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When ‘tradition’ becomes a clear display of hatred

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WhereIsMyJumper · 11/07/2025 14:52

Am I being unreasonable to be aghast at the bonfires in NI? Burning the tri-colour as well as an effigy of a migrant boat. How can this be referred to as ‘tradition’??

https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/firefighters-take-two-hours-to-extinguish-controversial-bonfire-topped-with-migrant-boat-and-irish-flag-in-co-tyrone/a1274789953.html

Firefighters take two hours to extinguish controversial bonfire topped with ‘migrant boat’ and Irish flag in Co Tyrone

Firefighters took almost two hours to extinguish a controversial bonfire which was lit in Co Tyrone last night.

https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/northern-ireland/firefighters-take-two-hours-to-extinguish-controversial-bonfire-topped-with-migrant-boat-and-irish-flag-in-co-tyrone/a1274789953.html

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Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 18:47

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 18:09

You're not making much connection to reality and the present either.🙄

Do you roll your eyes at everything?
How about roll your eyes at people arguing over whether one religion is better than another.
If you’re so easily offended by an effigy then that’s your problem and deserve an eye roll yourself

OneLuckyBee · 12/07/2025 18:56

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 18:46

do you appreciate why @GrammarTeacher mentioned the ginger reference ?

Nope. Enlighten me.

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 19:03

@GrammarTeacher said. ‘Merely being ginger is enough to raise their ire’. They were referring to the generalisation of being Irish/Catholic….A lot of Irish people have ginger hair. @OneLuckyBee

MathNotMathing · 12/07/2025 19:15

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OneLuckyBee · 12/07/2025 19:16

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 19:03

@GrammarTeacher said. ‘Merely being ginger is enough to raise their ire’. They were referring to the generalisation of being Irish/Catholic….A lot of Irish people have ginger hair. @OneLuckyBee

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Right and is that particular to Catholics? Have all of the ginger Protestants managed to dismiss their own experience of having ginger hair themselves, ginger brothers, sisters, mothers and fathers?
Being ginger is most definitely a cross community activity.

5dollah · 12/07/2025 19:20

The irony of Loyalists burning an effigy of immigrants. They arrived in Ireland 400 years ago and I don't think anyone invited them.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 19:20

BeachLife2 · 12/07/2025 18:12

Not a pleasant thing to do, but not much different from encouraging a crowd to kill their local MP or inciting support for terror at groups that have killed thousands.

I suspect the same people who defended those on the basis of freedom of expression or 'art' will have a different view on this one. It would've been a different story had there been an effigy of Nigel Farage though!

It's very different. It's the difference between privileged, high profile people: the famous, the rich, the powerful, the protected and the family who make up a tiny minority of the population, whose house you're passing on your way home.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 19:24

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 17:29

🤯. Whats wrong with people. The police need to intervene and these idiots and yes they are all idiots need to be prosecuted for hate crimes.

It’s not a hate crime

DrPrunesqualer · 12/07/2025 19:29

OneLuckyBee · 12/07/2025 19:16

Right and is that particular to Catholics? Have all of the ginger Protestants managed to dismiss their own experience of having ginger hair themselves, ginger brothers, sisters, mothers and fathers?
Being ginger is most definitely a cross community activity.

I asked if you knew why. You said you didn’t. I explained the pps comment. I’m not arguing with you about it. People make generalisations and assumptions about others. That’s why the pp mentioned it.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 19:30

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 18:47

Do you roll your eyes at everything?
How about roll your eyes at people arguing over whether one religion is better than another.
If you’re so easily offended by an effigy then that’s your problem and deserve an eye roll yourself

No. I roll my eyes at the fact resistant.
🙄

The people running this hatefest are paramilitaries driving people out of their homes. I'm not the one jumping through hoops to justify my support if them. I'm not the one ignorant of the facts regarding the situation in NI atm.

I am offended by your ignorance and your apoligism for terrorism and illegality.
🙄🙄

Away with your ill informed Tansplaining.
🙄🙄🙄

OneLuckyBee · 12/07/2025 19:31

5dollah · 12/07/2025 19:20

The irony of Loyalists burning an effigy of immigrants. They arrived in Ireland 400 years ago and I don't think anyone invited them.

Protestants didn't just pitch up on Ireland 400.years ago and 'Roman' Catholicism isn't native to Ireland. Mind blowing as that may seem.

TheHateIsNotGood · 12/07/2025 19:36

Haters gotta hate and all that - only the very naive would think that signing a few bits of paper a few years ago would 'cure' generations of hating 'others' as a done deal.

So now it might not be burn the Catholics or ginger-haired people and even effigies of Guy Fawkes, widely accepted on the UK mainland; they're burning a different effigy instead.

The 'message' sent is the same as those sent not so long ago - stay out of our patch of ground. Message received here - I won't be moving my ginger English self anywhere near you.

BeachLife2 · 12/07/2025 19:38

@TooBigForMyBoots

I'm not sure that the civilians killed by Hamas and Hezbollah are particularly wealthy or powerful.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 19:46

BeachLife2 · 12/07/2025 19:38

@TooBigForMyBoots

I'm not sure that the civilians killed by Hamas and Hezbollah are particularly wealthy or powerful.

Are the civilians killed by Hamas and Hezbollah being burnt in effigy? WTF has that got to do with the 12th July hatefest in NI atm?🤯

Did you hurt yerself with that jump?

MathNotMathing · 12/07/2025 19:52

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MixedMetals · 12/07/2025 19:53

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The population there must have changed very rapidly? This is the last census from 2021.

55.98% indicated that they had a British national identity, 31.28% had a Northern Irish national identity,12.31% had an Irish national identity, and 16.19% indicated an 'other' national identity.

MathNotMathing · 12/07/2025 19:57

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MixedMetals · 12/07/2025 20:05

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I'm going to be honest and say that I don't believe you. I don't believe that Ballymena has gone from 16.19% other, 4.9% of them being non white to suddenly being the vast majority of the population. I'm open to you proving what you are saying is the truth though.

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 20:06

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 19:30

No. I roll my eyes at the fact resistant.
🙄

The people running this hatefest are paramilitaries driving people out of their homes. I'm not the one jumping through hoops to justify my support if them. I'm not the one ignorant of the facts regarding the situation in NI atm.

I am offended by your ignorance and your apoligism for terrorism and illegality.
🙄🙄

Away with your ill informed Tansplaining.
🙄🙄🙄

Your offended? Wow, doesn’t take much does it?
You assume I am oblivious to NI and its history. Just because I have a differing opinion does not make me ignorant

BeachLife2 · 12/07/2025 20:09

@TooBigForMyBoots

Kneecap have supporter Hezbollah and Hamas at their gigs, which some on the left find perfectly acceptable.

Barnbrack · 12/07/2025 20:09

sprigatito · 11/07/2025 15:07

My NI family and friends have always referred to July 12 as the glorious twelfth 🤷🏻‍♀️

This is because they are loyalist extremists. Hth

Starbri8 · 12/07/2025 20:14

@Nt23 the people burning the effigies do not see themselves as Irish they are loyalist Protestants who are British. I find it ironic that your statement on Irish people’s dim view of immigration fails in its realisation to understand that the biggest mass exodus from Ireland in the 1840’s over 2 million emigrated , 1 million died … was due to starvation and genocide caused by colonial rule in Ireland .

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 20:37

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Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 20:42

Starbri8 · 12/07/2025 20:14

@Nt23 the people burning the effigies do not see themselves as Irish they are loyalist Protestants who are British. I find it ironic that your statement on Irish people’s dim view of immigration fails in its realisation to understand that the biggest mass exodus from Ireland in the 1840’s over 2 million emigrated , 1 million died … was due to starvation and genocide caused by colonial rule in Ireland .

It’s a debate in itself if it constituted an actual genocide. Some would disagree.
Either way it was a really shit time for the Irish no doubt about it

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2025 21:04

Madcatdudette · 12/07/2025 20:06

Your offended? Wow, doesn’t take much does it?
You assume I am oblivious to NI and its history. Just because I have a differing opinion does not make me ignorant

You are oblivious to NI history. You thought the twelfth of July celebrations were about opposing foreigners.🙈