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Teaching OMG!

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LucilleBluth · 17/06/2025 07:46

I have been training to teach this year. I started my PGCE as a 43 year old in September 2024. I’m about to finish it-well I say that. I’m feel like I’m hitting rock bottom with two weeks to go. I have worked in schools as support staff before so I wasn’t totally blind and I have good friends who are teachers, but oh my god, it is such hard work. The workload is insane-the kids are lovely but I’m dealing with so much extra stuff like SEN, EAL is off the charts, behaviour, kids without equipment and who can’t cope unless a lesson is chunked and scaffolded so much I may as well spoon feed it.

I don’t feel I can do it full time so I applied for a Cover Supervisor role-15 qualified teachers applied for a £21000 year job, I,didn't get it. What’s the point

Teacher pay needs doubling. I’ve been awake since 1am.

OP posts:
Falingoth · 17/06/2025 12:53

LucilleBluth · 17/06/2025 11:56

One of my dear dear friends is HoD for English in the grammar system. He is the epitome of the perfect teacher-he’s absolutely outstanding and totally inspirational. But he teaches top set KS4 and KS5. Won’t go near years 7 and 8. I think that’s the only way to survive.

Sorry I laughed at this. Of course he's outstanding and inspirational. He's got the easiest job.
Meanwhile, in the real world...

itgetsthehoseagain · 17/06/2025 12:58

Most of the fun of preparation used to be creating our own schemes of work IMO. I remember months translating and preparing Chaucer, for example - by the time I taught it I knew it upside down and backwards. The same with Paradise Lost and all the Shakespeares. This wouldn't have happened if I'd just tried to nestle down into someone else's scheme of work.

ClawsandEffect · 17/06/2025 13:02

Add to this the talking, making noises, putting on lipgloss, telling me my lesson is boring, messing with a water bottle, not having a pen, chatting about the latest group chat drama-and I’m strict.

This is just secondary teaching I'm afraid. You'll get better at managing it.

The insane workload isn't your fault.

dontgetmestartedwillu · 17/06/2025 13:04

cgywtofm · 17/06/2025 09:31

I left 15 years ago and it was bad enough then. Since then nearly everyone I worked with has left the profession because it's become even worse.
It's the workload and the stress and often bullying SLTs adding to the stress.
There are so many children with EAL and SEN and that means differentiating work for all of them, chasing up referrals and assessments for SEN children and putting strategies in place for them, often with very little support.
One of the things I struggled to cope with was trying to do my best for those children but it never being enough because you're stretched so thin and then that horrible feeling of letting children down even though you're giving your all.
I had a couple of episodes off with stress for weeks when I just could not move off the sofa. And then my GP said this is making you really ill and if you don't change career you'll end up permanently unable to work or end up in an early grave. So I left teaching and the UK and started again in Austria.

Several years later I was asked to go back into the classroom to teach children English in a primary school in Austria. I really didn't want to after my bad experiences in the UK, but it's completely different and it's wonderful. Not everywhere is perfect though as schools in Vienna do have a lot of issues.

However there are a few things that do make it easier in Austria:
Smaller classes (the largest class I teach has 19 children in it)
Shorter school day (from 7.30 am to noon, not ideal for working parents but there is afternoon childcare provided by the school)
No extensive planning, teachers make notes in a planner and that's it.
Government scheme for Maths and German with workbooks that every child works through at the same time (no differentiation and not ideal but somehow it does actually work. The children reach a good standard by the time they leave primary school)
Children can resit the year if they have not reached the standard. Sometimes this is on a voluntary basis and sometimes the school will insist on it. This means you don't have children who are constantly struggling at the bottom of the class and never make the time up. It does have the disadvantage of course of a child not moving up with friends and peer groups.
For secondary education there are different types of schools to suit different children and then a second transfer point at 14 where children can go on to a polytechnic school, then apprenticeship and vocational school or they can choose schools with a specific focus such as tourism, healthcare, graphic design or grammar school etc.

It's not about pay, it's about the conditions.
I'm not saying Austria is perfect because it isn't. It's completely different and the teachers are not stressed in the same way as they are in the UK. In fact they are so laid back it took me a while to get used to it. But when you see the children learning and progressing without all this stress and targets it's wonderful.

So interesting to hear this.

I am not a teacher but have thought for a while why don't schools have text books anymore? I think it would make it easier for teachers AND kids (especially the ADHD / ND ones, having everything organised in one place).

Having books shouldn't of course preclude being able to do supplementary sheets of paper if needed but all these hands outs are a nightmare for disorganised kids!! I know there is a cost involved but charge parents for lost books if need be.

Horserider5678 · 17/06/2025 13:08

LucilleBluth · 17/06/2025 07:46

I have been training to teach this year. I started my PGCE as a 43 year old in September 2024. I’m about to finish it-well I say that. I’m feel like I’m hitting rock bottom with two weeks to go. I have worked in schools as support staff before so I wasn’t totally blind and I have good friends who are teachers, but oh my god, it is such hard work. The workload is insane-the kids are lovely but I’m dealing with so much extra stuff like SEN, EAL is off the charts, behaviour, kids without equipment and who can’t cope unless a lesson is chunked and scaffolded so much I may as well spoon feed it.

I don’t feel I can do it full time so I applied for a Cover Supervisor role-15 qualified teachers applied for a £21000 year job, I,didn't get it. What’s the point

Teacher pay needs doubling. I’ve been awake since 1am.

You didn’t get it because as a newly qualified teacher you lack experience! I’m not sure what expected teaching to be like? Sounds like you thought it would be an easy ride with long holidays and the reality is starting to hit you! You also knew what the pay would be. It sounds like you don’t want to teach, so maybe go back into your previous field!

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:17

Soal · 17/06/2025 12:48

It's mad to me that so many English teachers think they're paid enough. My mum is a primary teacher working all the hours god sends in a difficult school and she always says the pay is fine. There's not many developed countries that pay teachers so little. They're paid more in Scotland. Not sure about Ireland but I get the impression it's a much nicer job there mostly. My Canadian husband is shocked by the low wages and conditions for teachers in England. Why is their labour worth less than in other places? I see a predominantly female workforce being taken advantage of and selling itself short, no wonder there's so much burnout.

I think we are not paid enough, and we would love to be paid more.

I might only be speaking for myself here, but we see how little money there is, and of what money we can get into Education, we would much rather see it spent on support and provision, which ultimately may make Teaching more manageable.

For Teachers to be paid more it often has to come from existing budgets, as we have seen this year, and quite often there is very little left in the school kitty.

Horserider5678 · 17/06/2025 13:18

Soal · 17/06/2025 12:48

It's mad to me that so many English teachers think they're paid enough. My mum is a primary teacher working all the hours god sends in a difficult school and she always says the pay is fine. There's not many developed countries that pay teachers so little. They're paid more in Scotland. Not sure about Ireland but I get the impression it's a much nicer job there mostly. My Canadian husband is shocked by the low wages and conditions for teachers in England. Why is their labour worth less than in other places? I see a predominantly female workforce being taken advantage of and selling itself short, no wonder there's so much burnout.

If you think teachers pay is poor, look at nursing! Teachers in comparison earn significantly more than a band 5 nurse, which is what mists nurses are on. Band 5 is around £37500 whilst a teacher with no added responsibility gets £45350! Teachers also get supplements for added responsibility which nurses don’t!

Hankunamatata · 17/06/2025 13:20

LucilleBluth · 17/06/2025 11:56

One of my dear dear friends is HoD for English in the grammar system. He is the epitome of the perfect teacher-he’s absolutely outstanding and totally inspirational. But he teaches top set KS4 and KS5. Won’t go near years 7 and 8. I think that’s the only way to survive.

He isn't the epitome of teaching.

The amazing teachers are the ones who can get those chatting, lip gloss applying kids to engage in their subject. Who recognise the small wins of the kids who may not be academic.

The fact he refuses to teach lower years tells me his classroom management skills suck

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:21

ClawsandEffect · 17/06/2025 13:02

Add to this the talking, making noises, putting on lipgloss, telling me my lesson is boring, messing with a water bottle, not having a pen, chatting about the latest group chat drama-and I’m strict.

This is just secondary teaching I'm afraid. You'll get better at managing it.

The insane workload isn't your fault.

Very much the same in Primary regards to this, we ask parents not to let children bring in items such as lip gloss, balm, toys etc, but we are often met with hostility and god forbid they lose said item..... 😔

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:22

Horserider5678 · 17/06/2025 13:18

If you think teachers pay is poor, look at nursing! Teachers in comparison earn significantly more than a band 5 nurse, which is what mists nurses are on. Band 5 is around £37500 whilst a teacher with no added responsibility gets £45350! Teachers also get supplements for added responsibility which nurses don’t!

Let's not start the Teacher Vs Nurse debate....the media and government love to play that card at every opportunity.

ilovesooty · 17/06/2025 13:25

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:22

Let's not start the Teacher Vs Nurse debate....the media and government love to play that card at every opportunity.

No point in engaging with with someone pushing that agenda, agreed.

DaringFinch · 17/06/2025 13:27

I gave up for all those reasons about 15 years ago. I'm in my 50s and found it took over my life. It just never got any easier. I'm now a teaching assistant. The pack is poor but I now have a life outside work.

cherriescherri · 17/06/2025 13:31

I am due to start my PGCE Primary this September and I’m really having second thoughts.

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:31

Add on that TLR's are often quoted for extra responsibility but it's not guaranteed that it can even be paid, all depends on budgets, lots of teachers are having the extra responsibility but without the TLR.

ThriveAT · 17/06/2025 13:32

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 11:57

I appreciate the emphasis on language, and I agree that how we speak about SEND matters. But it’s equally important to acknowledge the practical realities faced by teachers in mainstream settings.

Describing the role as involving “extra requirements” isn’t about framing SEN children as additional or burdensome, it’s about recognising the additional demands placed on teachers due to a system that often lacks the time, resources, and structural support for true inclusion. This includes writing IEPs, managing EHCPs, coordinating with external agencies, and adapting lessons, all while meeting whole-school targets and navigating standardised testing.

We can hold both truths: that inclusion is a moral imperative, and that it currently requires more from teachers than the system is realistically resourced to support. Naming that isn’t deficit thinking, it’s advocacy for the change we need.

Very well said.

pimplebum · 17/06/2025 13:32

healthybychristmas · 17/06/2025 08:02

I agree with the previous poster. How did you not think of this beforehand!

i thought I knew what teaching was all about , my mum is a teacher I’d spent my whole life in her classroom and watching her struggle

doing it yourself IS totally different, especially if your heart is in it and you have retrained late in life and think you know what you are letting yourself in for

give yourself a break op most teachers are teetering on the brink of breakdowns at this part of the term , you are not alone

teaching is not for the faint of heart , and despite was some people may have commented on here - you really don’t know how hard it is until you are in it , standing up there being responsible for a class and their outcomes , so op don’t beat yourself up about not realising how hard it is.

TheCaloricDecline · 17/06/2025 13:34

cherriescherri · 17/06/2025 13:31

I am due to start my PGCE Primary this September and I’m really having second thoughts.

Just go in with eyes open...there are still teachers out there who love their careers. You might be one of them.....it is an amazing vocation, just doesn't come without its pitfalls.

Pinepeak2434 · 17/06/2025 13:35

My son’s off to uni in September, he wants to be a primary school teacher. I’m not in education myself, but I was a school governor for a while, so I’ve seen how tough it can be for teachers. I do worry a bit about him going into it, but obviously I can’t really say that to him.

I watched a uni promo video recently where a teacher said, ‘We don’t go into this profession for the money,’ It’s frustrating how often we hear that, as if it’s just accepted that teachers shouldn’t be properly paid. I’ve seen it said in this forum plenty of times about paying hairdressers and other skilled workers what they’re worth, so why don’t we say the same about teachers, who shape the future?

ThriveAT · 17/06/2025 13:36

Horserider5678 · 17/06/2025 13:18

If you think teachers pay is poor, look at nursing! Teachers in comparison earn significantly more than a band 5 nurse, which is what mists nurses are on. Band 5 is around £37500 whilst a teacher with no added responsibility gets £45350! Teachers also get supplements for added responsibility which nurses don’t!

If you think it's so well rewarded, why don't you retrain? Then you can apply for one of those imaginary TLR supplementary payments that are about as common as unicorns.

Everydayimhuffling · 17/06/2025 13:37

OP, when I was at that point I took a mental health day and didn't go in on the Friday. I actually went home to my mum for the weekend! Then I managed to see through the last couple of weeks. If you can, it would be good to finish even if you take a few days and give yourself a break.

I've been teaching for more than 10 years since then. It can be good in the right school.

Btw, your HoD friend is pretty awful for giving himself only those classes! Someone in his department is getting screwed over with the difficult classes for that one.

ThriveAT · 17/06/2025 13:38

cherriescherri · 17/06/2025 13:31

I am due to start my PGCE Primary this September and I’m really having second thoughts.

Don't do it. It's not a long-term career.

GoBazGo · 17/06/2025 13:40

TheCurious0range · 17/06/2025 07:49

How did you not know this before retraining as a teacher in your 40s?! It's not a secret. I get new graduates begging either naive or just so optimistic they have the energy to do it. I work in criminal justice and we get trainees like you, how in a million years do you think these jobs are not hard work and massively stressful?!

What a helpful post!

Dangermoo · 17/06/2025 13:41

Soal · 17/06/2025 12:51

So hard of thinking. "Pushing buttons" to control a vehicle weighing tonnes, and often carrying dozens of innocent people?

Could you be more snobby and ignorant?

Not really, no.

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 17/06/2025 13:46

Pay for the actual job you are meant to do as a teacher is ok mostly.

The issue is all the other stuff that you have to pick up that there should be independent staff to do it lunch time supervision, SEN applications and soon and so forth.

The issue is perpetual underfunding of the wider sector and the dissolution of things like children's centres, surestart and the likes that were once able to provide early intervention and support to parents