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To refuse to buy bleach?

420 replies

Eastie77Returns · 08/07/2025 11:41

First world problem alert.

Our cleaner has asked demanded that I add Domestos bleach to my cleaning products. There's been a bit of an ongoing issue for a while now as I have trialed various eco-friendly cleaning products over the last few months and she generally doesn't like them. I have changed a couple of times in the hope she will get on better with a new range but she has a preference for products that contain high levels of chemicals. I understand they are the go-too products that she trusts but I just don't want to use them.

At the moment she is begrudgingly using the Ecover products I most recently bought. Now she is insisting she needs bleach to clean properly because Ecover doesn't really cut it. I said no as I just can't have it in the house. The smell is one thing but it's so toxic and dangerous (I'm absolutely haunted by an acquaintance whose young child inhaled some). She is a really good cleaner and in high demand. I'm aware she's already given notice to two households on our street because they did not fall in line with her requests (not cleaning product related, something else).

Has anyone used any of the 'natural' bleach products currently out there and were they effective?

OP posts:
smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:41

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 08/07/2025 12:23

I do think I would want bleach if I was scrubbing someone else's poo.

This. I'm a cleaner and I had to use bleach in the bathroom the other day. Without going into details, nothing else would have done. My client uses eco products and they don't work. They use eco laundry products and the clothing smells. Things still smell unclean after I've used them. I bring my own products which aren't strongly smelling, as I have issues with my respiratory system, but they are non eco products. Bleach is fine if it's diluted properly and used only in areas where it's really needed.

Mil always used Ecover toilet cleaner and her toilet always stank even when I'd scrubbed it and scrubbed it.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:41

dontgetmestartedwillu · 08/07/2025 14:56

I don't like the thought of a toilet brush either but how on earth do you clean your toilet then (unless you use bleach)? I'd genuinely want to know.

Bleach doesn’t physically clean a toilet, you need to mechanically remove the debris too.

Bleach is very effective against dangerous microbes and mould, and it’s the one agent that they can’t develop a tolerance to.

Care needs to be taken when using it with other chemicals, especially vinegar, as it can release toxic substances like chlorine gas.

Viviennemary · 08/07/2025 15:42

I think bleach should be used sparingly but not banned altogether. I don't use much but I still want it occasionally.

MyDeftDuck · 08/07/2025 15:44

If you object so strongly to your cleaner demanding you buy bleach for her you could consider doing your own cleaning. I do all my cleaning, I am disabled and a grandmother and I do NOT use bleach and never have! I care more for the environment, particularly waterways, seas and oceans than to put chlorine bleach down the drain…….sheer ludicrous and so dangerous to sea life!

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:44

smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:41

This. I'm a cleaner and I had to use bleach in the bathroom the other day. Without going into details, nothing else would have done. My client uses eco products and they don't work. They use eco laundry products and the clothing smells. Things still smell unclean after I've used them. I bring my own products which aren't strongly smelling, as I have issues with my respiratory system, but they are non eco products. Bleach is fine if it's diluted properly and used only in areas where it's really needed.

Mil always used Ecover toilet cleaner and her toilet always stank even when I'd scrubbed it and scrubbed it.

I use Ecover for everything but the toilet, their toilet cleaner doesn’t work.

PersephoneSeethes · 08/07/2025 15:46

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

Bleach doesn’t affect limescale, only an acid-based descaler cleaner will.

PickAChew · 08/07/2025 15:48

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

Bleach does not remove limescale. It just bleached the stains that it holds onto.

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:49

AffIt · 08/07/2025 13:29

We don't use bleach, because we have a septic tank system and three cats.

I have a handheld steam cleaner for grouting and I've yet to find the dirt that white vinegar, bicarb and elbow grease can't remove.

Re: sinks. We have a ceramic sink in the kitchen which can get a bit stained, but I read an excellent tip on here - fill with very hot water, pop in a dishwasher tab (we use the Smol ones) and leave overnight. Squeaky clean by morning and zero effort!

Smol dishwasher tablets, like most other dishwasher tablets contain bleach.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 08/07/2025 15:50

Yanbu. We don't use bleach a d don't have any problems cleaning. Sounds like she's being lazy.

smallglassbottle · 08/07/2025 15:52

Oxy-Gen Eco Bleach | Eco-Friendly, Oxygen-Based Bleach https://share.google/jsqQfEme1nQW7tQkL

Perhaps get her some of this? It's expensive though so she'd have to use it sparingly and only in the toilet and shower tray.

eco toilet triple pack

Oxy-Gen Eco Bleach | Eco-Friendly, Oxygen-Based Bleach

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https://www.muck-munchers.co.uk/product/oxy-gen-eco-bleach-triple-pack/

EscapeToSuffolk · 08/07/2025 15:52

myplace · 08/07/2025 12:55

What hygiene risk is there from sink overflows and drains? You don’t stick your hands in them or eat off them. They don’t need to be sterile.

An occasional splash of hot water, or vinegar and bicarb, will prevent any build up and odours.

Bleach kills wildlife.

But our drinking water is so full of chlorine that I can't see how adding a bit more is going to make that much difference. For those saying that bleach is toxic, I hope you filter your water.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 08/07/2025 15:53

Morgenrot25 · 08/07/2025 15:40

Smol washing liquid capsules were ok (we got some that were in a relative's cupboards after they passed away) but I wouldn't bother ordering more, and didn't try any cleaning liquids or anything.

The cleaning liquids were pointless, I may as well have sprayed plain water on the shower screen. Thankfully I'd only bought the trial packs as it all went in the bin.

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:53

There are two types of bleach, chlorine based and oxygen based. Most Ecover and similar green products contain the latter - so they do contain bleach! Most people who think they are avoiding bleach are probably not.

PickAChew · 08/07/2025 15:54

FalseSpring · 08/07/2025 15:49

Smol dishwasher tablets, like most other dishwasher tablets contain bleach.

They contain peroxide, so not a chlorine based bleach

ArtTheClown · 08/07/2025 15:54

The toilet! Genuinely how do people take a shit / have other members of their family take a shit and then not use at least a small bit of bleach down the loo 🤢🤮 Please don’t tell me you have one of those poo particle toilet brushes that sit by the loo with human waste on them all day- particularly if you don’t use bleach on that either 🤢

You can't do that if you have septic tank. It would kill the tank and then you'd have much grosser problems than a few skid marks.
We're only a two-person household and we both just clean any skids with a bit of bog roll and a hand wash after. I also clean the toilet bowls weekly as they get a bit iron stained from the water here otherwise - it's my sponge's final job before being binned, and I use a bit of bicarb.
Spotlessly clean toilets, no bleach, and a happy septic tank.

EviesHat · 08/07/2025 15:55

Tryingtokeepgoing · 08/07/2025 12:46

Sodium hypochlorite, the active ingredient in most domestic bleaches, also disolves organic matter, so it does rather more than bleach stains!

Hypochlorous acid is even more effective at killing certain germs and bacteria!

The fact that, unlike bleach, it isn’t toxic to humans is a massive bonus. The WHO recommended it for killing Covid.

Lunde · 08/07/2025 15:55

It's perfectly possible to clean properly without bleach.

I'm not on mains sewers and can't put bleach into my septic system

Pinepeak2434 · 08/07/2025 15:59

I only use bleach to clean my toilet and my kitchen sink, although I quite like dettol which I know some people hate the smell of but I don’t. I have extremely sensitive airways and bleach goes straight to my chest.

IncessantNameChanger · 08/07/2025 16:00

I rarely use bleach. Studied river polution as my biology dilatation but the chemicals that go down the loo isnt a issue by far. Could you compromise by saying use sparingly and rarely?

Bleach is very effective in tiny amounts. It's only dangerous to inhale when mixing as it releases chlorine gas. If its the gas that worries you look for another oxygenating bleaching agent . Chlorine like any gas disapates fast so it only kills the person doing the mixing. Hopefully the cleaner doesn't want to poison herself.

EviesHat · 08/07/2025 16:01

SunflowerLife · 08/07/2025 15:44

I do think bleach is essential for the level of whiteness I want in my toilet. Without it limescale builds up and even a toilet cleaner doesn't remove it as effectively. Yabu.

Bleach isn’t removing the limescale, it just removes the colour so you can’t see the limescale. You need to use something acidic or physically scrape the limescale off the porcelain.

Bleach fools you into thinking the loo is clean. It’s disinfected, but not limescale-free.

GarlicMetre · 08/07/2025 16:11

Sansan18 · 08/07/2025 14:54

Minimal vinegar products from Lakeland are great and the starter kit is only £5.White vinegar is a much more user friendly product.
Some of my bathroom fittings have been destroyed by bleach so I'd tend to agree with you.

Hmm. I've still got 7.5 litres of white vinegar left from the 10 litres I bought in 2019. It ain't all that - plus, bleach does not harm your pipework, but vinegar does if they are plastic. (Not sure about metals and cant be bothered to find out.)

Basically, bleach releases chlorine when in contact with water. What remains is salt. Vinegar is an acid and remains intact in water, it just dissolves to a weaker acid. You should never put it in your washing machine.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 08/07/2025 16:15

I use citric acid and it kills germs.

potenial · 08/07/2025 16:16

Do you have a young child who's likely to inhale some/ be in actual danger from it's presence OP? If so, I'd let the cleaner know, and arrange for the bleach to either be removed from your home by her when she's not cleaning (So she stores it and brings it every time), or arrange a safe, lockable place which she has a key to, so it's well out of any young children's way. Also ask that rooms are aired out after it's been used, and the toilet is flushed so it's not left sitting in it.

I'm quite surprised at the amount of people who claim not to use bleach at all to be honest - I always have and thought everyone did. What are you using on your toilets if not bleach?

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