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Reception staggered starts are overkill?! UPDATE

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SMLSML · 24/06/2025 13:15

I posted recently about how people manage staggered starts for reception... A lot of people said legally that schools have to take them full time if asked. For context my little one starts in September and will do 3 weeks of 2 hour sessions...

She currently goes to preschool full time and after-school club until 5pm. Childcare aside I honestly do think she will find it very disruptive and think we'll spend more time taking her to and from school. 4 other parents agree with me, however this is the response I've had from the headteacher... Is it even worth challenging? I totally get the gradual approach but 3 weeks feels overkill...

Just unsure of what to do and no idea how I'll manage 😩 I honestly don't believe it'll be beneficial for my little one either. Any advice appreciated!

Reception staggered starts are overkill?! UPDATE
OP posts:
IwasDueANameChange · 25/06/2025 18:09

I think what most parents so strongly dislike is the outdated assumption that it is a choice between full time school, and a gradual transition with lovely stay at home mummy picking you up and taking you home to unwind each day.

In reality for the vast majority of children it is a choice between a clear, consistent full time start to school, and a chaotic mix of poor quality ad hoc childcare, parents struggling with work commitments, a massive upheaval from their normal routine.

There are very few sahp now. We have to reflect that starting school full time is usually the better option for the child now.

Madsciencecovid2020 · 25/06/2025 18:34

Ok I am the working parent who refused staggered start and part time attendance in reception !.
I flatly told the school we had to vacate our nursery as of 1st Sept and that we were not able to take time off work to pick up after just 2- 3 hours at school. I work as a teacher and husband at the time worked long days in London.
I pointed out that our children had bene in full time nursery since age 8months and had a longer nursery day than a standard school day and would cope. I forced the school to deal with it!! The school tried to argue they could not accommodate and so I pointed out that if my child was prevented from attending the settling in part time sessions it would impact their friendships and opportunity to build the early friendships and routines.
The school sucked it up and got on with it. My youngest was also dropped of at 7.30am early breakfast club on his first day in reception to the horror of the headteacher. I smiled said goodbye and collected at 4pm!! My chikd had a fabulous time and there were no issues.😊

ThatsGoingToHurt · 25/06/2025 18:57

I started school in 1984 and didn’t have a staggered start of X hours per day! It was the norm where I lived to start the September born children in September and then start a few more children every couple of weeks until the late summer born Childers started at Easter. Anyway, I remember being dropped at school and spent the day playing in the Wendy house with another girl. My mum came and picked me up and the teacher told her I had been happy all day with no tears and she could bring me back tomorrow to start full time if she wanted to, and that was that.

At DS’s school the have one half day and then they are in full time. However, they make it clear that if parents feel their child would benefit from a more gradual start they are happy to agree this. Therefore, everyone is happy.

ShesTheAlbatross · 25/06/2025 18:58

IwasDueANameChange · 25/06/2025 18:09

I think what most parents so strongly dislike is the outdated assumption that it is a choice between full time school, and a gradual transition with lovely stay at home mummy picking you up and taking you home to unwind each day.

In reality for the vast majority of children it is a choice between a clear, consistent full time start to school, and a chaotic mix of poor quality ad hoc childcare, parents struggling with work commitments, a massive upheaval from their normal routine.

There are very few sahp now. We have to reflect that starting school full time is usually the better option for the child now.

Totally agree.

And two hours a day isn’t even enough to let you just take a half day off work, you’d need to take a full day. That’s 15 days of annual leave for the three week period OP’s school is doing. It’s completely impractical, especially for any single parents. It’s such a huge chunk of leave.

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 18:58

Please can I ask OP of you have got any further.

I am having the same issue with our school, I have quoted the Admissions policy, the schools Adjudicator report and even checked with DofE helpline who confirmed the entitlement. Yet, the Head is still refusing to give me an earlier date saying 'it is up to school to decide'. The first group is starting reception on the 4th but I've been given a start date of the 10th! I just don't have the annual leave. I honestly don't know what to do.

legoplaybook · 07/07/2025 20:31

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 18:58

Please can I ask OP of you have got any further.

I am having the same issue with our school, I have quoted the Admissions policy, the schools Adjudicator report and even checked with DofE helpline who confirmed the entitlement. Yet, the Head is still refusing to give me an earlier date saying 'it is up to school to decide'. The first group is starting reception on the 4th but I've been given a start date of the 10th! I just don't have the annual leave. I honestly don't know what to do.

Have you spoken to your local authority?
Is the school part of an academy?

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 20:45

legoplaybook · 07/07/2025 20:31

Have you spoken to your local authority?
Is the school part of an academy?

Yes I rang admissions at the council for advice and they said it was a matter for Department for Education. DofE did confirm my understanding of the admissions policy was correct but suggested I speak to the Head. Feel like I am going round in circles now.
It is a voluntary aided maintained school. They close for summer next Friday so I am running out of time to follow any complaints procedure too.

BBQBertha · 07/07/2025 20:58

SyntacticalVortex · 24/06/2025 17:59

This is my first year in my current school so I can't remember the exact timetable and split between morning and afternoon groups, but after the first 2 weeks of term when older year groups are in and we have done home visits and most of the admin, the staggered starts only last 2 weeks, gradually going from 2 hours to including lunch, then adding another hour then a full day.

It's not going to suit every child but that's the nature of a school where there might be multiple classes of 30 in each year. Decisions won't always be made in the best interests of individual children. Sometimes you will have yo accept being inconvenienced because someone else with a different overview of the situation has a different opinion and a decision has to just be made for efficiency. Schools have to go on what works best for the whole community, so the other 59 Reception kids in my school, plus the way the school is laid out (eg can we bring the Reception children in, show them round , have an early lunch at odd times etc without disturbing the older ones) and the workload and working patterns of staff. That will be the same throughout the school years. It might not suit you and your child might be fine full time from day one, but having several children on different timetables within the same class would not work for the group as a whole.

In my last school, any reception children there all day during the staggered starts would be sent to play with year 1 and 2 while the Reception staff all had their lunch break. There wouldn't necessarily be lunchtime staff allocated specifically to Reception yet because we wouldn't be expecting anyone to stay, and it's not worth paying someone to just be in charge of a few all-dayers for an hour. The lunchtime staff there in KS1 have enough to do keeping the other children safe without spending extra time comforting the Reception kids as much as might be needed. Barring injury or tears, the kids would be left to get on with the older kids without support. Or just hold a lunchtime supervisor' s hand cos she wouldn't have capacity to sit down with that child etc when they already have a load of other kids to keep safe.

Basically, you could leave your child there all day but it wouldn't necessarily be the best thing to do even if nothing goes 'wrong.' Kid might be bored, not have / make friends etc. Would inconvenience staff which is not the best way to start that relationship.

If you genuinely want to change the staggered starts timetable, suggest a viable alternative such as a shorter period, working from a couple of hours to full time over a coffee weeks. Explain why this would be better for families and children. Complaining won't get you anywhere because schools know some parents will find staggered starts difficult. However, they also won't throw open the door to full time starts for everyone from day 1 because it is impractical and will be seen as not the best for the majority of children. Calmly and respectfully suggest an alternative and they might change it in the future. It would also be better for your relationship with the school should any problems come up in future. Complain that you don't want it for your child so the system is wrong and you will just annoy the people educating your child.

What a load of absolute bollocks! Maybe take a look at the law.

Parker231 · 07/07/2025 21:00

BBQBertha · 07/07/2025 20:58

What a load of absolute bollocks! Maybe take a look at the law.

Agree! So many ignorant of the law.

BBQBertha · 07/07/2025 21:01

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 18:58

Please can I ask OP of you have got any further.

I am having the same issue with our school, I have quoted the Admissions policy, the schools Adjudicator report and even checked with DofE helpline who confirmed the entitlement. Yet, the Head is still refusing to give me an earlier date saying 'it is up to school to decide'. The first group is starting reception on the 4th but I've been given a start date of the 10th! I just don't have the annual leave. I honestly don't know what to do.

I’d go to the press. It’s despicable that outdated headteachers think they’re above the law.

legoplaybook · 07/07/2025 21:07

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 20:45

Yes I rang admissions at the council for advice and they said it was a matter for Department for Education. DofE did confirm my understanding of the admissions policy was correct but suggested I speak to the Head. Feel like I am going round in circles now.
It is a voluntary aided maintained school. They close for summer next Friday so I am running out of time to follow any complaints procedure too.

I'd speak to the education department of the council again, ask that they speak to the Head on your behalf.
I'd request your 15/30 hours funding for that week too since the school are refusing to allow you to use it and say you need to use it with a childminder that week.

SMLSML · 07/07/2025 22:06

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 18:58

Please can I ask OP of you have got any further.

I am having the same issue with our school, I have quoted the Admissions policy, the schools Adjudicator report and even checked with DofE helpline who confirmed the entitlement. Yet, the Head is still refusing to give me an earlier date saying 'it is up to school to decide'. The first group is starting reception on the 4th but I've been given a start date of the 10th! I just don't have the annual leave. I honestly don't know what to do.

Awful isn't it 😫 None of the parents who agreed with me initially wanted to push it for fear of being 'that parent'. Not happy at all but we're having to do a juggle of annual leave between my husband and I and grandparents. I still think this will be more confusing for my little one overall 😩 but the reply from the head pretty much said they wouldn't budge. So sorry you're having the same issue, is mad how all schools are so different. One of my colleagues children is starting the same time, they have 2 shorter days then straight in as normal, just so frustrating 🙃

OP posts:
Parker231 · 07/07/2025 22:12

SMLSML · 07/07/2025 22:06

Awful isn't it 😫 None of the parents who agreed with me initially wanted to push it for fear of being 'that parent'. Not happy at all but we're having to do a juggle of annual leave between my husband and I and grandparents. I still think this will be more confusing for my little one overall 😩 but the reply from the head pretty much said they wouldn't budge. So sorry you're having the same issue, is mad how all schools are so different. One of my colleagues children is starting the same time, they have 2 shorter days then straight in as normal, just so frustrating 🙃

I’d suggest contacting the school governors copying in the head teacher and local education department asking why the school is prepared to breach legislation?

SMLSML · 07/07/2025 22:25

Parker231 · 07/07/2025 22:12

I’d suggest contacting the school governors copying in the head teacher and local education department asking why the school is prepared to breach legislation?

Thanks for this. It's a hard one as I'd be on my own doing it and don't want to be 'that' parent before even starting properly... Totally get this is how this keeps happening as no one wants to challenge it but think this is the issue sadly 🥺 the whole system needs overhauling and made optional in my eyes. Can only hope it's changed for when my second starts school 🤞🏻

OP posts:
Parker231 · 07/07/2025 22:30

SMLSML · 07/07/2025 22:25

Thanks for this. It's a hard one as I'd be on my own doing it and don't want to be 'that' parent before even starting properly... Totally get this is how this keeps happening as no one wants to challenge it but think this is the issue sadly 🥺 the whole system needs overhauling and made optional in my eyes. Can only hope it's changed for when my second starts school 🤞🏻

You’ll probably find others will follow your lead - it happened with us and ended up the majority over both DT’s classes notifying the school that their DC’s would be attending full time from day one.

Magenta82 · 07/07/2025 22:34

No one wants to be first to stick their head above the parapet but plenty will follow.

Nellsbells173 · 07/07/2025 22:53

I had this several years ago when my three year old started lower foundation at 3, I went down the funding route, so not sure if it would be the same with starting upper foundation at four.
We told school that they were getting her funding so needed to have her in. They ended up compromising and sharing the funding with her old child minder who had her the first week in sept, then the school had her in full time as other children had similar two hour stints visits.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 08/07/2025 00:41

I can't believe you're not taking this further with the LA! It's not about being "that parent", it's about calling out a school who are blatantly not acting in accordance with the guidelines. They must take your child, and by contacting the LA, they will ensure the school stops this ridiculous nonsense being 'mandatory', as they have no rights whatsoever to refuse to take your child or any child in this situation full-time.

You let them get away with this now, they will continue to piss you off over shit like this for the next 7 years. More fool you for not challenging this. Schools have conditioned people to not challenge what they are told by the teachers, thank fuck I opted out of this shite and home educate my children, who are free thinkers and are encouraged to question things. And this coming from me, a former teacher, never fitted in because I didn't agree with the bullshit conditioning and indoctrination that goes on.

SisterMargaretta · 08/07/2025 05:21

SausageTail · 07/07/2025 18:58

Please can I ask OP of you have got any further.

I am having the same issue with our school, I have quoted the Admissions policy, the schools Adjudicator report and even checked with DofE helpline who confirmed the entitlement. Yet, the Head is still refusing to give me an earlier date saying 'it is up to school to decide'. The first group is starting reception on the 4th but I've been given a start date of the 10th! I just don't have the annual leave. I honestly don't know what to do.

Contact your MP?

Depressedbarbie · 08/07/2025 08:19

SisterMargaretta · 24/06/2025 22:58

Then idea that Reception class teachers need additional time to do new class admin is neither here nor there. They know the intake before the summer holidays so can prepare everything at the end of the summer term or during the holidays just like every other class teacher has to do for their class.

Having been both a reception teacher and a year 2 teacher, that's not quite true. You're dealing with known children in year 2, not in reception. You also have to completely reset the environment in reception, not in year 2. It's a much, much bigger job. Completely different. However, I do agree that this school is being completely ridiculous, and that children should be able to be in full time from day 1. I personally thought that having one day split in half so that we had half in at a time was really helpful, but I'm clear it was helpful for us rather than the children!!!

SixteentoOne · 08/07/2025 08:26

ReadingSoManyThreads · 08/07/2025 00:41

I can't believe you're not taking this further with the LA! It's not about being "that parent", it's about calling out a school who are blatantly not acting in accordance with the guidelines. They must take your child, and by contacting the LA, they will ensure the school stops this ridiculous nonsense being 'mandatory', as they have no rights whatsoever to refuse to take your child or any child in this situation full-time.

You let them get away with this now, they will continue to piss you off over shit like this for the next 7 years. More fool you for not challenging this. Schools have conditioned people to not challenge what they are told by the teachers, thank fuck I opted out of this shite and home educate my children, who are free thinkers and are encouraged to question things. And this coming from me, a former teacher, never fitted in because I didn't agree with the bullshit conditioning and indoctrination that goes on.

No, the LA wont get involved.

The school maybe a trust and in that case the LA have no jurisdiction. If it is a maintained school, Local Management of Schools’ means governors are responsible and accountable.

The LA may advise on the legalities but will direct you back to the school complaints procedure, in order that the governing board investigates.

SausageTail · 08/07/2025 12:01

Yes thank you that's the advice I have had.

The LA won't intervene and said speak to the school or DofE. DofE said speak to the LA but did confirm on the phone her entitlement to full time, I have requested this in writing but not received it yet.

With my school it is maintained, I have gone as far as I can with the Head, she is adamant that it is up for schools to decide how reception start, even when presented with thw guidance. So I will need to follow the complaints procedure, however the Head is retiring next Friday on the last day of term and the complaints process is so drawn out it'll be after my daughter has started school even with the delayed start.
I will process the complaint still, but it is likely I will need to see if preschool will have her back again so September.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 08/07/2025 16:57

Anora · 25/06/2025 14:44

“[I]n the vast majority of schools all the afternoons during these three weeks will be spent providing cover for older classes or inputting assessment data for those staff - things like that).”

I’ve not taught for a few years now but I’d be very surprised if teachers were routinely being directed to input assessment data for other classes during what should be teaching time! Annex 5 of the School Teachers Pay and Conditions Document says that type of admin task should not be asked of teachers.

All but one of the schools I worked at had either no staggered start or one limited to a couple of days. Home/ nursery visits were in the summer term and covered by Year 6 transition, just-qualified student teachers, supply teachers or senior leaders. Some schools offered extra hours to lunchtime or part-time staff for the first week or so to help with transition. As far as I could tell there was no difference in attainment, behaviour or how settled the children were between the school that spent the whole first half-term on staggering attendance and the ones that had all pupils starting in the first week.

I'm more surprised that somebody would have taken the time to admit the children prior to their start date (which completely screws up attendance data for the entire year if any of them decide to go to other schools or EHE), create aspects for the academic year, build marksheets for each class - and then didn't just import from a csv file in five minutes including coffee, but insisted that the teachers used the spreadsheets they'd have to have downloaded from the DfE and split into classes first in order to type them in manually. (seeing as the Y6 data is already in by July and there certainly won't be a data drop in the first week of September)

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 08/07/2025 17:10

Tell them you will be collecting at the end of the day on Day 1. End of.

They are legally required to start them full time from Day 1 if that's what you choose.

ShesTheAlbatross · 08/07/2025 18:53

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 08/07/2025 17:10

Tell them you will be collecting at the end of the day on Day 1. End of.

They are legally required to start them full time from Day 1 if that's what you choose.

That’s what I’d do if I had a head flatly ignoring the DoE clarification of the legislation.

I wouldn’t be asking, I’d be sending a message along the general gist of “thankfully we’ve now had it clarified by DoE that schools are required to offer full time places from the start of term, so that’s what we will be taking up.”