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Selfish cannabis smokers wafting smell in home

60 replies

Hdlll · 28/06/2025 21:33

Neighbour invited some friends or family over. They are in back yard smoking cannabis which is wafted into my bedroom. Got nothing else but to close window.

Never spoke to the neighbour since he moved in 8 years ago.

OP posts:
iwentjasonwaterfalls · 29/06/2025 13:00

Whenever weed is mentioned you'll get people falling over themselves to sound as cool as possible, telling you to chill out and comparing it to cigarettes (or in this case, barbecues 🙄). It smells, the people who smoke it smell and they're usually insufferable too.

TinyTempest · 29/06/2025 13:00

EsmeSusanOgg · 29/06/2025 06:26

Weed is usually for longer and more unpleasant a smell (at least to me. Makes me nauseous).

A spliff that lasts longer than a BBQ?

Blimey, I wonder how many Rizlas they used 😁

DiscoBob · 29/06/2025 13:03

They're not wafting it into your home on purpose. They're smoking in the garden and unfortunately the wind happens. It could be cigarettes, vaping, barbecued food, bonfire..

If it's a regular occurrence just politely say you've got asthma or something and could they smoke further away from your windows? I can't imagine they want to cause you annoyance or upset.

You say you've never spoken to them before. Is that through choice, or they seem horrible and scary? I'd try and approach them in a friendly way ideally.

NewGoldFox · 29/06/2025 13:03

PuzzledPieces · 28/06/2025 22:30

This is why it needs to be legalized. Since we legalized it here (I’m not in the UK) in 2012, I have barely noticed it. It’s no more harmful than alcohol so I don’t see why more places don’t legalize it.

Edited

The chap that killed a little boy on his way to school with a sword was suffering from marijuana induced psychosis.

Im so sick of people arguing for it to be legalised when it affects other people.
I don’t want to breathe in other peoples drugs thanks.

NeilDiamondsBlowDry · 29/06/2025 13:05

To be clear. I dislike both barbecue smoke and weed smoke I’m not ‘cool’ at all !

ChicOliveCritic · 29/06/2025 13:10

PuzzledPieces · 28/06/2025 22:30

This is why it needs to be legalized. Since we legalized it here (I’m not in the UK) in 2012, I have barely noticed it. It’s no more harmful than alcohol so I don’t see why more places don’t legalize it.

Edited

It's really important to inform yourself before making such statements please. Alcohol is a drug. As is cannabis. If alcohol was created now, it probably wouldn't be legalised. Both alcohol and cannabis are gateway drugs. Have you not heard of cannabis induced psychosis? Please be mindful.

ChicOliveCritic · 29/06/2025 13:13

NewGoldFox · 29/06/2025 13:03

The chap that killed a little boy on his way to school with a sword was suffering from marijuana induced psychosis.

Im so sick of people arguing for it to be legalised when it affects other people.
I don’t want to breathe in other peoples drugs thanks.

I just made a similar comment to yours regarding that response. 👏

intrepidpanda · 29/06/2025 13:21

EsmeSusanOgg · 29/06/2025 06:26

Weed is usually for longer and more unpleasant a smell (at least to me. Makes me nauseous).

Smoking a joint takes longer than having a barbecue?

suburburban · 29/06/2025 18:28

ChicOliveCritic · 29/06/2025 13:10

It's really important to inform yourself before making such statements please. Alcohol is a drug. As is cannabis. If alcohol was created now, it probably wouldn't be legalised. Both alcohol and cannabis are gateway drugs. Have you not heard of cannabis induced psychosis? Please be mindful.

Exactly this

it is harmful

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 19:59

suburburban · 29/06/2025 18:28

Exactly this

it is harmful

Alcohol is more harmful .

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:02

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 19:59

Alcohol is more harmful .

Alcohol doesn’t stink the neighbourhood out with the smell of tomcat piss when you drink it.

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 20:05

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:02

Alcohol doesn’t stink the neighbourhood out with the smell of tomcat piss when you drink it.

It may not but does cause people to fight, throw up in public etc

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:09

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 20:05

It may not but does cause people to fight, throw up in public etc

I’m enjoying a glass of wine in my garden right now. My neighbours all have their windows open. Despite that, I can guarantee that not one of them has any idea that I am quietly drinking a glass of wine.

No fights, no throwing up, no awful smell.

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 20:18

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:09

I’m enjoying a glass of wine in my garden right now. My neighbours all have their windows open. Despite that, I can guarantee that not one of them has any idea that I am quietly drinking a glass of wine.

No fights, no throwing up, no awful smell.

Yes maybe you. Have you been in a city centre on weekend nights when all the drunks are about.? A&e department's have loads of people attend whose injuries are caused by alcohol

So worrying about the odd person whi gets cannabis psychosis over all the people who get ill or injured through alcohol is illogical

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:25

So worrying about the odd person whi gets cannabis psychosis over all the people who get ill or injured through alcohol is illogical

I’m not worried about anybody getting cannabis psychosis, it serves them right. I just worry about the smell outdoors cannabis smokers create. Do it inside your own home, and keep your doors and windows firmly shut.

Zov · 29/06/2025 20:31

I hate it too @Hdlll Fucking vile smell. And the worst people I know smoke it.

We have a couple of neighbours near us. (3-6 doors down...) One of the women - aged late 30s - has posted some drivel on Facebook about how 'Cannabis is less harmful than alcohol' or some shit like that... and 5 reasons why it's 'OK to smoke it.'

Yeah sure if it's now and again, maybe, perhaps once or twice a month.... but she smokes it 5-8 times a DAY. She even smoked it while she was pregnant. Stupid cow. Her little boy is 5 and a half now and is way behind at school, can't talk very well, and has illness after illness, and is always in and out of the GP and hospital. According to her, it's nothing to do with her smoking weed all through her pregnancy, and smoking it around him since the day he was born. Oh nooooooooo! 🙄He is just a sickly child who is just struggling a bit at school.

Absolute muppet.

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 20:32

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:25

So worrying about the odd person whi gets cannabis psychosis over all the people who get ill or injured through alcohol is illogical

I’m not worried about anybody getting cannabis psychosis, it serves them right. I just worry about the smell outdoors cannabis smokers create. Do it inside your own home, and keep your doors and windows firmly shut.

The post that I was replying originally was saying about cannabis being harmful.

londongirl12 · 29/06/2025 20:33

I can’t bear the smell of weed. If that ever legalise it then I think I’ll leave the country 😂

suburburban · 29/06/2025 20:35

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 19:59

Alcohol is more harmful .

I always thought cannabis could possibly cause mental illness and was harmful

frozendaisy · 29/06/2025 20:39

The skunk everyone can smell nowadays is incredibly strong it’s not basic old fashioned grass

if it was legalised and grass was around so much would be better

but skunk is different

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 29/06/2025 20:40

I get this. It was wafting into my living room just now. Hate my bloody neighbours.

Elbowpatch · 29/06/2025 20:46

Fundayout2025 · 29/06/2025 20:32

The post that I was replying originally was saying about cannabis being harmful.

Then don’t quote mine.

Okiedokie123 · 29/06/2025 21:16

Maddy70 · 28/06/2025 22:16

I'm sure you don't make any noise or annoy them in any way.....

It's all part of living in a community

Nothing about the way I live in my community means that other people have a headache/feel drowsy just because of my choices.
Living alongside other people does of course mean pros and cons, give and take etc - but....... done well...... it shouldnt mean other people being inconvenienced/annoyed on a regular basis.

Okiedokie123 · 29/06/2025 21:17

londongirl12 · 29/06/2025 20:33

I can’t bear the smell of weed. If that ever legalise it then I think I’ll leave the country 😂

Me too. It makes me feel so ill. Even just a little whiff of it.

EsmeSusanOgg · 29/06/2025 21:41

intrepidpanda · 29/06/2025 13:21

Smoking a joint takes longer than having a barbecue?

The sort of scenarios where weed is getting in your house/ smell everywhere are rarely the scenarios where a line individual is having one joint.