care. He has highly complex needs. Acknowledging she can no longer meet his needs and seeking good outside help and provision for him is a loving act of a parent.
I remember being impressed at her devotion to him. She was young and had a very disabled mixed raced child and I remember her taking him with her to locations where she was working abroad and being very proud of him. She didn't, to my recollection, complain about sleepless nights etc. Considering her status at the time, it revealed she did have a softer side.
But what I don't think some people realise is that having kids when you have severe past trauma, sometimes there's a competition to get your own neglected needs met (however dysfunctionally) with the massive attention and devotion children need. As you get older it either gets easier or harder.
Women get so much flack for giving their children to the fathers. I don't think it's fair.