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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To invite the grammar and language pedants to share their pet peeves?

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AlertCat · 19/07/2025 14:33

AIBU to feel annoyed when I see people say Slither instead of sliver? It was even in a book I read recently. A slither of cake. No! That makes no sense, unless the cake’s been trodden into the carpet!

Also see: step foot in instead of set foot in

There’s plenty of others but those will do for now.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 19/07/2025 19:20

HonoriaBulstrode · 19/07/2025 19:04

It was. Oxford says unchartered is acceptable now as use arose from confusion with the former.

But it has a completely different meaning!

Both: an area of land or sea not mapped.

SplatSplash · 19/07/2025 19:24

Excluding prepositions - you're not going London, you're going TO London. Xx

ManchesterLu · 19/07/2025 19:25

The other day, I saw someone write "I'm not sure where it is pacifically" instead of "specifically". I've heard it said, you can kind of understand where it comes from as they sound vaguely similar, but is the first time I've actually seen it written.

HonoriaBulstrode · 19/07/2025 19:26

Both: an area of land or sea not mapped.

But a charter isn't a map. It's a legal document granting specified rights or privileges.

LakieLady · 19/07/2025 19:31

ManchesterLu · 19/07/2025 19:25

The other day, I saw someone write "I'm not sure where it is pacifically" instead of "specifically". I've heard it said, you can kind of understand where it comes from as they sound vaguely similar, but is the first time I've actually seen it written.

A former boss of mine used to say "pacifically", but I think he did it on purpose, as he always wrote "specifically".

He also used to say "tangenital" instead of tangential!

He was an incredibly clever solicitor, who used to draft very complex documents and agreements, so I think it may have been something that started as a joke and became a habit.

KillerMounjaro · 19/07/2025 19:33

Abitofalark · 19/07/2025 19:08

Really? I've never seen led in that context. It's usually 'I laid down on the bed'.

Really. I don’t know how anyone thinks that, but I’ve seen it on MN a numbers of times.

AlertCat · 19/07/2025 19:36

LordGribeau · 19/07/2025 14:36

There, their, they're OP. Don't get too worked up 🤣

Well played 👌

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MaxineHarper · 19/07/2025 19:37

Me and DH went to a party (no…DH and I went to a party). Or even worse, when people think that ANY use of “me” is wrong and say “come and see Stephen or I after the meeting”…. I mean it’s not difficult (come and see me after the meeting….come and see Stephen or me after the meeting)

I was sat (no….I was sitting)

I was having a lay down (OMG no! I was having a lie down)

AlertCat · 19/07/2025 19:49

I feel I have found my people.

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ErrolTheDragon · 19/07/2025 19:50

Serpentstooth · 19/07/2025 18:07

Ha! Everything is uniquely iconic or even iconically unique. Which is Amazing.

It seems that the clientele of a nice restaurant we went to a couple of times while on holiday usually do a runner, because the waiter apparently found it amazing every time someone paid up.

MaxineHarper · 19/07/2025 19:50

Really? Then you’re just uneducated I’m afraid as I cannot ask for a singular panini. It is like asking for a singular dice or a singular cacti.

if you asked for a singular panini I would think you were an uneducated, untraveled twat along the lines of Vicky Pollard or Lauren Cooper.

Tandora · 19/07/2025 19:51

When people say less when it should be fewer

justaddittothelist · 19/07/2025 19:56

Referring to everything as a journey is bothering me just now. Breastfeeding journey, weight loss journey. Ahhh, stop it!!!

sorry I know this isn't a grammar or spelling peeve, but it's really annoying me.

Cherrysoup · 19/07/2025 19:57

Brought instead of bought is really common in my area. Bugs crap out of me.

ErrolTheDragon · 19/07/2025 20:00

SerendipityJane · 19/07/2025 17:30

Well I am allowed to hide behind the fact that expecting logic in English is a lost cause.

It is a mongrel language spoken by a Frankenstein people.

English has hybrid vigour! Grin

lazyarse123 · 19/07/2025 20:00

SerendipityJane · 19/07/2025 17:42

The SAS are (is ?) a subset of "special forces". Which includes the SBS.

Yes I know that's why they should have just said special forces.

prelovedusername · 19/07/2025 20:01

Bit niche this one, but renumeration instead of remuneration. You’d be surprised how often it comes up in a particular context.

ToffeePennie · 19/07/2025 20:03

I loathe breath when they mean breathe.
Discusting not disgusting.
Plurals are not that difficult! There is someone on my socials who says “my smiley ladie” and “smiles on these ladys” it drives me crackers.

billysboy · 19/07/2025 20:04

A couple of the presenters on gardeners world describing gardens as naturalistic, it’s natural !

MistyGreenAndBlue · 19/07/2025 20:04

Gemütlich81 · 19/07/2025 15:31

When referring to decades as 80’s 90’s… it is 80s, 90s. Not sure why people always add in an apostrophe! Drives me mad…

It's because there should be an apostrophe. But it belongs like this '80s '90s to denote the missing characters. I loathe this one myself. Drives me nuts! I've even seen 1980's or, worse still, '80's which is just inexcusable.

LindorDoubleChoc · 19/07/2025 20:05

Slither instead of sliver was in some published journal I read recently. I just couldn't believe my eyes.

My pet peeve is no and know. It's so very basic and surely taught from the very beginning of literacy and yet people still somehow get it wrong. It's not exactly quite rare and therefore understandably difficult like stationery and stationary.

Bollihobs · 19/07/2025 20:08

Topseyt123 · 19/07/2025 14:58

All of these.

I'm currently reading a good book on my Kindle, but annoyingly, I have seen a couple of instances of "would/could/should of" dotted around it.

I'm not sure how books are transcribed into kindle or other ereader format these days (is it by some form of AI?) but that sort of howler is not impressive. 😠

Could of/would of IN A BOOK????? That's horrendous!

That's definitely one of my niggles too, bought instead of brought gives me the rage and the Americanisms that creep in like "swim lessons" which I've seen a lot on here, instead of swimming, like wait staff it just sounds so weird and truncated.

And don't get me started on the American corruption "I could care less" - that literally means the opposite of the correct phrase!!

Oh and the weird use of "are" instead of "our" - there's a local shop I follow on FB and one of the the two people that write the posts does it and it's just so ridiculous - "Here's are new stock"..... it's a completely different word!!

LindorDoubleChoc · 19/07/2025 20:09

verycloakanddaggers · 19/07/2025 15:49

Pedantry belongs in Pedants' Corner - if it has to exist at all.

Correcting other people's grammar etc. is a sign of bad manners, bad character, or a combination of the two.

I think pedantic posts criticising other posters should be deleted, they're just rude.

Every fucking subject under the sun is allowed in AIBU!!

Is this your first time being pedantic about what can be posted in AIBU?

No one is correcting any one persons spelling or grammar on this thread. Bad manners don't come into it.

ErrolTheDragon · 19/07/2025 20:09

billysboy · 19/07/2025 20:04

A couple of the presenters on gardeners world describing gardens as naturalistic, it’s natural !

‘Naturalistic’ can be an appropriate description of the style of a garden, as opposed to ones which are formal, or stylised.

MsJJones · 19/07/2025 20:15

You’re doing amazing!

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