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AIBU to think the judge’s comments in this case are completely inappropriate?

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Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Top Tory blasts 'soft' sentence for man who raped 13-year-old girl

The judge who sentenced Sorosh Amini, 21, said he did not consider the rapist to be a 'dangerous person.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14973083/Iranian-man-raped-girl-13-alleyway-jailed-just-SEVEN-years-judge-didnt-think-dangerous-person.html

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Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 06:33

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

They are deported after they have served their sentence

You want him to serve his sentence don’t you?

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 06:48

MrsSkylerWhite · 06/08/2025 23:30

Absolutely no idea. I’m fully in support of immigration, the UK needs it. Why convicted overseas criminals aren’t deported has always baffled me, though.

He is being deported-after he serves his sentence.

cobrakaieaglefang · 07/08/2025 06:59

Maybe an investigation into the judiciary members private life is needed. Only one reason for leniency and sympathy towards a scumbag like that.

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:11

cobrakaieaglefang · 07/08/2025 06:59

Maybe an investigation into the judiciary members private life is needed. Only one reason for leniency and sympathy towards a scumbag like that.

Or you could have a go at understanding the legal system in the UK? Once you understand it, you can campaign to get it changed.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:13

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

There is also the reverse situation-where someone would receive what we would consider an unacceptable sentence if they were deported to their home country.

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:22

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:13

There is also the reverse situation-where someone would receive what we would consider an unacceptable sentence if they were deported to their home country.

Frankly, that’s their lookout. If I commit a crime in this country, and I’m deported home and face a worse sentence there, I’ve no one to blame but myself. No sympathy there. I don’t know why it’s any concern of the UK.

Theunamedcat · 07/08/2025 09:26

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

Free as a bird but fleeing from persecution war etc they honestly cant have it every way and we could have them serve a sentence here then throw them out however we tend not too do that either

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:31

Theunamedcat · 07/08/2025 09:26

Free as a bird but fleeing from persecution war etc they honestly cant have it every way and we could have them serve a sentence here then throw them out however we tend not too do that either

Suicidal empathy.

pinkstripeycat · 07/08/2025 09:37

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 22:13

How is it bigotry? Where did I mention the race of the man? I’d be saying exactly the same thing if it was a white man?

Ooops you’ve got bigotry and racism mixed up. Silly. Got to be careful

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:37

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:22

Frankly, that’s their lookout. If I commit a crime in this country, and I’m deported home and face a worse sentence there, I’ve no one to blame but myself. No sympathy there. I don’t know why it’s any concern of the UK.

Hmm-might be something to do with..you know, that thing the UK prides itself on….oh yes, I remember-human rights.

Donttellempike · 07/08/2025 09:38

Lizzie67384 · 05/08/2025 21:52

A male judge stated he thought the rapist was not a ‘dangerous man’ and that the 13 year old victim had ‘not suffered much degree of psychological harm’

Dangerous in this case had a specific meaning in law. As the Faily bigot well knows

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:48

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 09:37

Hmm-might be something to do with..you know, that thing the UK prides itself on….oh yes, I remember-human rights.

Suicidal empathy, as I said. More concerned with the ‘human rights’ of foreign born criminals than British women and girls having the right to walk their neighbourhoods in safety. You think the UK prides itself on this? It’s not much to boast about.

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 09:55

MaturingCheeseball · 07/08/2025 09:08

I wondered why people aren’t immediately deported. Then it was pointed out that a returned criminal might not necessarily be imprisoned in their own country, or released very quickly.

Countries’ crimes differ. For example we see nothing wrong with having an alcoholic drink - but you’d be banged up if you imbibed in some places. Likewise the crime of the individual in the case under discussion might be seen as minor in his place of origin.

Interestingly (or appallingly) there was a case of a patient raping a woman in a London hospital whose defence was that it wasn’t unacceptable in his culture. So if he’d been deported he’d presumably be free as a bird.

But also you don’t hold jurisdiction over other countries justice systems so how (and why tbh) would you imprison a citizen for something a foreign government wants them punished for, at your country’s expense? It’s just not practical, as well as the other points you raise

(and yes I know there are agreements made where prisoners serve out their sentence in their home country but they are individual arrangements with certain countries and usually swaps)

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 09:59

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:48

Suicidal empathy, as I said. More concerned with the ‘human rights’ of foreign born criminals than British women and girls having the right to walk their neighbourhoods in safety. You think the UK prides itself on this? It’s not much to boast about.

Human rights are about how you treat the most marginal members of society too.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 10:06

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 09:48

Suicidal empathy, as I said. More concerned with the ‘human rights’ of foreign born criminals than British women and girls having the right to walk their neighbourhoods in safety. You think the UK prides itself on this? It’s not much to boast about.

At what point did I say I don’t want criminals who are a risk to others, regardless of their nationality, locked up?

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:09

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 06:31

Not one person has said anything like that.

There have been plenty. Stating for example that 13 year olds can be "asking for it" so that doesn't count as rape in the same way as stranger rape. Its shocking. Have we learned nothing?

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 10:18

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 09:59

Human rights are about how you treat the most marginal members of society too.

Marginal is right! He’s a marginal human being who’s a detriment to society. If he’s not a member of British society and has no interest in becoming a decent one, as shown by his actions, he should be instantly deported. No need for taxpayers money to be wasted on locking him up. Just get him gone.

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 10:18

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:09

There have been plenty. Stating for example that 13 year olds can be "asking for it" so that doesn't count as rape in the same way as stranger rape. Its shocking. Have we learned nothing?

Did someone say that on here? Jesus-that’s truly awful if true.

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 10:37

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:09

There have been plenty. Stating for example that 13 year olds can be "asking for it" so that doesn't count as rape in the same way as stranger rape. Its shocking. Have we learned nothing?

No one said that. They said that one instance of rape can be when 13 year old agreed to sex in what they viewed as a romantic relationship with a 16 year old. This is not legally or morally possible and we all agree that girl has been raped.

i think we would also agree there is nuance between that rape and one where a women has been dragged into an isolated area, beaten, left for dead with life long injuries.

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 10:38

VaseofViolets · 07/08/2025 10:18

Marginal is right! He’s a marginal human being who’s a detriment to society. If he’s not a member of British society and has no interest in becoming a decent one, as shown by his actions, he should be instantly deported. No need for taxpayers money to be wasted on locking him up. Just get him gone.

you don’t speak on behalf of his victims. Justice is for them, not for you.

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:44

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 10:37

No one said that. They said that one instance of rape can be when 13 year old agreed to sex in what they viewed as a romantic relationship with a 16 year old. This is not legally or morally possible and we all agree that girl has been raped.

i think we would also agree there is nuance between that rape and one where a women has been dragged into an isolated area, beaten, left for dead with life long injuries.

Yep, I know, I read it and I don't agree. I find it shocking that people think like that.

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 10:45

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:44

Yep, I know, I read it and I don't agree. I find it shocking that people think like that.

Don’t you think like that? I don’t understand your point at all. I’d be really interested to know what you actually mean by this post

CurlewKate · 07/08/2025 10:49

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:44

Yep, I know, I read it and I don't agree. I find it shocking that people think like that.

Think like what?

Ablondiebutagoody · 07/08/2025 10:52

Bambamhoohoo · 07/08/2025 10:45

Don’t you think like that? I don’t understand your point at all. I’d be really interested to know what you actually mean by this post

My opinion is that rape is rape. The 13 year old girl in your example who "wants it" is no less of a victim than another who is targeted by a stranger.

I am not going to accept that rapist A is a kinder rapist than rapist B. I feel angry even considering that as I write it!

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