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AIBU to think we don't need to tell the insurer about daughter learning to drive?

381 replies

flawless234 · 07/08/2025 10:33

Hi All,
My daughter has just started learning to drive and we're now doing some practice sessions in our car. She's got her provisional licence and everything, and I'm sitting with her, but we haven't told our car insurance company. I'm thinking, she's not the main driver, it's just a bit of practice with me supervising, so surely we don't need to add her as a named driver?
I've heard some people say you need special learner insurance or to add them to your policy, but it feels a bit OTT for just a few supervised drives. I'm a bit worried about the premium shooting up, to be honest!
Am I being unreasonable to think we can just carry on as we are, or do we really need to contact our insurer? Does anyone have any experience with this? Any advice on what to do would be amazing, as I'm totally clueless about all this.
Thanks in advance!

OP posts:
MarmiteRoasties · 07/08/2025 12:26

Never seen a clear 💯 yabu before 😁

Happyhandbag56 · 07/08/2025 12:26

Surely this is a wind up??? Of course your daughter needs learner driver insurance. What if she crashes and damages someone else’s car or your car or someone’s property or god forbid, hurts or kills someone?!

ErrolTheDragon · 07/08/2025 12:26

Argh, accidentally clicked the wrong button - there really should be a way to undo!
You cannot be serious , OP!

rainbowunicorn · 07/08/2025 12:27

This can't be a serious question. Surely nobody is this stupid.

SixteenClovesOfGarlic · 07/08/2025 12:28

ErrolTheDragon · 07/08/2025 12:26

Argh, accidentally clicked the wrong button - there really should be a way to undo!
You cannot be serious , OP!

On the vote? Just click the other one.

Namechange7282829 · 07/08/2025 12:28

She needs learner insurance and the car needs to have L plates. If you’re pulled over and she’s uninsured she’s done for before she’s even got her licence. If she crashes into someone and has no licence or insurance she’s done for. If she drives absolutely perfectly but gets rear ended at a set of traffic lights she’s done for, as are you if you lie about being the driver at the time of an incident. Don’t be ridiculous.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 07/08/2025 12:29

Of course you need to insure her while she is driving your car, @flawless234! If she has an accident and hurts someone, or damages their car, and she is uninsured, she could be in trouble - unless you are planning on lying to the police and the insurance company and saying you were driving - which would be fraud - and fraud that the other driver would be able to prove.

BananaCaramel · 07/08/2025 12:32

This is quite simply, completely illegal

redgingerbread · 07/08/2025 12:32

This is one of the reasons I’m terrified to drive even though I have a full licence. How are people this dim allowed on the road?!

CalamityGanon · 07/08/2025 12:33

I’m struggling to believe this is real but in any instance https://www.rac.co.uk/drive/advice/legal/driving-without-insurance/Driving without insurance – here are the consequences | RAC Drive

Also you will commit the offence of ‘use,cause or pemit’ your daughter using the car without insurance and face similar penalties.

Driving without insurance – here are the consequences | RAC Drive

There’s no excuse for driving without valid car insurance – because it’s illegal. Here’s our guide to the law and punishments for driving without insurance.

https://www.rac.co.uk/drive/advice/legal/driving-without-insurance/

ErrolTheDragon · 07/08/2025 12:33

tbh any driver including a learner who doesn’t check that they’ve got insurance cover for the car they’re driving isn’t responsible enough to be on the road.

Looloolullabelle · 07/08/2025 12:33

With all due respect, you’re an absolute idiot.

If the police stop you then your daughter will get 6 points for driving uninsured and you could get a conviction for allowing someone to drive your car uninsured.

Learner driver insurance is quite reasonable, you can either add her to your policy as a named driver or take out a separate learner driver insurance which won’t affect your no claims if she has an accident.

For Christs sake sort it today. So so irresponsible.

BloodyHellBob · 07/08/2025 12:35

Honestly, there’s been some mad threads on here recently about people driving and not disclosing facts to the relevant bodies.

of course she needs to be on your insurance!

Ownyourchoices · 07/08/2025 12:36

In Australia you don't need to - provided a licensed driver is in the car with them

Shade17 · 07/08/2025 12:36

PinkCampervan · 07/08/2025 12:19

6 points is an automatic ban within the first two years of a full license. She only has a provisional at this point! She'd be banned for a period of time before she even gets her full license and when she's allowed back on the road she'd have astronomical insurance premiums, over and above the already high insurance that youngsters are already hit with. She'd likely be priced out of driving at all, unless she's loaded, which I assume not if she's driving mummy's car rather than paying for lessons or getting a car of her own to learn in.

Not true. If you get six points in the first two years after passing you have to get a new provisional and take your tests again, it’s not a ban.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/08/2025 12:38

SixteenClovesOfGarlic · 07/08/2025 12:28

On the vote? Just click the other one.

thanks - it didn’t appear to work in the app but I’ve done it in the browser.

autienotnaughty · 07/08/2025 12:38

Are you practicing on your private land with no other vehicles?
If you are on the road with other cars yes she needs insurance. If she crashes you won’t be covered and more importantly it’s illegal to drive without insurance.

Sunshineismyfavourite · 07/08/2025 12:39

Hopefully the OP has come to their senses now and bought some bloody insurance.
Stupidity and cluelessness are no defence. Unbelievable 🙄

BernardButlersBra · 07/08/2025 12:39

Reverse?!

Elephantonabroom · 07/08/2025 12:40

flawless234 · 07/08/2025 10:33

Hi All,
My daughter has just started learning to drive and we're now doing some practice sessions in our car. She's got her provisional licence and everything, and I'm sitting with her, but we haven't told our car insurance company. I'm thinking, she's not the main driver, it's just a bit of practice with me supervising, so surely we don't need to add her as a named driver?
I've heard some people say you need special learner insurance or to add them to your policy, but it feels a bit OTT for just a few supervised drives. I'm a bit worried about the premium shooting up, to be honest!
Am I being unreasonable to think we can just carry on as we are, or do we really need to contact our insurer? Does anyone have any experience with this? Any advice on what to do would be amazing, as I'm totally clueless about all this.
Thanks in advance!

You need to add her. there are special insurances whilst having a provisional licence? What on earth did you think would happen if she causes an accident?

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 07/08/2025 12:40

How are people this thick

loveawineloveacrisp · 07/08/2025 12:41

Erm what?! Of course you need to tell them. Otherwise she's not insured.

tillythefunlober · 07/08/2025 12:43

get insurance! If you don’t and police see you and pull you over. Your child will be fined and banned from driving for 2 years

Zempy · 07/08/2025 12:44

Are you serious? She’s been driving around uninsured?

grumpygrape · 07/08/2025 12:45

Sorry, not sorry, OP.Read the room, get a grip and get her insured.

If she’s caught driving without insurance she’ll get 6 – 8 points and a fine but whoever is supervising her will get points and a fine for allowing her to drive uninsured. Are you ready to suck that up ?

Are you trying to get into the Favourite unreasonable AIBU thread ? Or most posts for a stupid OP.

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