Just that really.
Currently on holiday abroad with two friends who I have known for 12 years. Absolutely no issues in the friendship, met at uni and stayed friends. I'd consider both my best friends and vice versa. We are in our 30s & 40s.
One of the friends is talking to a man she has met. Only problem is, she is already married. I've told her what I think of this and that she shouldn't act on it and needw make a decision either way as I feel she is playing with fire. Despite nothing physical having happened between them, we are currently on holiday and she is constantly on the phone tapping away, sending photos etc and wandering off to speak on the phone. Last night was the final straw for me as we came back to the hotel to have a drink on our balcony (which lasted all of twenty minutes) before she swanned off again to video call him for an hour or so. Other friend and I just sat together and finally ended up going to bed instead of waiting for her to come back.
This next part is what has made me irritated to say the least...I'm in bed trying to get to sleep and other friend is already asleep. Friend in question comes creeping in whispering our names to get a power bank charger as her phone was nearly dead. I purposely ignored as I was trying to sleep and she'd already been speaking to him for an hour at this point. Anyway, as she'd come in from outside, the air con in the room automatically shuts off. Great. So I got up and went outside to cool off. She was there and asked if I had the power bank, I said yes but I was using it to charge my phone (which I have done every night since we got here as I forgot EU plug). She asked to use it and said she would then put my phone back on charge when she came back. I reluctantly said yes but knew I'd get woken up again with her plugging it back in to my phone at god knows what time she decided to come back. And it did. She also just took the power bank, said "can't you sleep?"...I said no and off she went again, purposely walking away from our terrace to talk to him in private.
Fast forward to today, lovely morning so far. Have had breakfast together however she is now distracted again and has gone off saying she was going to get ice and our drinks from the room. 45 mins gone by and no sign.
AIBU to feel annoyed that I have spent a lot of money on this holiday (actually a lot more than we usually do and we go away together each year) just for her to be so absent and distracted?!