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I'm all for respecting cultural differences, but...

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EscargotChic · 08/07/2025 18:40

I love the internet as a source of recipes, but when they give ingredients US-style it drives me nuts. I think the one currently in the oven will be fine with approximate amounts which is good because it called for a pint of cherry tomatoes and a quarter of a cup chopped onion.
Not wanting to disrespect lovely US Mumsnetters, but seriously, kitchen scales are an amazing invention!

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MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:13

BruFord · 08/07/2025 19:10

@TourangaLeila Yep, all 300 million-plus of us are thick as planks, even the Nobel Prize winner who lives up the road from me.😂

I use cups or my scales depending on the receipe. I can even switch between ounces and grams…I must be one of the slightly less dim ones.

"All their recipes are terrible, but also why don't they make them easier for me to use" 😂

EscargotChic · 08/07/2025 19:13

I’ve now eaten said meal, it was very nice, and apologies for posting what was meant to be a lighthearted thread (I was amused by tipping cherry tomatoes into a pint glass to try and guess the approximate quantity).
I think YouTube is better for US / Brit banter about cultural differences without bringing out the ‘it’s because you’re all really thick’ contingent.

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StarlightRobot · 08/07/2025 19:14

We always used cups to measure in Australia and when I moved to the UK I bought a set of measuring cups without thinking about it. BUT- the standard cup sizes between the US vs Australia are actually slightly different. It can be confusing because you really do need to check the origin of the recipe to know of the measurements are the same or different due to country

StarlightRobot · 08/07/2025 19:15

I think Canadian cup sizes are also different. My lovely Canadian MIL has a Canadian cook book and has warned me about the difference

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:16

StarlightRobot · 08/07/2025 19:14

We always used cups to measure in Australia and when I moved to the UK I bought a set of measuring cups without thinking about it. BUT- the standard cup sizes between the US vs Australia are actually slightly different. It can be confusing because you really do need to check the origin of the recipe to know of the measurements are the same or different due to country

I don't think I've ever used an Australian recipe! But I imagine as it's all based on proportions that it wouldn't make a massive difference which cups you use?

FOJN · 08/07/2025 19:16

There are plenty of conversion tools online but who is getting worked up about exact amounts of onion or tomatoes? Onions and tomatoes will all be different sizes or weights so cups is probably a better way to measure for consistency unless you prefer the hassle of weighing every single ingredient in situations where a bit of deviation won't make much difference. It's nice to have exact weights for baking and a guide for herbs and spices but apart from that surely cooking is about personal preference.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 08/07/2025 19:17

@EscargotChic with you OP! how do you measure a cup of butter? do you melt the butter till you have the cup measure full? what is a stick of butter? is it half inch wide or an inch??? do people not use kitchen scales in USA or even Oz??

CurlewKate · 08/07/2025 19:17

SummerSneezing · 08/07/2025 18:44

I bought cups in the end. I find it really odd that when I look for recipes, American ones always come up first. I wonder why that is. And I have no idea what a stick of butter is!

4oz. So just over 100g. It’s the quantity butter is sold in in the States.

anyzen · 08/07/2025 19:17

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:16

I don't think I've ever used an Australian recipe! But I imagine as it's all based on proportions that it wouldn't make a massive difference which cups you use?

That's the way I think about cup measurements from wherever also!

XenoBitch · 08/07/2025 19:18

Years ago, I made some biscuits and posted the recipe in a group. Got so many people ask me to convert it to cups.

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 08/07/2025 19:18

ShesTheAlbatross · 08/07/2025 18:45

Cups are fine for things like flour I think. But a quarter of a cup of chopped onion?? Just tell me how many bloody onions to cut up.

I think cups or weight is more sensible based on the various sizes onions come in!

CurlewKate · 08/07/2025 19:18

Amazed that so many people are prepared to admit on a public forum that they are so baffled by something so simple….

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:20

If I can't find a cup I usually grab a small mug and eye ball 1 cup/ 1/2 cup etc. I've literally never had it go wrong, I think because people are used to scales they really are reading too much into how precise you need to be. I use scales when I'm batch baking/cooking as it's easier for scaling up or down. Or obviously if I am using British British/European recipes but neither is better.

StarlightRobot · 08/07/2025 19:20

@MyRoseHam

I have always liked the Australian Women’s Weekly recipes for pretty salads and weirdly I love their Christmas sections as they have summery recipes for an Aussie Christmas that are transferable to a lot of situations. Donna Hay is also one to look out for!

I think it can make a difference when baking where there is a mix of dry ingredients using a cup measure, plus tbs and tsp measurements, and mls for wet ingredients. I’ve seen recipes that use all of these.

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 19:20

A stick of butter is 1/4 pound or 4 oz or about 113 gm. A pound is 453 gm. It's not hard. If you want to be good at baking you have to be able to do conversions anyway.

ThejoyofNC · 08/07/2025 19:21

I only really have issues when they want you to measure something like butter in cups. Not a chance I'm cramming butter into a measuring cup and then trying to scrape it all out again.

Half a cup of chopped onions I'd just guess. Who can be bothered using extra utensils.

cloudyblueglass · 08/07/2025 19:22

You can look up the equivalent weights. Some recipe websites csn do automatic conversions too

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 19:23

A cup of butter is 8 oz or 2 sticks or 226gms

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:24

StarlightRobot · 08/07/2025 19:20

@MyRoseHam

I have always liked the Australian Women’s Weekly recipes for pretty salads and weirdly I love their Christmas sections as they have summery recipes for an Aussie Christmas that are transferable to a lot of situations. Donna Hay is also one to look out for!

I think it can make a difference when baking where there is a mix of dry ingredients using a cup measure, plus tbs and tsp measurements, and mls for wet ingredients. I’ve seen recipes that use all of these.

Oh I love an old women's magazine for recipes. It's what I miss most about losing printed media. I'll keep an eye out online for recipes!

calishire · 08/07/2025 19:26

SummerSneezing · 08/07/2025 18:44

I bought cups in the end. I find it really odd that when I look for recipes, American ones always come up first. I wonder why that is. And I have no idea what a stick of butter is!

A stick of butter is half of one you’d get here so 125g rather then 250g. Or approximately that anyway.

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:26

ThejoyofNC · 08/07/2025 19:21

I only really have issues when they want you to measure something like butter in cups. Not a chance I'm cramming butter into a measuring cup and then trying to scrape it all out again.

Half a cup of chopped onions I'd just guess. Who can be bothered using extra utensils.

They're pre marked in the states on the paper the butter comes in. So you can cut a piece off that equals 1/4 cup.

People are assuming that something is impractical because it doesn't work for them. But if your butter came pre marked you'd find it very easy and not have to clean your scale out after so the sugar didn't stick to it!

I'm all for respecting cultural differences, but...
MsNevermore · 08/07/2025 19:28

I live in the US and I have to agree 🫣🫣

Cups drives me nuts because it’s not the same measurement depending on the ingredient, and whether it’s tightly packed into the cup or loosely packed……and some things are just a pain in the arse to measure out in cups 🤷🏻‍♀️😂
”1 cup of butter, tightly packed” 🤨🤨🤨 I think not. Just tell me how many ounces and I have the perfectly pre-measured sticks of butter in the fridge!!!

That’s one thing I am going to miss when we come back to the U.K. - I bake a lot, and having the butter individually wrapped in 4oz sticks is a total game changer! The U.K. definitely needs to catch on to that

MyRoseHam · 08/07/2025 19:29

If you open up the pic you'll see the markings in spoons/cups and then the whole thing will have a weight on the box too

LegoLandslide · 08/07/2025 19:30

I don't mind using cups for most recipes but I get mystified occasionally. Two cups of French beans? The beans are longer than my cups are wide.

Australian tablespoons (20ml iirc) are a different size to UK tablespoons (15ml) for the PP musing on Oz measurements. So you are OK within a cup or tablespoon recipe but mixing them could be risky.

I miss cooking in lbs and ozs, I'm sad that newer Cookbooks are only in grams now.

Namitynamename · 08/07/2025 19:32

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 18:50

I'm American. I easily go back and forth from recipes in cups and recipes in grams and ounces. It's not in the least difficult, so it's not really about accepting "cultural differences."

I took cultural differences was meant to be a bit tongue in cheek.
I thought for an embarrassing long length of time that Zucchini was some exotic veg we don't have here. Had to make do with courgette.😥