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To think council housing is really unfair??

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Helpmechooseausername · 05/06/2025 18:12

I totally get that some people need to be housed by the council, but AIBU to think that the system is abused - but it seems to be his the system works?

I know of two families who have lived in their council houses for years and raised their children there. They needed help when they first moved in, and so were quite fairly given council houses. But, now the kids have grown up and moved on. The parents both have got jobs, nice cars, holidays, go out for meals, etc., etc.. They can continue living in their council houses for the rest of their lives.

It seems massively unfair. Is it really not means tested?? Surely the houses should be given to other people who need them? How can it be right that they aren't told to move back into the private property market?

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

And yes, I'll admit that I'm jealous! I can't afford to do any nice things for my kids and I, despite working hard, and it seems to be because I chose to own my own home and get a mortgage instead of getting a council house!

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InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 17:56

x2boys · 06/06/2025 17:49

Well i think I will refer to my tenancy agreement agreement that says I do have right to live in my housing association house, for as long as I wish
Rather thsn some random, ramblings on mumsnet
And secondly it's not a public asset its not like I have taken up residence in the local town hall

Having said that, I’ve seen many, many of your posts here over the years and given your own situation I highly doubt even in a much needed reassessment of needs you’d be at any risk of being asked to vacate given what you have shared about your situation. The issue is not people who are carers of disabled people occupying Council properties, it’s people occupying them who do not actually need to do so.

knor · 06/06/2025 18:01

While I agree with you OP, I don’t think there’s a solution. Councils can’t just turf people onto the street. As someone said, you’ll be so happy when you’re living mortgage free. They will be paying rent for the rest of their lives.
I hate this phrase but life is unfair and it’s just sadly the way it is. Totally normal to be jealous

Xmasxrackers · 06/06/2025 18:01

We also pay full rent on our HA house. Our next door neighbours (same house) pay half of what we do because when they moved in they were deemed as not being able to afford housing, so their rent was lower. 10 years on their rent goes up every year like everyone else’s, but they still only pay half what we pay despite being on a better wage.

Youagain2025 · 06/06/2025 18:03

Helpmechooseausername · 05/06/2025 18:12

I totally get that some people need to be housed by the council, but AIBU to think that the system is abused - but it seems to be his the system works?

I know of two families who have lived in their council houses for years and raised their children there. They needed help when they first moved in, and so were quite fairly given council houses. But, now the kids have grown up and moved on. The parents both have got jobs, nice cars, holidays, go out for meals, etc., etc.. They can continue living in their council houses for the rest of their lives.

It seems massively unfair. Is it really not means tested?? Surely the houses should be given to other people who need them? How can it be right that they aren't told to move back into the private property market?

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

And yes, I'll admit that I'm jealous! I can't afford to do any nice things for my kids and I, despite working hard, and it seems to be because I chose to own my own home and get a mortgage instead of getting a council house!

I haven't read the thread so just replying to op.

I do think once the kids have left home people should down size. But I don't think people should be kicked out of social housing and made to private rent.

It's very hard to private rent. Its not secure i don't believe someone in secure housing should go private and be at risk of losing their home from year to year or month to month. As people get older things change retirement. Or maybe they are in low paid jobs . That means help from uc for housing element is needed. Most landlords will not take that. The tenant is then be at risk of eviction and becoming homless .

TheWorminLabyrinth · 06/06/2025 18:04

InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 17:42

You don’t have some inalienable right to use of a public asset just because you’ve been allowed to use it for a long time.

Policies and laws change as society and needs change and in this case there’s a very good argument for changing the law. Many people in social housing do not need to be there and others need it more so it’s very difficult to see any rational or moral argument why the rest of society should facilitate them continuing to overuse a public asset in this manner. I don’t think it’s sustainable or will be sustained, ultumately.

Separately, I stated in my first post on the thread that more social housing should be built, alongside some other reforms, so I agree either way you on that matter. One point does not negate the other, however.

Housing association properties are not public assets.

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 18:05

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InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 18:05

knor · 06/06/2025 18:01

While I agree with you OP, I don’t think there’s a solution. Councils can’t just turf people onto the street. As someone said, you’ll be so happy when you’re living mortgage free. They will be paying rent for the rest of their lives.
I hate this phrase but life is unfair and it’s just sadly the way it is. Totally normal to be jealous

A lot of them won’t “pay rent for the rest of their lives”. Despite the subsidised housing many won’t have saved enough to fund their retirement so will be expecting that when they retire others who have paid for their own homes to fund their rent via tax, or that the dwindling working aged population should do so (despite one not very economically literate PP stating we should encourage the birth rate to decline further rather than allocate housing stock effectively! Not quite sure who the PP is expecting to work and pay taxes….).

InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 18:08

TheWorminLabyrinth · 06/06/2025 18:04

Housing association properties are not public assets.

Why not read my posts before writing your messages to me in bold and then you’d have noticed that I specifically stated that the situation is different for HA properties.

justasking111 · 06/06/2025 18:11

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Jakers what makes you think she could get a mortgage at her age

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 18:12

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Wow you're a peach

Frostiesflakes · 06/06/2025 18:13

She would have to be absolutely bat shit crazy to give up a secure cheap tenancy and go private
nothing to do with self respect no one who had any sense would want to do that

you just have council house envy 😂

InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 18:15

Frostiesflakes · 06/06/2025 18:13

She would have to be absolutely bat shit crazy to give up a secure cheap tenancy and go private
nothing to do with self respect no one who had any sense would want to do that

you just have council house envy 😂

Strange, I’ve never seen this mentioned in the Sunday Times Style magazine.

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 18:16

Frostiesflakes · 06/06/2025 18:13

She would have to be absolutely bat shit crazy to give up a secure cheap tenancy and go private
nothing to do with self respect no one who had any sense would want to do that

you just have council house envy 😂

At least it got deleted.

Vynalbob · 06/06/2025 18:17

It's not the council house dwellers that's the problem it's the fact the government sold most of them off without building replacements which led the private rental sector & cost of housing to skyrocket. As with lots of problems scapegoats are easily found so the people who actually could resolve the issue don't feel any pressure to do so.

Frostiesflakes · 06/06/2025 18:17

No ,but it gets mentioned a lot on here 😂

But I reckon it could be a style piece in vogue 😂

Winter2020 · 06/06/2025 18:17

InsomniacSloth · 06/06/2025 17:38

No, it would do the opposite if managed appropriately with corresponding reforms to the welfare system.

Ultimately there’s no rational or moral justification for people to have such legal rights to an asset that is a public asset. Circumstances have changed so the law needs to be changed to remove such a legal right because it’s no longer appropriate to give someone lifelong rights to live in a subsidised home when others need it more and they are in short supply.

I do understand the self-interest motivating many of the responses on the thread but ultimately the position of posters arguing that their legal right to have a lifetime tenancy to a home that may exceed their needs when they could provide a sufficient home for themselves supersedes the right of other families to have a home that meets their needs at all is untenable and won’t continue in the long run.

My "self interest" in believing we should leave lifetime tenancies alone and not means test council housing is that Britain needs ambitious/high earning people to pay taxes to support our public services and our vulnerable. Squashing ambition and encouraging people to be under employed in order to stay in their council house is not going to pay the countries bills.

I don't live in a council house and I'm not a high earner. I could do with a second job to bring in a bit more money for our family but by the time I will lose 40%+ to tax, national insurance and student loan (from what will be about minimum wage) I can't really be bothered so we'll probably just tighten our belts. You don't motivate people to strive by penalising them and taking from them.

As an aside I'm interested if it is the same people arguing that private landlords should not be able to evict people and should have the rent they charge capped that are in the next breath saying that social housing providers should evict people and/or raise their rents.

Frostiesflakes · 06/06/2025 18:19

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 18:16

At least it got deleted.

She’s probably just jealous that someone has something she can’t have access to

justasking111 · 06/06/2025 18:21

I've just googled my grandparents old house on Rightmove. Last sold in 2001 98k. Now two bedrooms third bedroom is a bathroom. Which used to be downstairs with a ferociously noisy water heater. Grandad grew vegetables in the garden on most of it, patch of lawn for granny.

Today a neighbouring terrace just sold for £380k. Description starter home for a couple. My grandparents raised four children after the war in that house.

My grandparents would have a fit that it had been sold off, he was a Scottish staunch socialist. Tony Blair could have and should have stopped this madness.

ERthree · 06/06/2025 18:23

Namenamchange · 05/06/2025 18:18

we should never how sold councils houses under the right to buy scheme. Years ago council houses were plentiful and the criteria for them was fairly wide. There was less sigma. It’s only unfair because there isn’t enough to go round. Council houses aren’t free and many people pay a lot of rent. I unsure if they should go to the poorest of people, because there is a real lack of affordable alternatives.

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What stigma ?

CantStopMoving · 06/06/2025 18:24

Vynalbob · 06/06/2025 18:17

It's not the council house dwellers that's the problem it's the fact the government sold most of them off without building replacements which led the private rental sector & cost of housing to skyrocket. As with lots of problems scapegoats are easily found so the people who actually could resolve the issue don't feel any pressure to do so.

But that is in the past. We are where we are now. The issue being discussed is given all that has happened and there is a shortage of supply that will never ever go away, how is the finite resource of social housing to be allocated? Is it a first come first serve basis or one based on need?

there are zero people in the Uk including the prime minister himself who can solve the supply problem of social housing.

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2025 18:25

No self interest here, I have no skin in this game whatsoever but some of the attitudes on this thread horrify me. It wasn’t just social housing Thatcher took away it seems it was a nation’s humanity.

butteredradish4 · 06/06/2025 18:26

Call it envy or jealousy if it makes you feel better. The majority of people on the poll agree that the system should be changed to include means testing so that we help those in need.

justasking111 · 06/06/2025 18:28

A friend in Londons son works in government housing. There's discussions of slapping VAT on private landlords. So they'll either sell or pass it onto tenants.

Meanwhile in the north east an American company have bought 58k off plan properties from developers to rent out not sell. We're ripe for the picking in the UK.

vodkaredbullgirl · 06/06/2025 18:28

Probably all the people who are homeowners vote the most.

Bushmillsbabe · 06/06/2025 18:29

Moii · 06/06/2025 17:49

I'm thinking if someone once financially sound is expected to leave their council property they my drop off the work ladder so not to be evicted and live on housing benefits. It would take away ambition.

If that took away their ambition, it clearly wasn't very robust in the first place! True ambition is intrinsic.
In reality, I don't think anyone would be forced to leave, that would cost far to much in court and eviction fees, but they could be expected to pay a rent reflective of their earnings and the market rent for their area.

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