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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask what you think to this school new rule?

385 replies

Redsatin109 · 17/07/2025 19:35

Just heard from other parents that apparently they’ll be reducing the amount of water y2 and upwards can have next year. So limiting the amount of times they can access their water bottle. This is because they’re only allowed to go to the toilets at breaks/lunch and it’s to limit toileting accidents in the classroom.

OP posts:
EggnogNoggin · 17/07/2025 20:25

The other unpopular thing to point out is how many kids have unnecessary dental caries because they won't drink plain water and the constant exposure to sugar is damaging.

ShallIstart · 17/07/2025 20:26

Makes sense to me.
Im not one for school rules, but if they are having loads of accidents and children drinking excessive amounts of water then I can see why they are doing it.
The kids are not going to be gasping for water after lunch, its literally an hour or so then home.
It was unheard of to be allowed to drink water in class egen ai was at school in the 80s and 90s and I domt think any children died of thirst. They will be fine.

Henopause · 17/07/2025 20:26

I’m not particularly worked up about banning water bottles. As long as there are opportunities to drink they’ll be fine.

I do think the increase in rules (academy style) is causing the increase in poor behaviour that we keep reading about. If you treat children like oiks they’ll behave like it. The increase in academies and their ridiculous rules has not seen a corresponding decrease in poor behaviour, rather the opposite.

Hercisback1 · 17/07/2025 20:27

À maximum of 2 hours without a drink is hardly a hardship. We don't need hydration all day every day. It'll do them good to realise they can have what they want all the time.

Meadowfinch · 17/07/2025 20:27

When I went to school (admittedly decades ago) we didn't have waterbottles. We had a drink at breakfast, a drink at lunch and a drink when we got home.

Loo breaks at midmorning and lunchtime. No one batted an eyelid. It never even came up.

Bennettfan · 17/07/2025 20:28

Henopause · 17/07/2025 20:26

I’m not particularly worked up about banning water bottles. As long as there are opportunities to drink they’ll be fine.

I do think the increase in rules (academy style) is causing the increase in poor behaviour that we keep reading about. If you treat children like oiks they’ll behave like it. The increase in academies and their ridiculous rules has not seen a corresponding decrease in poor behaviour, rather the opposite.

You’re wrong here I’m afraid. The strict academy rules actually mean that some teaching and learning can get done, and whilst students might bristle against it all surveys show that on the whole students feel safer and happier in schools like that.

Annony331 · 17/07/2025 20:29

Like anything it depends on what problem they are facing.

Is water consumption being used to interfere with teaching, are certain children gathering. Is there a bullying issue, is where the water is accessed difficult to monitor. Are children interfering with others water or bringing in contraband that puts others with allergies at risk, is poor behaviour an issue, are some children targeting others? Then is there a toilet issue again interfering with teaching, an issue with bullying or damage across school. Is there a safeguarding issue? Is there child on child abuse. Water fights or situations that build to other issues, vaping?

When you introduce a new rule or change something it is in response to an issue. We need more information

Nomorechocs · 17/07/2025 20:30

Iloveeverycat · 17/07/2025 19:41

Ridiculous. If they had access to a toilet anytime there wouldn't be any accidents.

If they had access to the toilet at anytime there wouldn’t be any children in the classroom! Biggest excuse for work avoidance.

iseethembloom · 17/07/2025 20:31

Jayden, why are you ten minutes late to a 50-minute lesson?

I just came from PE and I “had to” fill my water bottle and there was a queue.

But it’s 2.25. The school day finished at 3.10. Couldn’t it wait til then.

I need to have my water bottle filled at all times.

Imagine having this conversation thirty times a week and then being disrupted by having to catch the water-bottle kids up with the section of the lesson they just missed (avoided). Awful.

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 17/07/2025 20:31

Blank1234 · 17/07/2025 20:13

There’s always one …

I am happy to be that "one".

Ribenaberry12 · 17/07/2025 20:32

Sounds sensible to me. Helps them learn to manage their water intake, their bladders and to focus on tasks.

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:33

stichguru · 17/07/2025 20:22

Stupid. The kids who are peeing to get out of lessons will still pretend to want to pee, and the kids that try to control their drinking so they don't need to pee will get dehydrated!

How long do you think primary school lessons are? Dehydration? 😂they aren't trekking across the Sahara

Blank1234 · 17/07/2025 20:33

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 17/07/2025 20:31

I am happy to be that "one".

I don’t know why, it’s not something to be proud of or encouraged 🤷‍♀️

Screamingabdabz · 17/07/2025 20:33

Jeez I hated tap water and even on the hottest days I don’t think I ever drank anything at school back in the day. I was thirsty by the time I got home but I’m still alive to tell the tale.

It’s incredible what pandering there is now to every little whim of children and yet mental health and well-being are rock bottom and getting worse.

I agree with school and I think you’re massively overreacting op.

Moveoverdarlin · 17/07/2025 20:34

I think it’s fine. Break times and lunch times is fine. Maybe more access in hot weather.

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:34

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 17/07/2025 20:31

I am happy to be that "one".

I pity the future employers of your children is that the kind of attitude you're bringing them up with, I bet the school staff love you

ManyATrueWord · 17/07/2025 20:36

The obsession with water comes from at least three things
Fear of fat - you are wlss likely to overwatch if you are not thirsty. See "Are you actually hungry or are you just thirsty?"
Brains work better when hydrated fully. There's probably some research out there proving it.
Those of us who spent the 80s thirsty remember how uncomfortable life was.

FunMustard · 17/07/2025 20:36

I really think it is ridiculous to get wound up about this. Most of the year kids can manage without having access to water every second of every day.

And of course there'll be exemptions for medical issues Hmm

BernardButlersBra · 17/07/2025 20:38

I naively thought schools were about educating?! Not enforcing more and more bizarre and ridiculous rules. A school near us is like this and it's safe to say our children won't be going there

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 20:38

ManyATrueWord · 17/07/2025 20:36

The obsession with water comes from at least three things
Fear of fat - you are wlss likely to overwatch if you are not thirsty. See "Are you actually hungry or are you just thirsty?"
Brains work better when hydrated fully. There's probably some research out there proving it.
Those of us who spent the 80s thirsty remember how uncomfortable life was.

Why did you spend the 80s thirsty?

Henopause · 17/07/2025 20:39

Bennettfan · 17/07/2025 20:28

You’re wrong here I’m afraid. The strict academy rules actually mean that some teaching and learning can get done, and whilst students might bristle against it all surveys show that on the whole students feel safer and happier in schools like that.

Really?
I’m surprised. My dealings with academies in the SEN sphere is overwhelmingly bad, with huge problems with school refusal and mental illness, which matches up with the overall picture of the current situation for school children’s wellbeing.

BlueSeagull · 17/07/2025 20:41

Pricelessadvice · 17/07/2025 19:37

Years ago we were only allowed a drink at break and lunch. We all survived.
I’m not sure why kids have to permanently be attached to a water bottle nowadays.

This! was thinking same, also remember you could only use toilets at break

bendmeoverbackwards · 17/07/2025 20:47

cyvguhb · 17/07/2025 19:39

When I was at school drinking during lessons was unheard of, have bodies changed so much that they now can't survive ?

I went to primary school in the 80s and still remember how thirsty I got!

After outdoor PE on a hot day, we would all queue up for the water fountain. When it was your turn, all the other kids in line would count loudly up to 10 after which your turn was over 😂

NeverOneBiscuit · 17/07/2025 20:50

Water bottles in classrooms are a huge disruption. Constant requests to refill them, go outside to drink from them if it’s a lab/computer room (secondary school). Once one’s out there’s a sea of hands to join them as it’s basically a social.

They spill on the desks, pupils squirt them at each other. Even when not drinking from them they chew the top, roll them around, or if it’s a single use bottle they scrunch empty ones as loudly as possible.

Some pupils will down huge amounts of water (or whatever else is in the bottle) then are horrified when, despite you warning them it’s at the teachers discretion to let them out, they can’t immediately go to the loo.

Often, once in the loo, it’s an age before they return as they’re on their mobile phone.

The trend to act as though they’re in a desert is ridiculous. In secondary school you have breaks, lunch & to & from lessons to drink.

I know this thread is about primary school but this is where it starts. Obviously pupils with health conditions that require it should have constant access to water: I worked with 2 in 6 years. As for using the toilet no young child should be sitting desperate to go, they should be allowed.

Ultimately it’s something they need to learn to regulate, just as we try to help them to regulate their language, behaviour, emotions etc.

Mansionscoldandgrey · 17/07/2025 20:51

Do these children sleep through the night, or are their parents waking them every 30 minutes to pour water down their throats to avoid dehydration?