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'Middle class' is a con

121 replies

NapsForAll · 07/08/2025 12:25

Concept taken from Gary Stevenson:

There are only two classes. The 'owning class' and the 'working class'.

'Owning class' primarily get all their money from investments and assets, and properties and land. They don't have to work, and they have so much wealth that their money makes money. They don't get taxed on that huge huge amount of money. The UK has 156 billionaires and 45,000 people that have more than 100 million.

The working class is everyone else - the rest of us. Yes there are spectrums within it, but we are ALL people who have to work to get money, and if we don't work, we can't live.

AIBU to say that the term middle class has been invented to sow division, and we are being ROYALLY played by identifying as middle class? It would make more of a difference to our lives and society if we focused on wealth taxes, not who claims child allowance or disability support.

YABU - no, smaller class divides are part of British politics
YANBU - yeh we are literally owned by the rich people in our society. Let's all start calling for a wealth tax.

OP posts:
fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 15:54

CurlewKate · 14/01/2026 09:46

I agree in financial terms. But in Britain there’s more to class than that-you can have little money but still have the cultural capital that gives a lot of privilege. It is a complicated issue.

I don't think it's as complicated as Britons make it sound. In every country there is implicitly "more" to class than money - even in America, the great capitalist machine, connections count nearly as much as how much money you have.

Papyrophile · 22/01/2026 20:03

If you have savings, above a very modest security net, £6000 for uc, it seems pretty fair that you should expect to use some of that to soften any loss of income while finding a new job.

I approve of the state helping people out in hard times for a time limited period. I was once married to an American, who lost his job. He had 12 months to get another. After 12 months, nothing. Creep back to your family for help and start again.

The super rich have bought resources and now sell them on subscription, so cancel subscriptions. Buy the DVD or the CD for $1 and play it forever.

Goldenbear · 22/01/2026 20:16

fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 15:54

I don't think it's as complicated as Britons make it sound. In every country there is implicitly "more" to class than money - even in America, the great capitalist machine, connections count nearly as much as how much money you have.

It's pretty much impossible to be part of the Aristocracy unless you marry into it or receive a title from the monarch, that's quite the barrier compared to the U.S. I would imagine.

fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 21:27

Goldenbear · 22/01/2026 20:16

It's pretty much impossible to be part of the Aristocracy unless you marry into it or receive a title from the monarch, that's quite the barrier compared to the U.S. I would imagine.

Class rigidity is nothing special (nor something to be celebrated). Many pre-modern societies had classes or castes that tried to be hereditary. It's awful. Thankfully, no matter how much we romanticise the aristocracy, elite status in Britain is no longer exclusively tied to noble blood.

BlueJuniper94 · 22/01/2026 21:32

Dingledongledell · 07/08/2025 12:40

All of these ‘the wealthy are shafting you, that’s why your life is so bad’ conspiracy theory threads are tiresome.

I don't think you know what "conspiracy theory" means 🤔

BlueJuniper94 · 22/01/2026 21:37

fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 21:27

Class rigidity is nothing special (nor something to be celebrated). Many pre-modern societies had classes or castes that tried to be hereditary. It's awful. Thankfully, no matter how much we romanticise the aristocracy, elite status in Britain is no longer exclusively tied to noble blood.

You're kinda outta date. There was a brief period in our civilisation where social mobility actually did exist, feudalism was majorly disrupted and a middle class rose up and demanded democratisation. That era of history is now over, it was a brief anomaly and we are returning to feudalism.

A new set of nobles have been established and we live in an "inheritocracy" (see Dr Eliza Filby) bloodlines are back

Nevermind17 · 22/01/2026 21:52

NoSoupForU · 07/08/2025 13:23

The simpler way is to just not buy into any class system as they're all just fabrications based on the ideals of some people. Its all absolute bullshit and I've no idea why so many people are so obsessed with giving themselves a class label at all as it determines precisely nothing about your values as an individual or to society.

It’s ludicrous to suggest that class wouldn’t exist if people would just stop ‘labelling’ themselves.

A sex worker with a broad regional accent and university educated businessman with a cut-glass accent and Savile Row suit are giving evidence in court. Which one will be believed if their accounts contradict each other?

Classism is a thing. Denying that fact won’t change that. It’s only middle-class people who are privileged enough to claim it means nothing.

fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 23:04

Nevermind17 · 22/01/2026 21:52

It’s ludicrous to suggest that class wouldn’t exist if people would just stop ‘labelling’ themselves.

A sex worker with a broad regional accent and university educated businessman with a cut-glass accent and Savile Row suit are giving evidence in court. Which one will be believed if their accounts contradict each other?

Classism is a thing. Denying that fact won’t change that. It’s only middle-class people who are privileged enough to claim it means nothing.

In today’s world, I wouldn’t be surprised if the university-educated businessman was a sex worker (Savile Row suit paid for by a client).

Goldenbear · 22/01/2026 23:09

fromthbottomofmyheart · 22/01/2026 21:27

Class rigidity is nothing special (nor something to be celebrated). Many pre-modern societies had classes or castes that tried to be hereditary. It's awful. Thankfully, no matter how much we romanticise the aristocracy, elite status in Britain is no longer exclusively tied to noble blood.

I Don't think anyone is celebrating it - I get it, the poor will only eat cake for so long but the idea that it no longer exists is pure fantasy, the United Kingdom is just that- a Kingdom, with the landowning classes mainly being the Aristocracy, a tiny percentage of people own 30% of the land and this is only due to an accident of birth or via marriage which arguably makes it a pretty exclusive class.

Why is it better to replace the Aristocracy with the wealthy elite, there is nothing special about them either!

MidnightMeltdown · 23/01/2026 09:51

turnoffalarm · 17/08/2025 15:18

I agree with a lot he says. I have a background in economics so I know his thinking is sound. I think if you don't watch or read his stuff, his message can be misconstrued. Yes he wants to tax the super rich but via wealth not income taxes. So someone earning 800k a year with a 1 million bonus and a house worth 3 million wouldn't have to worry. The Duke of Westminster on the other hand would have to sweat a little!

Gary's point about inequality is correct, those with wealth just buy more and more assets, leaving the rest of us fighting over what's left over. Asset prices keep rising and more and more people end up being unable to afford anything. It's easy to blame migrants or saying people need to work harder, but I am pretty sure even if migration was zero and we all worked 120 hours a week, we still wouldn't be able to afford a house or have a decent public services. 😡

The middle class are supposed to be able to afford their own homes because they have middle class jobs but most of them cannot unless they have help from bank of mum and dad. My children's upbringing would probably be described as upper middle class and the idea of them having their own place seems impossible unless I downsize.

Edited

It’s not just the super rich who are the asset owning class though. 1 in 6 baby boomers own more than one home. There is huge generational inequality.

Poopeepoopee · 23/01/2026 13:28

MidnightMeltdown · 23/01/2026 09:51

It’s not just the super rich who are the asset owning class though. 1 in 6 baby boomers own more than one home. There is huge generational inequality.

One in 6 baby boomers own more than one home? Do they bollocks! 😂

Meadowfinch · 23/01/2026 14:11

MidnightMeltdown · 23/01/2026 09:51

It’s not just the super rich who are the asset owning class though. 1 in 6 baby boomers own more than one home. There is huge generational inequality.

Evidence please....because I think this is total tosh.

I'm 62, most of my friends and siblings are boomers, and only one owns a second property.

HopSpringsEternal · 23/01/2026 14:15

PeriJane · 07/08/2025 12:28

How many more of these fucking wah wah the rich have ruined my life bullshit threads must we suffer?

It must be really for you. Thoughts and prayers.

Ponoka7 · 23/01/2026 14:17

Papyrophile · 22/01/2026 20:03

If you have savings, above a very modest security net, £6000 for uc, it seems pretty fair that you should expect to use some of that to soften any loss of income while finding a new job.

I approve of the state helping people out in hard times for a time limited period. I was once married to an American, who lost his job. He had 12 months to get another. After 12 months, nothing. Creep back to your family for help and start again.

The super rich have bought resources and now sell them on subscription, so cancel subscriptions. Buy the DVD or the CD for $1 and play it forever.

I just don't agree with it being as small as £6k. Now that ESA has stopped and the disabled moved to UC, £6k isn't necessarily enough for a decent car. In the case of my full time working, LP DD. She could never save a house deposit. She works for the NHS. It would make more sense for her to own her own home, than rent, for herself and society.

Meadowfinch · 23/01/2026 14:19

snowlaser · 07/08/2025 12:52

I disagree

Both working class and middle class have to work, true, but the middle class usually end up with houses, pensions and money left over for inheritances, whereas the working class survive week to week.

That is a genuine big difference.

But there is no difference in those groups apart from effort, education and a big dollop of luck.

Meadowfinch · 23/01/2026 14:25

Papyrophile · 22/01/2026 20:03

If you have savings, above a very modest security net, £6000 for uc, it seems pretty fair that you should expect to use some of that to soften any loss of income while finding a new job.

I approve of the state helping people out in hard times for a time limited period. I was once married to an American, who lost his job. He had 12 months to get another. After 12 months, nothing. Creep back to your family for help and start again.

The super rich have bought resources and now sell them on subscription, so cancel subscriptions. Buy the DVD or the CD for $1 and play it forever.

The trouble with that is £6k isn't much. I had to pay more than that to replace the roof on my house two years ago. It took me years to save up.

So just before it was replaced, was I affluent with a leaky roof, and after it was fixed, I was poor with a watertight roof ?

In reality I am neither affluent nor poor, but just scraping by while responsibly saving for essential repairs.

MissHollyGolightly · 23/01/2026 14:52

I think "owning class" is too simplistic. In most cases it's not an aristocracy.The richest people (men) of our era had ambition and drive to innovate and make all our lives better (debatable maybe but most people like Google search and goods delivered cheaply to their doors and silicon chips in their devices).
I don't like a lot of these billionaire ego boys but they employ millions of people and created trilions in wealth for families of all stripes who own their stock.
Maybe people in the UK should be asking instead why they don't participate in wealth creation such as by investing in stocks, like aspirational Americans do. (8% vs around 45% of personal wealth in stock.) It's not wealth held in a vault, it's available to all albeit it comes with risks.

Goldenbear · 23/01/2026 15:09

MissHollyGolightly · 23/01/2026 14:52

I think "owning class" is too simplistic. In most cases it's not an aristocracy.The richest people (men) of our era had ambition and drive to innovate and make all our lives better (debatable maybe but most people like Google search and goods delivered cheaply to their doors and silicon chips in their devices).
I don't like a lot of these billionaire ego boys but they employ millions of people and created trilions in wealth for families of all stripes who own their stock.
Maybe people in the UK should be asking instead why they don't participate in wealth creation such as by investing in stocks, like aspirational Americans do. (8% vs around 45% of personal wealth in stock.) It's not wealth held in a vault, it's available to all albeit it comes with risks.

In the UK it 'is' the Aristocracy that own 30% of land, why pretend otherwise, what's your agenda? The rest of your post about becoming more like the Americans doesn't make sense as we live in more of a feudal leasehold system than we do in the 'American Dream'.

AlastheDaffodils · 25/01/2026 12:52

Goldenbear · 23/01/2026 15:09

In the UK it 'is' the Aristocracy that own 30% of land, why pretend otherwise, what's your agenda? The rest of your post about becoming more like the Americans doesn't make sense as we live in more of a feudal leasehold system than we do in the 'American Dream'.

I don’t understand the obsession with land ownership. So what if the aristocracy still own a lot of land? They are fools. If they had sold it a generation ago and invested in the stock market like American rich people do, they would be much better off and able to maintain their big houses instead of having to open them to to paying visitors just to replace the roof.

How many hereditary aristocrats are in government? How many run the biggest businesses? How many have any sort of meaningful power? Almost none. With the exception of a few families - notably the Grosvenors, already mentioned - they are irrelevant.

If you’re concerned about inequality in Britain then focusing on titled aristocrats is a distraction.

snowlaser · 27/01/2026 12:42

Meadowfinch · 23/01/2026 14:19

But there is no difference in those groups apart from effort, education and a big dollop of luck.

My point is that people who are in the middle class have a nicer lifestyle than people in the working class. That is a genuine difference.

You're just describing how people END UP in the middle class, which is right but I don't see how that negates the point?

Chances are that a typical doctor has a nicer house, nicer holidays, and fewer money worries than a typical nursery school assistant. That doesn't make the doctor a better person, and it might well be because the doctor had education opportunities to get them into being a doctor in the first place - but it's different, and it's a genuine difference, and Gary Stevenson pretending that everyone who works is somehow in the same boat is false.

Goldenbear · 27/01/2026 13:44

AlastheDaffodils · 25/01/2026 12:52

I don’t understand the obsession with land ownership. So what if the aristocracy still own a lot of land? They are fools. If they had sold it a generation ago and invested in the stock market like American rich people do, they would be much better off and able to maintain their big houses instead of having to open them to to paying visitors just to replace the roof.

How many hereditary aristocrats are in government? How many run the biggest businesses? How many have any sort of meaningful power? Almost none. With the exception of a few families - notably the Grosvenors, already mentioned - they are irrelevant.

If you’re concerned about inequality in Britain then focusing on titled aristocrats is a distraction.

No, land ownership holds no fortune or control over property value or developments at all does it!

The only redeeming thing about the situation is that the American way motivated purely by money has not been contemplated!

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