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To ask what did your granny eat?

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PassTheCordialCordelia · 10/07/2025 20:35

I hear a lot of noise concerning how we ought to eat how our grandparent's/great grandparents did, or something of that description. We know that modern, ultra processed foods are crap, unhealthy and usually very cheap, although many foods from long ago were pretty awful too!

So just in a lighthearted frame of mind - what did yours scoff down on?

Mine were fond of home baking, scones, biscuits, etc. Most meals cooked from scratch, although grandmother was a full time housewife, with a space to grow some fruit/veg. I think the large supermarket chains were still extremely tiny when my GP's were alive, so I have no idea if they might have enjoyed more processed stuff if they had lived to see it.

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SabrinaThwaite · 10/07/2025 21:31

SailingYachty · 10/07/2025 21:08

She was awesome, loved a good party too, she was still out, living her best life until near the end! I used to love going to visit as a child.

My DH’s granny was like that too - fond memories of her saying very loudly ‘where’s ma fork n knife’ in a strong Fife accent at her 90th birthday party. I strongly suspect her parrot had picked up its more fruity language from her.

SemperIdem · 10/07/2025 21:31

Paternal grandmother - very little in terms of portion size, unless it was a dessert after a restaurant meal, in which case a whole new stomach seemed to come into play. Was small her entire life, petite in stature.

Maternal grandmother - also petite in stature but had a harder life in terms of work. Lots of shift work as a trained nurse and later a carer. Sugary tea and sweet treats a go to. Still going at almost 87 though.

Not being greedy was a big thing for both, and for my grandfather too.

Their go to meals were meat/two veg generally speaking. Balanced, healthy. My maternal grandparents were both slightly more adventurous with their food choices in their middle age, I think.

Three of my four grandparents were born the year before WW2, the older was 8 at the time war broke out, so for all their formative years were lived under rationing. I’m sure this influenced their dietary habits as adults.

Lovemycat2023 · 10/07/2025 21:31

My granny took me for dinner once at a Little Chef. We had fish fingers and chips and beans, and she called it caravan food.

At home it was white bread sliced very thin (my dad has her bread knife and board still), roast potatoes, and rice pudding. Not all together of course but those were the things I remember.

She was in service from 14 or so, and ended up a housekeeper.

Rainbow321 · 10/07/2025 21:32

Grew vegetables in the back garden , also had two allotments . Had chickens for meat and eggs . Traded those for rabbits to eat from a friend .
Deep friend chips ( made in a chip pan ) with lard .
Kept the fat from the Sunday roast ( dripping ) It would solidify to fat and jelly underneath . They'd have that on toast .
Lino down on the floor with rugs , open fire but paraffin heaters for hall / kitchen in winter .

PleaseStopEatingMyStuff · 10/07/2025 21:32

Roast dinners with home made gravy. Tea with a single biscuit in the afternoon. Porridge for breakfast. Grew their own vegetables and had lovely salads. They had a strawberry patch and would grow the best strawberries.
They didn't own a microwave so everything was cooked on a little freestanding oven/hob.

ilovepixie · 10/07/2025 21:32

Potatoes and butter
Champ a Northern Irish dish of mashed potatoes and spring onion
Bacon egg and chips
Chips
Sausage and chips
roast dinner
Ulster fry
coffee
tea
whisky
vodka
ice cream
jelly
raspberry ruffles

ConflictofInterest · 10/07/2025 21:33

Things from tins that reminded her of her childhood during the war, she loves instant mash and tinned peaches with condensed milk. Every main meal with a glass of white wine. Smoked from the age of 12 to her late 70's. Still going strong in her 90's now. Very partial to a custard donut.

Overtheatlantic · 10/07/2025 21:33

Southeast U.S., Chicken and rice, green beans boiled with a piece of ham for flavour, lots of gravy, nothing foreign. Everything was homemade and delicious. She always made a pound cake for the week in case she had any visitors. This was back when friends just dropped by to see you.

Notashamed13 · 10/07/2025 21:33

Ok so I think the question may be what DIDNT my grandparents eat....pigs ears, trotters, cow lips, wipe a bit of bread around the dried lard in the frying pan..... that's just a few grim ones in my memory.... my mum is a bit similar... the apple evidently didn't fall far! 😂

LadyHexham · 10/07/2025 21:34

Her fabulous meat & potato pie
Amazing chips cooked in dripping
Fruit cake

It was all delicious and I really liked her.

ilovepixie · 10/07/2025 21:34

The first time we took my Granny to McDonald’s she asked for a knife and fork!

Catsandcannedbeans · 10/07/2025 21:35

Dad’s mum - 20 cigs a day, no breakfast, sandwich for lunch, soup and sandwich for dinner. She did live into her 90s, but she did die of lung cancer. She was always very very thin.

Mum’s mum - 99 years old, still alive. Turns 100 in October - eats whatever she wants. She has always eaten a very varied diet, but she definitely eats a lot of vegetables. These days my brother and his wife live with her, and she eats a lot of soup and stew. When I was younger she used to cook all the time. Lived on a farm most of her life so always knew about what’s in season. She also smoked from 14-60 and still has very occasional one.

PluckyBamboo · 10/07/2025 21:36

We lived about 100 miles away so stayed over about 1 weekend per month. As we were hosted guests, food was always bacon rolls, proper Sunday roast with homemade 'English' puddings like rice pudding or strawberries and cream, other meals were buffet finger food with homemade sausagerolls and cream horns etc. Everything made from scratch apart from bread that was a proper bakers loaf, never supermarket bread. All the veg, salad and strawberries were straight from the garden. The fruit bowl was always overflowing as well.

My Grandma died when I was 12 but she's left me with amazing memories of her brilliant cooking.

summertimeinLondon · 10/07/2025 21:36

The thing about eating like your grandparents is total bollocks. A few rationing years notwithstanding, diet was stunningly bad for most working people in postwar Britain - full of very processed food, tinned/canned stuff, cheap ingredients. A few people might have cooked nice food from scratch, but in their working-class community my grandparents, like most others, ate cheap food that was just as bad or worse than any UPF foods today. Spongy white bread with the cheapest meat paste on it, cheap jam, processed cakes (Mr Kipling and so on), builders’ tea nonstop with four sugars a cup, Fray Bentos pies, crab sticks, deep fried chips, processed hamburgers, Spam, Club and Penguin biscuits. A vegetable or fruit was rarely in evidence apart from a very rare banana, tinned peaches, and the odd glass of Vimto or Ribena (Ribena was originally a wartime supplement designed to stop British children getting scurvy).

Neither of my grandmothers were good cooks. Boiled potatoes (the cheap waxy kind with eyes) and a canned suet pie were their staples. One of my grandmothers simply gave up cooking at all in her sixties, and lived for thirty years after that just grazing on Mr Kipling cakes and sweet tea.

Processed foods made out of industrial food waste are much older than most people think. Why do you think Margaret Thatcher was busy using her chemistry degree working on soft serve ice cream? Cheap meat paste was made from connective tissue meat slurry long before Turkey Twizzlers were invented. Spam and other canned meat products were chock full of processed animal fats. Margarine and lard were staples for baking and for just about everything else.

Cooking decent food from scratch was something that was much more an interest of my parents’ boomer era. If you were middle class or lived in the country between the forties and the nineties then maybe you ate a decent diet. Most postwar working class people really didn’t — same problems as today, in which it was far cheaper to get spongy white bread, tinned food and eat chips, fried egg and marg, than to be eating fresh seasonal produce (plus, before the mid to late 80s/early 90s, air freighted or hydroponic-grown food was quite rare: it wasn’t yet the era of strawberries and grapes all year round).

If you’re wondering why they were less fat than today, it was largely portion size. And in postwar Britain everyone smoked like chimneys. Remember the days when leftovers were the norm? In my childhood it was rare to eat something you liked every day — you ate what was there or what needed using up, not what you fancied.

Today, we not only can access a huge variety of foods, but expect to eat things we feel like eating at every meal, as well as multiple helpings of it. It’s nicer, we don’t smoke so much, we have abundant food, we eat too much as a result. I for one certainly wouldn’t eat as much as I do, if what was on offer was the diced tinned swede, lumpy boiled spuds and grey flat hamburgers with thick Bisto that my maternal grandmother used to produce; or the gristly meat paste sandwiches on cheap Kwik Save bread that my paternal grandmother used to dish up. (Even with a Blue Riband biscuit or a Mr Kipling fruit pie with Elmlea for afters.)

Mamamia35 · 10/07/2025 21:36

Lots of the above. Porridge with bran flakes sprinkled on top for breakfast. Instant coffee with Coffee Mate and sugar. She made mince “cake” - mince with puff pastry. I’ve no idea why it was a cake not a pie. She was an excellent baker and made angel cakes and scones. When we went on day trips she’d make sandwiches with a tin of corned beef chopped together with a half pack of butter. They were delicious! For a bedtime snack we’d make toast on sticks in front of the coal fire.
Lived to be almost 100. Hardly drank alcohol. No snacking (sometimes a mint imperial or Wethers original). She was kind and lovely to be around.

BIossomtoes · 10/07/2025 21:36

PizzaSophiaLoren · 10/07/2025 20:44

My grandparents ate home cooked, traditional food. Fresh veg (only apples, oranges, berries and bananas for fruit). All pastry etc was made from scratch.
No dementia or cancer. They lived long and active lives.

My granny ate like that too. She had dementia and it was endemic in her family.

Notashamed13 · 10/07/2025 21:37

Oh....mutton hotpot....always remember chewing on that thing that looked like a filter tip (I think it's a tendon lol lol)

Pieceofpurplesky · 10/07/2025 21:37

Anything they grew, slaughtered or caught (probably illegally). She raised 12 kids the eldest born in 1929. My mum is the youngest at 84 (only 2 left now). She tells me her mum could make a meal for 14 out of nothing - lots of rationing all supplemented by scrumping and poaching 🤣They had chickens and grew all the veg.

Zanatdy · 10/07/2025 21:37

Tripe, tongue, a lot of fat! And piccalilli

Mosaic123 · 10/07/2025 21:37

Smetana - it's a type of sour cream. She was born in Bessarabia in the early years of the last century.

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 10/07/2025 21:38

My gran made the most wonderful blackcurrant tart from blackcurrants grown in her garden. Blimey, the fruit was sharp, but her pastry was thin and perfect. We would mix ice cream (bought in a small block from the corner shop - no freezer) with the fruit to sweeten it up.

Lots of homemade cakes, particularly bake stones (Welsh cakes). Cakes were smaller than the ones often made today. We would toast bread for tea on the fire, or have cheese on a plate - literally sliced cheese melted on a plate. With a home-grown, extra strong pickled onion. Delicious.

Needmorelego · 10/07/2025 21:38

When my Granny made pancakes (pancake day only - don't remember any other time that she'd eat a pancake) she always put a handful of currants or raisins in the batter.
Question....is this a Welsh thing? Granny was Welsh. I have only ever met one other person who did the same thing. He was also Welsh 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

SabrinaThwaite · 10/07/2025 21:38

@Theunamedcat

Dripping on toast was bloody lovely. Especially if the toast was done on a proper fire. Leftover Christmas turkey sandwiches with dripping instead of butter is the best.

SemperIdem · 10/07/2025 21:39

ilovepixie · 10/07/2025 21:34

The first time we took my Granny to McDonald’s she asked for a knife and fork!

I remember my paternal grandparents insisting that if we had to eat fast food it could only be Wimpy, because there were knives and forks!

thesugarbumfairy · 10/07/2025 21:39

I lived with mine when I was little (late 70s) . She was born in 1910. I struggle to remember, but the things that stick out are that we had mince and carrots and mash - because i used to mush it up into a 'pie', potato fritters (so deep fried potatoes but cut into slices not chips) but I don't know what with. Chicken in a tin (the stuff in white sauce) with rice. She liked the milk with the cream at the top of the bottle (which made me retch) and Yorkshire puds for pudding with golden syrup.

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