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To have expected that the owners of this holiday let would not be living in the building.

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WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 10:42

^https://www.vrbo.com/en-gb/p1975005a^

We spent 3k on this holiday (our first in years). Turns out that we get the top floor and the owners live below. They enter and exit with their vans via two garage doors immediately below our bedroom windows, through the garden.

Were we unreasonable to have expected this to be stated in the advertisement?

The noise is particularly problematic - we have been woken late at night and then first thing in the morning.

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LumpyandBumps · 29/07/2025 16:19

I would have thought the same as you.
I stayed in France once, knowing the owners lived next door, but having no idea how intrusive they would be. I certainly was not prepared for a raft of petty rules with the threat of withholding our sizeable deposit for any infringements. We were pleased to leave.
The only positive aspect was that it was slightly cheaper than other properties.
£3K for the property you didn’t know would be shared with noisy hosts - and they still expect you to strip the beds and clean, so as not to earn a negative rating. Unbelievable!
I do think it is reasonable to speak to them about the noise. They may have to work but that is interfering with the restful holiday they advertised, and it is for them to remedy.

candycane222 · 29/07/2025 16:21

mabelineandme · 29/07/2025 15:06

We had something similar the other month. We did have the entire house to ourselves but the owners live in a caravan behind the back garden and constantly messaged us to keep the noise down. It was infuriating and felt like it was invading our space. This wasn't mentioned on the advert. So yes I would complain.

That's ridiculous!! (Assuming you weren't being really inconsiderate and affecting their neighbours as well)

candycane222 · 29/07/2025 16:23

Jet2holiday · 29/07/2025 15:24

I can't believe that some people think this is ok. The property is classed in the search filters as a house, described as a house and priced as a house. The photos are taken to make it look like a house.

It's not up to the guests to interpret some cryptic reviews about the hosts being "discrete" and figure out that it's actually an apartment. It's the hosts responsibility - legally and ethically - to provide an honest and transparent advert.

OK yes if the listing actually says house , I do think that's misleading

WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 16:24

XenoBitch · 29/07/2025 15:04

We had this in Jersey. We stayed on the ground floor, and the home owners were upstairs. There was a rule that al the curtains had to be open in morning. A few times, the man that lived there was looking into the accommodation through the windows. My dad closed the curtains, and they knocked and told him to open them again.

We also had to thoroughly clean the accommodation before we could leave.... and they inspected it afterwards whilst we stood there worrying if we would be allowed to leave to get to the airport on time. It was ridiculous. Never again.

Omg - that's Fawlty Towers level of hospitality! When was this?

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candycane222 · 29/07/2025 16:28

I wonfer if the listing is translated,- can't seem to bring it up in french to read that version though...

Movinghouseatlast · 29/07/2025 16:49

Silvers11 · 29/07/2025 16:01

Yes - You may be right, but that can still be manipulated in several ways. The fact there are only 15 reviews and just one or two each year - and most of them mention the discreetness of the owners is also suspect.

Believe me, they can't be manipulated. I only have 5 reviews on VRBO and 17 on booking . Com in 5 years. But I have 306 on Air bnb as that's where I get most of my bookings.

If you had ever tried to get an unfair or malicious review removed from any of those websites you would know that it's absolutely not possible and they publish every review that is left. I'm in a number of hosting groups on line so not at all.just the experience of one person.

The only places reviews can be manipulated is, ironically, Google and Trip Adviser.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 29/07/2025 17:02

mabelineandme · 29/07/2025 15:06

We had something similar the other month. We did have the entire house to ourselves but the owners live in a caravan behind the back garden and constantly messaged us to keep the noise down. It was infuriating and felt like it was invading our space. This wasn't mentioned on the advert. So yes I would complain.

What a nightmare.
I often joke about sleeping in a tent in the garden, rent the house out when big concerts are on. Strange people.
I'd be leaving 1 star.

5128gap · 29/07/2025 17:04

The listing is weird as under amenities it mentions kitchen and dining table. Doesn't mention the sitting room area that's shown in the photos. Looks like at one time you might have got the whole house (as photos suggest) but at some point they've reduced the space and moved in. Did you have access to all the rooms pictured?

CeciliaMars · 29/07/2025 17:05

Yeah I would be annoyed, both at the noise and the lack of privacy.

WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 17:13

We've messaged them asking if they can keep the van away from the bedroom windows and avoid using the garage doors in the mornings and evenings. I'll update the thread if and when I get a response

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Jet2holiday · 29/07/2025 17:32

Movinghouseatlast · 29/07/2025 16:49

Believe me, they can't be manipulated. I only have 5 reviews on VRBO and 17 on booking . Com in 5 years. But I have 306 on Air bnb as that's where I get most of my bookings.

If you had ever tried to get an unfair or malicious review removed from any of those websites you would know that it's absolutely not possible and they publish every review that is left. I'm in a number of hosting groups on line so not at all.just the experience of one person.

The only places reviews can be manipulated is, ironically, Google and Trip Adviser.

https://www.reddit.com/r/vrbo/comments/1b7a8ck/vrbo_removed_my_negative_review/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

There are a lot of anecdotal reports online of negative reviews being suppressed on vrbo

Cloudsandbees · 29/07/2025 17:55

Utter piss take. It says it's a house and also 'entire home'. Screenshot the listing, take photos of what it's actually like (including the vans). Then take it up with the owners (who'll probably give you a Gallic shrug).

If you don't get anywhere with them or VRBO, go to your credit card company for a chargeback.

thinkfast · 29/07/2025 18:36

I think you should contact VRBO OP. The listing very much gives the impression that you will have the entire house in a remote location. It mentions the words “private pool” twice, giving the impression you would have privacy. It’s a very different holiday if you don’t receive the “entire home” and the privacy that the listing leads you to expect!

WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 18:38

So I've received this reply to my request.

"Unfortunately, we cannot keep the garage doors open in the evening. We work in a fast-food restaurant every evening and have to put our goods in the refrigerator when we get home. The ad specifies everything, and we're sorry this bothers you. This is the first time we've had this comment. We can talk about it tomorrow if you'd like."

Quite angry now - the ad doesn't even say that they live there so this is just a lie. The downstairs apartment does have a second entrance that they could use which is not by our bedrooms but it sounds like they just don't care. Facing another night of bad sleep and feeling very down. If anyone has any advice on how to salvage anything from this please let me know.

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Livingthebestlife · 29/07/2025 18:43

I wouldn't be happy with that reply. I would definitely meet with them and explain everything. Part of a holiday is getting sleep and being able to relax. You can't do these things. You can say the ad doesn't say what they are claiming. I'd have to find somewhere else to stay, couldn't be putting up with constant noise.

Dogsday · 29/07/2025 18:43

I would interpret ‘entire home’ as you have your own space behind a separate entrance door (so could be flat of any description, house, anything). I don’t think this part is misleading.

I think the problem is it being described as a house when it is in fact a flat/half a house.

I’m not sure if they have to disclose owners live on site, but I think people usually do put that in the listing.

I think you’re likely to get further complaining about noise and it not being a house than you are about anything else. I would state you booked it on the basis of it being a detached house.

WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 18:43

For reference, this is what an honest photo of the property would have looked like. Our bedroom windows are circled, the garages are below, they are loading and unloading goods from the vans first thing in the morning and last thing at night, every day.

To have expected that the owners of this holiday let would not be living in the building.
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Dogsday · 29/07/2025 18:45

I would never have assumed from the photo that it wasn’t a full house!

carmak · 29/07/2025 18:47

WatchingCometsLand · 29/07/2025 18:43

For reference, this is what an honest photo of the property would have looked like. Our bedroom windows are circled, the garages are below, they are loading and unloading goods from the vans first thing in the morning and last thing at night, every day.

That does look bad OP. Not fair at all.

Beachtastic · 29/07/2025 18:47

Urrrrgggghhhh so sorry you're in this position OP! I wish I had a sensible answer - the only one that occurred to me was to leave tonight when they're at work and firebomb the place as you exit. CFs.

We also had an odd rental (also in France) through Vrbo, a bit like PP mentioned. Nothing in the photos had given any indication of the setup, which was us basically living in their converted garage while they pottered around. The owner and her husband spent about an hour and a half greeting us on arrival and showing us around, when we were tired from a long drive. She was most emphatic that we must leave the place "impeccable" so we spent about 2 hours on our final morning polishing every surface! Not the most relaxing holiday.

Flossflower · 29/07/2025 18:59

OP, when you leave a review you should show the photo you have taken.
When you speak to the owners tomorrow you should tell them you are doing this.

CowTown · 29/07/2025 19:17

Ask them to show you on the ad where this is explained, and send them a screenshot of “entire home” on the listing.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/07/2025 19:19

Flossflower · 29/07/2025 18:59

OP, when you leave a review you should show the photo you have taken.
When you speak to the owners tomorrow you should tell them you are doing this.

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I agree with this. It might make them think again. Maybe this job of theirs is a new thing?

I would have interpreted the listing as you did OP. It’s incredibly careful worded so that you can’t say that it was advertised as a whole house, but the implication is there. The many references to “private pool” I think suggest this too - if you were sharing the house you’d think it would normally be a shared pool - the fact they don’t use it is neither here nor there.

I had this once when I was still with exh and used airbnbs. No indication the owners also lived there - but they did! On the first floor and we had the ground floor with “private” pool. Only it wasn’t particularly private as the man was always downstairs looking at it in some way. They were also always checking up on us and pulling us up about non-issues, things that were their fault or that were clearly “mid stay” issues that would be tidied up when we left.

Woman lay in wait for me when we came back from a long day out with a baby and 6yo to have a go at me about nonsense Awful.

I don’t use any of those sites any more. I use either hotels or well known companies for self-catering because I can’t cope with the uncertainty about what you will get or if the owners will be a nightmare.

Edit - the above was in Spain but the owners were British

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/07/2025 19:21

Beachtastic · 29/07/2025 18:47

Urrrrgggghhhh so sorry you're in this position OP! I wish I had a sensible answer - the only one that occurred to me was to leave tonight when they're at work and firebomb the place as you exit. CFs.

We also had an odd rental (also in France) through Vrbo, a bit like PP mentioned. Nothing in the photos had given any indication of the setup, which was us basically living in their converted garage while they pottered around. The owner and her husband spent about an hour and a half greeting us on arrival and showing us around, when we were tired from a long drive. She was most emphatic that we must leave the place "impeccable" so we spent about 2 hours on our final morning polishing every surface! Not the most relaxing holiday.

In my experience the French are obsessed with you giving the place back “impeccable” as you say.

Beachtastic · 29/07/2025 19:28

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/07/2025 19:21

In my experience the French are obsessed with you giving the place back “impeccable” as you say.

It felt like a badge of honour when she texted me after we'd left to express astonishment that it was so clean, as though no one had set foot in the place! I didn't point out in my reply that she'd been banging on about it for 3 days and we were terrified of her 🤣

Presumably a convenient way to sidestep using a cleaner between lettings.

Like you, I can't be bothered with all this any more. But I can't be bothered with hotels either, or flights, or any of that palaver. It helps that we finally live somewhere nice!

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