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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask what you think to this school new rule?

385 replies

Redsatin109 · 17/07/2025 19:35

Just heard from other parents that apparently they’ll be reducing the amount of water y2 and upwards can have next year. So limiting the amount of times they can access their water bottle. This is because they’re only allowed to go to the toilets at breaks/lunch and it’s to limit toileting accidents in the classroom.

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RaraRachael · 17/07/2025 20:53

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

Me too.

As a teacher I hated trying to teach something while kids were slurping water or juice from gigantic bottles.

ExpressCheckout · 17/07/2025 20:54

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

^ This. We were fine, we passed our exams, and we didn't die of dehydration. I feel truly sorry for teachers today having to put up with this nonsense.

Fond memories - the big, aluminium water jug we shared at lunchtime, and the little plastic cups we used. Oh, and there was a water fountain I think! 1970s.

doodleschnoodle · 17/07/2025 20:55

I think the world has gone a bit water bottle mad in general, not just kids.

Sirzy · 17/07/2025 20:57

BernardButlersBra · 17/07/2025 20:38

I naively thought schools were about educating?! Not enforcing more and more bizarre and ridiculous rules. A school near us is like this and it's safe to say our children won't be going there

It’s hard to educate when lessons are interrupted by children ‘needing’ a drink or the toilet 5 minutes after coming in from a break though!

constant interruptions don’t lead to the best education.

Eastendboysandwestendgirls · 17/07/2025 21:01

As pps have said, children drinking water as and when is endlessly disruptive. You start a lesson, you are interrupted by kids fucking about with their bottle, you ask a question and hands go up with their response being, "Can I fill my bottle?" "Can I go to the toilet?" Constant trudging to the sink, children coming and going to the loo. Start, stop, start stop. We tried limiting water and had multiple complaints from parents - not children. It is not surprising that the repeat toilet visitors are often those with lower attainment, yet to try to increase their achievement by actually learning is seemingly at odds with their human rights.

Treesarenotforeating · 17/07/2025 21:03

If ours have their bottles on their desks they are constantly fiddling with them or slurping from them. So they are kept on the side shelf
absolute pain in the arse

LillyPJ · 17/07/2025 21:03

Sounds ok to me. Noone needs constant access to water and it can become a distraction in the classroom. As long as they have access to water in break times and a bit more, they'll be fine.

DiscoBob · 17/07/2025 21:03

Through out my whole school career we weren't permitted drinks in the classroom. And we were allowed to go toilet whenever we needed. If we 'asked'. Maybe that was a more sensible way.

missy111 · 17/07/2025 21:04

They’re not limiting water, they’re limiting the amount of times they can get up and drink. So they can have a good amount of fluid they just can’t sit there sipping all day

5128gap · 17/07/2025 21:05

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:38

Why did you spend the 80s thirsty?

Because we only drank tea in the morning and orange squash after school. Maybe an ovaltine before bed. The school toilets were full of the scary girls smoking and they'd steal your 50p dinner money to buy half a cider at lunch, so a lot of us didn't drink so we didn't need to go.

saraclara · 17/07/2025 21:06

I'm sure that no-one posting on this thread had a water bottle on their desk when they were at school. Yet here you are, alive and reasonably well educated.

So why the howls of IT'S NOT FAIR when your own kids are expected to get through a whole hour and a half without a drink? You managed it, so why can't they?

Steelworks · 17/07/2025 21:06

Meadowfinch · 17/07/2025 20:27

When I went to school (admittedly decades ago) we didn't have waterbottles. We had a drink at breakfast, a drink at lunch and a drink when we got home.

Loo breaks at midmorning and lunchtime. No one batted an eyelid. It never even came up.

Yes.

MsAmerica · 17/07/2025 21:09

Are you being unreasonable to ask what we think of this school rule?

No, it's not unreasonable for you to ask.

But it seems odd that you're asking only about limiting drinking, and not about limiting bathroom trips, and that you're providing no specifics.

ExtraOnions · 17/07/2025 21:10

….We were all wandering round like dehydrated husks in the 1980s, without a water bottle attached to our side.

You got a drink at break (if the Tuck Shop was open), a glass a water with lunch (from a massive metal jug).. and that was your lot.

Addictedtohotbaths · 17/07/2025 21:14

Jumpthewaves · 17/07/2025 19:43

Sounds sensible to me, children often use it as an avoidance technique so much better to have certain times they can refill. They won't dehydrate if they have a drink at break and lunch.

My year 6 DC said they pretend to need the toilet to get out of lessons when it’s boring

PoorPhaedra · 17/07/2025 21:14

When I was at school you were only allowed your water bottle at lunchtime (and then it was never just water it was always squash or a carton of umbongo).

NeverEverOhNo · 17/07/2025 21:15

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

This.

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 17/07/2025 21:15

Anna20MFG · 17/07/2025 20:03

Medical exceptions, as illustrated on this thread - no problem. Everyone else - it will be a good thing.

Exactly, I’m not sure why people are upset, most children would be fine drinking only at breaks.

souter · 17/07/2025 21:17

As others have said it depends on how they are implementing it. No access to water for long periods of time, is not ok, but telling children they can’t go during the teacher input, or during assembly is perfectly fine and stops disruption. If anything it teaches children to manage their water intake.
It never ceases to amaze me how riled some people get about this. I once had a parent threaten me with governors/ Ofsted etc because I didn’t let them have a drink when they asked. Apparently their child having to sit through a 15 assembly without a drink was ‘against their human rights’, even though they were reminded to have a drink before they went and could have one as soon as they returned to class!

Fundayout2025 · 17/07/2025 21:18

Nomorechocs · 17/07/2025 20:30

If they had access to the toilet at anytime there wouldn’t be any children in the classroom! Biggest excuse for work avoidance.

At my DS primary school there was 2 toilets right by the classroom door. One boys and one girls. The kids could use but generally went in and out without hassle as could only be one in each at the time and they didn't have to go in corridors etc so not opportunity for messing about

ClaredeBear · 17/07/2025 21:19

It’s sensible. I visit lots of schools and they all try to manage it. It’s not as if they deprive the children and they all seem very happy with the routine.

jetlag92 · 17/07/2025 21:22

I'm 50 this year. No-one had a water bottle at school, neither did my brothers who were 6 years younger.

Drinking water is important if they're running around, but it's really not needed in the classroom environment. A drink at first break and lunch is fine.

TonTonMacoute · 17/07/2025 21:23

CurlewKate · 17/07/2025 19:48

I would really like to see some actual scientific evidence-not sponsored by a bottled water company, which the initial 3 litre a day idea was-about the amount of water we need and what happens to us if we go a couple of hours without drinking.

I thought the science was we (ie an average adult) needs 2l of water a day, nearly all of which comes from our food. No way a young child needs to drink 3l of water.

In the hot sweaty weather we are having now you will need to drink more, and drinking cold water cools you down too.

IME drinking water all the time is pointless, it just goes straight through me and yet seems to make me more thirsty at the same time.

I would want to know what limit the school is suggesting before getting my knickers in a knot about it.

4pmwinetimebebeh · 17/07/2025 21:24

This recent thing of kids constantly sipping water is really weird to be honest (I’m only 33 and have small kids but find it weird!). Mine have a glass of water any time when they are at home or out we take a water bottle but I have friends who are encouraging their kids to drink literally constantly. Why?! They can manage from break til lunch then til home time without a drink. Jesus I’m a nurse and I go 13 hours without a glass of water….!

brunettemic · 17/07/2025 21:25

Ok, so if this is such a big issue…how frequently does your child drink water over a day at the weekend. I’m willing to bet it’s no more than this will result in.

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