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Neighbour has put political banner on his fence

256 replies

IonaJ · 08/07/2025 20:52

Our neighbour’s house has a fence which faces a fairly busy road. He has taken it upon himself to tie a political banner (think ‘vote X’) to that fence.

Before anyone says it, yes I know it’s his property. But said party are divisive and I worry there may be some unwarranted attention as a result.

Do you think we would be unreasonable to politely suggest it is taken down, or to compromise, only put there during election periods?

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Tortielady · 08/07/2025 22:43

A Reform banner or flag on a neighbour's property wouldn't bother me. If it wasn't election season, I might wonder if they'd heard news the rest of us weren't privy to, but it wouldn't occur to me to get into a barney with them about it. The only concern I'd have is the attention it might attract from various meat-heads and the increasing number of the permanently enraged (see also Palestinian flags, Israeli flags, rainbow flags etc.) But I'm on the soft left myself and I don't expect to agree with everyone I meet, whether they live in my street or not. That said, it's pretty moot as I rarely have a conversation with my neighbours anyway.

CheekyFish · 08/07/2025 22:45

DiscoBob · 08/07/2025 22:40

I don't see how it would affect you either way? If someone had an issue with it what might they do? Start yelling outside his windows at 5am?

Unlikely. If you tell him to take it down he won't, and will think you're an interfering busy body who obviously doesn't agree with his views. So I'd say it's be more problem for you if you say anything.

Out of interest, is it Reform?

OP is a little worried about the flag attracting people from the nearby social housing, they like to stand near it and be racist on warm evenings.

CurlewCelia · 08/07/2025 22:48

IonaJ · 08/07/2025 22:23

It’s hardly a controversial statement!

It was observed on the local Facebook page at the time of the last election that Reform were canvassing the new build social housing estate.

Edited

If it’s on the local Facebook group it’s definitely true.

Scout2016 · 08/07/2025 22:48

Putting something in quotation marks doesn't make it any less awful OP.

I'd be willing to bet you have had alcoholics and porn and gambling addicts in your nice area, domestic abusers, hild abusers, middle class parents doing coke, men who pay for sex, criminals doing nice civilised crimes like fraud...they just have the means to hide their issues.

Hopelesscase32 · 08/07/2025 22:49

IonaJ · 08/07/2025 21:38

Eh? I don’t look down at them at all. There’s a lady I speak to on the school run every morning who I get along with really well and she lives in social housing. So I’m more than happy to mix with them.

Look at the way you've worded this.....'mix with them' and you say you dont look down on people in social housing.

Redrosesposies · 08/07/2025 22:49

Thelostjewels · 08/07/2025 21:04

I was going to say is it a labour banner, they are extremely divisive these days aren't they and that banner could attract many angry people

Well it would round here🤣🤣🤣
Tatton..... in case you were wondering.
The only time in living memory that it's not been conservative was when Neil Hamilton lost his seat for accepting a few hundred quid in a brown envelope.
Is it unreasonable to long for the days when that's as bad as politicians got.

Emonade · 08/07/2025 22:50

TheNuthatch · 08/07/2025 21:06

You don't need to feel sorry for residents who want to sell their homes. Reform are the most popular party in England and Wales rn, so the banner may help to boost interest.

Fucking hell

SaulHudsonDavidJones · 08/07/2025 22:51

FOJN · 08/07/2025 20:56

"Unwarranted attention"? What do you mean and who from?

Unless he's supporting something illegal then I think you should mind your own business.

That’s a bit harsh. Op is justified in not wanting negative attention and possible retribution so close to her home!

nomas · 08/07/2025 22:51

YANBU, OP. We have a couple of towns near us where the locals do that and it just makes others avoid those towns.

There aren’t any Labour or Con banners anywhere either.

ManchesterLu · 08/07/2025 22:51

As long as it's clear whose property the banner is on, why would you even think it would have anything to do with you?

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 08/07/2025 22:52

YANBU

sesquipedalian · 08/07/2025 22:54

OP, people have always put up political banners and slogans. It’s no reflection on you - and it’s normally pretty safe. Political parties take out insurance in case of damage, because it almost never happens. It’s a poor show if our freedom of speech is curtailed to the point that we don’t dare to show our political allegiances in public for fear of the consequences.

Oddsocksanduglyshoes · 08/07/2025 22:54

Get over yourself and mind your own business.

Cornishclio · 08/07/2025 22:54

bellamorgan · 08/07/2025 22:08

There’s a few up locally not just reform. People are clearly passionate about their political beliefs publicly.

I think it is the equivalent of wearing a MAGA hat in the USA. It speaks of who you are rather than just supporting a political party so I would dispute his politics are just a small part of his personality as a PP says. He wants to be identified as a Reform voter with all the connotations which go along with that.

On that note I would like to be told one good policy of Farages which is not stop the boats or get rid of immigration which is all friends of mine could tell me the other day. When I pointed out that Farage and his cronies voted against the employment rights bill, deny climate change and seem to want to privatise the NHS through the back door they knew nothing about that.

CurlewCelia · 08/07/2025 22:55

Emonade · 08/07/2025 22:50

Fucking hell

Can you imagine?
Estate agents could start putting this on the spiel for the house: “Spacious garden with shed, private parking, newly-installed Worcester Bosch boiler. This street is very popular with Reform voters. Early viewing is advised.”

AiryFairyLights · 08/07/2025 22:55

IonaJ · 08/07/2025 21:00

Yes it’s a Reform banner. Each to their own in terms of politics, but being the first thing you see when turning in to our street is not great. I feel sorry for any residents who are thinking about selling their house soon.

Oh give over!!!! This has to be the most ridiculous thing I've read on Mumsnet in a long time!!!

PandoraSocks · 08/07/2025 22:56

Given that Reform keep losing MPs, the banner will probably out live the party.

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PandoraSocks · 08/07/2025 22:56

Given that Reform keep losing MPs, the banner will probably out live the party.

TheNuthatch · 08/07/2025 22:56

Emonade · 08/07/2025 22:50

Fucking hell

Tis true I'm afraid

Scout2016 · 08/07/2025 22:57

Zanzara · 08/07/2025 22:40

This cannot be a serious thread. I call goady wind-up.

I really hope you're right. Every post just makes it worse.

PandoraSocks · 08/07/2025 22:57

So sorry for quadruple posts, not sure what happened!

IdaGlossop · 08/07/2025 22:57

PandoraSocks · 08/07/2025 22:56

Given that Reform keep losing MPs, the banner will probably out live the party.

Your post is so good I read it four times 🤩

OneFunBrickNewt · 08/07/2025 22:58

IonaJ · 08/07/2025 21:00

Yes it’s a Reform banner. Each to their own in terms of politics, but being the first thing you see when turning in to our street is not great. I feel sorry for any residents who are thinking about selling their house soon.

Unfortunately it may attract the racists to your street, as well as putting off decent people. But his property, so he can put it up. Although neigbour is clearly thick or racist, probably both.