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'Middle class' is a con

121 replies

NapsForAll · 07/08/2025 12:25

Concept taken from Gary Stevenson:

There are only two classes. The 'owning class' and the 'working class'.

'Owning class' primarily get all their money from investments and assets, and properties and land. They don't have to work, and they have so much wealth that their money makes money. They don't get taxed on that huge huge amount of money. The UK has 156 billionaires and 45,000 people that have more than 100 million.

The working class is everyone else - the rest of us. Yes there are spectrums within it, but we are ALL people who have to work to get money, and if we don't work, we can't live.

AIBU to say that the term middle class has been invented to sow division, and we are being ROYALLY played by identifying as middle class? It would make more of a difference to our lives and society if we focused on wealth taxes, not who claims child allowance or disability support.

YABU - no, smaller class divides are part of British politics
YANBU - yeh we are literally owned by the rich people in our society. Let's all start calling for a wealth tax.

OP posts:
GeneralPeter · 07/08/2025 21:45

This is a weirdly-framed AIBU that muddles lots of different things as if they all flow from each other. A bit like:

"The term 'Asian' is a con'". There are only two races: light or dark. Asian was invented to divide us. AIBU? Yes - smaller divides are traditional. No - there are only two races: we should ban stop and search.

scalt · 07/08/2025 21:55

The champagne socialist Tony Bliar said "we're all middle class", while he was taking his children to the Seychelles, when they should have been in school. If we're all middle class, why weren't we all taking our children on term-time holidays to the Seychelles? Net zero hadn't been invented then, the scary buzzword was still "the greenhouse effect".

He also awarded himself a 50% pay rise in 2001. What a middle class thing to do. It was the first move of the Blair Rich Project.

cardibach · 07/08/2025 21:57

AlastheDaffodils · 07/08/2025 12:34

This is Marxist analysis. That’s not an insult. But Gary Stevenson didn’t invent it, Marx did about 150 years ago.

By this logic all pensioners are “owning class.” They don’t work for their income - so would be in the same category as a retired hedge fund manager living off his wealth. But putting Mabel with her NHS pension in her council flat in the same category as Mark on his yacht with his £100m of liquid wealth is obviously absurd.

It’s not true that the “owning class” doesn’t get taxed. Investment income is taxed. Capital gains are taxed. Income from trusts is taxed.

That's not true. Mabel isn’t making money from the labour of others. I don’t think Marx had pensions paid for by tax in mind in his definition.

HerewardtheSleepy · 07/08/2025 22:01

The estate of Karl Marx should sue for plagiarism/breach of copyright.

Hardly a new or original concept.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 07/08/2025 22:05

PeriJane · 07/08/2025 12:28

How many more of these fucking wah wah the rich have ruined my life bullshit threads must we suffer?

@PeriJane , always just one more apparently. 🤦🏼‍♀️

RetiredMan · 07/08/2025 22:10

Haven't read the thread yet, so perhaps my correction is redundant, but a stat in the OP seemed far-fetched to me. A 2018 Guardian article said that 50,000 people in the whole world have a net worth of more than 100 million, so I think it's fairly unlikely that 45,000 people in the UK do.

GeneralPeter · 07/08/2025 22:11

cardibach · 07/08/2025 21:57

That's not true. Mabel isn’t making money from the labour of others. I don’t think Marx had pensions paid for by tax in mind in his definition.

OK, but Mabel with her 20k/yr NHS pension and Milly and her 20k/yr private pension are surely the natural ones to group together in discussion of tax?

Not Milly with Mark (on his yacht) in one bucket because they are both owners, and Mabel in an entirely different category on what seems like quite a technical point that NHS pensions are unfunded.

genesis92 · 07/08/2025 22:16

If no-one knows who Gary Stevenson is, I can sum up his whole YouTube series in one sentence.

“Tax the rich. Then tax them some more”

Thanks Gary, can’t see any hurdles with that one love

FortheloveofCheesus · 07/08/2025 22:27

I dunno, I do think there is an in between group who have some assets to fall back on, who could survive out of work for a while but long term do need to earn income.

For example, someone who owns a £700k house in the south east with £400k of equity, who earns £100k a year as a chartered accountant, and has £30k in a stock and share isa and a pension fund with £200k in it.

This person has a decent cushion in case they fall on hard times, as they have a good slug of equity, some savings. They have a professional qualification that tends to lead to higher wages.

They are clearly much more financially secure than, for example, a childcare worker earning £13 an hour, who rents privately and has nothing spare to save.

JamDisaster · 07/08/2025 22:35

These endless threads remind me of DD when she’s been watching too much TikTok and starts going on about billionaires causing all the problems in the world.

It’s a sort of pretend left-wingery designed to let people feel virtuous and proletarian despite having grown up with a pony and a large trust fund. It’s a way of minimising your own privilege because, hey, unless you’ve got £100m at least then we’re all the same, no difference between a corporate lawyer and a cleaner.

AlastheDaffodils · 07/08/2025 22:57

cardibach · 07/08/2025 21:57

That's not true. Mabel isn’t making money from the labour of others. I don’t think Marx had pensions paid for by tax in mind in his definition.

That's precisely what Mabel is doing. Her NHS pension (or state pension) is paid from the taxes paid by current workers. If she has a private pension, it will be invested in shares - which also enable Mabel to be paid the fruits of other workers’ labour. None of those workers agreed to finance Mabel’s life but they have to do it anyway.

Marx didn’t consider pensions because they didn’t really exist (at least for ordinary people) when he was writing. But from a modern perspective they’re a major problem for his analysis, because they turn everybody into an asset owner living off the fruits of somebody else’s labour. Even Mabel.

MJMabel · 07/08/2025 23:17

Hey guys, go easy on Mabel! She’s had a hard life and is doing her best, ok? 🤣

pourmeadrinkpls · 07/08/2025 23:20

The working class is everyone else - the rest of us. Yes there are spectrums within it, but we are ALL people who have to work to get money, and if we don't work, we can't live.

I think this is hugely insulting to people who live pay check to pay check. There's a huge difference between working hard and having to count each penny, versus working for a bunch of unnecessary material things, such as extra curricular activities for your kids and the latest SUV

pourmeadrinkpls · 07/08/2025 23:21

JamDisaster · 07/08/2025 22:35

These endless threads remind me of DD when she’s been watching too much TikTok and starts going on about billionaires causing all the problems in the world.

It’s a sort of pretend left-wingery designed to let people feel virtuous and proletarian despite having grown up with a pony and a large trust fund. It’s a way of minimising your own privilege because, hey, unless you’ve got £100m at least then we’re all the same, no difference between a corporate lawyer and a cleaner.

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Elatha · 07/08/2025 23:37

I can’t agree or disagree. Bezo’s earns 1.7 million a year, middle management in Amazon earns about 100,000 a year and an Amazon driver earns about 30k a year. If they have a family the Amazon driver will rely on some kind of benefits to survive. So this is a massively disproportionate array of wealth where the people at the top earn insane amounts and the people at the bottom can’t actually survive on their salaries.

I think this is wrong but I can’t agree that people in the middle are having the same experience as the people on the bottom. There needs to be a fairer distribution of wealth.

It’s wild to me that we all accept that all of our taxes fund benefits for people who are earning substandard wages who are in turn working for the extraordinarily wealthy.

AlastheDaffodils · 08/08/2025 07:22

Elatha · 07/08/2025 23:37

I can’t agree or disagree. Bezo’s earns 1.7 million a year, middle management in Amazon earns about 100,000 a year and an Amazon driver earns about 30k a year. If they have a family the Amazon driver will rely on some kind of benefits to survive. So this is a massively disproportionate array of wealth where the people at the top earn insane amounts and the people at the bottom can’t actually survive on their salaries.

I think this is wrong but I can’t agree that people in the middle are having the same experience as the people on the bottom. There needs to be a fairer distribution of wealth.

It’s wild to me that we all accept that all of our taxes fund benefits for people who are earning substandard wages who are in turn working for the extraordinarily wealthy.

Bezos earns a lot more than 1.7 million a year. Try multiplying that by ten thousand. 17 billion is perfectly plausible in a good year when Amazon’s shares go up. And there’s plenty of Amazon middle management on closer to 1.7 million a year than 100k.

The benefits point is interesting. The UK Amazon driver on 30k probably won’t be entitled to any benefits if he or she is a single healthy adult with no kids working full time. The benefits only come if they have additional needs - likely children, maybe some kind of disability. The only real way to avoid this is to insist companies pay higher wages to people with children, which is currently illegal. Or else you could insist that the minimum wage rises so it’s enough for a single adult to raise a family of two or three children on one wage with no benefits. But then it would probably have to go up to £40k or more, potentially higher in London. The entire hospitality sector would probably disappear, and maybe also the care sector.

Genevieva · 08/08/2025 08:04

That classification sounds like it’s straight out of Jane Austen’s England. Nowadays almost everyone needs to work and houses are bought with large mortgages.

Genevieva · 08/08/2025 08:07

AlastheDaffodils · 07/08/2025 12:34

This is Marxist analysis. That’s not an insult. But Gary Stevenson didn’t invent it, Marx did about 150 years ago.

By this logic all pensioners are “owning class.” They don’t work for their income - so would be in the same category as a retired hedge fund manager living off his wealth. But putting Mabel with her NHS pension in her council flat in the same category as Mark on his yacht with his £100m of liquid wealth is obviously absurd.

It’s not true that the “owning class” doesn’t get taxed. Investment income is taxed. Capital gains are taxed. Income from trusts is taxed.

Even the hedge fund manager would retired at 50 worked to gain that wealth. The number of people who live entirely from the proceeds of wealth they didn’t create is infinitesimally small.

Sharptonguedwoman · 08/08/2025 08:11

MistressoftheDarkSide · 07/08/2025 12:44

🤣 it's not conspiracy theory, it's an actual conspiracy based on the lie that with the right mindset and enough work ethic anyone can be rich. And it just ain't so, no matter how much you bluster.....

I don't think, growing up, that we even thought about being 'rich'. My parents thought abought not being bone-achingly poor, living in low quality housing with little prospect of improvement.
They knew that there was a better life to be had. Back then, education was the golden ticket so they got the best education they could for themselves and their children.
To some extent, they were right. We had a much wider range of job opportunities. Class? Back then I would say aspirant lower middle class.

Sharptonguedwoman · 08/08/2025 08:13

MJMabel · 07/08/2025 23:17

Hey guys, go easy on Mabel! She’s had a hard life and is doing her best, ok? 🤣

Also, at one point, pensions were called deferred income.

MJMabel · 08/08/2025 08:15

Interesting, when I think deferred income nowadays I think stock options.

AlertCat · 08/08/2025 08:24

Hoolahoophop · 07/08/2025 13:01

That depends on your classification of rich.

I know people who started out in very, very humble beginnings, hand me down clothes, very basic food, one caravan or no holiday a year, small terrace house, maybe rented, maybe council owned.

They now live comfortably in 5 bed detached houses, spending freely on food and wine and having 2-3 foreign holidays a year. Not necessarily private school, designer clothes rich, but definitely more than comfortable lovely lives.

They would consider themselves rich, and from hard work and good choices.

HRTFT

i think this was possible for a group of people who benefitted from boom economic times, Right to Buy (council houses but then also shares in utilities), and an expanding economy. The demographics also favoured them, with about 5 or 6 working people to every retired person. By saying that I don’t mean to denigrate them at all; my parents were in this group (a teacher and an electrician).

However, for people coming up later, there have been far more economic barriers: university fees meaning they have started working life with a sizeable debt; rising house prices, very few council houses and a private rental sector that’s been skewed in the landlords’ favour; and in the last 17 or so years, stagnating wages outside of the minimum wage, rising costs for food and fuel on top of housing, and fewer than 3 working people for every retired person.

All this means that for those who are starting life without any kind of intergenerational wealth (be that help from parents to the tune of a few quid towards a deposit, or parents outright buying your first home) it’s now far more difficult to improve on your birth standard of living. For many people it’s difficult to even achieve the same standard of living as you grew up with. I mean, even a UK camping holiday now isn’t a cheap option. Local to me is a popular site where 2 nights is £77; the place I went for childhood holidays, which in the nineties was under £10 a night for a family, now costs over £50 per night.

There was an interesting piece recently about this, about the difference that being lent a deposit in 2003 would potentially have made to someone. The article compared 2 men who did the same degree course and got the same kind of job after it, the difference was one had parents who could either have him at home rent-free so he could save up, or could lend him the deposit on a house (I forget which), while the other didn’t have that option. Over the years the difference between where they both were in terms of wealth was huge. Unfortunately I can’t remember where I saw it, but I’ll have a look and if I find it will share it.

autienotnaughty · 08/08/2025 08:24

Putting those in poverty in the same box as those on 6 figure salaries whining because due to col they can no longer afford 3 holidays a year. Ok then. I guess some people really do believe we all have the same 24 hours.

Elatha · 08/08/2025 08:28

AlastheDaffodils · 08/08/2025 07:22

Bezos earns a lot more than 1.7 million a year. Try multiplying that by ten thousand. 17 billion is perfectly plausible in a good year when Amazon’s shares go up. And there’s plenty of Amazon middle management on closer to 1.7 million a year than 100k.

The benefits point is interesting. The UK Amazon driver on 30k probably won’t be entitled to any benefits if he or she is a single healthy adult with no kids working full time. The benefits only come if they have additional needs - likely children, maybe some kind of disability. The only real way to avoid this is to insist companies pay higher wages to people with children, which is currently illegal. Or else you could insist that the minimum wage rises so it’s enough for a single adult to raise a family of two or three children on one wage with no benefits. But then it would probably have to go up to £40k or more, potentially higher in London. The entire hospitality sector would probably disappear, and maybe also the care sector.

I’m in a different country, Ireland, and the person on 30k would be entitled to housing assistance.

My point is that the money is distributed in a very unequal way.

Look at Tesco (again in Ireland) CEO earns 11.5 million a year
A regional manager earns 258,000 a year and the person on the checkouts earns 26k

Again we have extraordinary wealth at the top and the person on the bottom cannot fully afford to live at all.

RhaenysRocks · 08/08/2025 08:31

LongDrink · 07/08/2025 12:43

I suggest you do some reading. A lot of reading. Because if you think that a medical consultant at the top of his/her career, married to a QC are likely to be broadly similar to that of a binman married to a care assistant, other than that both sets work for a living, I'd suggest you think again.

Edited

I agree but both sets in your example are ordinary working people as far as I am concerned. The way things are now, the surgeon / barrister couple are portrayed as rich wankers who are somehow screwing a system and deserve to have more tax burden placed on them to help "ordinary" people. That's what I have an issue with. I'd like Starmer and co to be more honest about who they are talking about when they say "those with the broadest shoulders" or "ordinary working people". I'm ordinary. I'm a teacher on just over 50k after three decades of service. To some that makes me part of the problem but I'm sitting here bouncing around debt and remortgaging and hoping to God my car doesn't break anytime soon.

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