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To ask what did your granny eat?

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PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 20:35

I hear a lot of noise concerning how we ought to eat how our grandparent's/great grandparents did, or something of that description. We know that modern, ultra processed foods are crap, unhealthy and usually very cheap, although many foods from long ago were pretty awful too!

So just in a lighthearted frame of mind - what did yours scoff down on?

Mine were fond of home baking, scones, biscuits, etc. Most meals cooked from scratch, although grandmother was a full time housewife, with a space to grow some fruit/veg. I think the large supermarket chains were still extremely tiny when my GP's were alive, so I have no idea if they might have enjoyed more processed stuff if they had lived to see it.

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PracticallyPeapod · 10/07/2025 21:42

My Grandma had a terrible diet based on biscuits, sugary tea and pop from the milkman. She had to cook for my Grandad who worked nights and ate at odd times but it was always done begrudgingly.

Needmorelego · 10/07/2025 21:42

Mosaic123 · 10/07/2025 21:37

Smetana - it's a type of sour cream. She was born in Bessarabia in the early years of the last century.

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Where is Bessarabia? (or was?)

ilovepixie · 10/07/2025 21:42

momager1 · 10/07/2025 20:58

my nan always had fresh soda farls and potato farls on the go. She made the best gravy ever and always had lots left so I would mop it up with some fresh soda bread slathered in real butter. OMG now I want some. Her one thing, that now that I am almost 60 (so survived it!) that I now find disturbing was that on a saturday morning she used to fry up a big batch of breakfast sausage links. I would sit up in my granda's bed with him and have some with soft boiled eggs and a blob of butter in the egg. Heaven. BUT..nan kept the rest of the sausages on a plate in the cupboard for the next couple of days until they were all gone. I ate them but I would never do that now lol

Houses weren’t as warm in those days. Many people didn’t have fridges and instead had a cupboard open to the outside with wire in to allow air in to keep things cool.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 10/07/2025 21:43

My grandparents ate homemade food the vast majority of the time (with the exception being occasional portions of fish and chips at the seaside). It generally involved porridge, toast or bacon sandwiches for breakfast, all main meals were made up of some combination of meat/fish/vegetables/homemade gravy (essential in the North of England, where 50% of your blood is made up of gravy), plus a pudding every evening! Needless to say, I ate there quite a lot, and not just on Sundays, which involved the mandatory Sunday roast.

There were snacks- KitKats, bars of chocolates, mint imperials and sometimes bags of sweets like Liquorice Allsorts or Werther's Originals. Cakes were homemade until my grandmother no longer had time to make them, because she continues to have such a hectic social life. Oh, and because she hates ironing, she always has the iron in one hand and a bottle of Spitfire or whiskey in the other!

She'd take us foraging for wild blackberries, damsons and raspberries every year, and would then spend the afternoon cursing (she has always been part-deaf and didn't realise that we could hear her, so we learnt a selection of swear words from her) while making jam, which inevitably made a mess of the hob. She grows some of her own fruit bushes, tomatoes and even melons (in a porch; she's probably a witch because she does wonders with plants, e.g. sticking sprigs in milk bottles and they miraculously grow), but she is now almost 100 and struggles to get down to pick blackcurrants and things now. Despite having moved away, she still sends me boxes of gooseberries and other delights!

Apparently, my great-grandparents ate similar foods (though her father had an extensive allotment), as well as a piece of homemade cake every evening for supper. Even the dog got a slice to himself!

Namechangean · 10/07/2025 21:43

PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 20:35

I hear a lot of noise concerning how we ought to eat how our grandparent's/great grandparents did, or something of that description. We know that modern, ultra processed foods are crap, unhealthy and usually very cheap, although many foods from long ago were pretty awful too!

So just in a lighthearted frame of mind - what did yours scoff down on?

Mine were fond of home baking, scones, biscuits, etc. Most meals cooked from scratch, although grandmother was a full time housewife, with a space to grow some fruit/veg. I think the large supermarket chains were still extremely tiny when my GP's were alive, so I have no idea if they might have enjoyed more processed stuff if they had lived to see it.

Corned beef, fritters, fray bentos pies, Benson and hedges and cans of Tennents lager. She died when she was 67 bless her

3678194b · 10/07/2025 21:43

Breakfasts: boiled eggs. Full English. Porridge. Kippers.

Lunches: Sandwiches

Dinners: Roast dinner. Sausage & mash. Pie (sometimes steak and kidney) & chips. Chippy tea once a week

No snacks.

Andoutcomethewolves · 10/07/2025 21:44

My grandparents died before I was born so I'm going with my mum and dad (both in their 80s now).

Lentil pie, corned beef hash, chicken curry (with random carrots and peas)

Also Fray Bentos pies and findus crispy pancakes as a treat 🤢

Littleredraincoat · 10/07/2025 21:44

All dinners were served with two types of potatoes, meat and two vegetables. Always had a pudding and then a few chocolates.

Lunch was usually a salad with some thick cut ham or cold turkey or something like that from the delicatessen.

Breakfast was a full English at the weekends, and boiled eggs with toast and butter during the week. I dont think she even knew what a cereal was.

Always drinking tea with two sugars, and a bottle of wine a night. She was the tiniest woman you've ever seen, barely a size six and lived to 96. Didnt know the meaning of exercise. Honestly I dont know how she managed it.

Tigergirl80 · 10/07/2025 21:45

I only really knew my maternal grandmother. She liked mainly homemade made food. I remember she came up 1 Sunday thought we were having a roast dinner. It was summer hot our mum banged a pizza and chips in the oven with salad. She wasn’t impressed.🤣🤣🤣

I also remember her having toast with sugar on. She used to get soda farls. We would have them with butter and lemon cheese on. They were the best I’ve not seen them for years. I’m sure there will be someone telling me they have them in Waitrose. Well we don’t have Waitrose up North.

RunningBlueFox · 10/07/2025 21:45

My gran was an abysmal cook and everything was covered in cat hair. Most memorable meals were weetabix with butter and jam on top (like a slice of bread) and ice-cream with sugar sprinkled on top served in a yellow melamine bowl with a side order of cat fluff. She did make a very good Madeira cake though.

JooLoo · 10/07/2025 21:46

She would never eat ‘that foreign muck”. By which she meant pasta!

SabrinaThwaite · 10/07/2025 21:47

Allseeingallknowing · 10/07/2025 21:16

Yes, boiled, eaten on their own, using fingers!

As they say, you can eat everything apart from the oink.

My DM made a great pig’s head brawn.

PracticallyPeapod · 10/07/2025 21:47

summertimeinLondon · 10/07/2025 21:36

The thing about eating like your grandparents is total bollocks. A few rationing years notwithstanding, diet was stunningly bad for most working people in postwar Britain - full of very processed food, tinned/canned stuff, cheap ingredients. A few people might have cooked nice food from scratch, but in their working-class community my grandparents, like most others, ate cheap food that was just as bad or worse than any UPF foods today. Spongy white bread with the cheapest meat paste on it, cheap jam, processed cakes (Mr Kipling and so on), builders’ tea nonstop with four sugars a cup, Fray Bentos pies, crab sticks, deep fried chips, processed hamburgers, Spam, Club and Penguin biscuits. A vegetable or fruit was rarely in evidence apart from a very rare banana, tinned peaches, and the odd glass of Vimto or Ribena (Ribena was originally a wartime supplement designed to stop British children getting scurvy).

Neither of my grandmothers were good cooks. Boiled potatoes (the cheap waxy kind with eyes) and a canned suet pie were their staples. One of my grandmothers simply gave up cooking at all in her sixties, and lived for thirty years after that just grazing on Mr Kipling cakes and sweet tea.

Processed foods made out of industrial food waste are much older than most people think. Why do you think Margaret Thatcher was busy using her chemistry degree working on soft serve ice cream? Cheap meat paste was made from connective tissue meat slurry long before Turkey Twizzlers were invented. Spam and other canned meat products were chock full of processed animal fats. Margarine and lard were staples for baking and for just about everything else.

Cooking decent food from scratch was something that was much more an interest of my parents’ boomer era. If you were middle class or lived in the country between the forties and the nineties then maybe you ate a decent diet. Most postwar working class people really didn’t — same problems as today, in which it was far cheaper to get spongy white bread, tinned food and eat chips, fried egg and marg, than to be eating fresh seasonal produce (plus, before the mid to late 80s/early 90s, air freighted or hydroponic-grown food was quite rare: it wasn’t yet the era of strawberries and grapes all year round).

If you’re wondering why they were less fat than today, it was largely portion size. And in postwar Britain everyone smoked like chimneys. Remember the days when leftovers were the norm? In my childhood it was rare to eat something you liked every day — you ate what was there or what needed using up, not what you fancied.

Today, we not only can access a huge variety of foods, but expect to eat things we feel like eating at every meal, as well as multiple helpings of it. It’s nicer, we don’t smoke so much, we have abundant food, we eat too much as a result. I for one certainly wouldn’t eat as much as I do, if what was on offer was the diced tinned swede, lumpy boiled spuds and grey flat hamburgers with thick Bisto that my maternal grandmother used to produce; or the gristly meat paste sandwiches on cheap Kwik Save bread that my paternal grandmother used to dish up. (Even with a Blue Riband biscuit or a Mr Kipling fruit pie with Elmlea for afters.)

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Totally agree with this. We now give kids meals they actually like. Even if they’re healthy meals they eat too much which is why even middle class kids are overweight.

When I was a kid most meals were plain and boring - mince in Oxo, lumpy mash, lentil soups.

BogRollBOGOF · 10/07/2025 21:48

It was said that the M&S ready meal was the best thing that ever happened to her diet. She had a reputation for making food inedible with excessive salt or burning things like boiled potatoes. I was in my 20s when she died (b early 1910s) but I never ate anything at her house.
She lived to early 90s, but I only ever remember her (so from early 70s) as a shrunken, little old woman which with hindsight would be poor muscle mass and bone density. She seemed to live a long life based on being in energy conservation mode. Genes probably were on her side; her siblings all made it to their 90s too.

Granddad (other side of the family) was a basic cook- meat, potato 2-veg type. Liked his pints of bitter. Smoker. Lived to 85 when he was taken out quite efficiently by a stroke. He had a fairly active old age until the final week pottering around the shops/ pub daily. It was a shorter old age, but better quality of life.

Gduonloudc · 10/07/2025 21:48

Meat, boiled potatoes and two veg, meat being things like chops and braised cheaper cuts of meat. Fish on Fridays every week. Plate salad in summer with boiled eggs and beetroot with salad cream. Or ploughman's lunch for dinner on a hot day.
Ham egg and chips. Stews and soups. Sometimes a home made corned beef or cheese pie. Corned beef hash. Roast dinner most Sundays with leftovers the next day made into cottage or shepherds pie. Mince and mashed potatoes.
Instant whip or tinned fruit and evaporated milk for pudding.
Home made fruit cake and scones.
Never ever ate rice or pasta. Or yogurt. Never ate snacks like crisps but had a biscuit barrell which would come out along side a big pot of tea. Biscuits were always plain ones like nice biscuits or malted milk.
Breakfast was always cornflakes in summer and porridge in winter with eggs and bacon on weekends.

Questionsquestions23 · 10/07/2025 21:49

Road kill, I kid you not, if they saw a pheasant that was Sunday lunch.

Ellmau · 10/07/2025 21:50

She put milk in her mashed potato, liked rich tea biscuits, and drank sherry every day. Can't remember much else.

Ellmau · 10/07/2025 21:51

The other one was a terrible cook who overcooked everything. She served shop bought cakes and malt loaf for tea.

DeffoNeedANameChange · 10/07/2025 21:51

I only just lost my beautiful grandma this year, in her 90s. I don't know what she ate as a child, but as an older lady she was rather fond of m&s ready meals and pre-mixed g&t/Margherita etc in a can ❤️

SP2024 · 10/07/2025 21:51

Definitely remember tongue sandwiches 🤢 Plus all bran, lots of vitamins, and lots of tea!

ManchesterLu · 10/07/2025 21:51

I think the difference is what they put in food these days. The ingredients would have been much purer back then. There's nothing wrong with fat or sugar. And as people have said, they rarely snacked unless on fruit, which was seen as a treat.

Plus, lifestyles were much more active, which balanced things out too.

My granny always tells me how she had to do her washing in the tub and hang it out etc, much more effort needed than these days.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 10/07/2025 21:52

Oh, and she still keeps dripping in the fridge!

Up until she left home, she drank raw milk straight from the cows or the goat, as she grew up on a small farm.

PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 21:52

and lived for thirty years after that just grazing on Mr Kipling cakes and sweet tea.

I can see me skirting horribly close to this Grin

Humour aside, excellent post.

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lljkk · 10/07/2025 21:52

My dad's mom (b. 1925) raised a large family on lots of white bread, white sugar, packaged foods, cheap quality meat. That's what she could afford.

Her last kid was born in 1964 and her cupboards were crammed with packaged instant-mash type foods in the 1970s.

My mom's mom was born 1903 and probably ate a lot more by cooking from scratch, although her cookie jar was full of only store bought cookies in the 1970s.

Blarn · 10/07/2025 21:52

Maternal side: very traditional. Meat, potatoes, veg. Meat, potatoes, pickled beetroot in summer. Shepherds pies, homemade chips, stews, roast on a Sunday. Loved cheap sliced bread, I guess the convenience trumped taste (the same way she was aghast that I would willingly use cloth nappies!).

Paternal side: all traditional but would also try lots of new things. She made chocolate mousse, served tacos in the early 1990s when they were very unusual and was the first person to give me Pringles when they started selling them here! She wasn't adverse to trying new foods and loved cooking new recipes.

They both ate breakfast, lunch and dinner though and neither were against snacks of crisps or chocolate bars. Both sets of grandparents were born in the 1920s and I think the rationing had a lasting effect. They bothweee sensible with portions and leftovers and would never eat to excess but enjoyed sweet things (one bought bananas every week) possibly because they remember foods not being freely available.

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