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NHS refusing treatment to child who attends private school.

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floralcarpets · 09/06/2025 15:21

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/boy-denied-treatment-nhs-hospital-private-school-kingston-richmond-b1231805.html

AIBU to think this is disgraceful? The mum is likely paying loads of tax which goes towards the NHS and pays for state schools, yet her child is this treatment which they sound like they desperately need.

Outrage as boy, 8, refused NHS treatment 'for going to private school'

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https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/boy-denied-treatment-nhs-hospital-private-school-kingston-richmond-b1231805.html

OP posts:
Jasp3ru · 10/06/2025 07:22

And if said private schools don’t it can be accessed by the child’s GP.

mrsnovella · 10/06/2025 07:25

It looks like a misleading headline and I haven’t read all the responses. However -

a) At my local hospital’s paediatric unit, they always ask where your child attends school. Mine are at a private school and I have detected some raised eyebrows at this. I had an awful experience with one particularly awful doctor who I had the misfortune to encounter as my eldest was being diagnosed with epilepsy, which was a terrifying time. She was awful for many reasons and one of them was her barking at me ‘well you can always leave and go private’ when I dared to question something she said.

b) forgive me if this has been addressed but I don’t think the NHS services in schools exist solely in state schools? The NHS nursing teams come into our school to administer injections (eg HPV).

Findra · 10/06/2025 07:35

Kirbert2 · 09/06/2025 23:43

and someone with more resources than the average family who has no other choice wants to stretch it even more using funding they opted out of.

Now that's unfair.

Edited

As we didn’t opt out of any NHS services whatsoever in choosing a private school!

Findra · 10/06/2025 07:36

mrsnovella · 10/06/2025 07:25

It looks like a misleading headline and I haven’t read all the responses. However -

a) At my local hospital’s paediatric unit, they always ask where your child attends school. Mine are at a private school and I have detected some raised eyebrows at this. I had an awful experience with one particularly awful doctor who I had the misfortune to encounter as my eldest was being diagnosed with epilepsy, which was a terrifying time. She was awful for many reasons and one of them was her barking at me ‘well you can always leave and go private’ when I dared to question something she said.

b) forgive me if this has been addressed but I don’t think the NHS services in schools exist solely in state schools? The NHS nursing teams come into our school to administer injections (eg HPV).

But that’s immunisations which it suits wider society for private school kids to have so it’s provided.

JustHereForthePIP · 10/06/2025 07:48

mrsnovella · 10/06/2025 07:25

It looks like a misleading headline and I haven’t read all the responses. However -

a) At my local hospital’s paediatric unit, they always ask where your child attends school. Mine are at a private school and I have detected some raised eyebrows at this. I had an awful experience with one particularly awful doctor who I had the misfortune to encounter as my eldest was being diagnosed with epilepsy, which was a terrifying time. She was awful for many reasons and one of them was her barking at me ‘well you can always leave and go private’ when I dared to question something she said.

b) forgive me if this has been addressed but I don’t think the NHS services in schools exist solely in state schools? The NHS nursing teams come into our school to administer injections (eg HPV).

As a lot of people have said, it depends on how the service is commissioned and paid for. Vaccination isn't paid for by the school. In-school OT, SALT and Ed Psych services are paid for by the school.

Private schools can commission services for the pupils there. They can commission them from the NHS. But these services have to be paid for from the school budget.

I'm not saying I agree with this, but the children aren't being denied NHS services that the parents have "paid for". It's a school-based service paid for by a school they do not attend. E.g. I can't expect my child to access services in an out of county school that they don't attend. They aren't entitled to those services even if the service is provided by the NHS. My child isn't the responsibility of that LEA. It's the same for independent schools. The pupils there are not the responsibility of the LEA if they aren't enrolled in a state school.

Supima · 10/06/2025 07:49

mrsnovella · 10/06/2025 07:25

It looks like a misleading headline and I haven’t read all the responses. However -

a) At my local hospital’s paediatric unit, they always ask where your child attends school. Mine are at a private school and I have detected some raised eyebrows at this. I had an awful experience with one particularly awful doctor who I had the misfortune to encounter as my eldest was being diagnosed with epilepsy, which was a terrifying time. She was awful for many reasons and one of them was her barking at me ‘well you can always leave and go private’ when I dared to question something she said.

b) forgive me if this has been addressed but I don’t think the NHS services in schools exist solely in state schools? The NHS nursing teams come into our school to administer injections (eg HPV).

The NHS pays for vaccinations for all children. However this OT service is not paid for by the NHS but by the local education authority as a commissioned service for its own local authority schools. The LEA has no budget for private school pupils. It loses an average of £6k for each child removed from an LEA controlled school. As others have said, state educated kids can’t just rock up to the local private school to demand to use its facilities, and vice versa. To access NHS services, the child must go through their GP.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:23

stichguru · 10/06/2025 00:06

I agree that is 100% true but 100% irrelevant, since no-where in this situation are any health service being provided to anyone. They are all education services, not funded through health in any way, which is why the are available to those who are funded to be educated by the state and not be those who are not.

Occupational Therapy is a health service. Occupational therapists are Allied Health Professionals not teachers.

drspouse · 10/06/2025 08:26

pinkpopcorn123 · 10/06/2025 06:55

Here’s the scenario. You have a knee replacement privately. You then have pneumonia requiring hospital admission as a post operative complication. Are you no longer eligible for the NHS as you’ve used private services? where are you going to draw the line?

Neither of those are educational.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:27

The LEA has no budget for private school pupils. It loses an average of £6k for each child removed from an LEA controlled school.

It is exactly the opposite - if a child goes private the LEA saves ~£6k that it receives in funding that no longer needs to be spent on education.

drspouse · 10/06/2025 08:28

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:23

Occupational Therapy is a health service. Occupational therapists are Allied Health Professionals not teachers.

As my DS OT said, occupational therapy is provided in this case to enable school children to carry out their occupation i.e. school work.

Other OTs are employed by occupational health services. Should those who don't work for that company also be able to access them?

randomchap · 10/06/2025 08:31

The Daily Mail twisting facts to suit their agenda? Shocked.

Fucking rag that it is.

pinkpopcorn123 · 10/06/2025 08:32

drspouse · 10/06/2025 08:26

Neither of those are educational.

It’s all public money

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:35

drspouse · 10/06/2025 08:28

As my DS OT said, occupational therapy is provided in this case to enable school children to carry out their occupation i.e. school work.

Other OTs are employed by occupational health services. Should those who don't work for that company also be able to access them?

It is still a health service. Would you say anti-epileptic medication was not a health provision because taking it enables a child to carry out their school work?

Councils (who are the local education authority) have responsibilities to all children. They are still required to provide services to children whose parents have opted out of one specific aspect of council provision (education). Just because a child has gone to private education or home education does not mean a council can choose to withdraw social work protection, carer services, library services, refuse collection, access to leisure centres, etc.

Findra · 10/06/2025 08:37

Supima · 10/06/2025 07:49

The NHS pays for vaccinations for all children. However this OT service is not paid for by the NHS but by the local education authority as a commissioned service for its own local authority schools. The LEA has no budget for private school pupils. It loses an average of £6k for each child removed from an LEA controlled school. As others have said, state educated kids can’t just rock up to the local private school to demand to use its facilities, and vice versa. To access NHS services, the child must go through their GP.

Can I have a tax rebate for the tax I pay that goes towards providing OT, SALT etc in state schools so I can give it to my private school to commission these healthcare services? No I thought not. So these services should be provided free of charge to all pupil, obviously!

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:41

The constant reference to ‘LEA’ is designed to confuse. The LEA is the council. When people say they are LEA commissioned services what they mean is they are COUNCIL commissioned services.

BunnyEaster · 10/06/2025 08:52

Kirbert2 · 09/06/2025 22:55

My son is in state and has OT. His situation was pretty extreme though and involves major rehab.

I think this is it. It's rare / bordering impossible to got OT at school. You normally need it via a EHCP which in itself is like pulling teeth out. My dd has OT at state school via her EHCP. But it basically is the OT saying dd doesn't engage and never passing info onto me unless it's in a yearly report after the fact.

It not easy to access and open to all and fundamentally what they offer is normally very very weak. Like speech therapy. What your offered and what you need isn't the same. It's watered down to get you back off the books in my personal experience

Jasp3ru · 10/06/2025 08:53

Findra · 10/06/2025 08:37

Can I have a tax rebate for the tax I pay that goes towards providing OT, SALT etc in state schools so I can give it to my private school to commission these healthcare services? No I thought not. So these services should be provided free of charge to all pupil, obviously!

As they are -via the GP.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/06/2025 08:56

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 08:27

The LEA has no budget for private school pupils. It loses an average of £6k for each child removed from an LEA controlled school.

It is exactly the opposite - if a child goes private the LEA saves ~£6k that it receives in funding that no longer needs to be spent on education.

It's paid per child attending a state funded school in the area, not on per child existing in the area - and even it were to be changed, it wouldn't make that much difference because nobody knows for sure how many children live in an area.

Remember the stuff about 'Ghost children' post covid? That's because there is/are/were no complete records of children educated outside state schools.

Going by some of the posts here, I'm half expecting one of them to demand that their children are driven to school by people who have motorbility vehicles on the grounds the PIP is funded through taxation and it's not fair that somebody who has received money for mobility difficulties has then used it to lease a vehicle when the poor higher rate taxpayer's child has to make their own arrangements.

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 08:59

mrsnovella · 10/06/2025 07:25

It looks like a misleading headline and I haven’t read all the responses. However -

a) At my local hospital’s paediatric unit, they always ask where your child attends school. Mine are at a private school and I have detected some raised eyebrows at this. I had an awful experience with one particularly awful doctor who I had the misfortune to encounter as my eldest was being diagnosed with epilepsy, which was a terrifying time. She was awful for many reasons and one of them was her barking at me ‘well you can always leave and go private’ when I dared to question something she said.

b) forgive me if this has been addressed but I don’t think the NHS services in schools exist solely in state schools? The NHS nursing teams come into our school to administer injections (eg HPV).

things like vaccinations are NHS funded not LEA funded.

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 09:00

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/06/2025 08:56

It's paid per child attending a state funded school in the area, not on per child existing in the area - and even it were to be changed, it wouldn't make that much difference because nobody knows for sure how many children live in an area.

Remember the stuff about 'Ghost children' post covid? That's because there is/are/were no complete records of children educated outside state schools.

Going by some of the posts here, I'm half expecting one of them to demand that their children are driven to school by people who have motorbility vehicles on the grounds the PIP is funded through taxation and it's not fair that somebody who has received money for mobility difficulties has then used it to lease a vehicle when the poor higher rate taxpayer's child has to make their own arrangements.

Education funding is not ring-fenced and is part of the general council allocation. It is not based on children attending state schools.

godmum56 · 10/06/2025 09:07

Dwimmer · 10/06/2025 09:00

Education funding is not ring-fenced and is part of the general council allocation. It is not based on children attending state schools.

no it isn't. A part of the NFF is definitely based on the number of children in state schools. This was published under the Conservative Government but ther process iand calculation is currently the same. https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/651d2587bef21800156ded01/Nationalfunding_formulaforschoolsandhighneeds2024to_2025.pdf

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/651d2587bef21800156ded01/National_funding_formula_for__schools_and_high_needs_2024_to_2025.pdf

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:12

pinkpopcorn123 · 10/06/2025 06:51

I don’t believe your hypocrisy. Two scenarios, one parent, millionaire, lives in a £2 million house, attends state school , ofsted outstanding, academically excellent, gets free school breakfast. Scenario 2, average wage, average house, child been failed by state school or local state school poor. No free school breakfast. Parents opt for private but it’s a struggle financially. Both children need OT and SALT input, one gets it for free, the other not and according to you the poorer family are hypocrites for asking for the same services as the richer family. OT and SALT services are in different circumstances provided within NHS hospitals. They are health related issues, the funding just happens to be via education. A cost cutting exercise from the Tory government no doubt.

How many millionaires would actually use state school? Not many. I also don't know any average wage earners who can afford private school and all that usually comes with it. Two unlikely scenarios.

Also, both would get it for free if the private school paid for the services but it is optional with private schools.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:16

Findra · 10/06/2025 07:35

As we didn’t opt out of any NHS services whatsoever in choosing a private school!

It's paid for by the LEA. Ring fenced for those who attend state school.

Private schools are free to pay for it themselves.

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:19

BunnyEaster · 10/06/2025 08:52

I think this is it. It's rare / bordering impossible to got OT at school. You normally need it via a EHCP which in itself is like pulling teeth out. My dd has OT at state school via her EHCP. But it basically is the OT saying dd doesn't engage and never passing info onto me unless it's in a yearly report after the fact.

It not easy to access and open to all and fundamentally what they offer is normally very very weak. Like speech therapy. What your offered and what you need isn't the same. It's watered down to get you back off the books in my personal experience

He does have an EHCP. He had lots of OT input in hospital and a refferal was made to the community as part of his discharge plan and he's had OT input since he was discharged.

But as I said, his situation was pretty extreme. He had a cardiac arrest due to complications from an illness and basically had to start over again and re learn everything which is still a work in progress. That's also just the half of it really.

Findra · 10/06/2025 09:23

Kirbert2 · 10/06/2025 09:16

It's paid for by the LEA. Ring fenced for those who attend state school.

Private schools are free to pay for it themselves.

Yea and what we are saying is NHS services shouldn’t be ringfenced depending on the type of school you go to. That’s crazy. One id healthcare, one id education. Two totally different services.

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