Pregnant in a relatively new relationship, where I have been a bit reckless but as an older women with PCOS didn't really think it was possible, certainly not this quickly.
I was married and in abusive relationship for 14 years, left 4 years ago and been on my own since. Had children with him and now they seem to have a very low opinion based on what he says - your mother is lazy, no your mother doesn't care about you ect ect depite working and supporting children on my own for the last 4 years. He hasn't done any parenting, dropped hours so pays a token amount of child support. Sees them for a few hours every couple of months but regularly calls.
Children at first liked my partner, but then when i found out I was pregnant decided they hate him.
Unfortunately overhead a conversation between exh and eldest and he basically said the man is a loser and just using your mum. Mum can't see it as she's desperate, he will leave her and he can't tell kids what to do. I think this is fuelling the hatred.
New partner doesn't live with me, had planned to move to bigger place but put it on hold as my current children are unhappy.
Current kids want me to get rid of the baby as they think I'm being selfish because it will impact them. At the moment I take them to sports several evenings a week.
I want baby, I lost my last one and long to hold the baby I couldn't have.
If i keep baby I think kids will hate me, If I dont keep the baby I'm going to hate myself even more.
can't see any way out of the mess I've got myself into.