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NHS refusing treatment to child who attends private school.

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floralcarpets · 09/06/2025 15:21

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/boy-denied-treatment-nhs-hospital-private-school-kingston-richmond-b1231805.html

AIBU to think this is disgraceful? The mum is likely paying loads of tax which goes towards the NHS and pays for state schools, yet her child is this treatment which they sound like they desperately need.

Outrage as boy, 8, refused NHS treatment 'for going to private school'

Mother blames Labour's VAT raid on private school fees for emboldening the NHS to deny her son help with his crippling joint condition

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/boy-denied-treatment-nhs-hospital-private-school-kingston-richmond-b1231805.html

OP posts:
MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 10/06/2025 09:24

If you choose to send your kid to a state school, then you get the support that is offered by that state school.

If you choose to send your child to a private school, then you get the support that is offered by that private school.

If you choose to home educate, then it's up to you to put in whatever support you're able to organise.

There will inevitably be pros and cons to each option. That's just life. Choices have consequences.

If local state schools have commissioned a service for their pupils, then it won't be available to non-pupils.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 10/06/2025 09:26

Findra · 10/06/2025 09:23

Yea and what we are saying is NHS services shouldn’t be ringfenced depending on the type of school you go to. That’s crazy. One id healthcare, one id education. Two totally different services.

But the service is commissioned by the state schools. If private school pupils need similar services, there is nothing to stop the private schools from commissioning those services as well.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:27

Findra · 10/06/2025 09:23

Yea and what we are saying is NHS services shouldn’t be ringfenced depending on the type of school you go to. That’s crazy. One id healthcare, one id education. Two totally different services.

OT is classed as education, especially if it is to help a child attend school and advise any adaptations if necessary.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/06/2025 10:04

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 09:00

Education funding is not ring-fenced and is part of the general council allocation. It is not based on children attending state schools.

It has to be - otherwise they wouldn't be able to differentiate between the amounts paid to the LA for maintained schools to top slice and the General Allocation Grant paid to academies for each child on roll with them.

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 10:06

Findra · 10/06/2025 09:23

Yea and what we are saying is NHS services shouldn’t be ringfenced depending on the type of school you go to. That’s crazy. One id healthcare, one id education. Two totally different services.

its not an NHS service. Its a service purchased by the Council/LEA. The NHS do provide services to other comissioners. The income made in this way goes back into local NHS services.

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 10:08

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:27

OT is classed as education, especially if it is to help a child attend school and advise any adaptations if necessary.

As a retired OT can I correct you? This aspect of Occupational Therapy can be placed under the umbrella of education. Occupational Therapy as a profession does all sorts of things in all sorts of places.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 10:15

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 10:08

As a retired OT can I correct you? This aspect of Occupational Therapy can be placed under the umbrella of education. Occupational Therapy as a profession does all sorts of things in all sorts of places.

Sorry, I was meaning more in reference to this aspect. I know that as a profession, it can be much wider than that.

It's also the case with my son. His school adaptations happened when OT and Physio assessed his school when he was discharged from hospital.

We've had a lot of input from OT. Along with Physio, they are slowly but surely giving my son his life back due to complications from an illness leaving him disabled and in need of major rehab. Thanks for all that you've done, it really makes such a difference and they are so undervalued.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 10:22

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 10:06

its not an NHS service. Its a service purchased by the Council/LEA. The NHS do provide services to other comissioners. The income made in this way goes back into local NHS services.

If an NHS service is commissioned by the council then it is still an NHS service.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 10:25

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 10:22

If an NHS service is commissioned by the council then it is still an NHS service.

Which private schools can also commission. Nothing is stopping them.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 10:26

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 10:25

Which private schools can also commission. Nothing is stopping them.

Can they though? I suspect not.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 10:28

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 10:26

Can they though? I suspect not.

Private schools can pay for it. It's just optional for them and some will refuse to.

stichguru · 10/06/2025 10:54

pinkpopcorn123 · 10/06/2025 07:11

I think they should be available to all pupils as they are a tax paid for service, not directly accessible for schools without referral to a specialist setting. Therefore they are not part of the standard service, I would expect from a private school.

What you are basically saying is if you go to a market with lots of individual stall holders you should be able to chose one stall holder to pay £59 to and then take items from any stall you like up to the value of £50.

SarfLondonLad · 10/06/2025 11:04

It is nothing of the sort. Still, what can you expect if you get your news from the Evening Standard.

CoffeeCup14 · 10/06/2025 11:08

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:41

The constant reference to ‘LEA’ is designed to confuse. The LEA is the council. When people say they are LEA commissioned services what they mean is they are COUNCIL commissioned services.

The LEA is one part of children's services, which is one part of the council. It uses specific funding to provide services for state-educated children. The funding provided is specifically for state-educated children, and there are really clear accounting practices to ensure the money is spent on what it is intended for.

There are other parts of children's services which provide other services, such as safeguarding. Some will be part of the council and part of children's services but not part of the LEA. Some funding is for services which are available for everyone; others are restricted to certain populations.

Accounting is a way of making decisions, through budgeting, and the making sure those decisions are adhered to. It's not a trick - it's deliberate. It's just that most decisions about limited resource allocation mean some people get things and some people don't, or get it later.

Education isn't fair. It's inherently unfair that some children are unable to access mainstream education due to SEN. Some local authorites have better alternative provision. Some parents are able to access private provision because they can afford it. Some parents are able to access better provision because they can navigate systems. It's really unfair that some people have a lifelong disadvantage because they can't access the right education as children. It just is unfair and it's wrong.

If parents are able and choose to opt in to private education, they are choosing to opt out of the LEA provision. In this case, that includes LEA-funded OT (but not health-funded OT). I wish they had better choices available.

The alternative is to campaign for a return to centralised services, where all spending is dictated by Whitehall, and everyone gets an identical offer of services, and there is no private education or healthcare - that would be fair.

CoffeeCup14 · 10/06/2025 11:11

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 10:08

As a retired OT can I correct you? This aspect of Occupational Therapy can be placed under the umbrella of education. Occupational Therapy as a profession does all sorts of things in all sorts of places.

My daughter had mental health OT and I think it was one of the most important bits pf the life-changing support she received. I am so grateful to the OTs who worked with her.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 11:28

CoffeeCup14 · 10/06/2025 11:08

The LEA is one part of children's services, which is one part of the council. It uses specific funding to provide services for state-educated children. The funding provided is specifically for state-educated children, and there are really clear accounting practices to ensure the money is spent on what it is intended for.

There are other parts of children's services which provide other services, such as safeguarding. Some will be part of the council and part of children's services but not part of the LEA. Some funding is for services which are available for everyone; others are restricted to certain populations.

Accounting is a way of making decisions, through budgeting, and the making sure those decisions are adhered to. It's not a trick - it's deliberate. It's just that most decisions about limited resource allocation mean some people get things and some people don't, or get it later.

Education isn't fair. It's inherently unfair that some children are unable to access mainstream education due to SEN. Some local authorites have better alternative provision. Some parents are able to access private provision because they can afford it. Some parents are able to access better provision because they can navigate systems. It's really unfair that some people have a lifelong disadvantage because they can't access the right education as children. It just is unfair and it's wrong.

If parents are able and choose to opt in to private education, they are choosing to opt out of the LEA provision. In this case, that includes LEA-funded OT (but not health-funded OT). I wish they had better choices available.

The alternative is to campaign for a return to centralised services, where all spending is dictated by Whitehall, and everyone gets an identical offer of services, and there is no private education or healthcare - that would be fair.

No. The Local Education Authority is not part of the council; it is the council. It is the authority responsible for educating children within that area, not a council department.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 11:30

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 10:28

Private schools can pay for it. It's just optional for them and some will refuse to.

The NHS is not available for hire by private charities.

CoffeeCup14 · 10/06/2025 11:51

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 11:28

No. The Local Education Authority is not part of the council; it is the council. It is the authority responsible for educating children within that area, not a council department.

I just googled and you're right - I like learning new things.

However, the council is also a corporate parent for all looked-after children - that doesn't mean that all services are directly relevant or available to looked after children. So I don't think 'the LEA' and 'the council' are interchangeable terms, which seems to be what you're suggesting. It's not trickery or distraction.

In this case, funding is available for a cohort of children to access OT services. Part of the criteria is being a pupil at a state school. The fact that it looks very much like an NHS-funded service is very unhelpful, and maybe it needs to be made clearer - the people ideally placed to do this would be the independent schools the children go to, and probably before parents choose the school, so they can make a fully-informed choice.

drspouse · 10/06/2025 11:55

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:35

It is still a health service. Would you say anti-epileptic medication was not a health provision because taking it enables a child to carry out their school work?

Councils (who are the local education authority) have responsibilities to all children. They are still required to provide services to children whose parents have opted out of one specific aspect of council provision (education). Just because a child has gone to private education or home education does not mean a council can choose to withdraw social work protection, carer services, library services, refuse collection, access to leisure centres, etc.

You obviously know nothing about OT.
Anti epileptic medication is health.
OT can be health or occupational. If a worker who is deaf does a job that needs hearing/understanding speech an OT can help with this. If they do a different job they would need different help.
When my DS was starting school he needed help with cutting, sticking, PE. Now he needs help with handwriting, typing. Essentially a different job.

Findra · 10/06/2025 11:59

drspouse · 10/06/2025 11:55

You obviously know nothing about OT.
Anti epileptic medication is health.
OT can be health or occupational. If a worker who is deaf does a job that needs hearing/understanding speech an OT can help with this. If they do a different job they would need different help.
When my DS was starting school he needed help with cutting, sticking, PE. Now he needs help with handwriting, typing. Essentially a different job.

An OT is a registered healthcare professional.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 12:02

CoffeeCup14 · 10/06/2025 11:51

I just googled and you're right - I like learning new things.

However, the council is also a corporate parent for all looked-after children - that doesn't mean that all services are directly relevant or available to looked after children. So I don't think 'the LEA' and 'the council' are interchangeable terms, which seems to be what you're suggesting. It's not trickery or distraction.

In this case, funding is available for a cohort of children to access OT services. Part of the criteria is being a pupil at a state school. The fact that it looks very much like an NHS-funded service is very unhelpful, and maybe it needs to be made clearer - the people ideally placed to do this would be the independent schools the children go to, and probably before parents choose the school, so they can make a fully-informed choice.

’Council’ and ‘local education authority’ are not interchangeable terms. The council is the local education authority but is not only the local education authority; the council clearly has responsibilities beyond that of being a local education authority.

Araminta1003 · 10/06/2025 12:09

It is not just this. DCs got the “Queen Elizabeth: A Platinum Jubilee Celebration” book in state primary a few years back. Prep schools did not get it. I think it came directly from the DFE. Blatant discrimination. As we got 2 copies, we gave one to a neighbour’s child in a private school. Given all the local private schools here do have to register with the local authority now, I think that was disgraceful as well.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 12:10

drspouse · 10/06/2025 11:55

You obviously know nothing about OT.
Anti epileptic medication is health.
OT can be health or occupational. If a worker who is deaf does a job that needs hearing/understanding speech an OT can help with this. If they do a different job they would need different help.
When my DS was starting school he needed help with cutting, sticking, PE. Now he needs help with handwriting, typing. Essentially a different job.

Epilepsy is health. Developmental coordination disorder, hypotonia, hypertonia, cerebral palsy, deafness, injury etc are also health.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 12:15

Private school children are at least visible and surrounded by professionals. By saying only state educated children can access this healthcare provision you are also denying it to home educated children who are a very much more vulnerable group. What justification is there for denying OT to the many autistic children who are home educated because they cannot cope in school?

drspouse · 10/06/2025 12:26

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 12:10

Epilepsy is health. Developmental coordination disorder, hypotonia, hypertonia, cerebral palsy, deafness, injury etc are also health.

But my DS provision for his DCD is in section F on his EHCP due to the OT specifically saying IT'S EDUCATION.

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