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GP receptionists?

138 replies

cherrypied · 05/07/2025 19:58

They are called care navigators.

I’m so poorly and fed up but they seem to want to do everything tiny to not give me a an appointment with a GP.

Is this part of their training?

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Tagyoureit · 06/07/2025 11:02

Colango · 06/07/2025 07:40

It’s very sad that the misconception is that all GP receptionists are some kind of sadistic arseholes who just get some kind of thrill out of saying no to patients? Do you really believe that all the GP receptionists in the UK get up every day and go to work with the intention of making your life a misery? Or rather they are at work looking at a screen with 10 appts left for the whole day and all of the responsibility of trying to work out who should get them. Use some critical thinking

loads of people already responded that there are more people wanting appts than appts, and we have a GP shortage so your suggestion to have more scheduled appts won’t work? Also why is everyone always so protective about A&E but give no shits wasting GP time? Do you know how many people don’t turn up to appts every day? This is part of the issue

Edited

I think you've misread what I wrote, I wasn't slagging off GP receptionists

LiteralLunatic · 06/07/2025 12:13

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:01

Who has no access to the internet?

Like seriously... Who?

OFCOM estimates that 5% of the UK doesn’t have home internet access. That doesn’t include people who have limited phone data packages who may not be able to afford extra data if they run out so only have partial access. If you are sick, you can’t just pop to the library to use the internet to get a GP appointment 🙄

OFCOM digital disadvantage

Add to that all those who struggle to navigate the internet successfully because of disabilities, learning difficulties or illiteracy, or age. 1 in 3 over 65s lack the skills required to use the internet successfully.

Age UK survey

Now consider which groups are more likely to have health issues. How about the elderly, disabled and those living in poverty?

As for GP receptionists, their job is a non clinical role, they shouldn’t be taking on clinical tasks like triage. They aren’t qualified. Some surgeries have triage software, they may have sent their receptionists on a short training course or given them in house training but the reality is patients aren’t great at giving the relevant information (especially if they aren’t comfortable discussing it with a non medical professional) and receptionists lack the knowledge and experience to know what questions to ask. It is not fair on the patients or the receptionists or entirely safe to give them that responsibility, certainly not without the support of triage software.

https://www.ageuk.org.uk/latest-press/articles/2024/more-than-1-in-3-over-65s-4.7-million-lack-the-basic-skills-to-use-the-internet-successfully/

WHYherewhyNow · 06/07/2025 12:16

The GP receptionists at my surgery are lovely. They have changed the team, the prescription line is also amazing, and really efficient. I can't imagine it is easy for them, given the abuse they'll tolerate on a daily basis from disgruntled patients.
I'm please they got rid of one of the awkward ones, as she reduced me to tears once, and would sit on prescription requests for weeks. Since she is no longer there, it's been great.

Do they have telephone appointments, and an econsult system at your gp surgery?

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:23

curtaintwitcher78 · 06/07/2025 10:31

My GP requests a regular review of my contraception before reissuing my repeat prescription. Normally I ring up, they book a telephone consultation and we're all good. This time the receptionist says "we no longer book appointments. You have to call back at 8am tomorrow".
I explained it's not urgent or an ailment, it's basically admin, and that
a) I don't want to be desperately competing with all the ill people at 8am only to find I can't get through and I have to try again tomorrow and
b) I can't take time off work on the strength of "there's nothing wrong with me, but I won't be in today as I have to sit on hold at 8am in the hope I get an appointment later today for a very routine admin call. If I can't get through before the slots are filled up, I will repeat this tomorrow and the day after until I finally get my 10 min call with the doctor." What employer is cool with that?
I asked the receptionist if she could see that this is not an ailment, that the GP has requested it and maybe in this case the GP could just quickly call me to advise a better way to arrange this. I was very nice and calm because I know she is the difference between me being seen and not. She just got angry and said "THIS IS THE WAY WE DO IT NOW. CALL BACK TOMORROW AT 8AM".
I appreciate the difficulty of the role but some people's nastiness comes out as soon as anything is questioned. It's ludicrous.
I called back and asked could one of the nurses please do it instead, because you can book with them in advance. She wasn't sure, so they clearly haven't trained her properly, because it turned out the nurse can do this now and has taken over from the GP. What a mess.

It’s this kind of shit that is driving me to the brink!

plus also no information from surgery regarding any of this.

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cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:25

I called at 8.30am and would have to wait until 7pm for the surgery to close.

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cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:26

LovedFedAndNoonesDead · 06/07/2025 10:31

In this situation I would wait till the surgery has closed and go to 111 - explain to them what the text from the surgery advised but that, when you tried to book any urgent appointment they told you a 2 weeks later follow up is acceptable.

111 will then send a message to your surgery telling them to book you in on the next available day for a GP - this is what happened with me when one of my twins was unwell and the other developed similar symptoms - illness not covered by Pharmacy First protocols so couldn’t go there, GP receptionist said not a GP matter and to apply ‘self-care’ treatments! However, 111 disagreed and said needed seeing appropriately and, come Monday morning, surgery called to say they’d received the 111 referral and needed to see child same day!! Was an in life riots condition until 48 hours after starting antibiotics which was why I wanted him seen on the Friday so he could start meds and wouldn’t miss school!! Ended up being off for 5 days waiting for swabs before surgery would prescribe the same meds as his twin was on!!

This is insane that 111 can override appointments at the surgery!

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LlynTegid · 06/07/2025 16:29

OP, if you voted Tory at any time in the last 20 years or did not vote, you have contributed to the problem.

I think it is a vicious cycle that is not easy to break. People calling when they are ill are probably on the whole even more rude than they are normally say to shop workers, bad receptionists exist, the system for the mass phoning at 8am is awful, and there are many people whose ill health is self inflicted.

curtaintwitcher78 · 06/07/2025 16:35

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:23

It’s this kind of shit that is driving me to the brink!

plus also no information from surgery regarding any of this.

Yup, no information to us and clearly no information to the admin staff either!

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:43

The online system at my surgery is admin - not medically trained to triage- and all urgent health queries go to the urgent care team and they decide. This can only be done at 8am or online.

The BM said they are changing it to system connect later in the year which is an online triage system.

I just feel very poorly and like I’m a rude, nuisance (I am not) rather than a patient who needs to care. I’m also quite shocked at how some of the nurse practitioners have spoken to me this year.

I’m a full time working person it’s a face to face role that I cannot leave or call at 8am. Well I can call at 8am just can’t still be on the phone at 8.45.

By the time I get an appointment I’m now feeling pretty anxious about it!

Thankfully I am not seriously ill. But I am unwell and need help.

My next challenge is a sick note!

I saw the GP on Friday who agreed for me to self cert off work and come back in a week for more assessment and a sick note if I need it.

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Chester23 · 06/07/2025 16:56

I've also not had bad experience with our GP receptionist. Even if ive rang for triage and they've asked if its urgent, I have told them I work and this is the only time I can come, not that its necessarily urgent. They have then added me to the list.

RosesAndHellebores · 06/07/2025 16:57

Hmm
I changed GP practices about two years ago.

The receptionists at the original practice were obstructive and about half of them were extremely rude and dismissive. The practice made a number of errors: not submitting a referral, prescriptions that were not done, done in error or sent to the wrong place. On one occasion I even received the paperwork relating to another patient's diagnosis and containing all their personal details. The cherry on the cake was when they sent me a fit note signing me off work for two weeks for "surgical recovery". I hadn't had surgery! Someone else had the same dob as me and the fit note was sent in error.

This was a very big practice, 34,000 patients, that had gobbled up the little local practices when the GPs retired. Their operations had not caught up with their size. There were one or two excellent partners, sadly two or three who were not excellent, didn't care and were arrogant/rude to boot. Some of the salaried drs were OK, some were not. The practice was badly run and this impacted on the attitudes and performance of the suppprt/admin staff. It was truly horrendous. I'll also add that about half the partners were involved with lucrative external medico/business interests - directors of private groups, skincare providers and three of the partners also did private GP work through our local private hospitals. I do not think their patients were their priority.

I have since changed to a smaller practice with 8000 patients. The receptionists are polite and helpful. The doctors are polite and helpful. Appointments are available and any on-line requests are promptly and helpfully dealt with. It is honestly like a different world.

It seems to vary and it might be worth changing practices. It is notable that not all practices pay their receptionists NMW - some pay a little more.

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:14

Chester23 · 06/07/2025 16:56

I've also not had bad experience with our GP receptionist. Even if ive rang for triage and they've asked if its urgent, I have told them I work and this is the only time I can come, not that its necessarily urgent. They have then added me to the list.

Wow

makes my experience like the hunger games

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cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:15

RosesAndHellebores · 06/07/2025 16:57

Hmm
I changed GP practices about two years ago.

The receptionists at the original practice were obstructive and about half of them were extremely rude and dismissive. The practice made a number of errors: not submitting a referral, prescriptions that were not done, done in error or sent to the wrong place. On one occasion I even received the paperwork relating to another patient's diagnosis and containing all their personal details. The cherry on the cake was when they sent me a fit note signing me off work for two weeks for "surgical recovery". I hadn't had surgery! Someone else had the same dob as me and the fit note was sent in error.

This was a very big practice, 34,000 patients, that had gobbled up the little local practices when the GPs retired. Their operations had not caught up with their size. There were one or two excellent partners, sadly two or three who were not excellent, didn't care and were arrogant/rude to boot. Some of the salaried drs were OK, some were not. The practice was badly run and this impacted on the attitudes and performance of the suppprt/admin staff. It was truly horrendous. I'll also add that about half the partners were involved with lucrative external medico/business interests - directors of private groups, skincare providers and three of the partners also did private GP work through our local private hospitals. I do not think their patients were their priority.

I have since changed to a smaller practice with 8000 patients. The receptionists are polite and helpful. The doctors are polite and helpful. Appointments are available and any on-line requests are promptly and helpfully dealt with. It is honestly like a different world.

It seems to vary and it might be worth changing practices. It is notable that not all practices pay their receptionists NMW - some pay a little more.

I don’t think I can change as I am not in the catchment for the other surgery.

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RafaistheKingofClay · 06/07/2025 17:18

They might take you as an out of catchment patient.

I’m still registered with my old practice as out of catchment. They only change is that they won’t do house calls.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:28

Sometimes you get through to a receptionist who understands what the patient is saying and will consult with duty GP if all urgent slots have gone. Other times it's a receptionist who can not see past the "all slots are full" computer message and whatever the issue is they will stick like a limpet on a rock to the "all slots are full " mantra. I have had both but always end up being seen by GP in the end because 111 refer me straight back to the GP unless it's out of hours. The receptionists who cannot grasp that seeing past their instructions to decline everybody who hasn't managed to a slot in the 8.30 stampede and realise that empathy and flexibility are good skills to have in a health care job, are not doing the practice or the patients any favours.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:30

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 16:26

This is insane that 111 can override appointments at the surgery!

No it's not insane.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:34

Lavenderflower · 06/07/2025 09:58

Partners give them authority do certain. Many people get angry with receptionist but sometimes it is the GP who has sent the patient away. For example, a patient request to see a specific doctor, they receptionist might ask the GP and the GP will tell the patient they are not available.

Lavenderflower yes the senior staff should triage. That was the way it worked in mental health but no idea if it still does. It worked very well so it's probably been changed 😆

Caligirl80 · 06/07/2025 17:35

cherrypied · 05/07/2025 19:58

They are called care navigators.

I’m so poorly and fed up but they seem to want to do everything tiny to not give me a an appointment with a GP.

Is this part of their training?

If you have having problems with the "gatekeepers" (urgh...so many of them seem to think that they are GPs - I am sorry) then call 111 and ask for help - they can get you an appointment with a GP if your symptoms warrant one.

Of course if you are really having trouble and feeling like self care is not helping then you can always go to A&E.

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:38

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:31

Because it's very fucking obvious that a person who is after a flu jab doesn't need a GP, or an ear irrigation... doesn't need a GP.... Someone who needs dressing changed... No GP.

The receptionist can easily triage based on set criteria. A computer can do this!

People insist on seeing GPs for every tiny little thing when they could probably just go to Tesco and get a off the shelf product.

And sometimes it's very obvious that a patient does need a GP or to be seen same day by a clinician but some receptionists don't have the skills to work out the difference and use a blanket "all slots are full" to absolutely everybody.

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:59

Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 17:30

No it's not insane.

Well I thought 111 was for when the go was shut so it seems insane to me.

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Ownedbykitties · 06/07/2025 19:25

cherrypied · 06/07/2025 17:59

Well I thought 111 was for when the go was shut so it seems insane to me.

No. Not at all.

SpicySal · 07/07/2025 03:58

taxguru · 05/07/2025 20:14

But it's not always about "slots" and appointments.

It took me several months last year to get the GP to properly deal with anamolous blood tests - he kept "signing them off" as "patient can be advised", so the receptionist would never even "Ping" a message through with my concerns as she claimed the blood tests were fine, which I knew was wrong. It was only when I actually spoke to a different GP for a different ailment that I casually mentioned the blood tests and he agreed they needed action and I got a phone call from another different GP the day after to change the medication!

Similarly, OH has been trying to get a referral for a specialist for the last six months. He doesn't need to "see" the gp. It's his hospital oncologist who has told him to get the GP to make the referral, written to the GP accordingly etc., but it's impossible to get the receptionists to chase up the GP to actually do it. Again, they say it's not something requiring an appointment and that the GP will "get around to it" when they get chance, again, refusing to "ping" a reminder/request to expedite. No idea whether the GP will ever do it or whether it's got lost in their system somewhere. Receptionists just won't engage at all with the process.

Sometimes the receptionists just won't listen and won't even do things that don't require an actual GP appointment!

This is interesting though. I do not want to negate your experience, as on both occasions it sounds like it has really not been great, however I would argue that neither of these examples are the receptionists fault.

On the first occasion it was the GP who had marked the bloods incorrectly and not let you know. This is obviously terrible but it sounds like your anger is directed at the wrong person?

The second occasion demonstrates a massive systemic problem in the NHS - why does your tertiary doctor require a GP referral when you are clearly already known to them and they want to see you? Again I’m not sure this is the receptionists fault.

I think GP receptionists are the most accessible and public facing part of primary care and therefore get burdened with all of our anger every issue - not just the ones involving them.

OlympicProcrastinator · 07/07/2025 05:11

BusWankers · 05/07/2025 22:01

Who has no access to the internet?

Like seriously... Who?

My elderly father who moved house and had to wait 6 weeks for Virgin Media to install his WiFi. The GP surgery point blank refused to accept hard copy forms for him to join the surgery. He was unable to be seen despite having diabetes, heart problems and such severe insomnia he was suicidal. All because of no internet.

madroid · 07/07/2025 06:53

I have a relative with such severe mental health illness that she is confused doesn’t know what day it is and won’t remember appointments unless written down.

The idea that she could use an app mobile phone or internet is ridiculous. After 5 years our dr surgery are just about accepting that.

Once a receptionist asked her to describe her symptoms so she could fill in a form and my relative said she was nutty.

BusWankers · 07/07/2025 06:56

OlympicProcrastinator · 07/07/2025 05:11

My elderly father who moved house and had to wait 6 weeks for Virgin Media to install his WiFi. The GP surgery point blank refused to accept hard copy forms for him to join the surgery. He was unable to be seen despite having diabetes, heart problems and such severe insomnia he was suicidal. All because of no internet.

So why couldn't you have helped him? Why did nobody in his life do something like take their mobile phone to his house and sort it out?