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What the Fuck!

127 replies

cobrakaieaglefang · 08/08/2025 19:09

What the fuck have I just read! When is this rubbish going to stop!
https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/woman-who-smeared-faeces-nursery-35698025?utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=main&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwQ0xDSwMDGvtleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHn_M1X-1k18RU64fu3Hm43nyZUTc3Cgq_x-WgGtqdpgFlZemjc1PMpmME5XD_aem_J0vWYkwTVtToZCzHs0Gsug#Echobox=1754670693

Woman who smeared faeces on nursery walls and dumped dirty nappies dodges prison

Abbi Taylor pleaded guilty to dumping bags of toxic materials outside Newcastle nurseries earlier this year, with her defending lawyer saying she had done so to 'gain comfort'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/woman-who-smeared-faeces-nursery-35698025?utm_medium=Social&utm_campaign=main&utm_source=Facebook&fbclid=IwQ0xDSwMDGvtleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHn_M1X-1k18RU64fu3Hm43nyZUTc3Cgq_x-WgGtqdpgFlZemjc1PMpmME5XD_aem_J0vWYkwTVtToZCzHs0Gsug#Echobox=1754670693

OP posts:
Absentmindedsmile · 08/08/2025 20:00

NotTerfNorCis · 08/08/2025 19:31

This kind of false reporting needs to be illegal.

Yes

Coconutter24 · 08/08/2025 20:01

MumOfManyAliases · 08/08/2025 19:55

If that’s the case then why on earth was he allowed to work with children? Surely if you apply for a job working with children they have to do a CRB check at the very least?

If he already had a CBO it would show on the DBS check the nursery did, which you would like to think the nursery wouldn’t ignore that! Or he may of had a clean DBS got hired and then got the CBO.

edited to add just re read and he didn’t work there he wasn’t allowed near a nursery due to the CBO

beachwalkx · 08/08/2025 20:02

Coconutter24 · 08/08/2025 20:01

If he already had a CBO it would show on the DBS check the nursery did, which you would like to think the nursery wouldn’t ignore that! Or he may of had a clean DBS got hired and then got the CBO.

edited to add just re read and he didn’t work there he wasn’t allowed near a nursery due to the CBO

Edited

He didn’t work at the nursery I don’t think

LittlleMy · 08/08/2025 20:02

Sad I know but I think there are possibly some legal/regulatory considerations from a newspapers pov though so they may be protecting themselves against possible suing them or some such if they feel misgendered.

Bettyboosmum · 08/08/2025 20:02

I absolutely despair of this world we are living in.

DollyPinkDaydream · 08/08/2025 20:03

He didn’t work there - just dug their nappies out of the bins and smeared them all over the walls and milk bottles, but apparently is no risk to society so allowed to essentially walk free to offend again.

The world is fucked!

MrsOvertonsWindow · 08/08/2025 20:03

Not a woman - a man with a nappy / faeces / baby fetish yet he escapes prison after a number of convictions as he had "a hard time" in custody.

Free to continue to offend. And shame on the courts for calling him a she.

What a world we're leaving to our children.

Clarabell77 · 08/08/2025 20:03

Themomentsheknewshefkedup · 08/08/2025 19:25

Why are we even letting mentally ill people work with children. If your a man who thinks he’s a woman you need a therapist at the very least

It doesn’t say he was working in a nursery.

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 20:03

I can't wait to hear the gaslighting around this one.

Coconutter24 · 08/08/2025 20:04

beachwalkx · 08/08/2025 20:02

He didn’t work at the nursery I don’t think

I just updated my comment as I re read that he wasn’t allowed near a nursery because of the CBO which means he definitely wouldn’t of been working there

tobee · 08/08/2025 20:06

ThatCyanCat · 08/08/2025 20:03

I can't wait to hear the gaslighting around this one.

It'll be "oh no, not that kind of trans woman. The other kind, the most vulnerable, stunning and brave ones!"

EasternStandard · 08/08/2025 20:06

NotTerfNorCis · 08/08/2025 19:31

This kind of false reporting needs to be illegal.

It should. But also what term do the police and courts use?

MrsOvertonsWindow · 08/08/2025 20:08

LittlleMy · 08/08/2025 20:02

Sad I know but I think there are possibly some legal/regulatory considerations from a newspapers pov though so they may be protecting themselves against possible suing them or some such if they feel misgendered.

The only made up "regulatory" considerations were that a while ago trans activist groups were allowed to demand that gross men like this were referred to as women by the courts.

It's rebounded on them big time as numerous similar court cases now lead people to make the assumption that predatory / perverted behaviour is somehow linked to men who claim to be women. You'd think they'd want to distance themselves from men like this but for some reason they're still wedded to insisting that "misgendering" is a crime no matter who. 🙄

It's enraging as all our crime data is completely skewed by these lies.

johnd2 · 08/08/2025 20:09

I don't think the whole trans thing has anything to do with it, just some people have really big issues and need help, I don't think being trans really enables people to do this kind of thing.

Sunshineismyfavourite · 08/08/2025 20:10

How is this person allowed to excuse the fact that they have been smearing faeces on walls of nurseries - because they are doing it for comfort?

What about the comfort of the people who are being exposed to this disgusting behaviour and having to clean it up - what about their comfort?

Seriously - I bloody hate criminal defence lawyers like this who do whatever they can to get their client off and avoid the sentence they truly deserve. And potentially the help they need? What a mad world we are living in. And to refer to the person as a woman is a bloody joke. Did this mean they had a more lenient sentence too? Makes my blood boil!

Toseland · 08/08/2025 20:10

MumOfManyAliases · 08/08/2025 19:55

If that’s the case then why on earth was he allowed to work with children? Surely if you apply for a job working with children they have to do a CRB check at the very least?

If you declare you are now a woman you can wipe your slate clean. Get a new birth certificate saying you were born female, call yourself a woman's name. If anyone complains about you, you can call them a transphobic bigot and get them sacked. 'Trans' is a predator's dream.

storminabuttercup · 08/08/2025 20:13

johnd2 · 08/08/2025 20:09

I don't think the whole trans thing has anything to do with it, just some people have really big issues and need help, I don't think being trans really enables people to do this kind of thing.

I don’t think anyone is saying it’s a trans issue
the issue is this crime is being reported as a crime by a woman
it fucks up statistics
its wrong
no not all trans women are criminals but there’s a worrying number of men who pretend to be women doing fucked up shit like this

NebulousWhistler · 08/08/2025 20:14

tobee · 08/08/2025 20:06

It'll be "oh no, not that kind of trans woman. The other kind, the most vulnerable, stunning and brave ones!"

Don’t forget “most marginalised group in society”

MrsOvertonsWindow · 08/08/2025 20:14

johnd2 · 08/08/2025 20:09

I don't think the whole trans thing has anything to do with it, just some people have really big issues and need help, I don't think being trans really enables people to do this kind of thing.

We've actually no idea. Our crime data is completely fucked as so many sex / violent crimes are attributed to women when they're really committed by men. The Ministry of Justice data - flawed as it is - highlights that transwomen are disproportionately imprisoned for sexual crimes.

The lack of accurate data means that if there are patterns and issues relating to any demographic we have no idea. There's some suggestion that women are increasingly involved in crimes of violence - but again the data is flawed as so many crimes committed by certain men are attributed to women.

This harms society, vulnerable groups and attempts at crime prevention if we don't know which sex is committing which crimes.

johnd2 · 08/08/2025 20:21

@storminabuttercup @MrsOvertonsWindow
Got it ok didn't pick up that it was about the data, the original post was very vague indeed!

REDB99 · 08/08/2025 20:25

I’m furious with the BBC for referring to this man as ‘she’. No woman would ever commit an offence like this. I’m so livid that I’m writing to them. The law clearly states that a woman is a woman by biological sex not by identification. There is no need to refer to this man as ‘she’. He’s a man!!!!

Boiledbeetle · 08/08/2025 20:26

That is a man. Before that he was a boy. He's a he/him. He was, is, and will always be a male of the species! And so are all the other men claiming womanhood. None of them are special. None of them have acquired the ability to actually change sex.

TheKeeperOfTissues · 08/08/2025 20:27

Another sick MAN walks away with a slap on the wrist. This time because 'prison was hard' ......
I don't think prison is meant to be a luxury holiday, fuckwit.
When he offends again, because he will, the judge who just let him walk should serve the same custodial.
Maybe even be cellmates......

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 08/08/2025 20:27

and had climbed in clinical waste bins for "comfort".

Clinical bins should have a locking mechanism (ours do at work) to prevent access

Look on the bright side , it was baby poo not this sad delusional person's waste

Funnywonder · 08/08/2025 20:28

Oh COME ON. Not only are this man’s crimes utterly abhorrent and sickening, but the stupid newspaper puts the tin lid on it by pandering to this criminal and referring to him as a woman. Jesus wept.

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