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AWanderingFool · 09/07/2025 12:58

Uricon2 · 09/07/2025 12:53

Looking up the cider farm, found an old Penguin interview, will link below if anyone hasn't seen it. This stood out from Sally/Raynor

The fall-out from losing their previous home had left deep scars. “We really just didn’t trust people,” she tells me. “It was quite a barrier to get over. "

The quite incredible nerve.

www.penguin.co.uk/discover/articles/raynor-winn-interview-salt-path-wild-silence-author

The way Sally Walker describes the cider farm in that, as if it was desolate and abandoned but that they have turned it around.

I hope that DM article with the farmer's account reappears soon.

Thistooshallpsss · 09/07/2025 12:59

They are con artists or at least she is. So trying to understand their actions by normal motivations is pointless. Con artists will mix facts and fiction with complete abandon to suit their current narrative.

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:00

AWanderingFool · 09/07/2025 10:09

When this broke Gigspinner said they'd do their Turnstone tour instead, but it seems venues are cancelling, which is a massive shame for them.

It's gutting the knock on effects the Walkers criminality is having, and I expect Sally will be moaning about how hard done by she is.

There are many still going ahead in July

www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=23909488085328756&set=a.129078553796376

DisappointedReader · 09/07/2025 13:02

Ammophila · 09/07/2025 12:21

Even more shocking, isn't it? It makes the petty thievery along the way now look like normal behaviour for them. They seem to have just carried on as they always had - new place, new names, same shit.

I think this is one of the disappointing aspects for me. I had forgiven them the small thefts described in The Salt Path. I believed they had acted out of desperation and in near destitution when not paying in a shop, asking for hot water to use their own teabags in a café and not paying for camping facilities. In TSP Raynor/Sally also describes feeling shame about this on at least one occasion.

I had some idea that once they had a steady income again they would go back and pay what they owed to all the small businesses and left a generous tip. I know that is what I would have done. Instead it all just seems like a continuation, albeit on a smaller scale, of their previous behaviour.

Again if, once they became relatively well-off with the book income, they had repaid with interest everyone else they owed from before they walked off - like the garage in Wales - then I would think more of them. I think a lot of people would think more of them and perhaps things wouldn't have blown up for them quite as much as they have now. It's also about having some decency and self-respect to be able to look yourself in the eye in the mirror every morning.

If the walking had been truly transformative, Raynor/Sally would have changed from being the person who could embezzle £64k from her employer and she would have wanted to put things right as best she could to all their creditors.

Moth/Tim too - was he unaware, was it joint enterprise, was he the driving force or was she?

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placemats · 09/07/2025 13:02

derxa · 09/07/2025 12:56

Yes our ewes are well known for their mothering abilities. There are exceptions such as the ewe who lambed directly into a water trough. 😡

One early Easter many years ago, early 90s, my exh and I were in North Wales and took a drive up to the mountains where there was snow. There we witnessed a twin lambing. So special. We notified the nearby neighbour as it was very cold.

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:06

Danceswithweasels · 09/07/2025 10:15

It's an investment banker, Billy Cole, who owns the farm, cider business and a rum distillery.

Seems like SW's set up the perfect backdrop for a future RW novel – 'How I was forced to leave an idyllic cider farm Moth and I were running because of a mean investment banker [after I swindled him out of half his revenue]'

AWanderingFool · 09/07/2025 13:10

Moth/Tim too - was he unaware, was it joint enterprise, was he the driving force or was she?

From what their nephew said, plus the comments on the DM article,it is 'they' when it comes to describing the lying and ruination of other people's lives.

That it was both of them seems very clear. Tim Walker is just as culpable as Sally Walker.

DisappointedReader · 09/07/2025 13:13

derxa · 09/07/2025 12:49

🤣. Well I could ask the secretary if she knows the parents. I’m sure she knows everything that goes on there. The farming community is very tight. My discussions with her usually about lamb registration documents. This scandal has piqued my interest in the book. I might even buy it to see what she says about farming.

Don't buy it, rehome it from a charity shop. It seems the poor buggers are going to be inundated with unwanted copies that haven't made it into the cat's litter tray or onto a garden bonfire.

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WynkenDeWorde · 09/07/2025 13:14

AWanderingFool · 09/07/2025 12:58

The way Sally Walker describes the cider farm in that, as if it was desolate and abandoned but that they have turned it around.

I hope that DM article with the farmer's account reappears soon.

Not only that but even their woodpiles have become such sites of ecological interest that academics from nearby universities have been studying them !

Uricon2 · 09/07/2025 13:17

Agreed @DisappointedReader . I think if the sole transgression, serious as it was was the embezzlement, she could even have included it in the book. Desperate, Moth's health, hoped to pay it back but it spiralled, unwise borrowing to repay it when discovered, lost house, felt dreadful, recognised the betrayal. It could have been included in TSP as a redemption arc and when published they could have sent Ros a further chunk of money with a grovelling apology.

However...I think the poor Hemmings are far from the only people who have beef with this pair and it might have lead to similar issues much sooner.

On another note, was the price of their property £435K (I think) in 2011 (Escape to the Country)? That seemed steep for then in that area. Apologies if I'm wrong.

ETA plenty of books about reformed criminals sell well. John McVicar anyone?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 13:20

nomas · 09/07/2025 12:45

Thank you! Is it just me or do that couple look like Sally and Tim?

That was my initial thought too. They do look like them so as the image is a bit blurry I had to watch it for a while before I convinced myself that it wasn't the Walkers.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 09/07/2025 13:26

I think it looks so like them that it actually IS them. Although that makes no sense

NetZeroZealot · 09/07/2025 13:28

AWanderingFool · 09/07/2025 11:08

He was just glad it had come out, I think. His wife said elsewhere (now deleted) that if he had been on other social media he'd have been posting and commenting there, too.

So, agreed, I think he probably had advice to remove it.

Or possibly he’s done a deal with a newspaper to tell his side of the story and they asked him to delete it to give them exclusivity.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 13:29

PhilippaGeorgiou · 09/07/2025 12:48

And on the plus side, thanks to Sally Walker I now know what a Lleyn sheep is (in fact I know it exists - previously I was in the "it's a sheep" group) and I am ready to astonish all my friends with facts about it's maternal instincts.

Your friends will be even more impressed when you tell them that the Llŷn peninsular is also famous for its wild goats.

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000wn8z

prh47bridge · 09/07/2025 13:32

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 13:29

Your friends will be even more impressed when you tell them that the Llŷn peninsular is also famous for its wild goats.

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000wn8z

Llŷn sheep can run at 15mph. I am not going to explain how I know this! Smile

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 13:36

PhilippaGeorgiou · 09/07/2025 12:50

This is not the place for this discussion If you want yet another thread about disability, you could start your own thread on that subject.

Are you the Thread Police? I was only responding to a PP who misleadingly claimed that few people received PIP although this is a discussion forum & thread drift does regularly occur but suitably chided I'll return to TSP.😀

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:39

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 12:25

They possibly didn't realise what would happen when they the juggernaut of publicity for the film started rolling. They had reinvented themselves in another part of the country with new names but once they appeared on the telly they would have been recognised. If they had just kept their heads down they would have got away with it. Unfortunately for them most of the film publicity has been all about the authenticity of the story which required them to appear with the actors portraying them.

It does make one also wonder what may have happened before they moved to a remote farmhouse in North Wales. As, in the context of what we've learnt of them, that too sounds very much like it could have been an escape from swindling and local dislike elsewhere.

Catwith69lives · 09/07/2025 13:43

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User14March · 09/07/2025 13:45

HonoriaBulstrode · 09/07/2025 12:40

I also hope the books and film don't inspire a lot of unfit, unprepared, ill-equipped people to set out on long distance walks over difficult terrain in the hope of a life changing experience. It might well turn out to be life changing, but not in the way they were hoping.

They didn’t have even a power bank charger for phones. V odd.

Jawdrop · 09/07/2025 13:45

Uricon2 · 09/07/2025 13:17

Agreed @DisappointedReader . I think if the sole transgression, serious as it was was the embezzlement, she could even have included it in the book. Desperate, Moth's health, hoped to pay it back but it spiralled, unwise borrowing to repay it when discovered, lost house, felt dreadful, recognised the betrayal. It could have been included in TSP as a redemption arc and when published they could have sent Ros a further chunk of money with a grovelling apology.

However...I think the poor Hemmings are far from the only people who have beef with this pair and it might have lead to similar issues much sooner.

On another note, was the price of their property £435K (I think) in 2011 (Escape to the Country)? That seemed steep for then in that area. Apologies if I'm wrong.

ETA plenty of books about reformed criminals sell well. John McVicar anyone?

Edited

I think that's probably something they will wish they had done with the wisdom of hindsight, but obviously when RW wrote TSP she had no idea it was going to be so successful, and that it would bring in so much money and fame. So I'm not surprised it's not in TSP.

Apart from anything else, it wouldn't have been bought if the narrative was 'We went on the run from our debts, after losing our house because I'd embezzled a big sum from my employer and defaulted on the loan I used to repay him and shut him up, but hey, we found nature and serenity on the SWCP, so that's fine, right?'

And by the time they knew it was a bestseller, it was too late.

However, after the huge success of TSP when money was rolling in merrily and Michael Joseph clearly gave her another book contract, probably for two further books -- that's when someone thinking more clearly would have thought about ways of trying to winkle in a sanitised version of the truth, presented in the most self-excusing light ('I made mistakes, we were desperate, I couldn't bring myself to tell the full truth in TSP') and being able to say they had obviously paid back everyone to whom they'd owed money in full, and made a whacking great donation to a homeless charity. It might have worked, to an extent.

(But that's obviously only dealing with the financial side. If Moth was never ill, or had an entirely different illness, or was in fact a crack addict or something rather than someone living with CBD, hard to see how the best retro-PR could possibly have prevented that from sounding monstrous.)

Uricon2 · 09/07/2025 13:46

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:39

It does make one also wonder what may have happened before they moved to a remote farmhouse in North Wales. As, in the context of what we've learnt of them, that too sounds very much like it could have been an escape from swindling and local dislike elsewhere.

I am getting the strongest vibes that they think debts are things other people pay. It goes with the sense of entitlement to a perfect environment that somehow they need more than other people, because they are Special.

What I can't get my head round is how they thought they could be doing publicity for the film with 2 internationally famous actors and stay under the radar.

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:47

PrettyDamnCosmic · 09/07/2025 12:37

That 1 in 4 of the population are disabled seems an absolutely staggering figure which begs the question "How do we define disability?". The government say

"To measure disability based on this definition, survey respondents are asked whether they have a physical or mental health condition or illness that has lasted or is expected to last 12 months or more, and whether the condition and/or illness reduces their ability to carry out day-to-day activities. A person who answers yes to both questions is considered disabled."

If I answer that question then I'm disabled because I am short-sighted & have worn glasses since I was eleven. I'm also disabled because I have sciatica which gives me terrible gyp & affect my mobility. I'm also disabled because I have hearing loss in my right ear. That definition of disability is far too wide & does a disservice to people who really are disabled & need help because of their disability.

Debating what is and isn't disability is NOT the topic of this thread, as someone has already mentioned to you. Please stop.

cc @DisappointedReader

Molecule · 09/07/2025 13:47

ThatFluentHedgehog · 09/07/2025 13:39

It does make one also wonder what may have happened before they moved to a remote farmhouse in North Wales. As, in the context of what we've learnt of them, that too sounds very much like it could have been an escape from swindling and local dislike elsewhere.

I think you are absolutely right, I imagine living in a remote corner of Wales didn’t suddenly turn them into cheating, thieving, dishonest people, I bet they fled there to remove themselves from a previous area where they’d been behaving in exactly the same way.

I’m sure more will be revealed.

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