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To think the RNLI are 100% in the right

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SanFranBear · 29/07/2025 09:44

I've just seen this story on the BBC news homepage where the RNLI are being accused of acting as a taxi service for migrants trying to enter the UK on small boats from Europe.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c8dejyg4l37o

The organisation and volunteers quite rightly have responded to say they make no apologies for saving lives at sea and that their work has no political motivation.

Damn straight - one of the volunteers further down the article explains the profound impact he feels of encountering people struggling in our waters.

It makes me wonder what critics of the service expect them to do - just sail away, leaving the people to die? Pick them up and cross the channel to dump them back 'where they came from'?

What is wrong with them? Where is their compassion? Regardless of your thoughts on immigration, this is so cold and inhuman....

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ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 12:40

NeverDropYourMooncup · 30/07/2025 12:11

It wouldn't be much of a functioning society if the people needing help on the sea were abandoned to drown in contravention of international law that has been in existence for centuries and morally for thousands on the grounds that they might intend to seek asylum.

You think laws about accepting 'refugees' have been in existence for "centuries"? You're complete wrong. They're post-WW2 and in any case are no longer fit for purpose.

Also, your definition of "functioning country" and mine are quite different: your definition seems to be "operating as an unaffordable global charity jamboree and free-for-all".

The most basic duty of the state is to protect its citizens. Ours no longer does and hasn't for some time.

PensionUpliftAdd · 30/07/2025 12:44

There is a big difference between

An economic migrant, seeking a better life & asylum
Versus
A person seeking asylum due to war, famine, natural disaster, political or religious issues

Personally, I would take more women & children directly from war zones

PensionUpliftAdd · 30/07/2025 12:48

There are already charities that provide food, clothes & help for people in camps in France.

However, many people have travelled through lots of safe countries & have UK as their final safe destination for various reasons.

Tired43 · 30/07/2025 13:22

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 11:28

Wow
Hard did they have to search to find a photo with a woman and child in it .
All the footage I have seen is just men

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 13:29

Tired43 · 30/07/2025 13:22

Wow
Hard did they have to search to find a photo with a woman and child in it .
All the footage I have seen is just men

https://news.sky.com/story/at-least-13-dead-after-boat-with-dozens-of-migrants-sinks-in-channel-13208838

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 13:39

All the more reason to set the asylum acceptance rate at 0 and move everyone to a British overseas territory to be processed in a basic camp. Let them know that they'd be wasting their money and risking their lives in an attempt that would be entirely futile.

Human beings respond to incentives and disincentives: don't build it and they will not come.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2025 13:42

People dying in the channel is a reason not to keep this chaotic system going.

And no no one has simply replaced it with safe routes because demand is too high.

If anyone wants to reduce deaths and risk then look to what has worked.

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 13:43

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 13:39

All the more reason to set the asylum acceptance rate at 0 and move everyone to a British overseas territory to be processed in a basic camp. Let them know that they'd be wasting their money and risking their lives in an attempt that would be entirely futile.

Human beings respond to incentives and disincentives: don't build it and they will not come.

Why do you need a camp to process claims if you wan to set the acceptance rate to 0?

DonnaBanana · 30/07/2025 13:47

Even in the height of war it’s the law of the sea to rescue anyone who’s drowning even if they’re your bitter enemy. So I think they are doing the right thing rescuing them! It’s what happens after that should change, sticking with the war scenario they could be put in a safe and secure facility until they are processed.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 14:07

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 13:43

Why do you need a camp to process claims if you wan to set the acceptance rate to 0?

Accept 0%. Anyone who still attempts to get in illegally, process long away from the UK in an overseas camp with the knowledge that they'll never get here and will receive nothing.

Attempts would soon drop to zero.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 30/07/2025 14:48

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 12:40

You think laws about accepting 'refugees' have been in existence for "centuries"? You're complete wrong. They're post-WW2 and in any case are no longer fit for purpose.

Also, your definition of "functioning country" and mine are quite different: your definition seems to be "operating as an unaffordable global charity jamboree and free-for-all".

The most basic duty of the state is to protect its citizens. Ours no longer does and hasn't for some time.

Law and Maritime customs regarding rescuing people in peril at sea. I don't give a flying fuck about irrelevant 20th-21st Century political stuff, the RNLI are following the principles of Maritime Law as set down formally in SOLAS in 1910 and previously a universally accepted convention with seafarers.

A version of helping somebody just because they needed help is detailed in the Bible, there are ancient accounts of rescuing people from shipwrecks, the Dragon Boat festival has been going for over 2000 years in celebration of an attempt by fishermen to rescue a famous poet from drowning, there was an obligation to save lives and then cargo before a ship in Amalfian Law, there were official lifeboats on the Yangtze River in the 19th century and any number of ordinary mariners who would attempt to save crew and passengers throughout human existence.

Tl;dr I'm not wrong, you just didn't read the posts properly and assumed I was talking about conventions on refugees when I was talking about a moral and later legal obligation to provide assistance. And my definition of a functioning country is one where you don't shrug your shoulders and turn away when people are drowning because they might be foreign.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 14:59

NeverDropYourMooncup · 30/07/2025 14:48

Law and Maritime customs regarding rescuing people in peril at sea. I don't give a flying fuck about irrelevant 20th-21st Century political stuff, the RNLI are following the principles of Maritime Law as set down formally in SOLAS in 1910 and previously a universally accepted convention with seafarers.

A version of helping somebody just because they needed help is detailed in the Bible, there are ancient accounts of rescuing people from shipwrecks, the Dragon Boat festival has been going for over 2000 years in celebration of an attempt by fishermen to rescue a famous poet from drowning, there was an obligation to save lives and then cargo before a ship in Amalfian Law, there were official lifeboats on the Yangtze River in the 19th century and any number of ordinary mariners who would attempt to save crew and passengers throughout human existence.

Tl;dr I'm not wrong, you just didn't read the posts properly and assumed I was talking about conventions on refugees when I was talking about a moral and later legal obligation to provide assistance. And my definition of a functioning country is one where you don't shrug your shoulders and turn away when people are drowning because they might be foreign.

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None of the above were to rescue people who were there to rob or extort them. That's what this is: economic warfare. The RNLI is a cog in a machine which is stealing British resources.

It's equivalent to a burglar telling you they might kill themselves if you don't open your door to them.

In any case, all of this could be solved by simply having an acceptance rate of 0% and deporting all to a basic camp on overseas territory, with the guarantee that they'd never get to the UK.

Have the Royal Navy take over rescues in all "High risk" areas, board them, and then transport them to the overseas territory.

PensionUpliftAdd · 30/07/2025 15:05

I live near water

The weather can change dramatically, several times a day

I support the RNLI

We cannot put a rule about who gets rescued at sea or river. It is a case of everyone or nobody

What next, we only rescue certain people from fire, car accidents, building collapse, natural disasters ?
Have you seen the news that various countries are in the wake of tsunamis currently ?

LakieLady · 30/07/2025 15:47

Internaut · 30/07/2025 12:03

Unsurprisingly, the law allows a defence of reasonable excuse for arriving without documents which is particularly applicable to asylum seekers who may have been forced to leave their homes quickly and therefore have a good reason not to have documents.

When my Kurdish friend fled her native country, she didn't carry any documentation for fear she would be returned to her home country, where she had been imprisoned and tortured for 2 weeks.

LakieLady · 30/07/2025 16:13

Internaut · 30/07/2025 12:14

No, because if they are illegal migrants they will be sent back, and will be in detention until then, so they don't need charity support.

If they are legal migrants because they are seeking asylum then yes, I'm supporting charities that support them.

We have a local charity that supports refugees. A lot of the members accommodate refugees in their own homes until the refugees can get their own accommodation if they aren't entitled to social housing.

I support them by helping them get benefits in place while they are finding work and if they are eligible.

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 16:25

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MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 19:26

Zellycat · 30/07/2025 11:15

Then why are they travelling by boat? A boat without a transponder, without voyage plan logged, without proper safety equipment?

what is preventing train, ferry or airplane travel?

Explain.

Er, because they are refugees. They can’t just hop on a plane, train or ferry. Most don’t have a passport. It’s pretty difficult to travel in any of the ways you blithely suggest without one. Which is why they get here by any means possible in order to claim asylum.

Obviously.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 19:27

ByNeatPinkHare · 30/07/2025 14:07

Accept 0%. Anyone who still attempts to get in illegally, process long away from the UK in an overseas camp with the knowledge that they'll never get here and will receive nothing.

Attempts would soon drop to zero.

I hope to Christ that you’re never in need of asylum.
Barbaric.

EasternStandard · 30/07/2025 19:58

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 19:27

I hope to Christ that you’re never in need of asylum.
Barbaric.

When a country gets the chaotic and dangerous system right down it’s just not seen as a good way timo do it.

Using criminals to move people for vast profits, abuse and risk just isn’t wanted. Humanitarian quotas is much better.

SunnySideDeepDown · 30/07/2025 19:59

FurryHappyKittens · 29/07/2025 09:47

I like when stories like this hit the news. It means the RNLI get an influx of donations.

They don’t need donations, they have a HUGE reserve.

Zellycat · 30/07/2025 20:56

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 19:26

Er, because they are refugees. They can’t just hop on a plane, train or ferry. Most don’t have a passport. It’s pretty difficult to travel in any of the ways you blithely suggest without one. Which is why they get here by any means possible in order to claim asylum.

Obviously.

Oh, I thought they were asylum seekers … deciding not to claim asylum in other safe countries, so arriving in UK by stealth, but legally.

I get confused when people say it 100% legal for any person to arrive in the UK by boat to reside with no visa. But right, they’re ALL refugees / asylum seekers so they can just pay criminals to get them in … because France/EU is so unsafe (so glad we left unsafe EU!!).

Why don’t we just put on daily ferries? Why aren’t people begging PM for this service? Why why why are you all so happy they pay traffickers to put them on dangerous boats???? The hurdle for getting to UK is a boat journey. If u can survive the channel - you are welcome to stay. That’s so wrong..

Vote yes for open borders and free safe passage. Welcome one and all.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 20:59

Zellycat · 30/07/2025 20:56

Oh, I thought they were asylum seekers … deciding not to claim asylum in other safe countries, so arriving in UK by stealth, but legally.

I get confused when people say it 100% legal for any person to arrive in the UK by boat to reside with no visa. But right, they’re ALL refugees / asylum seekers so they can just pay criminals to get them in … because France/EU is so unsafe (so glad we left unsafe EU!!).

Why don’t we just put on daily ferries? Why aren’t people begging PM for this service? Why why why are you all so happy they pay traffickers to put them on dangerous boats???? The hurdle for getting to UK is a boat journey. If u can survive the channel - you are welcome to stay. That’s so wrong..

Vote yes for open borders and free safe passage. Welcome one and all.

If you could speak English, which is what myriad people in Africa and the ME have as a second language, would you not try to get to England?
Perhaps it’s colonialism biting us on the arse, eh?

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/07/2025 21:00

Zellycat · 30/07/2025 20:56

Oh, I thought they were asylum seekers … deciding not to claim asylum in other safe countries, so arriving in UK by stealth, but legally.

I get confused when people say it 100% legal for any person to arrive in the UK by boat to reside with no visa. But right, they’re ALL refugees / asylum seekers so they can just pay criminals to get them in … because France/EU is so unsafe (so glad we left unsafe EU!!).

Why don’t we just put on daily ferries? Why aren’t people begging PM for this service? Why why why are you all so happy they pay traffickers to put them on dangerous boats???? The hurdle for getting to UK is a boat journey. If u can survive the channel - you are welcome to stay. That’s so wrong..

Vote yes for open borders and free safe passage. Welcome one and all.

Ok, mate.

Look into your ancestry. I guarantee you that your forebears were immigrants.

DuncinToffee · 30/07/2025 21:02

Zellycat · 30/07/2025 20:56

Oh, I thought they were asylum seekers … deciding not to claim asylum in other safe countries, so arriving in UK by stealth, but legally.

I get confused when people say it 100% legal for any person to arrive in the UK by boat to reside with no visa. But right, they’re ALL refugees / asylum seekers so they can just pay criminals to get them in … because France/EU is so unsafe (so glad we left unsafe EU!!).

Why don’t we just put on daily ferries? Why aren’t people begging PM for this service? Why why why are you all so happy they pay traffickers to put them on dangerous boats???? The hurdle for getting to UK is a boat journey. If u can survive the channel - you are welcome to stay. That’s so wrong..

Vote yes for open borders and free safe passage. Welcome one and all.

You are confused indeed

It's not illegal to claim asylum, it's also not illegal to reject an asylum claim.

No open border poliies or everyone can stay