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MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:47

TempestTost · 07/06/2025 00:44

You are making a lot of very strange leaps of logic.

Many people think it is a bad idea to say that it is ok for businesses to refuse to serve customers because of their political views. That this is socially and politically dangerous, regardless of the views involved.

It's a pretty straightforward idea.

What strange leaps of logic? I could understand the teeth gnashing if he was banned throughout the country. How is it "dangerous" that he was asked to leave a single restaurant? The hyperbole is real.

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:48

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:45

We have thankfully moved away from No dogs, no blacks, no Irish mentality, so that's just sensationalism.

You haven't moved away if you believe that the business owner can refuse service based on political views, gender, race or ethnicity.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:49

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:48

You haven't moved away if you believe that the business owner can refuse service based on political views, gender, race or ethnicity.

Groans. You're late with that one. It's been done to death.

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:49

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:47

What strange leaps of logic? I could understand the teeth gnashing if he was banned throughout the country. How is it "dangerous" that he was asked to leave a single restaurant? The hyperbole is real.

It doesn't matter if it is one business or one thousand.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:50

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:49

It doesn't matter if it is one business or one thousand.

In reality it does, in the realms of fantasy it doesn't.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:52

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:48

You haven't moved away if you believe that the business owner can refuse service based on political views, gender, race or ethnicity.

Hang on, but you're saying it's OK to refuse to serve Robinson, based on his political views?

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:53

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:49

Groans. You're late with that one. It's been done to death.

Very intelligent response, thanks for the contribution to an otherwise compelling thread

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:54

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:53

Very intelligent response, thanks for the contribution to an otherwise compelling thread

Well if you'd read the thread, you will see that.

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:55

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:50

In reality it does, in the realms of fantasy it doesn't.

It gives TR the opportunity to rightly claim double standards and further division.

cryptide · 07/06/2025 00:55

TopographicalTime · 06/06/2025 16:57

Is it legal to refuse service because you don't like someone's political views?

Yes

Maddy70 · 07/06/2025 00:55

Good. No-one on their workplace should feel threatened

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:56

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:54

Well if you'd read the thread, you will see that.

I think you may have misread Butterfly post. I got the impression she was supporting the fact that ALL opinions are valid. Not just the ones that are popular.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:58

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:55

It gives TR the opportunity to rightly claim double standards and further division.

He'd claim double standards if he doesn't get enough chips.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:58

Maddy70 · 07/06/2025 00:55

Good. No-one on their workplace should feel threatened

He did nothing, directly, to threaten the staff. It's the fact that his presence, alone, being enough to raise a threat, has caused this debate.

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:59

Maddy70 · 07/06/2025 00:55

Good. No-one on their workplace should feel threatened

As I said upthread. The staff would need to show they were at risk. Also I would have my doubts very many waiting staff would even be able to pick TR out of a line up of pictures.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:59

MiloMinderbinder925 · 07/06/2025 00:58

He'd claim double standards if he doesn't get enough chips.

😆 🤣 then you'd complain he had a chip on his shoulder.

cryptide · 07/06/2025 01:00

MoreChocPls · 06/06/2025 17:09

I get it but it’s wrong.

Why? Surely if you go out of your way to be openly racist, bigoted and nasty you forfeit your right to be universally accepted everywhere?

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 01:01

cryptide · 07/06/2025 01:00

Why? Surely if you go out of your way to be openly racist, bigoted and nasty you forfeit your right to be universally accepted everywhere?

Not as cut and dried as that, which includes your description of him.

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 01:03

ARealitycheck · 07/06/2025 00:59

As I said upthread. The staff would need to show they were at risk. Also I would have my doubts very many waiting staff would even be able to pick TR out of a line up of pictures.

My guess is a few Liberal luvvies were dining and put pressure on management, you know in their usual tolerant style.

cryptide · 07/06/2025 01:03

whattodoes · 06/06/2025 17:17

You think the staff should be forced to serve him?

Shouldn't staff serve all patrons unless they were behaving badly? Or are we saying criminals released from jail should expect to not be served?

Well, possibly. If a known rapist came into the restaurant and knew that his presence would upset both staff and other customers, isn't it reasonable to say he should expect not to be served?

QurikySparrowHatrack · 07/06/2025 01:05

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 00:42

Pick a lane. Either it's no dog-no-blacks-no yaxley, or you take everyone as they come. I get the argument that business owners should be able to decide who comes in but you can't then be upset if Christian bakeries stop serving gays, or Muslim grocery stores don't let in Jews. The inconsistency on this thread is 🤯

That just a stupid take, though, and has been explained several times throughout the thread.

A service provider (generally) cannot lawfully discriminate against a potential customer on the basis of protected characteristics, as it should be. You can discriminate against someone for, for example, simply thinking they're a complete bell-end.

It's the difference between racism, sexism, ageism, etc vs "Tommy Robinsonism".

And yes, there are some limited instances where a political belief is protected but it's daft in the extreme to think that, for example, being racist/ageist/homophobic should be protected by equality legislation (it'd defeat the whole point).

Butterflyarms · 07/06/2025 01:05

My position is a little more meta. I highlight for the contributors that they are inconsistent in their support for Hawksmoor's actions, when they would not support Ashers on the same principle, and therefore that their views are partisan and illogical. Let us be consistent in how we debate, so that any conclusion has real merit.

Hoardasurass · 07/06/2025 01:06

cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:10

He didn’t need to be. Though he may have been.
He’s a known violent racist. A business is within its rights to ban him because of the risk he poses both in terms of potential behaviour and potential reputational damage.

Wrong please read the actual law instead of idiots on the Internets views

Maddy70 · 07/06/2025 01:11

Dangermoo · 07/06/2025 00:58

He did nothing, directly, to threaten the staff. It's the fact that his presence, alone, being enough to raise a threat, has caused this debate.

You have no idea what went on there. But I can assure you if farage came into my business. He would be sent on his way. Noone is obligated to serve anyone

cryptide · 07/06/2025 01:11

MrsMitford3 · 06/06/2025 17:17

I am donning my tin hat here.
I am not a fan of his politics at all but where do we draw the line?
Who decides?
It makes me very uncomfortable.
Is it ok for restaurants to refuse women wearing "Adult human female" shirts?
Or ppl with different coloured skin?
Different religious beliefs?
Ppl with keffiyehs on?
Gay people?
Ppl in burkas?
A women only event?

I assume everyone will come on to say it's not the same but I feel like the pitchforks will be next.

Everyone is jubilant now because they dislike him but next time what if it someone you like/agree with politically that is publicly being thrown out?

I think the ability to disagree and respect others opinions is lost and imho that is not a good thing for society.

I think we draw the line quite easily, i.e. we draw it where the Equality Act tells us we must. Most of the people on your list have protected characteristics so it would undoubtedly be wrong to refuse to serve them for that reason. Businesses are perfectly entitled to refuse to serve people who do not come within any of the protected categories, and that includes people with differing political views. The reality is that few if any restaurants would do that, because it would make no commercial sense. But it equally makes good commercial sense to let it be known that you will not countenance racist yobs. If I knew that a particular restaurant was patronised by Yaxley-Lennon and his mates I would certainly give it a big swerve, and I'm sure I'm not alone. So Hawksmoor have almost certainly done themselves a lot of good by reassuring their customers that they're not going to find themselves next to objectionable dickheads like this.

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