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To just shut the door on religious door-knockers, with no comment?

327 replies

BeanQuisine · 13/07/2025 16:16

I used to smile and say "I'm not religious", but a friend pointed out that this still confers some degree of social legitimacy on their absurd intrusion into my life.

I decided that a better tactic, when it becomes clear that a doorknocker is peddling religion, is to just silently close the door in their face.

Wondering how many people here agree that this is a reasonable response to unreasonable intrusion, and how you choose to respond to these people.

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Morgenrot25 · 13/07/2025 16:54

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:52

well we can do tis/ tisn’t till the cows come home. Many of us find people door knocking to be some combination of rude, arrogant and entitled. You saying it isn’t doesn't really cut much ice.

I agree that it's rude and entitled, never mind disruptive.

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:54

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:52

well we can do tis/ tisn’t till the cows come home. Many of us find people door knocking to be some combination of rude, arrogant and entitled. You saying it isn’t doesn't really cut much ice.

You should look in the mirror

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:54

plasticbookcars · 13/07/2025 16:52

If they’re Jehovah’s Witnesses, they’re there because they have to be. Their elders set them targets and door to door (whether they find it difficult or not) is a non negotiable.

They’re human beings and some might not even want to be doing it. It costs you nothing to just politely say, ‘I’m not interested, thank you’.

Of course they have a choice. They could try thinking for themselves, maybe.

pestowithwalnuts · 13/07/2025 16:55

My exdh was on nights and in bed when they called.
He answered the door..stuck his head round and said "no thanks"
The woman wouldn't let up and despite 3 more thank yous she was still stood there so he pulled the door wide open ..the sights of a big bloke stark naked soon shifted her

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:55

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:54

Of course they have a choice. They could try thinking for themselves, maybe.

Is that what you would say to women who are cohersively controlled?

saraclara · 13/07/2025 16:55

I smile and say that, sorry, I have my own beliefs. They smile back, say goodbye, and leave. All is well with the world.

If I shut the door in their faces, the unpleasantness would leave me feeling jarred for a good few minutes. What's the point in doing that to myself?

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:56

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:54

You should look in the mirror

I’m not the one disturbing people in their own homes.🤷‍♀️

HelpMeGetThrough · 13/07/2025 16:57

I had the JWs knock on the door the other day with the opening line “can I tell you about the most translated web site in the world?”

A new tactic to suck you in I guess.

CatsMagic · 13/07/2025 16:57

A lot of Edgelord energy on this thread

Yes you are all very clever and superior - well done.

Vegemiteandhoneyontoast · 13/07/2025 16:57

I knew someone who used to lecture religious callers on revolutionary discipline. Apparently it worked a treat.

HonestOpalHelper · 13/07/2025 16:57

My grandparents were Plymouth Brethren, never had any involvement myself, but I know a lot about their very orthodox puritanical stance to know they are the natural defence against the latecomers to the evangelical line up.

I simply say I'm Plymouth Brethren, and watch them, in some cases run up the drive!!

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:57

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:56

I’m not the one disturbing people in their own homes.🤷‍♀️

But you are still being rude, arrogant and entitled

myissuemychoice · 13/07/2025 16:59

JW I can cope with they seem understanding when I say I’m not interested. We unfortunately get the SPUC in our area knocking to give leaflets or just putting them through the door and the content is sometimes upsetting

ErrolTheDragon · 13/07/2025 16:59

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:57

But you are still being rude, arrogant and entitled

How so? You’re telling lots of people on this thread something isn’t rude that they find to be so. Maybe look in your own mirror?

LastTrainsEast · 13/07/2025 16:59

Are they being rude to knock? They are yes, but they may not mean to be so they get basic politeness from me.

60+ years ago I was introduced to the concept of Sunday School by a nice old lady we only knew as Mrs Giles. If I believed in heaven I'd believe she was there now. I also got to know a couple of Mormon Missionaries who were really nice guys.

But I've encountered a lot of the other kind since. The ones who tell kids that mummy and daddy will go to hell and be tortured if they don't join their church. The ones that intimidate women going into clinics, The homophobes, the misogynists and the creepy ones who think little Billy would make a nice choir boy.

So they got off lightly with "No thanks"

JohnTheRevelator · 13/07/2025 17:00

I would totally do this if I had religious door knockers come to my house. Thankfully,it's not something I have to deal with as they have to get past the intercom system and security door first.

Jollyhockeystickss · 13/07/2025 17:00

I took her noteoad from her as i was watching from the top window whilst 2 of them knocked my door, i saw her write my address in her notebook obviously as a we will return she didnt answer, i was beyond furious i ran down and opened the dooe and said how effing dare you write my address down which she denied, i grabbed her pad and my address was there, i said F Off and slammed the door and kept her notebook...

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 17:00

HonestOpalHelper · 13/07/2025 16:57

My grandparents were Plymouth Brethren, never had any involvement myself, but I know a lot about their very orthodox puritanical stance to know they are the natural defence against the latecomers to the evangelical line up.

I simply say I'm Plymouth Brethren, and watch them, in some cases run up the drive!!

Well at least you have a GSOH.
Unlike some of the hard noses on here.

WhistlingStraits · 13/07/2025 17:00

I think it’s rude to shut the door in their faces.

We get 2 Jehovah Witnesses calling about once a year. I will politely tell them I’m not interested and that’s all they need to be on their way. I feel sorry for them that their batshit religion requires them to doorstep, it must be awful.

BeanQuisine · 13/07/2025 17:01

plasticbookcars · 13/07/2025 16:52

If they’re Jehovah’s Witnesses, they’re there because they have to be. Their elders set them targets and door to door (whether they find it difficult or not) is a non negotiable.

They’re human beings and some might not even want to be doing it. It costs you nothing to just politely say, ‘I’m not interested, thank you’.

So you believe it's up to me, the innocent victim, to help manage their relationship with "their elders"?

None of that nonsense has anything to do with me, and those seeking to involve me by intruding into my home should have the door closed firmly in their faces.

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whitewineandsun · 13/07/2025 17:02

HarkerandBarker · 13/07/2025 16:51

Like councillors and canvassers?

Yep. This is not the gotcha comment you may think it is.

Political canvassing is ridiculous IMO.

BIossomtoes · 13/07/2025 17:02

plasticbookcars · 13/07/2025 16:52

If they’re Jehovah’s Witnesses, they’re there because they have to be. Their elders set them targets and door to door (whether they find it difficult or not) is a non negotiable.

They’re human beings and some might not even want to be doing it. It costs you nothing to just politely say, ‘I’m not interested, thank you’.

They don’t have targets. I tell them (truthfully) my mum was a Jehovah’s Witness and they go away.

saraclara · 13/07/2025 17:02

CatsMagic · 13/07/2025 16:57

A lot of Edgelord energy on this thread

Yes you are all very clever and superior - well done.

Seriously, those kinds of posts make my eyes roll into the back of my head. why these people want to be patted on the back for being stupidly obnoxious, I'll never know.

JohnTheRevelator · 13/07/2025 17:02

Jollyhockeystickss · 13/07/2025 17:00

I took her noteoad from her as i was watching from the top window whilst 2 of them knocked my door, i saw her write my address in her notebook obviously as a we will return she didnt answer, i was beyond furious i ran down and opened the dooe and said how effing dare you write my address down which she denied, i grabbed her pad and my address was there, i said F Off and slammed the door and kept her notebook...

OMFG. That is SO rude. Of them I mean,not you!

bluecurtains14 · 13/07/2025 17:02

I have a short spiel for JW's, it involves that fact that blood transfusions save lives, they are in an evil cult, and they bear personal responsibility for all those who have died from refusing blood transfusions because they are a JW. I say all that then shut the door. It's a few years til they come back.