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AIBU for pronouncing the name Brooke as BrOOKe rather than Bruck

695 replies

MoserRothOrangeandAlmond · 22/07/2025 11:54

I’m a Geordie and pronounce words such as Book, Look and Cook with an oo sound rather than the uck sound.
A family who are from about an hour a way said that her daughter is sick of everyone pronouncing her name incorrectly.

I explained that it’s an accent thing as we pronounce those words with an oo sound rather that uck so it wouldn’t occur to most people to pronounce it that way and they wouldn’t deliberately mispronounce her name!

Just as if I go another part of the country or different country they pronounce my name differently depending on their accent.

AIBU?

OP posts:
AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:22

Pleased I’m not the only one who thinks this way, this thread is utterly bonkers!! And not sure why people (mainly one) keep coming up with hypothetical characters and scenarios, constantly?

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 21:24

ScouserInExile · 22/07/2025 21:20

No. Some Liverpudlians (eg Cilla Black type accent) will pronounce it Clur, but others (myself included) (more of an Abbey Clancy type accent) pronounce it more like Cler.

Which is why I said "might" not "would".

Funnywonder · 22/07/2025 21:24

queenmeadhbh · 22/07/2025 21:05

No, your idea of “changing the construct” of a name and what is recognisable is not based on any linguistic fact.

The consonant sounds for “t” and “d” do not rhyme.

imagine Amy in a Belfast accent and Amy in a southern English accent. The first is something like “ee-uh mee” due to the diphthong used for that vowel sound in a Belfast accent, the second more like “ay-mee”. Do you think English people should put on a Harry Enfield as William Ulsterman style voice and call northern Irish Amy “ee-uh mee”??? If someone tried that I’d presume they were mocking me. It’s not a normal thing to do.

I was just thinking the same about Katie, mentioned upthread. Here in Belfast it’s something like Ke-i-ty, or perhaps even Ke-i-dy. I can only imagine the reaction from Big Katie if somebody thought it was a good idea to mimic her accent🤣

queenmeadhbh · 22/07/2025 21:30

AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:22

Pleased I’m not the only one who thinks this way, this thread is utterly bonkers!! And not sure why people (mainly one) keep coming up with hypothetical characters and scenarios, constantly?

Because the claim that someone pronounces names the same way as the person saying them no matter the difference in accents is so absolutely bananas to me that I’m confirming that just as Brooke should be “bruhk”, then Belfast Amy should be “ee-uh mee”, and if not, why not?

Dramatic · 22/07/2025 21:33

howaboutchocolate · 22/07/2025 20:50

She would never say that, though, because her name isn't Clur pronounced in various accents. It's Claire, and in her accent it sound like Clur but someone without that accent saying Clur would sound bloody stupid. As far as she knows, she is saying Claire, not Clur!

Exactly, just like someone with ops accent would sound bloody stupid saying it like Bruck

Wanderdust · 22/07/2025 21:37

Never in my life have I heard Brooke pronounced this way!

AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:37

queenmeadhbh · 22/07/2025 21:30

Because the claim that someone pronounces names the same way as the person saying them no matter the difference in accents is so absolutely bananas to me that I’m confirming that just as Brooke should be “bruhk”, then Belfast Amy should be “ee-uh mee”, and if not, why not?

Another hypothetical 😂 I’d pronounce it that way if that’s what the person from Belfast wanted! I’ve said this in my previous comments, not sure if it’s been missed as I keep having to repeat my point

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 21:39

AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:37

Another hypothetical 😂 I’d pronounce it that way if that’s what the person from Belfast wanted! I’ve said this in my previous comments, not sure if it’s been missed as I keep having to repeat my point

You would sound barmy!

AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:40

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 21:39

You would sound barmy!

That’s fair if you think that, each to their own. If I sounded daft I’d match my personality haha!

ScouserInExile · 22/07/2025 21:41

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 21:24

Which is why I said "might" not "would".

You also said "that's how it is said in that accent" meaning Liverpudlian.

MasterBeth · 22/07/2025 21:44

ScouserInExile · 22/07/2025 21:41

You also said "that's how it is said in that accent" meaning Liverpudlian.

Meaning the variety of Liverpudlian accent that pronounces it like that.

Dizzybob · 22/07/2025 21:46

Look and luck sound the same in my accent. OP you just need to rhyme the name with duck from now on.

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 21:49

jensondolally · 22/07/2025 20:38

This confuses me. In my accent book is pronounced buck. Look is the same as luck.
I would pronounce Brooke as bruck. Just like I called “Brookside” bruckside.

Those that are saying the parents are wrong - no they aren’t. Brooke pronounced bruck is a common name (known more in America than here). But the OP is also not wrong. In their accent the name is pronounced “broook”. Just like they’d say “loook” for look and boook for book.

It’s been clarified in this thread that different regions of the UK pronounce truck differently. In the south truck is very different to look and book. Some areas of the UK say look the same as we do in the south, but their truck rhymes with look, whilst ours is very different. Which is how the main confusion happened. So for me Brooke doesn’t sound anywhere near bruck but it also doesn’t have a long oo sound in it like Broooke.

Overthebow · 22/07/2025 21:50

Dizzybob · 22/07/2025 21:46

Look and luck sound the same in my accent. OP you just need to rhyme the name with duck from now on.

That depends on how OP says duck

chunkybear · 22/07/2025 22:03

It's rude TBH. My MIL is Scottish and pronounces one of her best friends name wrong because in Scotland it's pronounced differently, but flip it in its head, if you were
Called say Lucia and it was pronounced Lu-cheee-a for your whole life but some random friend insisted on saying Lucy-a that's not good, it's not impossible to pronounce it correctly due to speech impediment etc besides which Br-ooooo-me sounds awful!

Melancholyflower · 22/07/2025 22:03

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 22/07/2025 21:40

BROOKE

DUCK
https://www.google.com/search?q=pronounce+duck+in+rp&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-gb&client=safari#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:f29df061,vid:M_EcxL1MuMM,st:0

COMPLETELY DIFFERENT DONT RHYME! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

The (different) people saying the words on those clips don't rhyme, but surely you understand that there are many different British accents, and in some of those accents, they do rhyme! Do you really think every single person speaks exactly the same as those voices?

Monqwi · 22/07/2025 23:01

breakfastdinnerandtea · 22/07/2025 17:58

If I saw her name Helen written down then I’d assume it was Helen, but if she told me it was pronounced Ellen then why wouldn’t I call her Ellen?

What if someone who dropped their Ts introduced themselves as Pe-a not Peter. Would you call them Pe-a or Peter? If a Scottish person said their name was Jim-eh. Would you call them that or Jimmy? Or a Azel rather than Hazel? Is it just names you’d copy or other words? If they asked if you wanted jam or bu-a would you reply bu-a or butter?

Dramatic · 22/07/2025 23:49

PistachioTiramisuLimoncello · 22/07/2025 21:40

BROOKE

DUCK
https://www.google.com/search?q=pronounce+duck+in+rp&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-gb&client=safari#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:f29df061,vid:M_EcxL1MuMM,st:0

COMPLETELY DIFFERENT DONT RHYME! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Dead Lord 🤦 this thread is like pulling teeth. THEY DO RHYME IN SOME ACCENTS.

Dramatic · 22/07/2025 23:51

AutumnLeaves95 · 22/07/2025 21:37

Another hypothetical 😂 I’d pronounce it that way if that’s what the person from Belfast wanted! I’ve said this in my previous comments, not sure if it’s been missed as I keep having to repeat my point

This is top tier rage bait. There is absolutely no way that you match every single person's accent when you say their name. No way.

Biids · 22/07/2025 23:53

Say the name exactly as the child/child's parents say it. The end.

jensondolally · 23/07/2025 00:34

Biids · 22/07/2025 23:53

Say the name exactly as the child/child's parents say it. The end.

i have friends who are from Armagh and east London. They have a child called Ava. They say the child’s name completely differently to each other because they have different accents. Who do you suggest I copy? Mum or dad? I have neither a NI or cockney accent, btw. I’m from the NW.

ArtTheClown · 23/07/2025 06:42

Say the name exactly as the child/child's parents say it. The end.

No, no-one should be expected to put on a fake accent.

There's parts of Scotland where Pearl is pronounced like Peril almost, due to the accent. For those who dont have the accent, of course you wouldn't say it that way.

CarlaLemarchant · 23/07/2025 07:45

I haven’t read all the thread so apologies if this had been covered but how do Geordies say “good”? Do they really pronounce it gewd?

Good (to me) is the same sound as Brooke.