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I'm all for respecting cultural differences, but...

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EscargotChic · 08/07/2025 18:40

I love the internet as a source of recipes, but when they give ingredients US-style it drives me nuts. I think the one currently in the oven will be fine with approximate amounts which is good because it called for a pint of cherry tomatoes and a quarter of a cup chopped onion.
Not wanting to disrespect lovely US Mumsnetters, but seriously, kitchen scales are an amazing invention!

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ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor · 08/07/2025 22:31

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 22:28

@Alwayswonderedwhy The equivalents of a stick of butter in American recipes means 8 tablespoons or 4 oz or 1/4 pound or 113 gm or 1/2 cup.

But how, I mean HOW in God's name do you measure butter in a tablespoon? Is it supposed to be level? In which case it needs to be really really soft? Or all piled up on the top? And if piled. up, how high?

It's a ridiculous system.

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 22:33

@ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor On our sticks of butter, the tablespoons are measured out on the wrapper. Or, you can just divide it into 8ths. Or weigh it. A tablespoon of butter weighs about 14 grams.

ZenNudist · 08/07/2025 22:36

I have cups and I convert things like sticks of butter to grams. I just google. It's easy. However I'm not a fan of US recipes. Far too likely to include tonnes of oil, or random upf pre made ingredients. Like a recipe genuinely telling you to use shop bought pancake mix or a tin of soup in a casserole.

WithIcePlease · 08/07/2025 22:36

@DdraigGoch indeed. But for me, it's just a rough idea and with savoury dishes, I don't think it's that crucial. Or I just put in as many onions as I would if using a certain amount of mince for example

QuaintPanda · 08/07/2025 22:38

I have scales in grams and ounces, a set of measuring cups, and a German measuring jug. I use the 50g markings on the butter packet to measure out butter.

DS‘ first recipe was a French children’s classic, a yoghurt cake that used the two pots the yoghurt had come in to measure out the other ingredients. He must have been 2.

I‘ve also been known to use a wine glass to measure out liquids - one has a handy 250ml mark on it.

I like the science behind cooking and baking though. Measuring cups are fun to understand the ratios of different ingredients. Scales make it easier to - well - scale a recipe. It’s interesting to see where the flour and sugar markings are in relation to each other on the measuring jug - and to the liquid markings. And I put onion/garlic/veg into my meals by intuition.

BrassyLocks · 08/07/2025 22:48

Dunno if it's been mentioned already but my cups have the weight written on them. So if a recipe calls for half a cup of butter, I look at my half cup which says 118ml, so then I weigh out 118g of butter. Seems to work OK.

Sometimeswinning · 08/07/2025 22:52

BlueMum16 · 08/07/2025 18:43

Have to agree OP. Who measures by cups FFS!

I love cups. I actually seek out recipes with cup instead of grams.

Sharptonguedwoman · 08/07/2025 22:54

Littletreefrog · 08/07/2025 18:44

Presumably the "they" that give the American measurements in a recipe are American. You can convert them to metric measurements. Do you expect everything on the Internet to be written the same way regardless of the origin? How do you feel about French websites written in French for example?

Well I think a French recipe will use grammes.

Goatinthegarden · 08/07/2025 23:03

I had a Hummingbird Bakery cookbook years ago and as it was all in US measurements and we didn’t really have smartphones for quick conversions, I bought some cups. I found it harder to fill cups than pour into a bowl sat on scales so that kind of put me off. It baffles me too because if you fill a cup with flour to the top, it might weigh 110g, but you can pack it down and get another 40g in there - so which is it? I found US baking recipes often use ingredients I don’t fancy, like cups of vegetable oil or corn syrup. Not that UK recipes are any healthier, but I guess I just prefer recipes in grams that use butters and sugars.

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 23:23

I will never understand why people select recipes with ingredients they don't like. I typically find recipes that use butter or sugar rather than oil or corn syrup or spread or margarine because I prefer them

TourdeFrance2025 · 08/07/2025 23:44

Queenofshadows · 08/07/2025 20:32

He's actually not tight at all!! In fact, this is the first time I've ever thought about this particular idiosyncracy and I'm going to go and ask him why we don't also turn them round in the remote controls 😂😂

Very very odd then! Please report back!!

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 09/07/2025 00:17

I’m not sure that counts as a cultural difference. Culture is things like Spanish people eating more at lunchtime or not having their evening meal til late. Or perhaps differences in how people hold their cutlery.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 09/07/2025 00:20

DdraigGoch · 08/07/2025 21:53

So I could follow a sponge cake recipe using a Sports Direct cup and it will turn out fine?

As long as everything is in proportion, including the number of eggs, then yes. You’d get a pretty large cake though!

DdraigGoch · 09/07/2025 00:36

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 09/07/2025 00:20

As long as everything is in proportion, including the number of eggs, then yes. You’d get a pretty large cake though!

The recipe says x cups of flour and y eggs. If I can use 'any cup' x times but the recipe still says "y eggs" then the proportions are going to be wrong. Whereas proper weights and measures are universally defined. Or is there an egg to cup conversion chart, so that you know whether you should be using quail or ostrich eggs to match your particular set of cups.

And then when you come to put it in the tin, you'll have used the size of tin the recipe specified for the proportions of the recipe. If you have doubled the recipe then you must double the tin. But if (as far as you are concerned) you are still just putting in x cups of flour etc. - they just happen to be Sports Direct cups - the mixture is going to be much deeper in the tin which means that it won't bake properly.

LemondrizzleShark · 09/07/2025 00:44

Cups work surprisingly well for recipes like pancakes which only need one cupful of each ingredient - 1 cup of flour, 1.5 cups milk, an egg and a dash of oil. Far quicker than weighing, and the exact proportions don’t really matter (you just add more or less milk to the batter to get the thickness you want).

Obviously doesn’t work for precise baking etc, or something with more than 2-3 ingredients.

LemondrizzleShark · 09/07/2025 00:52

Forgot to say, my very British gran and home economics teacher both used to make cakes by eye - a cup is really just an extension of that (because it relies on you knowing what the cake batter is “meant” to look like).

Devianinc · 09/07/2025 01:19

SouthernNights59 · 08/07/2025 21:58

Lots of people actually. I far prefer things measured by cups and spoons rather than by weight. I've had measuring cups for as long as I can remember - they are not just used in the US.

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I agree that measuring by cup isn’t ideal but I always sift my flour which makes a huge difference. I always think cups and tablespoons are easier to me. Not saying anyone else. It hasn’t been converted in the us yet and I don’t want the gaff of weighing stuff.

Devianinc · 09/07/2025 01:23

DdraigGoch · 08/07/2025 22:31

Whole or chopped? The effective volume is going to be a lot different because whole onions will have large gaps between them

When cooking meals onions and garlic are really just going by your preferences. We don’t really measure vegetables. It’s a, well that looks good or I want more garlic or less onion. It’s a matter of taste

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 09/07/2025 06:32

@EscargotChic but why dont they just use weighing scales?????

ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor · 09/07/2025 09:46

SpuytenDuyvil · 08/07/2025 22:33

@ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor On our sticks of butter, the tablespoons are measured out on the wrapper. Or, you can just divide it into 8ths. Or weigh it. A tablespoon of butter weighs about 14 grams.

Right, so why say tablespoon? Why not just say the weight and be done with it? It's impossible to measure certain things by the spoonful and butter is one of them. If a tbs is supposed to correlate to an exact weight for butter (but a different weight for something else) then the recipe should just say the weight!

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 09/07/2025 10:02

DdraigGoch · 09/07/2025 00:36

The recipe says x cups of flour and y eggs. If I can use 'any cup' x times but the recipe still says "y eggs" then the proportions are going to be wrong. Whereas proper weights and measures are universally defined. Or is there an egg to cup conversion chart, so that you know whether you should be using quail or ostrich eggs to match your particular set of cups.

And then when you come to put it in the tin, you'll have used the size of tin the recipe specified for the proportions of the recipe. If you have doubled the recipe then you must double the tin. But if (as far as you are concerned) you are still just putting in x cups of flour etc. - they just happen to be Sports Direct cups - the mixture is going to be much deeper in the tin which means that it won't bake properly.

Ah no - you’d obviously have to increase the size of everything in proportion - eggs, sugar, butter, and yes, the size of the baking tin - but if you did this then you could use the sports direct mugs IYSWIM. You’d just get a massive cake!

Magenta82 · 09/07/2025 10:08

BrassyLocks · 08/07/2025 22:48

Dunno if it's been mentioned already but my cups have the weight written on them. So if a recipe calls for half a cup of butter, I look at my half cup which says 118ml, so then I weigh out 118g of butter. Seems to work OK.

You have been lucky as that only holds true for water.

1ml of water weighs 1 gram but different ingredients have different densities.

100ml of sugar weighs 60g,
100ml of flour weighs 85g,
100ml of butter weighs 96g,
100ml of oil weighs 89g.

DdraigGoch · 09/07/2025 10:28

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 09/07/2025 10:02

Ah no - you’d obviously have to increase the size of everything in proportion - eggs, sugar, butter, and yes, the size of the baking tin - but if you did this then you could use the sports direct mugs IYSWIM. You’d just get a massive cake!

So you'd have to know that a Sports Direct mug is worth roughly 2.4 US cups and you'd have to be sure that the recipe wasn't Australian or whatever.

Much easier to have properly defined measures. You can still scale them, but you're working from a proper standard to begin with.

SpuytenDuyvil · 09/07/2025 17:47

@ModerateOrGoodOccasionallyPoor I am not certain why we do it the way we do, but since we have been pretty successful at it, it clearly works out for us. Bakeries and commercial producers use weights because it is faster and more accurate. I am a pretty good cook and home baker and, personally, I prefer working with weights. But, it is not hard to go back and forth, and I do it all the time. More and more US recipes are including weights, alongside the volume measures.

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