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Work trip - no food in hotel!

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Boxingshibes · 13/07/2025 20:27

I'm way for work for the week. I'm staying in a hotel in the middle of nowhere. It took me 4 hours to get here in v hot trains.
Room and hotel lovely but I went down to the bar/ restaurant and asked about dinner- to be told as they have an event on the kitchen is closed.
They offered me a free drink but apologised and said unfortunately there are no takeaways that deliver.
I'm on a meal allowance. I'm pissed off!
And I'm having to pay £200 for taxis for the. Grr
I'm hot hungry and annoyed. Aibu?

OP posts:
Boomer55 · 18/07/2025 17:01

KassandraOfSparta · 14/07/2025 08:39

I think, @thinklagoon that some people just cannot imagine a life other than the one they are living. There are huge swathes of the country without Uber and without Justeat, Deliveroo and Ocado. Where there are no 24 hour supermarkets and convenience stores, where there is one taxi (one car, not one taxi firm) which has to be reserved in advance.

Which is why they all pile onto threads like this with "just get a taxi to bring you a takeaway" or "just walk to the nearest 24 hour supermarket" or other similar gems.

Wiltshire, near the army base, is not one of those cut off areas. 🙄

simsbustinoutmimi · 18/07/2025 17:01

Boomer55 · 18/07/2025 17:01

Wiltshire, near the army base, is not one of those cut off areas. 🙄

is OP from Wiltshire?

Ponderingwindow · 18/07/2025 17:12

There was a point in time when I was earning 35k and charging 70k a year. I never missed a payment or paid any interest. It was all business travel. I would pay for my travel on cards, the company would cut me a check, as in a physical check because it was the 90s, and I would pay my credit card bill before it was due. I never fronted any money out of my own account and I never struggled to pay my own bills

the only time this was an issue was my very first week of work before I got my credit limit increased. It obviously quickly grew to be higher than what I earned. Still have excellent credit scores and availability to this day, despite stopping traveling many years ago.

people who travel for a living typically play the game and work the system to their advantage. Nothing illegal or untoward, just using the available options. You can earn all sorts of perks. It shouldn’t be hurting your family.

OnTheBoardwalk · 18/07/2025 20:48

@Ponderingwindow nearly £6k a month, I could never afford that even putting it on a credit card

did you have to pay for everything. I've never had to pay myself for hotels or travel, that was always done centrally or via a 3rd party website

for one I couldn’t afford it but more importantly for insurance reasons travelling on business (covered by company) and the company knowing exactly where you are in anything bad happens where you are staying

StandFirm · 19/07/2025 09:26

jxpop665 · 17/07/2025 08:38

It’s not great, annoying - but happens all the time.

You need to stop making such a drama out of nothing. If you are travelling for work you are a professional traveller - you need a selection of credit cards and in the UK should at least be prepared to expense £500 per day, more likely £1,000. It’s completely on you to ensure you can cover normal work expenses before you take such a role and manage these minor things.

When you're in an employed role that requires you to spend that much on travelling, you absolutely are senior enough to get a corporate credit card (or two, visa and amex) from your employer. The only instances where that wouldn't happen are when the company is either too small or disorganised to set it up for their employees but then they do give a cash advance if you point out that you cannot be expected to fund the business's expenses for them. In what world is it acceptable to shoulder £5K of DEBT a month for a job? Even if the refund window is short, a job is meant to PAY you, not risk you potentially defaulting on your payments. That's madness.

SpamHawk · 23/07/2025 19:59

TheAutumnCrow · 14/07/2025 11:46

Invent time travel

So OP can't possibly learn to drive in the present tense?

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