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Did anyone else feel rage at Karen Millen's comments on breastfeeding?

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Hoooray · 11/06/2025 17:54

According to Karen Millen (who is, notably, a clothing designer and not a child development expert), breastfeeding beyond six months has no benefit for the child, is selfish, and is a sign of addiction.

You're not allowed to get it right as a mother, are you? Bad if you don't breastfeed but also bad if you breastfeed for too long, apparently.

God knows why Karen Millen was being asked for her opinion on the subject in the first place 🙄

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Godsplan21 · 12/06/2025 10:32

Sofiewoo · 12/06/2025 09:58

Interesting I’ve literally never seen anyone advocate that bottles of formula should be stopped when a baby turns 6 months.

Exactly, its all quite backwards

Hoooray · 12/06/2025 10:33

dontgetmestartedwillu · 12/06/2025 10:21

Agree. I suppose the women I met who did the extended BF (way beyond 6 months) were also the ones that were pretty set on not introducing any solids until 6-7 months.

Each to their own, but I do feel that some babies are definitely ready for some solids before then.

I guess as a fairly mature mum - and I've worked in research and did lots of research when I was pregnant - I didn't feel compelled either way necessarily on the solids introduction period but knew to trust my own babies and instinct. I did baby led weaning; introduced taster portions from 4 months.

We have asthma and allergies in the family (my DH is severely allergic to animals, pollen, dust, had asthma etc etc; my mother too - weirdly I was purely formula fed and have none of these, but that's just an aside).

But, on doing my own research (this was back in 2006), I did not heed the advice about not eating nuts or fish (if cooked properly) etc etc as I had already read about some of the research that was the early basis of what has found in the EAT, LEAP studies etc. It's about introducing allergens, essentially developing immunity (of course peanut allergy research is now very focused on desensitisation therapies).

I felt strong enough as a person to just go with what I felt was right, especially as a couple of the health visitors I met simply hadn't done their research, but understand they had to 'toe the line'. But I saw so many mums who were sleep deprived, with hormones going wild who felt 'terrorised' by their health visitors for not BF or introducing solids earlier.

Neither of my kids have allergies; neither are overweight - I did introduction of solids at 4 - 4.5 months, which is when both of them started showing interest, reaching for food, and bringing it to their mouths whilst doing chewing motions.

I'm still not sure what the introduction of solids has to do with breastfeeding beyond six months, but I agree it's up to each parent to make up their own minds on introducing solids.

We don't have allergies in our family but several of us do have issues with IBS and poor gut health, so I was very mindful of studies showing that introducing solids before six months can result in long-term gut health issues. However, if allergies ran in my family I might have felt that the risk profile lay in favour of an earlier introduction to allergens and introduced solids before six months.

None of this is relevant to the fact that babies' primary source of nutrition in their first year is milk, or that breastfed babies continue to benefit from breastmilk beyond six months.

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FancyRedRobin · 12/06/2025 10:52

Thankfully her clothes are so bad it'll be easy to boycott her.

RedRobyn24 · 12/06/2025 10:53

@dontgetmestartedwillubreastfeeding linked to colon cancer? And who funded that research? Nestle?

Absurd nonsense

Magicboobies · 12/06/2025 11:01

Yes . Reckon she just wanted to be talked about
this is evidence written by professionals https://abm.me.uk/breastfeeding-information/breastfeeding-beyond-infancy-a-gp-guide/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR5FFXosAVKq4POCB0YbO7lJ0idEKN37vrgU3Ahkz2HpsL3iydA8X-eQp0OQMg_aem_gl72UCE0FBJTaJ4nNiu0GQ
I’m currently breastfeeding my nearly 3yo and 8month old while writing this 🤣😅
just need to stop with the judgements! Let women do what they feel best for their family ❤️

Breastfeeding Beyond Infancy a HCP Guide – ABM

https://abm.me.uk/breastfeeding-information/breastfeeding-beyond-infancy-a-gp-guide/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR5FFXosAVKq4POCB0YbO7lJ0idEKN37vrgU3Ahkz2HpsL3iydA8X-eQp0OQMg_aem_gl72UCE0FBJTaJ4nNiu0GQ

Hoooray · 12/06/2025 11:45

Magicboobies · 12/06/2025 11:01

Yes . Reckon she just wanted to be talked about
this is evidence written by professionals https://abm.me.uk/breastfeeding-information/breastfeeding-beyond-infancy-a-gp-guide/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR5FFXosAVKq4POCB0YbO7lJ0idEKN37vrgU3Ahkz2HpsL3iydA8X-eQp0OQMg_aem_gl72UCE0FBJTaJ4nNiu0GQ
I’m currently breastfeeding my nearly 3yo and 8month old while writing this 🤣😅
just need to stop with the judgements! Let women do what they feel best for their family ❤️

Tandem feeding is absolutely heroic, well done ♥️

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MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 12:08

OnePearlJoker · 12/06/2025 06:01

So you need qualifications to have an opinion on breast feeding? What qualifications do you have? I take it you must have a masters at least or PHD in biology? What qualifications do any of these posters have that have commented? They’ve asked her because she’s a mother. Surely a mother is able to make their own mind up if they want to breastfeed or not? Unless you think all women need a qualification to be a mother?

I do have a breastfeeding qualification at a very low level, but I'm not expecting to be invited on national television to give my views on breastfeeding.

Why do we need to hear opinions on it, when there is a huge body of scientific evidence which is rarely mentioned? A fashion designer has nothing to add to the "debate".

In addition, whilst some of the things she said (e.g. breastfeeding beyond 6 months is selfish) are opinions (abhorrent ones, but opinions nonetheless), some of the things she said were just incorrect facts.

"There is no benefit to breastfeeding past 6 months," isn't an opinion, it's wrong.
"Breastfeeding causes emotional problems," again, wrong.

If I said, "The sky is a horrible colour," then that's my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
If I said, "The sky is purple with lime green spots," then that's not an opinion, it's false information.

Can you see the difference? It's taught in primary school to 7 year olds, but maybe you were off sick that day.

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 12:11

MyLimeGuide · 12/06/2025 06:58

Im messed up for saying something i was told in a NCT class? OK dude. This thread is clearly full of trolls. Have a great day hating my dear.

Are you sure that the NCT teacher didn't say that breastfeeding releases oxytocin which is also released just after an orgasm and makes you feel more connected to your partner, or baby in the case of breastfeeding?

The release of oxytocin is also triggered by many other non-sexual experiences; it's a bonding hormone, not a sexual one.

phoenixrosehere · 12/06/2025 12:27

Sofiewoo · 12/06/2025 09:58

Interesting I’ve literally never seen anyone advocate that bottles of formula should be stopped when a baby turns 6 months.

Exactly, yet breastfeeding should be stopped. What kind of hypocrisy is that?

Why is formula ok but breastmilk isn’t past six months?

Mossymama · 12/06/2025 12:32

BatchCookBabe · 11/06/2025 17:56

I didn't feel rage, because I (mostly) agree with her. Not necessarily that it's an addiction, but that there's no need to breastfeed babies past 6 months.

Edited

What a ridiculously uninformed opinion. Google is free. Milk is a requirement until 1 and a main source of food. Breastmilk is the optimal milk for infants. The benefits extend until 2 and beyond.

gamerchick · 12/06/2025 12:35

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 12:11

Are you sure that the NCT teacher didn't say that breastfeeding releases oxytocin which is also released just after an orgasm and makes you feel more connected to your partner, or baby in the case of breastfeeding?

The release of oxytocin is also triggered by many other non-sexual experiences; it's a bonding hormone, not a sexual one.

It'll be that. I made the same mistake once with a pal by trying to describe the oxytocin thing. The cuddle hormone is probably a better way to describe it.

StretchyPants1988 · 12/06/2025 12:37

dontgetmestartedwillu · 12/06/2025 10:21

Agree. I suppose the women I met who did the extended BF (way beyond 6 months) were also the ones that were pretty set on not introducing any solids until 6-7 months.

Each to their own, but I do feel that some babies are definitely ready for some solids before then.

I guess as a fairly mature mum - and I've worked in research and did lots of research when I was pregnant - I didn't feel compelled either way necessarily on the solids introduction period but knew to trust my own babies and instinct. I did baby led weaning; introduced taster portions from 4 months.

We have asthma and allergies in the family (my DH is severely allergic to animals, pollen, dust, had asthma etc etc; my mother too - weirdly I was purely formula fed and have none of these, but that's just an aside).

But, on doing my own research (this was back in 2006), I did not heed the advice about not eating nuts or fish (if cooked properly) etc etc as I had already read about some of the research that was the early basis of what has found in the EAT, LEAP studies etc. It's about introducing allergens, essentially developing immunity (of course peanut allergy research is now very focused on desensitisation therapies).

I felt strong enough as a person to just go with what I felt was right, especially as a couple of the health visitors I met simply hadn't done their research, but understand they had to 'toe the line'. But I saw so many mums who were sleep deprived, with hormones going wild who felt 'terrorised' by their health visitors for not BF or introducing solids earlier.

Neither of my kids have allergies; neither are overweight - I did introduction of solids at 4 - 4.5 months, which is when both of them started showing interest, reaching for food, and bringing it to their mouths whilst doing chewing motions.

@dontgetmestartedwillu I am still BF my 10 month old and introduced foods around 5.5 months. Most of the mums in my BF support group were desperate to start weaning early and we spent the majority of the time around the 5-10 months mark chatting about problems re introducing foods. My baby took to solids exceptionally well but others were just milk monsters who, for obvious reasons, just massively preferred the boob 😂 so I really don't think that those mums didn't want to introduce solids but more that babies love BF and weaning is tricky

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 13:07

RedRobyn24 · 12/06/2025 10:53

@dontgetmestartedwillubreastfeeding linked to colon cancer? And who funded that research? Nestle?

Absurd nonsense

This is true. Its why the NHS now advise that you give a vit d supplement when BFing.

Maddy70 · 12/06/2025 13:26

Everyone has different opinions on everything including breastfeeding. She has her opinion and that's ok if it differs to yours or mine I can't get "outraged" about someone's opinion

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 13:44

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 13:07

This is true. Its why the NHS now advise that you give a vit d supplement when BFing.

Huh? The NHS recommends everyone in the UK takes Vit D because most of us do not get enough sunlight, including babies. Vit D is added to formula for the same reason. It's nothing to do with breast milk.

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 12/06/2025 14:24

Maddy70 · 12/06/2025 13:26

Everyone has different opinions on everything including breastfeeding. She has her opinion and that's ok if it differs to yours or mine I can't get "outraged" about someone's opinion

Outraged no but it is annoying when people chat utter shit.

Moronic opinions need to be culled.

wordywitch · 12/06/2025 14:25

dontgetmestartedwillu · 12/06/2025 10:10

Of course, and I'm not saying I agree with Karen Millen - and I've not seen the clip or interview so can't comment on how it was asked - but maybe she's seen the research emerging that actually shows that longer breastfeeding may have a link (not proven or not known why this is so) that extended BF is linked with significantly (36-40% increased chance) of early onset colon cancer? But probably not.

I suppose what I'm saying is that if she was asked what she thought, maybe she is entitled to her opinion, and she's hardly a figurehead for medical advice so I'd hope that women nowadays are stronger in holding their own position (i.e. wanting to BF until much later than 6 months).

I just feel that BF - whether for or against - is associated with such high emotions. I don't think we need to 'rage' about Karen Millen's opinion.

I do think mums everywhere need to feel that they can do what they feel is best for their baby. If that's BF for 2 years, that should obviously be fine but I'd like that women feel empowered to make that choice without getting too emotional when someone like Karen M (who is hardly a figurehead or major celebrity) makes a comment.

I do think mums everywhere need to feel that they can do what they feel is best for their baby. If that's BF for 2 years, that should obviously be fine but I'd like that women feel empowered to make that choice without getting too emotional when someone like Karen M (who is hardly a figurehead or major celebrity) makes a comment.

So women who breastfeed aren’t allowed to ‘get emotional’ when misinformation from a public figure is stated as fact and derogatory comments made about their reasons for doing so? Right.

Pretty sure that if a celebrity said ‘Women who formula feed are damaging their children and are only doing it out of selfishness’ there would be PLENTY of outrage and an attempt to correct the erroneous claims.

Psychologymam · 12/06/2025 14:25

Maddy70 · 12/06/2025 13:26

Everyone has different opinions on everything including breastfeeding. She has her opinion and that's ok if it differs to yours or mine I can't get "outraged" about someone's opinion

But opinions are not the same as facts which people seem to be confused about. It’s an opinion to say I don’t want to breastfeed or I want to stop at x time, both of which are as valid as the choice to feed for however long you want. The problem is where an incorrect fact is given like there’s no benefit to breastfeeding after a certain date which is demonstrably inaccurate.

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 14:28

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 13:44

Huh? The NHS recommends everyone in the UK takes Vit D because most of us do not get enough sunlight, including babies. Vit D is added to formula for the same reason. It's nothing to do with breast milk.

They didn't recommend it for breastfed babies until around 2012ish.

There was a study that showed a link between breastfeeding and adults being diagnosed with colon cancer. They believe its due to vitamin d which formula is fortified with. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with breastmilk.

Maddy70 · 12/06/2025 14:50

Psychologymam · 12/06/2025 14:25

But opinions are not the same as facts which people seem to be confused about. It’s an opinion to say I don’t want to breastfeed or I want to stop at x time, both of which are as valid as the choice to feed for however long you want. The problem is where an incorrect fact is given like there’s no benefit to breastfeeding after a certain date which is demonstrably inaccurate.

But different cultures and research in different countries brings various "facts"

Sofiewoo · 12/06/2025 14:58

Maddy70 · 12/06/2025 14:50

But different cultures and research in different countries brings various "facts"

Literally no country is ever going to suggest it’s a “fact” that breastfeeding is selfish or pointless after 6 months. Literally none.

chocolatemademefat · 12/06/2025 15:01

Her opinions don’t interest me at all so I couldn’t get wound up about them. Also not interested in any breastfeeding debate - every woman can and should do what she wants - crack on and breastfeed for as long as you want - I doubt anyone cares. This subject has been done to death on here.

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 15:01

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 14:28

They didn't recommend it for breastfed babies until around 2012ish.

There was a study that showed a link between breastfeeding and adults being diagnosed with colon cancer. They believe its due to vitamin d which formula is fortified with. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with breastmilk.

I really don't understand what point you're making.

As I said, almost everyone in the UK is deficient in Vit D unless they take a supplement.

That's why they put it in formula.

The fact that people of all ages in the UK don't get enough Vit D is to do with the weather, not breastfeeding.

Obviously BF mothers need more vitamins/minerals/calories, you don't need a study to prove that, it's basic common sense...

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 15:06

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 15:01

I really don't understand what point you're making.

As I said, almost everyone in the UK is deficient in Vit D unless they take a supplement.

That's why they put it in formula.

The fact that people of all ages in the UK don't get enough Vit D is to do with the weather, not breastfeeding.

Obviously BF mothers need more vitamins/minerals/calories, you don't need a study to prove that, it's basic common sense...

Look i was just replying to a pp who said it was absurd nonsense that someone had stated there was a link between increased risks of colon cancer and breastfeeding. Its not absurd nonsense, its true. You can read that in the quote history. That was the point.

MrsSunshine2b · 12/06/2025 15:15

Unpaidviewer · 12/06/2025 15:06

Look i was just replying to a pp who said it was absurd nonsense that someone had stated there was a link between increased risks of colon cancer and breastfeeding. Its not absurd nonsense, its true. You can read that in the quote history. That was the point.

But there isn't.

There is an increased risk of colon cancer associated with Vit D deficiencies.

Breastfeeding doesn't cause Vit D deficiencies, the weather does.

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