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Why have people tolerated the housing catastrophe of the last 30 years

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nomemono · 17/06/2025 20:47

I know it has been good for those geared up or alt the top of the ladder in the mid 90s, and to a declining degree, most years since then, but really, how has this been allowed to happen. Just as one illustration, houses in the frankly crime ridden North London estate I grew up now cost 4 times their real, inflation adjusted, 1997 price. £420,000 to live in one of the worst areas of London, in an old, poorly insulated house. Oxford, affordable when I was a student, now almost worse than London. Cambridge, Brighton, anywhere well linked and with good transport links or local jobs, the same. People casually posting on this website about having £900k to spend on a house. Single people shafted, ditto those without inheritances. How has it come to this?

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Poynsettia · 18/06/2025 18:00

It’s u foreseen consequences.
In the Edwardian and Victorian times rich industrialists bought estates and built mansions.
in the 70s and on people realised houses held their values and even went up in value in desirable areas.
So people wanted to buy houses, so did anyone wanting to make money /foreign investors, landlord businesses etc
House prices rose -however not just here but worldwide, why no one spotted this I don’t know.i remember everyone being encouraged to invest in property -private and cOmmercial in the 2000s . Then we allowed thousands of people to move here increasing demand and we are where we are-worldwide.

DuesToTheDirt · 18/06/2025 18:03

HoratioBellsOn · 18/06/2025 14:38

It's simply not true to say that women stayed at home in the 90s. In 1991 more than 70% of women worked, and by 1992 60% of women with children worked, and almost 80% of women with children over 10 worked. I had my DC in the 90s and all my Mum friends were working.

I went to a 'childcare centre' ie a nursery, in the 1960s, they didn't start opening in the late 90s.

Was your mother a nurse or a teacher? Mine was a teacher in the 1960s, and I think she said they opened nurseries for certain professions to get women back to work and address shortages.

But as for staying home in the 90s, which is what I remember personally, no we absolutely didn't!

DuesToTheDirt · 18/06/2025 18:07

anotherside · 18/06/2025 14:34

@nomemono

the dreadful FPTP

Which is a cause of much of the rubbish policy of the country: there’s no incentive for the two big parties to change. They just need to shore up their little posse of voters and that’s that. As much as I hate Reform the one bright side is that at least they’re making the two parties have to actually work for once. But what we really need is PR.

We have PR in Scotland, and it has allowed complete lunatics into government.

treesfalling · 18/06/2025 18:53

In 1991 more than 70% of women worked, and by 1992 60% of women with children worked, and almost 80% of women with children over 10 worked.

Are these statistics for full time work! And is this for women with babies?

Papyrophile · 18/06/2025 20:25

I went back to work six months after giving birth. To make my life work with the freedom to jump on a plane, I had to have a private FT Nanny so I did, but I could not offset any of that cost against my business expenses, so it was paid out of after-tax income. I could have offset secretarial costs against earnings, but I didn't need a secretary. It was the stupidest tax rule ever, but it finished my career. I earned extremely well, and could have continued to earn well, but eventually the numbers parsed down to 1/3 for the revenue, a third to the nanny and I got the change. At which point I decided that working wasn't worth it at all, because my clients wanted all of me when necessary. There wasn't any local transition to be made, so I changed career. Unsuccessfully. It might not be quite so abrupt now, but in the late 90s and early 2000s, the HMRC rules on domestic help cost them lost tax on £85,000 to £90,000 earnings. The last year I worked FT, in 1998, I earned £80k. All gone. I stopped work. How flipping stupid is that?

Tallyrand · 18/06/2025 20:46

Dolphinnoises · 18/06/2025 07:47

It was not only tolerated, it was celebrated. As single gen x-er in London I managed my first time buy by the skin of my teeth (220k) but the mood among those who had bought ahead of the wave was that they were earning money through having done something prudent (ie, were able to buy in the window it was clear property was going to go up).

For a long time after the first boom there was an assumption there would be a correction before long. I knew someone who even sold their London house in 2003 as the economist was predicting a massive crash and he wanted to get ahead of it - bad choice there. But it just didn’t happen.

What people didn’t fully appreciate ahead of the financial crisis was how the mortgage market had got out of control. Responsible lending had been a check and balance to the market. When they were giving money to anyone with a pulse who could write their own name, they didn’t advertise how lax they were and there was still a sense that if the lender had lent you the money, it had to be a good decision. Because until recently that had been the case.

I do remember a mad moment when Kirstie Allsopp got cross with an economist who was saying the housing market was unsustainable, saying “does he not own a house?” Everyone’s was addicted to Location Location Location. They could see obviously people were priced out but at first it was shielded by the bank of mum and dad and rock bottom interest rates.

A lot of what you are saying resonates with me.

In 2004 I was an 18YO student at Uni working a part time weekend job on £100 a week and every time I went in to my bank to deposit or withdraw or whatever they were trying to book appointments for me with mortgage advisers.

ForWittyTealOP · 18/06/2025 22:34

Won't that reduce the properties to rent - thus driving up demand and prices for people not yet in a position to buy - and thus put renters at more of a disadvantage to ever be in a position to buy?

Unfortunately yes, probably. That's what has happened in Wales after similar legislation was brought in. It's turned a crisis into a catastrophe with the remaining landlords able to be extremely choosy about their tenants and to impose ever more stringent conditions.
This kind of legislation needs to be backed up by real alternatives including widely available social housing otherwise, no matter how well meaning, it will just exacerbate the housing crisis.

notprincehamlet · 18/06/2025 23:03

So the boomers are not that selfish.
Helping out your own kids with wealth you didn't work for and on which you've never paid tax isn't exactly selfless.

TankFlyBossW4lk · 18/06/2025 23:40

Poopeepoopee · 17/06/2025 21:27

The problem of wages not rising belongs to tax credits. The generation x and millenials all became addicted to tax credits and preferred to work the minimum amount of hours they could possibly get away with because the rest of it would be topped up with tax credits anyway so why bother working. Of course, t his means that you can only ever have £6k in savings which means that you can't afford a house deposit.

The problem of house prices also lies with Gen X and Millenials. They are the ones paying those prices. Them. Not baby boomers, baby boomers didn't pay those prices - they haggled and they haggled fucking hard too. Didn't pay £50k more for a house coz someone put some Aesop handsoap and John Lewis Towels in the "downstairs cloakroom".

It's easy to blame the boomers. Perhaps look inward a bit more because thats something you can control.

Sorry, this post just makes boomers look deluded and insane. They didn't haggle by the way. What utter nonsense.

Nettleteaser101 · 19/06/2025 04:47

It's so easy to blame" boomers". I think most people these days would love that the film Solent Green to be real life. So many people these days really dislike their parents it's terrible. I hope it's only a few disgruntled MNetters that think this way.

anotherside · 19/06/2025 05:22

Interesting

Badbadbunny · 19/06/2025 06:06

DuesToTheDirt · 18/06/2025 18:07

We have PR in Scotland, and it has allowed complete lunatics into government.

And Hitler gained power through PR in Germany!

Onelifeonly · 19/06/2025 06:07

Hiddenmnetter · 17/06/2025 21:27

So there are a number of factors:

  1. double income families. Double income families put pressure on house prices because they increase demand. By having 2 incomes you end up increasing the value of houses because the same number of purchases are happening against 2 incomes instead of 1.
  2. Supply being outpaced by demand. Population grew by 600k in the last year alone with 230k new dwellings built. This is insufficient
  3. lower density: the increase in the rate of divorce and the increase of people using the bank of mum and dad to get on to the property ladder as single people. Over the last 20 years the average people per dwelling has decreased from 2.5 to 2.1 (roughly a 20-25% decrease).

all these factors and probably a few more have resulted in sustained pressure on the house price because they all indicate an increase in demand which has outpaced supply by a significant margin. For instance in the 60s people would spend approximately 8% of their income on accommodation which is now sitting in the 20-25% region (on average, the portion for lower income is vastly higher). That’s a 3-4 fold increase in the cost of housing in real terms (taking mean wage as the indicator).

There have also been real terms increases in the wealth and productivity of the UK which also naturally puts pressure on house prices. And inflation of any kind (real or monetary) always benefits people with assets and debts (assets continue to appreciate while debt value is destroyed in real terms). This is why it’s always better to take on as much debt as you can as early in your life as you can reasonably sustain. I work with people who today had mortgages of £500/month and thought that was a monstrous sum. I work with other people paying £2,000-£3,000/month for their mortgage today. Over time inflation makes fools of us all.

This is a sensible assessment.

Market forces. If there are fewer properties available, people who can afford to buy will pay more to get what they want.

More women than ever work, and many more work full time when they have children than used to. That means families without a double income ( and single parent families or single people) are automatically at a disadvantage.

Housing stock is lower relative to the population than it used to be, so there's more competition and many people are priced out. Where I live there is an unbelievable amount of building of high rise flats going on everywhere I look - many still not ready for moving into. Not sure how affordable they are but someone will buy them. Is it enough - I don't know, but it shows that there is simply a totally insufficient housing stock.

Divorce and separation is rife. Ex two parent families now need two places to live. More demand, higher prices.

I could easily buy a property in the 80s as a single person on a starting salary and continue to socialise as much as I liked (though the latter wasn't expensive back then either, not were utility bills). I did have extra funds from the bank of mum and dad which enabled me to buy something better than I could have afforded on my own, but I also had savings from temporary jobs I'd done as a student. My other single friends mostly bought their own places too, but some didn't more due to not wanting the responsibility yet or waiting till they were married, rather than for financial reasons.

ForWittyTealOP · 19/06/2025 06:19

Badbadbunny · 19/06/2025 06:06

And Hitler gained power through PR in Germany!

That's not quite the full story...

Hiddenmnetter · 19/06/2025 06:40

Badbadbunny · 19/06/2025 06:06

And Hitler gained power through PR in Germany!

lol the brown shirts wouldn’t have surrounded the reichstag if FPTP meant he’d only won 10 seats despite winning 33% of the vote 😂😂

Mashbutterfly · 19/06/2025 06:44

Badbadbunny · 17/06/2025 20:54

Because older people are more likely to vote than younger and they’re the ones benefitting from house price inflation and shortages of homes to buy or rent.

We need people to stop having children in multiple relationships so multiple houses are needed.

We need some small blocks of flats and we need to enforce people moving out of council housing as soon as the children leave and they are under occupied. Members of our extended family are a retired couple in a 3 bed semi housing association house. They should be in a flat.

Mashbutterfly · 19/06/2025 06:45

We absolutely should not be churning up the countryside to build more houses. Its absolutely heartbreaking.

ExtraOnions · 19/06/2025 07:33

Mashbutterfly · 19/06/2025 06:45

We absolutely should not be churning up the countryside to build more houses. Its absolutely heartbreaking.

Less than 10% of land in this country is built on .. that’s all built environment including roads, railways, shops, houses etc. Vast swathes are banked, to aid various tax-dodging schemes.

SarfLondonLad · 19/06/2025 07:48

Fluffyholeysocks · 17/06/2025 21:22

Houses used to be homes. Now they are investments, buy to lets, second homes, air bnbs. Go to central London in winter and see how many lights are on in the apartments overlooking the Thames in the evening.

Edited

I agree. BTLs and, in certain areas (Cornwall, Wales etc), holiday homes are a major factor in all this.

I think the Welsh govt's policy of taxing second homes etc. is an excellent idea.

spicemaiden · 19/06/2025 07:52

SarfLondonLad · 19/06/2025 07:48

I agree. BTLs and, in certain areas (Cornwall, Wales etc), holiday homes are a major factor in all this.

I think the Welsh govt's policy of taxing second homes etc. is an excellent idea.

Couldn’t agree more. Taxes on second homes, and stop the insanity of reduced or no council tax.

Bryonyberries · 19/06/2025 07:57

My youngsters don’t have a chance. I’m in a council house and have no assets so no inheritance will come their way. They are all working full time but the ‘affordable housing’ is way over what is actually affordable on a bottom of the rung wage. Until they meet a partner or climb the wage ladder they have no chance. My eldest daughter (25) has given up and is using her money on nice holidays rather than paying a landlord all her wage each month and the deposit required for a mortgage is also beyond her reach.

It also means I can’t downsize my council house any time soon (which I’d be willing to do) for a young family as my adult children still need it as a base. I’m also unlikely to become a grandparent since they haven’t got a home of their own to settle in and start a family.

gingercat02 · 19/06/2025 08:04

Maggie Thatcher gave away all the council houses and created the whole buy to let culture.
Also all the millions of holiday lets/air B&B taking up good housing for local people.
London is absolutely mad, millions of pounds of fairly average houses

AlertCat · 19/06/2025 08:16

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 18/06/2025 13:10

I know someone who lived in a houseboat and it is not nearly as much cheaper as you'd think/hope!

That’s true, but you do avoid council tax, and standing charges for utilities. You can also own a boat outright for much less than a house so it’s more open to people with very little. My area is very expensive (comparable to London, but without the London weighting for pay) and more and more people are scraping together money for a van or a boat because rents are so high (and so competitive to get in the first place). My local Facebook groups constantly have appeals for places to live, and then often from the same people, places to park up a van or caravan. Bristol as another example has massive van park-ups under motorways and on the downs because it’s so hard to rent or buy in the city.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 19/06/2025 08:35

Mashbutterfly · 19/06/2025 06:44

We need people to stop having children in multiple relationships so multiple houses are needed.

We need some small blocks of flats and we need to enforce people moving out of council housing as soon as the children leave and they are under occupied. Members of our extended family are a retired couple in a 3 bed semi housing association house. They should be in a flat.

Edited

Maybe they don’t want to be?

We live in a democracy.

Badbadbunny · 19/06/2025 10:34

gingercat02 · 19/06/2025 08:04

Maggie Thatcher gave away all the council houses and created the whole buy to let culture.
Also all the millions of holiday lets/air B&B taking up good housing for local people.
London is absolutely mad, millions of pounds of fairly average houses

Don’t forget uni student housing too!