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Kids knocking on doors d running away!

102 replies

Imsofatqq · 01/08/2025 17:13

I caught one today. Have no idea who she is and asked her why she’s doing it. She responded she didn’t do it, I then showed her my ring doorbell. She looks about 12 I think.

The Mum thinks it’s completely harmless. I explained there are millions of other games she could play that didn’t involve disturbing her neighbours

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feellikeanalien · 01/08/2025 18:11

It wouldn't have bothered me before I had DD but she is ND and some of the local kids went through a phase of doing it really hard so that the door would shake and she would get really upset.

They've grown out of it now but it wasn't nice.

Housechallenge · 01/08/2025 18:11

Mumski45 · 01/08/2025 17:27

I can’t believe how much some of you are minimising this. We had it from some local kids and it progressed to kicking the door hard enough to damage the door frame window sill and plasterboard inside. It was happening at 2am in the morning and we were regularly woken up. We sent the footage to the local police who worked out who it was and went to have a word and thankfully it seems to have stopped.

That's a completely different situation. This is about a chokd knocking on thr door abd running away. Not kicking the door in so badly it causes damage ar 2am in the morning. The people doing that are not playing knock down ginger.

AutisticAndMore · 01/08/2025 18:11

It’s not ok and no not everyone played it. I wouldn’t have dreamed of it and my parents would have given me into serious trouble if I did. It’s incredibly annoying and it can also be very distressing to some elderly people and some people with learning disabilities. Anyone who actively allows their kids to do it when they know that they are, is an arsehole.

HelpMeGetThrough · 01/08/2025 18:14

Gowlett · 01/08/2025 17:17

We had great fun doing this. They won’t stop!
Getting caught actually adds to the excitement.

The teenagers around here stopped when I chased the with a roller pole when they decided it would be fun to do it at midnight.

They’ve not been back.

pinksky78 · 01/08/2025 18:16

Knock knock ginger!!!

DoubleBoubles · 01/08/2025 18:17

It happens a lot where I live as there are lots of kids. I usually just don’t bother answering the door. I quite like hearing the laughter as they are running away.

Me and my eldest managed to answer the door as they knocked 1 time and it was quite amusing when they were just stood on the doorstep not knowing what to say. One just asked me what the time was in the end, which I thought was a good save, before going off 😂

TheCoralEagle · 01/08/2025 18:20

I would never let my kids do this!

Well they're not going to tell you are they 😂

Housechallenge · 01/08/2025 18:23

Boomer55 · 01/08/2025 18:07

I don’t know. In my part of London it was always known as Knock Down Ginger.🤷‍♀️

Same here . Dont really question why do you . It just was. Hide n seek was called forty forty where I lived.

OneNeatBlueOrca · 01/08/2025 18:24

Boomer55 · 01/08/2025 17:16

It used to be called Knock Down Ginger. It’s annoying but as old as the hills. Kids do grow out of it. 👍

12 is a bit old. I stopped doing that in primary school

Ohdearwhatnow4 · 01/08/2025 18:25

I remember my dad sitting in bathroom above the front door and throwing a bucket of water over them.

namechangedtosay · 01/08/2025 18:26

They shouldn’t do it I agree with you but sadly it’s very common. If you give any reaction it will get worse so the best way to solve the issue quickly is just totally ignore / have no reaction.

ilovepixie · 01/08/2025 18:26

We called it thunder and lightning! I wonder when it first started! My mum is 79 and she used to play it.

SheridansPortSalut · 01/08/2025 18:28

Don't react. Ignore them completely.

If you pay them any attention word will spread and you'll make your house a target. They'll all want to see what happens when they ring your bell.

VeryQuaintIrene · 01/08/2025 18:28

It's annoying but I am a little bit charmed that it still goes on. The last time I did it it was in Italy and I was 18 years old (!) with a 10 year old Italian accomplice...

Megapint · 01/08/2025 18:29

It was cherry knocking when I was a kid. We would keep going back to the houses where we got the biggest reaction. Disconnect your door bell if you have one and ignore. They'll soon get bored.

Cattery · 01/08/2025 18:31

Imsofatqq · 01/08/2025 17:40

thank you! Please give me advice on how not to let it get to me as I feel my personal space is being invaded if that makes sense. My curtains and blinds are open and I feel unable to relax

I feel the same as you. When the kids are a menace it’s not fucking fun. We have kids who are only visiting relatives kick our side fences and boot the front door. It jangles my fucking nerves at the fucking cheek of it all. Where are the parents? Sitting indoors with the door shut. Loathe it. Same old shit every summer

UnderCoverB0ss · 01/08/2025 18:33

Imsofatqq · 01/08/2025 17:37

I would never let my kids do this! I’m so surprised loads of you saying it’s okay. I can agree if it was 5 year olds and would think it was cute but seriously?!

it’s my private property and unless I’m best friends with the mother s d know her kids by name there’s no way this is acceptable behaviour.

Edited

Ah, cherry knocking. If you react they’ll do it even more. A lot of children do this, it’s almost a rite of passage. I find it hard to believe that you don’t appear to even be aware of it as something children do to annoy. My children did it once in a hotel that we were at for a wedding. The thought it was hysterical. I did rip a strip off of them when I found out that’s what they were doing though. You’ve got a ring doorbell so you can see who it is, just ignore them and they’ll stop.

UnderCoverB0ss · 01/08/2025 18:38

Mumski45 · 01/08/2025 17:27

I can’t believe how much some of you are minimising this. We had it from some local kids and it progressed to kicking the door hard enough to damage the door frame window sill and plasterboard inside. It was happening at 2am in the morning and we were regularly woken up. We sent the footage to the local police who worked out who it was and went to have a word and thankfully it seems to have stopped.

When it initially started did you react or ignore them?

Mistyglade · 01/08/2025 18:39

OP, I hope you’re ok you sound really low. I’m sending support vibes. Even a little bit of fresh air works for me when I’m under the black cloud, if that’s out today I’d put an old fave film on snuggle under the covers on the sofa. I always force myself to a fresh washed lotioned and potioned face, makes me feel calmer.

(We called it knock-door-bunk where I grew up on a Cambridge council estate in the early 80s, I was always afraid to join in!)

Spaglasagneaise · 01/08/2025 18:40

kids can be so clueless, they have no idea whos door they are knocking on.

Port1aCastis · 01/08/2025 18:43

Tommy Knockers Tommy Knockers knocking on your door
See if you can catch us 2 3 4
This was hugely popular with my friends and I years ago until we got caught knocking on a teachers door, her husband was unimpressed and chased us up the road threatening to clip our ears.

nomas · 01/08/2025 18:50

It is annoying. Don’t answer the door. Check on your ring doorbell first.

Snogger · 01/08/2025 18:53

Imsofatqq · 01/08/2025 17:46

No she was in my garden hiding!

If you had a ring door bell - why did you bother answering as you can see she ran off?

glittercunt · 01/08/2025 18:53

Mumski45 · 01/08/2025 17:27

I can’t believe how much some of you are minimising this. We had it from some local kids and it progressed to kicking the door hard enough to damage the door frame window sill and plasterboard inside. It was happening at 2am in the morning and we were regularly woken up. We sent the footage to the local police who worked out who it was and went to have a word and thankfully it seems to have stopped.

We had this from the first day we moved into a council house on what we thought was a nice street, having fled domestic violence. It quickly progressed to knocking the window and throwing things. It scared the life out of me for obvious reasons (I have c-ptsd from abuse) and upset my dog so much (they'd also wind him up separately through the windows) that he became super reactive and difficult to manage. Between the noise of the taunting children and the dog being provoked to bark constantly, I became very very ill and had to move.

It's not the fun and games people think. I'm disabled and didn't have a ring doorbell back then.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 01/08/2025 18:54

It is very irritating but the absolute worst thing to do is open your door.

Just check the ring doorbell and ignore it if its them.

If they aren't getting a reaction they'll stop.

Im sorry you are not doing very well right now.