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To think that free breakfast at school is a bad idea due to the quality?

637 replies

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

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Gardenbumblebee · 07/06/2025 23:03

A cheap and cheerful breakfast is better than no breakfast.

But I agree that school dinners are absolute shite. My dc's school serve very strange dishes such as chickpea and sweet potato roast, hot dog jambalaya or roasted vegetable and cranberry slice. I appreciate the effort they make to include some vegetables but how many children will eat that? Even if those dishes were nice, the mass produced versions shipped out to schools are most certainly not. Why can't they just have some grilled chicken, veg and roast potatoes? Because money 😕

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:03

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:02

There’s money to give breakfasts to kids that don’t need it though?
money for the speaker to go on jaunts wherever
money for mp expenses fir dinners and drinks out etc.

there’s s lot of money, it’s just not being well spent, or being spent on votes and headlines.

So why are they not even fully funding the dinner that they put on years ago? That could do with getting sorted first. Schools shouldn't have to cut classroom support to feed kids who can afford it because the government withdrew funding a year after it was introduced.

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Dramatic · 07/06/2025 22:04

Some kids won't eat the posh stuff, my daughter eats some form of chocolate cereal for breakfast every morning. She won't touch porridge, Weetabix etc. Plenty of kids are the same and it makes sense for schools to provide foods kids are likely to eat

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:04

Justkeepingplatesspinning · 07/06/2025 23:01

Sure Start was supposed to try to break the cycle of dysfunctional families and generations repeating the same poor choices. Austerity impacted it severely.
Some schools have community rooms with washer and dryer so parents can wash clothes at school. They use PEF monies or pupil premium if it's still called that down south.
Bluntly, we have a very broken society and austerity measures took away proper intervention which actually did some good, and all that's left is a series of sticking plasters. They hold something together for a while but it doesn't solve the underlying societal problems.

I totally agree with you. It’s shit. The country is shit and so broken, it can’t be fixed.

LostMySocks · 07/06/2025 23:04

Nurseryquestions86 · 07/06/2025 21:36

Our breakfast club offer toast, crumpets, bagels, Weetabix and cornflakes oh and fruit. Not the end of the world.

So does ours but the session costs about £6 from 7.30 to the start of school which is significantly more than the breakfast club funding from the government

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 23:05

There are a few comments on this thread that suggest families who neglect their children to the extent of not having food should have children removed,

I’m the safeguarding lead at an urban secondary school- the threshold for removal is so unbelievably high that most people not working within the system wouldn’t believe it. I can’t even get outside agency support for children who are being neglected at this level, never mind the SS input needed to move to legal proceedings.

Schools are the only agency who cannot, and do not, step away from supporting children and families.

I can’t actually remember the last time I had a conversation about curriculum, or my teaching practice- all my time is soaked up trying to keep children in school and safe.

A breakfast club is part of that.

We really don’t have the resources to be teaching children to make their own yogurt, either. <laughs, in a way anyone who works in safeguarding will understand>

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:05

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

Feel superior do we ? Hoist those judgy pants up a bit higher

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:06

ToasterFuckUP · 07/06/2025 23:04

Why would you ever introduce your child to chocolate breakfast cereal in the first place though?! My kids don’t know it exists.

Completely agree!

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:06

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 23:05

There are a few comments on this thread that suggest families who neglect their children to the extent of not having food should have children removed,

I’m the safeguarding lead at an urban secondary school- the threshold for removal is so unbelievably high that most people not working within the system wouldn’t believe it. I can’t even get outside agency support for children who are being neglected at this level, never mind the SS input needed to move to legal proceedings.

Schools are the only agency who cannot, and do not, step away from supporting children and families.

I can’t actually remember the last time I had a conversation about curriculum, or my teaching practice- all my time is soaked up trying to keep children in school and safe.

A breakfast club is part of that.

We really don’t have the resources to be teaching children to make their own yogurt, either. <laughs, in a way anyone who works in safeguarding will understand>

Yes, yes and yes again

Annony331 · 07/06/2025 23:07

All our schools have a salad bar and serve healthy food at lunch time.
The rules about what can be served are very strict.

We are not providing any breakfast in some schools but the ones where we do have a waiting list because the kids enjoy the food.

DragonRunor · 07/06/2025 23:10

But it isn’t just about the money! Porridge with banana or in-season fruit is cheap, but they won’t serve it in schools cos lots of the kids won’t eat it - or someone thinks they won’t.

mugglewump · 07/06/2025 23:10

I don't know where you get your evidence that a school breakfast is worse quality than most kids get at home. As a supply teacher, I see loads of breakfast clubs' food and it is usually buttered bagels or brown toast, cornflakes or similar (none of the high sugar varieties), fruit and yoghurts. Only water to drink because of the budget, but water is the best thing you can give them. Left-over bagels are given out at break-time and they are very popular.

LegoTherapy · 07/06/2025 23:11

My dc are entitled to FSM. I took ds off them because it’s mainly ultra processed stuff that aggravates his reflux and probable adhd. He is much better on packed lunches where I know what he’s eating. Dd is about to leave school and there is rarely any veggie option and the portions are tiny. No plates either-pizza is served on a bit of card. Not a paper plate, a bit of card. One tiny slice of pizza for growing teenagers and those on FSM have to have the meal deal of a drink (often fizzy flavoured artificially sweetened water in a plastic bottle), nuggets and chips type meal and a cookie. The options at break are half a bagel, sausage barm, bacon barm, toast, danish pastries, doughnuts. You have to pay for those. Kids on FSM don’t get anything at break.

Breakfast club at primary school was UPF toast and margarine, UPF cereal, squash with artificial sweeteners. Same for after school club. Utter shite.

The quality needs to improve.

AngryBookworm · 07/06/2025 23:13

Voted YABU because it makes no sense to say that if we can't provide the best breakfast on the state, we shouldn't provide anything - which is the implication of your title. By all means lobby for more funding for schools to provide better breakfasts (seriously - they're basically magicking this out of thin air).

In the meantime, something is better than nothing - we have plenty of research on the effect that skipping breakfast has on learning. So no, we shouldn't be removing free breakfast - we should be investing in it.

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:13

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 22:56

You think that’s not already happening ?

Clearly not enough otherwise we wouldn’t hear all these examples of children in dirty clothes or underclothed, without having had breakfast etc etc. how are we in a situation where teachers are having to take in breakfast bars ffs?

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:14

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:03

So why are they not even fully funding the dinner that they put on years ago? That could do with getting sorted first. Schools shouldn't have to cut classroom support to feed kids who can afford it because the government withdrew funding a year after it was introduced.

I absolute agree with you.

Kirbert2 · 07/06/2025 23:15

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 22:57

It’s very easy to pontificate on mn ‘they should do xyz’, not so easy when it’s real life

Yep.

Real life often involves other factors and is rarely if ever black and white and oh so simple.

Children who are used to eating white bread, coco pops and in the more extreme cases things such as crisps and chocolate for breakfast aren't going to start magically eating porridge with fruit for breakfast.

Children with SEN who have limited diets and may only eat white bread or coco pops also aren't magically going to start eating healthier either.

and then you have children with allergies and/or dietary needs. This is my child, he can't eat wholemeal foods due to medical reasons and is under a dietician so it isn't actually the best option for him.

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:16

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:13

Clearly not enough otherwise we wouldn’t hear all these examples of children in dirty clothes or underclothed, without having had breakfast etc etc. how are we in a situation where teachers are having to take in breakfast bars ffs?

You don’t work in the system do you ? Very easy to lecture when you’re on the outside

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 23:17

Sad thing is that people think that is it the families who lack money who do not have breakfast. From experience this is not always the case. Many families with money also do not give breakfast as routine. It is not always about lack of money. Sometimes it is lack of caring.

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:17

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:13

Clearly not enough otherwise we wouldn’t hear all these examples of children in dirty clothes or underclothed, without having had breakfast etc etc. how are we in a situation where teachers are having to take in breakfast bars ffs?

So what do you think SS do ?

Kjpt140v · 07/06/2025 23:19

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:34

I don’t work at a school but I visit them as part of my role. I’ve seen donuts, pizza, chicken wings, chips, chicken nuggets, cheese burgers, etc. quite frequently. Very few vegetables or fruit in my experience.

Burgers for breakfast?

Kjpt140v · 07/06/2025 23:22

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:44

@Missedthis @mrsmalcolmreynolds

My whole career has been spent supporting disadvantaged children mainly due to the fact I was one many years ago. There is no pearl clutching here. The fact I was 22 before I ever tasted any other vegetable than a potato or carrot is exactly why I am concerned about the content of these meals. These children need food education more than most. Or should they just have their gruel and be thankful?

Nothing wrong with potatoes and carrots.

PurpleThistle7 · 07/06/2025 23:22

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:36

Every school I’ve ever worked in has a salad bar and fresh fruit.

I’ve never seen or heard of a salad bar at a state school. The private schools have them though. Sounds nice! The meals at my kids schools are terrible but fortunately we are in the position to pack lunches at home.

Kjpt140v · 07/06/2025 23:24

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:56

I suggest we look at models from other countries where they manage it. France for example.

We've already been told that in France, parents are charged €5 a day.

ThisDandyWriter · 07/06/2025 23:24

witwatwoo · 07/06/2025 23:16

You don’t work in the system do you ? Very easy to lecture when you’re on the outside

I’m not lecturing anyone. I just don’t believe we are funding the right things . There needs to be a lot more money given to schools /social care to support families that really need it. Giving shit breakfasts to about if people that don’t need it is a waste of funds.

sure start was a good intervention. Foster parents need more support, sen support etc etc.

i work on the edge of the school sector and do a lot of volunteering with underprivileged children.

I definitely don’t have the answers, I only see what needs to be improved.

but isn’t this what we pay our ministers their salaries for? To come up with the solutions and implement?