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Anyone else lost a bit of ambition now they’ve been taxed to the brink?

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Peasontoastt · 04/07/2025 19:56

I used to be extremely ambitious and was really eager to reach some sort of financial security. As a consequence, I’m in what’s considered a highly paid career, I work hard and it took me many years to train.

Just as I paid off my student loan (which took many years), I then had a baby and returned to work to be stuck with the childcare dilemma. I struggled through that phase and have come out the other side but being taxed so much, no child benefit, still paying for nursery even though dd has ‘free’ hours now. It’s likely that savings are going to be bashed next, so what’s the point in even putting anything aside when there’s likely going to be a 4K cap on ISAs.

I used to feel so ambitious and of course I know money isn’t everything, not by a long shot. But having worked my way up the ladder and with huge responsibilities only to feel penalised financially for doing so…what is the point? Yes I have more financial security than someone claiming benefits but equally, I am not being flippant when I say a few years of resting and being at home and being frugal is starting to seem so much more attractive. Has anyone else started feeling this way? I feel taken the piss out of by every financial angle!

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SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 18:29

Bushmillsbabe · 07/07/2025 17:57

The answer is to incentivise higher earners to stay in UK.

Scenario A
We tax 100 people earning 100k at 30%, we get 3 million in tax revenue. In addition, that 100 are potentially spending their remaining 70k on items and services which they pay VAT on, gaining another up to 1.4 million in VAT revenue, so potential tax take of up to 4.4 million. On top of this, the spending creates jobs, leafing to fewer people on benefits, so also cuts costs to taxpayer.

Scenario B
We up tax to 45%, 40 people leave country/stop working/ reduce hours significantly. Income tax is now 2.7 million, max potential VAT is 660k. So max tax is 3.3 million. On top of this, people cutting hours need less childcare so fewer job opportunities.

The numbers are of course hypothetical, but illustrated the concept that lower taxes can lead to higher tax gains

In scenario A, are we putting either the 20% or 40% thresholds down too?

Because otherwise that really does significantly benefit the wealthier and leave everyone else in the same situation.

Spartahori · 07/07/2025 18:31

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 18:27

Not quite, I’m “staggered” that someone who knows they have to pay for childcare, because they’re high income, would then complain about paying for childcare.

You knew that, surely.

It’s the complaining about known costs I don’t understand.

Are you thinking they shouldn’t have children? Because we desperately need more people to have children, and educated professionals are more likely to have children who excel at school, who are more likely to pay more taxes etc etc.

Spartahori · 07/07/2025 18:33

We should put at least 2% on each tax band and give everyone child benefit, a nil rate band and free childcare. That’s where we can start improving public services.

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 18:35

Spartahori · 07/07/2025 18:31

Are you thinking they shouldn’t have children? Because we desperately need more people to have children, and educated professionals are more likely to have children who excel at school, who are more likely to pay more taxes etc etc.

Not at all. I don’t think anyone should or shouldn’t have children.

I think it’s unreasonable to complain about informed choices that you made.

nearlylovemyusername · 07/07/2025 19:59

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 18:35

Not at all. I don’t think anyone should or shouldn’t have children.

I think it’s unreasonable to complain about informed choices that you made.

so how does this correlate with people having children they can't afford in first place? childcare or not? do we need to support them?

Praying4Peace · 07/07/2025 20:18

PhilippaGeorgiou · 04/07/2025 21:19

Yes I have more financial security than someone claiming benefits but equally, I am not being flippant when I say a few years of resting and being at home and being frugal is starting to seem so much more attractive.

I suggest you give up your job and try living on benefits for a few years then. Do have fun and check out where the local food bank is. You will probably need it before long.

My experience of some people living on benefits is that they live very comfortable lives and don't go without.
I'm sure that I will get shouted down for stating that but it is my experience

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:40

Praying4Peace · 07/07/2025 20:18

My experience of some people living on benefits is that they live very comfortable lives and don't go without.
I'm sure that I will get shouted down for stating that but it is my experience

The rate of universal credit for a single person is just under £400 a month. If you can live a comfortable life on that and not go without you’re clearly a miracle worker because I couldn’t.

CaptainFuture · 07/07/2025 20:44

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:40

The rate of universal credit for a single person is just under £400 a month. If you can live a comfortable life on that and not go without you’re clearly a miracle worker because I couldn’t.

Is that £400 after rent/council tax?
Not having to pay to get to work?
Yeah, well it's not going to be a luxury life, but do able.

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:47

MidnightPatrol · 07/07/2025 15:58

Unless you are a higher earner, for whom they are at historic highs.

That isn’t true, is it? When I started work the basic rate was 33% and the top rate was 83%. Basic rate tax payers were looking at deductions of 42% including NI - the same as higher rate workers now.

ASimpleLampoon · 07/07/2025 20:49

@Peasontoastt

Well you could try living on benefits but if its DLA or PIP you also have to live with a disability or a debilitating illness or terminal illness - or that of your child. That's the catch and perhaps not quite as cushy as you seem to imagine. I certainly do not feel jealous of ppl on higher rates knowing how bad the disability they\ their child has to endure to qualify. Especially if its their child.

Also for older disabled children \ young adults there is no childcare, so its not a holiday of being frugal where you get your old life back at some point.

Hope that helps.

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:49

CaptainFuture · 07/07/2025 20:44

Is that £400 after rent/council tax?
Not having to pay to get to work?
Yeah, well it's not going to be a luxury life, but do able.

It doesn’t include rent but it has to cover council tax, utilities, food and everything else. I couldn’t do it and I don’t know anyone who could if they were being honest.

WunTooThree · 07/07/2025 20:55

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:49

It doesn’t include rent but it has to cover council tax, utilities, food and everything else. I couldn’t do it and I don’t know anyone who could if they were being honest.

Yeah, if it was me, I would be left with about £50pw after bills etc. That £50 would be for food, cleaning supplies, toiletries, clothing etc.
Nothing spare in case the fridge decides to die.

JLou08 · 07/07/2025 21:03

Howmanyroses · 06/07/2025 13:16

The actual figure is 17.8 million, but still a third of the population - About 17.8 million UK adults (aged 18+) paid no income tax in 2023–24 because their total earnings were below the personal allowance (£12,570)
https://questions-statements.parliament.uk/written-questions/detail/2024-01-10/HL1477/

I don't see a breakdown for them figures. I'd guess it includes uni students who will go in to pay tax, pensioners who have already paid lots of tax, disabled people who may or may not have previously paid tax, people on maternity leave, people who have reduced their working hours to care for children but have and will again pay tax, people who have had to reduce their working hours to care for elderly or disabled relatives who have paid tax and are saving the tax payer money through reducing the social care bill.

MidnightPatrol · 07/07/2025 21:04

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:47

That isn’t true, is it? When I started work the basic rate was 33% and the top rate was 83%. Basic rate tax payers were looking at deductions of 42% including NI - the same as higher rate workers now.

Average workers have historically low tax rates.

Higher earners (to whom I refer) have historically high tax rates, which are getting worse every year due to fiscal drag.

eg the 40% rate applied to 3% of workers when introduced, and now impacts around 15%.

The 60% tax rate has not moved for 15 years - if it had, it would be around £70,000 higher than in it today.

My own top rate is 100% due to tax and loss of benefits - over tens of thousands of pounds.

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 21:10

You can’t count loss of benefits as a tax rate. Conflating two completely different things to get the result you want is disingenuous. The highest actual peace time tax rate historically was 90% in the 1950s and 60s.

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 21:12

nearlylovemyusername · 07/07/2025 19:59

so how does this correlate with people having children they can't afford in first place? childcare or not? do we need to support them?

There is no way we need to be paying means tested benefits to people on £100k+.

Where does that end? I’d like some UC, might pop a claim in.

If you’re outside the means test, you’re outside the means test. For a reason.

Why are people so bloody greedy 😂. You don’t need childcare funding, and other people do. Accept the privilege and get over it.

Gagcaa · 07/07/2025 21:14

Praying4Peace · 07/07/2025 20:18

My experience of some people living on benefits is that they live very comfortable lives and don't go without.
I'm sure that I will get shouted down for stating that but it is my experience

I remember someone many years ago saying on here that they had a bit leftover after bills and used the leftover welfare to buy and Xbox.

Spartahori · 07/07/2025 21:15

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:47

That isn’t true, is it? When I started work the basic rate was 33% and the top rate was 83%. Basic rate tax payers were looking at deductions of 42% including NI - the same as higher rate workers now.

Top rate payers weren’t paying that though. There used to be endless loopholes. Get paid in gold, wine, jewellery. All tax free. No one ever paid 83%.

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 21:17

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 20:49

It doesn’t include rent but it has to cover council tax, utilities, food and everything else. I couldn’t do it and I don’t know anyone who could if they were being honest.

I absolutely couldn’t. My housing costs wouldn’t be fully covered by UC. £400 would cover our council tax and then maybe 2 more bills.

We absolutely couldn’t manage on benefits, and definitely would have to experience a real loss of quality of life. Things we only have because we can afford them now.

Would seem a bit “cut your nose off to spite your face,” to me.

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 21:25

Spartahori · 07/07/2025 21:15

Top rate payers weren’t paying that though. There used to be endless loopholes. Get paid in gold, wine, jewellery. All tax free. No one ever paid 83%.

I’m pretty sure they did. And obviously every basic rate taxpayer on PAYE was paying 42% - the same as current higher rate payers. To say taxes are at an historic high is just plain bollocks.

WunTooThree · 07/07/2025 21:27

Gagcaa · 07/07/2025 21:14

I remember someone many years ago saying on here that they had a bit leftover after bills and used the leftover welfare to buy and Xbox.

And?
People get a fixed amount. If they have some spare after the essentials are paid for, then they can spend it how they want.

Gagcaa · 07/07/2025 21:30

WunTooThree · 07/07/2025 21:27

And?
People get a fixed amount. If they have some spare after the essentials are paid for, then they can spend it how they want.

I mean. Shows that they could have managed with less

WunTooThree · 07/07/2025 21:33

Gagcaa · 07/07/2025 21:30

I mean. Shows that they could have managed with less

Depends on what their outgoings are. Some people can cope on less, and others can not.

Boohoo76 · 07/07/2025 21:39

BIossomtoes · 07/07/2025 21:25

I’m pretty sure they did. And obviously every basic rate taxpayer on PAYE was paying 42% - the same as current higher rate payers. To say taxes are at an historic high is just plain bollocks.

https://ifs.org.uk/articles/how-tax-burden-high-when-most-us-are-taxed-so-low

Morph22010 · 07/07/2025 21:48

SleeplessInWherever · 07/07/2025 10:58

Rough (Google) maths claims that £100k is nearly £5800 a month. Obviously that may not account for student loans, pensions, etc.

But still. If your net pay is circa £5800 a month and you can’t afford childcare, that’s surely a money management issue.

I personally wouldn’t waste my tears crying into a river for that particular issue.

But if your income is £99,999 you get approx the same for your net salary but are also entitled to tax free child care so someone on £100,000 is worse off than someone on £99,999

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