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Parents starting an air raid shelter

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PanicStations2025 · 18/06/2025 17:37

I've called my parents tonight and they’ve been telling me all about the shelter that they’re building in case Russia attacks. I feel like this is crazy! They do live near an army base (within 10 miles) so they’ve been packing food, water, games, bedding etc to survive a week! Is it me or is that insane? Are we really at that level of risk now? Should I be starting a pack? What do I even put in it?

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Gowlett · 19/06/2025 08:34

They’re watching Sky News. My parents are the same…

GentleSheep · 19/06/2025 08:37

Well. I think if Russia or anyone bombed then a cellar probably wouldn't be deep enough. A week's supply of food etc wouldn't be enough, either. There could be other reasons to prep though so not an entirely bad idea, but it shouldn't become obsessive either.

babystarsandmoon · 19/06/2025 08:43

Like alot of preppers I think they have too much time and money to waste.

ComeAsYouAreAsAFriend · 19/06/2025 08:48

It does sound extreme but this is obviously a worry they have and rather then sit around stressing about it they have decided to do something practical, maybe it is helping with their anxiety over it. They are not harming anyone and potentially enjoying it so leave them at it I'd say.

It is actually quite a good coping mechanism for anxiety - make a plan for the worst case scenario and then you feel more in control of a situation that is ultimately out of your control.

sonoonetoldyoulifewasgonnabethisway · 19/06/2025 08:55

If I had the room I would probably do this myself, but for my own use when I need a break 😂

If they are happy, leave them to it, they aren't hurting anyone

ViciousCurrentBun · 19/06/2025 08:56

Unless they are being hysterical and frightening people over Sunday dinner with tales of anarchy after a war and having a debate about would they turn to cannibalism and eat nice Mrs Smith down the road if it came to it just let them crack on.

Tessiebear2023 · 19/06/2025 10:15

HangryLikeTheHulk · 19/06/2025 07:49

Russia can park a sub armed with conventional weapons about 30 miles of our shore and hit us in less than a minute warning. They don’t need to come from Russia. And Iskander missiles do have enough range to travel from Kaliningrad to the UK.

Hope they painted their windows white and took the doors of their hinges !

In theory they do. After the cold war it was actually discovered that half their missiles didn't have warheads and the other half would probably have blown up in the silos. And as for thier subs, we know they are death-traps that our systems can pick up easily. I know it would only take one or two hit their targets to cause horrendous destruction (many times bigger than nagasaki), but half the threat they posed was bluff. I'm not convinced they are as big a threat as they'd like us to think now either, perhaps that's just wishful thinking!

HelpMeGetThrough · 19/06/2025 10:24

Next thread from OP.

Council told parents to remove bomb shelter, as they don’t have planning permission.

notimagain · 19/06/2025 10:30

Tessiebear2023 · 19/06/2025 10:15

In theory they do. After the cold war it was actually discovered that half their missiles didn't have warheads and the other half would probably have blown up in the silos. And as for thier subs, we know they are death-traps that our systems can pick up easily. I know it would only take one or two hit their targets to cause horrendous destruction (many times bigger than nagasaki), but half the threat they posed was bluff. I'm not convinced they are as big a threat as they'd like us to think now either, perhaps that's just wishful thinking!

Those that know about these things and who are able to talk/write about the issue reckon the current Russian ballistic missile subs pose a very credible threat...

LadyLucyWells · 19/06/2025 10:36

feellikeanalien · 18/06/2025 18:33

My granny used to have an old air raid shelter at the bottom of her garden. I never understood how it would be any use as it wasn't underground.

It was made of bricks with a tin roof so I don't know if maybe during the war it also had earth or something round it. We used to play in it as kids.

That's so cool. There were still a few around during my childhood in the 1970's. I never really understood how they could protect anyone, either but I saw an explanation on a TV documentary recently. Most injuries were caused by flying debris (and blast) so they were made to keep people safe from that rather than direct bombing.

I grew up near Portsmouth, big naval/military area. Nuclear war with Russia felt like a very real possibility during the Cold War. We used to do drills at school. I once asked my dad what the plan was in the event of a nuclear strike and he said 'nothing, they will bomb Portsmouth straight away and we won't know anything about it.' I am still not sure if that made me feel better or worse! 😂

Tessiebear2023 · 19/06/2025 10:40

notimagain · 19/06/2025 10:30

Those that know about these things and who are able to talk/write about the issue reckon the current Russian ballistic missile subs pose a very credible threat...

That's just how they get us to increase our defence spending, not saying we shouldn't.

GoodbyeRosie · 19/06/2025 10:42

I don't think the understand what a military attack on the UK would involve.

It's not like sheltering from doodlebugs in WW2.

There's absolutely no point in them building a shelter; if they want to prep for a cyber attack then yes, get some cash together, water, packet food etc .

If they think they will survey an actual attack, or even want to, then I find that a bit naive.

SparklyGlitterballs · 19/06/2025 10:48

This isn't the 1940s. If we get bombed by a superpower it'll likely be nukes, and no garden shelter will protect you from those. If the bombs come down I want a target on my head so that I'm first out. Can't imagine coming out to the devastation they'd leave behind.

Katiesaidthat · 19/06/2025 10:50

Birdsinginginthetrees · 18/06/2025 18:39

Spoken like a true communist 🙄😂

I think the pp meant they have a lot of free time on their hands so worry about weird things.
OP, since the blackout in Iberia this spring I have decided to have certain items for emergencies as I did get caught out as everything in my house is electric.

cantpullthetrigger · 19/06/2025 10:51

I am intrigued by the certainty with which some posters feel sure any missile would get shot down.

Here’s ChatGPTs take for anyone interested:

1. Flight Time of an ICBM from Russia to the UK

An intercontinental ballistic missile (ICBM) travels extremely fast—typically at speeds of up to 24,000 km/h (15,000 mph) in midcourse. Here’s an approximate timeline:

Distance from western Russia to the UK: ~2,500 to 5,500 km, depending on launch point.

Flight phases:
Boost phase (launch to space): ~3 minutes
Midcourse phase (in space): ~20 minutes
Reentry and terminal phase: ~1–2 minutes

👉 Total estimated time: 20 to 30 minutes, possibly as little as 15 minutes for some shorter-range ICBM trajectories.

2. Likelihood of Interception Before Impact
Intercepting an ICBM is one of the most difficult challenges in missile defense:

Factors that make interception hard:
High speed and altitude: Midcourse phase occurs in space, making it hard to detect and target.
Multiple warheads: Many ICBMs carry MIRVs (Multiple Independently targetable Reentry Vehicles).
Decoys and countermeasures: To confuse missile defense systems.
Limited coverage: Few countries have systems capable of attempting intercepts of ICBMs, and most are untested in real-world conditions.

UK missile defense reality:
The UK does not currently operate its own dedicated missile defense system against ICBMs.
The UK relies heavily on early warning from the US and NATO.
The US has Ground-Based Midcourse Defense (GMD) and other systems, but these are:
Designed primarily to counter limited launches from rogue states.
Not guaranteed to stop a full-scale ICBM attack from a nuclear power like Russia.

👉 Intercept probability: Low to very low, especially for a full-scale or surprise Russian strike.

Not to depress you or anything…

Katiesaidthat · 19/06/2025 10:51

SparklyGlitterballs · 19/06/2025 10:48

This isn't the 1940s. If we get bombed by a superpower it'll likely be nukes, and no garden shelter will protect you from those. If the bombs come down I want a target on my head so that I'm first out. Can't imagine coming out to the devastation they'd leave behind.

And dying of cancer from radiation later on...I agree.

ERthree · 19/06/2025 11:02

DeSoleil · 18/06/2025 17:40

They are loons!

What a ridiculous thing to do!

Better safe than sorry. I always find people with attitudes like this are the ones that take fuck all precautions then expect everyone else to drop everything and bail them out. Yes, i think building a shelter is a step too far but at the same time i wouldn't be that rude and start name calling. What is so wrong with making sure you have a stock just in case something happens or you can't get out of the house for a week? Didn't we all learn after the pandemic to have at least a weeks worth of supplies?

Todayisaday · 19/06/2025 11:09

I work in a global team, some of my colleagues in India and US are building bunkers. It seems quite a few people are around the world...
There are booming bunker businesses, just google them.
I havent gor the room or the funds to build one.. but if I had an acre of land, a large pot of cash floating about and time on my hands I can't say I wouldn't invest.. just in case!

PollyBell · 19/06/2025 11:16

I cant work out how it would a actually make a difference these days, it logically makes no sense gives people a hobby i guess

SharpLily · 19/06/2025 11:30

Nuclear War - Annie Jacobsen

Your parents will probably find this book very interesting, @PanicStations2025 .

If they are really worried about a nuclear holocaust then their preparations need to involve moving to south Argentina or New Zealand stat.

Nuclear War — Annie Jacobsen

https://www.anniejacobsen.com/nuclear-war

Dramatic · 19/06/2025 11:53

Damnloginpopup · 19/06/2025 06:56

Children, children, let me tell you...'during the COLD WAAAAR' those of us of the Nena era were specifically educated by the UK government as to how we, as schoolchildren, could save ourselves in the event of the (99 red) balloon(s) going up...

You MUST paint your windows white (against flash, for fire reduction)
Do not stand near them
Remove internal doors and place them at an angle and place mattresses against them (blast and shrapnel protection)
Fill the bath with water
Shit in a bucket
Lie face down with your head towards the blast, preferably in sunglasses
Put dead grannies in bin bags and tape them up

...stopped remembering so googled 'Protect and Survive' official pamphlet:

http://www.roc-heritage.co.uk/uploads/7/6/8/9/7689271/protectandsurvive.pdf

Watch Threads as well - they made us watch it. It's truly frightening - One woman wees herself and a traffic warden becomes an even bigger cunt than normal.

That's if you want to survive. Not sure i'd bother. We used to discuss all this bollocks in the playground - four minutes warnings, radiation sickness, nuclear winter.. the 80's were shit.

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I like that the most frightening bit is the woman weeing herself 😂

sualipa · 19/06/2025 12:10

Threads is the most frightening film I have ever seen You don't want to survive if it does happen.

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music that you love, upload original content and share it all with friends, family and the world on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vgT4Y30DkaA

SeriaMau · 19/06/2025 12:21

Poopeepoopee · 18/06/2025 18:12

Yeah, but they'd be shot down over Europe before they reach the UK 😅 - go ahead and terrorise everyone though. Pretty sure if Russia couldda done it, they wouldda done it already.

You are spectacularly ill-informed. ICBMs can’t be shot down. They don’t fly over Europe, they go 4500km into space and then descend at 24,000kph.

sualipa · 19/06/2025 12:22

90 grand for a family bunker - other options are available !!

www.uknukeshelters.co.uk/the-family-bunker

sualipa · 19/06/2025 12:24

sualipa · 19/06/2025 12:22

90 grand for a family bunker - other options are available !!

www.uknukeshelters.co.uk/the-family-bunker

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Parents starting an air raid shelter