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Why have people tolerated the housing catastrophe of the last 30 years

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nomemono · 17/06/2025 20:47

I know it has been good for those geared up or alt the top of the ladder in the mid 90s, and to a declining degree, most years since then, but really, how has this been allowed to happen. Just as one illustration, houses in the frankly crime ridden North London estate I grew up now cost 4 times their real, inflation adjusted, 1997 price. £420,000 to live in one of the worst areas of London, in an old, poorly insulated house. Oxford, affordable when I was a student, now almost worse than London. Cambridge, Brighton, anywhere well linked and with good transport links or local jobs, the same. People casually posting on this website about having £900k to spend on a house. Single people shafted, ditto those without inheritances. How has it come to this?

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HoppingPavlova · 18/06/2025 12:36

Because homeowners had a vested interest in rising property prices, they didn’t want the brakes put on. Because homeowners formed the greater part of the population pyramid for so long (think of it as an upside down pyramid with older homeowners forming the broader top layer). Politicians of the day work for the broadest population base with policies favouring them in order to stay in power. So, no political party without a death wish was going to put the brakes on property prices. That’s only going to occur when the broadest base of the pyramid are the group that needs/wants this, then it will occur. So, it will happen but not until the bulk of the voting population represents this need.

So, in essence, extremely simple on ‘how it came to this’.

ETA - while not easy, it’s still possible. Some of my kids have just purchased a small run down flat together. It meant they had to stay at home and not leave the nest, which they would have preferred. It meant saving the bulk of their earnings, living frugally, not pissing it away ever Fri/Sat night. However, once on the ladder and with a bit of elbow grease and some further progression in the ladder at work, and increased equity they should be able to add another in a few years and then another so they will be financially independent of each other (although at this stage their preference is joint for all properties at the end of the day, but maybe the future will change minds?).

They have friends who are serious about getting into the property market, who are banding together as 3 couples to rent 3 bedroom flat together, eat dirt together for a few years to enable deposits/affordable repayments. So, it’s possible, this generation just has to make larger sacrifices, that’s the difference.

FeistyFrankie · 18/06/2025 12:38

Those worst affected by it were, for quite a long time, ignored politically in favour of those who held greater political sway. That's basically it. It's now got so bad that it affects a larger proportion of the voting public, hence why it's finally being talked about and attempts to address it by those in power are being made.

Selfishness and greed by those whose homes rocketed in value, essentially, is the issue.

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Crikeyalmighty · 18/06/2025 12:55

@nomemono I agree with most of that and also posted about the FPTP system - I don’t think Starmer is an idiot stall though - I think he’s been dealt a very difficult hand where he’s damned if he does, damned if he doesn’t mainly because as you say if the FPTP system - also some things are kind of undoable without significant cost and a mainly right wing dominance in media these days that is against anything progressive or not focussed on late middle aged to elderly people- as that’s their core market in the main - my honest belief is the Tory’s threw the last election mainly because they knew they had created a ticking time bomb and left the country in a perilous situation post Brexit and Covid - they were bang out of solutions that fitted a Tory agenda.

Fundayout2025 · 18/06/2025 13:03

Drew79 · 18/06/2025 12:27

Not everyone is on minimum wage.
Minimum wage is higher in parts of London is it not?

No but a hell of a lot of people are , or very close to it. Do these people not need homes then? I don't think that minimum wage is any higher in London than it is elsewhere.

Just seen the median wage is £18.64 and hour so that means that 50% earn less than that

Steakbreake · 18/06/2025 13:04

Stolenyouth · 17/06/2025 21:33

I have three in their 20s and they have just decided not to play the ‘housing ladder’ game. They can’t join in and they can’t win.

Some bloke at work who has several buy to lets was banging on about 40 year mortgages and shared ownership and commuting 2 hours as options for them. They MUST buy something. It worked for him! No. They won’t be inflating this bubble any more. He didn’t like that I said flats were slowly deflating and it was a good thing that landlords were being squeezed. Like he was clever to have made money instead of just lucky with timing.

Just out of curiosity what are they doing instead? Shared ownership is actually better than renting because it's cheaper and you can't be evicted on a landlords whim

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 18/06/2025 13:07

Computersaysdontwantto · 18/06/2025 08:25

I remember back in the early 2000s I had a job where I had to find a particular number once a month and the easiest place to find it at the time was a website called ‘housepricecrash.co.uk’ or some such. It was packed with people declaring an imminent house price crash, they were holding off buying until it came etc. It reminded me of people in cults thinking the world was going to end next Tuesday at 12:15.

Yes you don’t want to lose money but you have to have a home somewhere. Having said that I do think house prices will fall in the next 20 years (Britain is in decline economically, population is in decline, no one can afford to pay it unless they inherit) and there are much better places to put your money.

Absolutely - people have been predicting that the whole thing is about to crash, and that only a fool would buy now, for absolutely ages. I remember absolutely terrifying myself just before we bought our first house in 2015 by reading some forum full of people saying that anyone who bought at that point - so self-evidently the very top of the market - was clearly an idiot. As it was we sold that house 5 years later for £60k more than we paid for it (which, of course, benefited us not a whit because the bigger house we then bought had gone up by even more in those years).

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 18/06/2025 13:10

AlertCat · 18/06/2025 12:24

Live in a van or on a boat? Opt out completely?

I know someone who lived in a houseboat and it is not nearly as much cheaper as you'd think/hope!

Drew79 · 18/06/2025 13:11

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 12:33

Hmm. We bought our house 16 years ago, NW coastal town, £525,000. We were 45 and 51 at the time. Under offer atm for £580.

We've spent over £100,000 on extensions and upgrades so effectively losing money.

We’re very happy, though. We’re able to downsize, which we desperately need to do for medical reasons, and split the remainder after mortgage balance paid off with the adult kids which will help them greatly.

I do feel so sorry for youngsters who don’t have that sort of familial support, though. How on earth do they stand a chance?

I started life in two rooms in a basement and then a 2 bed, grotty council house in Brixton but it had an indoor bathroom so we ignored the mould. At least council housing was available then.

That house has recently gone on the market at just shy of £500,000. Couldn’t believe it when I looked into London prices, after being told I was out of touch on another thread.

Indeed I was!

2009? I'm amazed you've lost money , prices had plunged ny then.

Most NW houses have doubled in value in the last 10-11 years (which is bad bad thing)

Nettleteaser101 · 18/06/2025 13:16

hyggetyggedotorg · 17/06/2025 21:39

MIL bought her 1970s council house in one of the most desirable areas of Birmingham for £11k under Maggie’s RTB scheme. She was able to save this money & pay in cash from FILs FT factory job and her work as a dinner lady.

Her house is now worth £400k & somehow this is “earned through hard work”. Is it?

DH & I both have full time higher paying jobs & zero hope of affording a £400k house. That’s the problem.

So if there was still RTB would you turn your nose up at it or bite the hand off.
Opportunity was knocking for council house renters by Thatcher don't tell me if you were in that situation you wouldn't have brought your house . So much jealousy towards older people it's disgusting.

TreeDudette · 18/06/2025 13:25

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 18/06/2025 13:10

I know someone who lived in a houseboat and it is not nearly as much cheaper as you'd think/hope!

I always suspected as much but I guess we include Park home / nomadic lifestyle / camp on the beach etc.. to the list of possible options!

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 18/06/2025 13:26

TreeDudette · 18/06/2025 13:25

I always suspected as much but I guess we include Park home / nomadic lifestyle / camp on the beach etc.. to the list of possible options!

Park home is also an absolutely terrible investment and would work out really badly financially - camp on the beach is cheap but has some clear downsides...!

nomemono · 18/06/2025 13:30

AlpineMuesli · 18/06/2025 12:03

"letting this catastrophe unfold"

But what do you suggest we do? Stop banks lending high multiples?

Net migration is already being cut from the high of 860,000 in 2023.

Did we build enough homes for 860,000 more people? I don't think that's even possible tbh (looks like we completed about 150,000 new homes in 2023).

I suppose we could try and incentivise builders not to land bank, or to punish them for slowing down building starts.

This is what I'd suggest people do:

  1. Join political pressure groups and parties that support decreasing housing costs a quickly and by as much as possible.
  2. Create and sign petitions on the subject demanding it be raised in Parliament
  3. Mass demonstrations & civil disobedience. Target the supposedly critical 10% of the population on the streets at the same time in different parts of the country. So 7 million people marching.
  4. Bombard sitting and prospective MPs demanding action

On an individual level, young non inheritors on <£100k p.a. might be advised to look for work that is remote, take language classes then relocate to parts of Europe with reliable broadband and affordable housing. Unless there is radical change within a reasonable time frame, much of the UK will be for the older property owners, their inheritees, and people who have migrated from countries with a worse quality of life. Nursing and teaching posts will go unfilled, including in fee paying schools. Worse health and education outcomes over a generation, possibly feeding into a declining economy and eventually declining house prices in 30or 40 years time.

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ERthree · 18/06/2025 13:33

At the start of the 90s women stayed at home with the children and mortgages were based on one wage. By the end of the 90s childcare centres were opening, so women went back to work, therefore there was 2 wages to base a mortgage on. If a house was up for sale at £79k a working couple could offer more than "traditional" couple where one stayed at home. also when a house was valued at £79k but was bought for £83 by a working couple the neighbours then believed (as did estate agents) they could get £88k for theirs and on and on it went. Valuations weren't and still aren't based on the actual worth but on what you can expect someone to pay for it. Add into the mix of high numbers of migration in the last 20 years and it is a nightmare.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 18/06/2025 13:40

I remember reading probably at least 10 years ago, that the housing benefit bill was something like 20 billion annually. And a good deal of that would have been going straight into landlords’ pockets. Scandalous.

scotchbonnetface · 18/06/2025 13:47

Drew79 · 17/06/2025 22:04

They can't upgrade because the 'starter home' is so expensive and means maxing out on lending for a long term, equity doesn't get built quickly, there's nowhere to go.

This is me now. I’m 42 and still in my starter home, with no chance of moving up the ladder due to higher rates and low wages.

FlameGrilledSquirrel · 18/06/2025 13:58

Hiddenmnetter · 17/06/2025 21:27

So there are a number of factors:

  1. double income families. Double income families put pressure on house prices because they increase demand. By having 2 incomes you end up increasing the value of houses because the same number of purchases are happening against 2 incomes instead of 1.
  2. Supply being outpaced by demand. Population grew by 600k in the last year alone with 230k new dwellings built. This is insufficient
  3. lower density: the increase in the rate of divorce and the increase of people using the bank of mum and dad to get on to the property ladder as single people. Over the last 20 years the average people per dwelling has decreased from 2.5 to 2.1 (roughly a 20-25% decrease).

all these factors and probably a few more have resulted in sustained pressure on the house price because they all indicate an increase in demand which has outpaced supply by a significant margin. For instance in the 60s people would spend approximately 8% of their income on accommodation which is now sitting in the 20-25% region (on average, the portion for lower income is vastly higher). That’s a 3-4 fold increase in the cost of housing in real terms (taking mean wage as the indicator).

There have also been real terms increases in the wealth and productivity of the UK which also naturally puts pressure on house prices. And inflation of any kind (real or monetary) always benefits people with assets and debts (assets continue to appreciate while debt value is destroyed in real terms). This is why it’s always better to take on as much debt as you can as early in your life as you can reasonably sustain. I work with people who today had mortgages of £500/month and thought that was a monstrous sum. I work with other people paying £2,000-£3,000/month for their mortgage today. Over time inflation makes fools of us all.

Don't forget that land is a decreasing asset and because it's finite, the cost of the land also keeps going up and up.

amicisimma · 18/06/2025 13:59

I think a lot of attitudes have changed.

My dad was over 50 before he first bought. My early years were spent in a HMO. Nowadays people would be horrified at a family spending years living like that. When my parents eventually bought the place was a wreck, not quite in a nice part of London. I remember my mum stuffing newspaper into the cracks in the wall to stop the draughts.

I didn't buy until I was in my 30s. Before that I lived in various house-shares in varying degrees of squalor. For several years I worked three jobs: my main one, evenings in a pub, and three 12-hour shifts per fortnight at weekends. I didn't go out much - didn't have much time.

Nowadays no one seems to want to share for over a decade, or miss out on takeaways, or delay having a family until they are established. Yet all my friends were in shares in our 20s and have lots of good friends made that way.

My first buy was a tiny one-bed on the fourth floor in a rather run down building in an area of London no one had heard off. No tube close by. But at least one post says that s/he doesn't want to work up the housing ladder.

Added to the immigration numbers, numbers of people living in single-adult households, complicated planning/building regulations, difficulty and expense of finding builders and materials, so constraints on building, and housing becomes scarce. And like any scarce commodity, expensive.

Nettleteaser101 · 18/06/2025 14:00

Oh and not everyone could afford RTB. I couldn't my parents couldn't. A lot of people could not get a mortgage. Also a single woman could not get a mortgage or she had to be married or have thier dad sign for them.
Most people I know have got a mortgage in the last 20 years because thier parents have helped them out. So the boomers are not that selfish.

Primrose86 · 18/06/2025 14:05

mantaraya · 18/06/2025 11:45

Another factor IMO (under the Tories too) has been the apparently perfectly legal marketing of entire, or almost entire, blocks of new flats to relatively wealthy SE Asian buyers, who in general would be able and willing to pay more than your average first time U.K. buyer wanting a 2 bed flat

A friend of mine was living in Malaysia and said there were constant property fairs flogging entire developments in the UK. One was fronted by Boris Johnson. Absolutely scandalous.

It's the international buyers who buy off plan that provide the initial capital (through the initial deposits) for any building in the first place. It's not an ideal situation but that's what you get when vast majority of building is private. Lots of singaporeans buy apartments off plan in uk but in singapore vast majority of building is done by the state and for citizens.

There are fewer foreign buyers now and most brits don't want to buy new build leasehold hence there is far less building in London now.

OchreSnail · 18/06/2025 14:09

Poopeepoopee · 17/06/2025 21:27

The problem of wages not rising belongs to tax credits. The generation x and millenials all became addicted to tax credits and preferred to work the minimum amount of hours they could possibly get away with because the rest of it would be topped up with tax credits anyway so why bother working. Of course, t his means that you can only ever have £6k in savings which means that you can't afford a house deposit.

The problem of house prices also lies with Gen X and Millenials. They are the ones paying those prices. Them. Not baby boomers, baby boomers didn't pay those prices - they haggled and they haggled fucking hard too. Didn't pay £50k more for a house coz someone put some Aesop handsoap and John Lewis Towels in the "downstairs cloakroom".

It's easy to blame the boomers. Perhaps look inward a bit more because thats something you can control.

What is this fuckery?

Primrose86 · 18/06/2025 14:14

Dh and I bought our 2 bed flat in London in our 20s for 400k (period 1930s flat) in 2019. Cobbled together deposit after 3 years of work.

We weren't any different from his parents; his father lived at home until his early 30s before buying a 1 bed flat in London as a newly wed and they had 3 children there in 7 years. We lived with his mum for 3 years so we had a quicker timeline probably cos our wages were higher..They only bought their terraced with family help. We wouldn't be getting that so would be staying in our flat and investing in education instead. Dh got a vasectomy after I got pregnant to prevent the 3 kid situation.

Of course dh's grandpa (also in London) had a better time housing wise with his mortgage on a 3 bed semi from the council on a single garment worker's salary but that was in the 50s and they paid their mortgage with savings from a tin can. So I find it difficult to relate to that time.

MargoLivebetter · 18/06/2025 14:18

I'm not sure that people have tolerated it, but as individuals it is hard to know what they could do, other than live in a yurt in wild camping areas of Scotland!

Property prices have risen faster than wages in Dublin, Sydney, Vancouver, New York huge swathes of the UK and many more places and countries. It was a big issue in the Canadian elections just gone.

Here in the UK we have a desperate shortage of housing, which keeps prices high. We also have wages that haven't risen at the same pace, meaning that young people can't afford to buy anything. In addition, we have a shortage of skilled labourers. The Construction Industry Training Board estimates that over quarter of a million extra labourers will be required by 2028 to meet demand. The shortage spans all specialisms and layers of the construction industry, from senior project managers to the steel fixers, welders and labourers needed on site.

We also had Sarah Beeney and similar back in the noughties telling us all what a good wheeze it was to buy properties cheap, do them up and rent them for income, which loads of people did. In 2004 there were 2,894,000 privately rented dwellings by 2019 that had gone up to 5,363,000 privately rented dwellings. I imagine in the last 5 years it has only increased further. Maybe the new Renters Rights Bill will prove so punitive for landlords that they start to sell some of their income properties, which may release some more properties to buy.

Labour seems to have good ambitions to get more houses built but without training, investment and probably tax breaks I'm not sure how those ambitions will be realised.

5foot5 · 18/06/2025 14:19

Bryonny84 · 17/06/2025 22:13

But if you had the opportunity to do the same you'd do it. We all would.

Exactly. Why blame people for grabbing the opportunities available to them.

CatHairEveryWhereNow · 18/06/2025 14:32

Maybe the new Renters Rights Bill will prove so punitive for landlords that they start to sell some of their income properties, which may release some more properties to buy.

Won't that reduce the properties to rent - thus driving up demand and prices for people not yet in a position to buy - and thus put renters at more of a disadvantage to ever be in a position to buy?

I'm not a landlord but took us 10 years to save our first deposit - no bank of mum and dad for us - to buy and for our careers to settle to one area for a bit. So those 10 years we needed to rent various places - and they were all private landlords.

My kids near or at first steps of adulthood won't be in positions to buy for years yet - and were not in a position to give them any significant money to help. They are just starting out and while they at least of option of living with us their careers and work they want may not have jobs in this area for them to do so.

It is really odd though as everywhere my family is in UK there is signifacnt building works - massive new estates - all of which have had to overcome huge opposition yet we still aren't building enough housing year on year.