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To think council housing is really unfair??

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Helpmechooseausername · 05/06/2025 18:12

I totally get that some people need to be housed by the council, but AIBU to think that the system is abused - but it seems to be his the system works?

I know of two families who have lived in their council houses for years and raised their children there. They needed help when they first moved in, and so were quite fairly given council houses. But, now the kids have grown up and moved on. The parents both have got jobs, nice cars, holidays, go out for meals, etc., etc.. They can continue living in their council houses for the rest of their lives.

It seems massively unfair. Is it really not means tested?? Surely the houses should be given to other people who need them? How can it be right that they aren't told to move back into the private property market?

I feel a bit like when I stand in a queue in a shop, waiting to pay, while people come in and just take what they want without paying or queuing!!

And yes, I'll admit that I'm jealous! I can't afford to do any nice things for my kids and I, despite working hard, and it seems to be because I chose to own my own home and get a mortgage instead of getting a council house!

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butteredradish4 · 05/06/2025 19:53

It's one the reasons people hate people in council houses. They just take take take. Even when their circumstances change and they could afford to live else where they often don't release the space for someone else to benefit from - they just pull up the draw bridge.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 05/06/2025 19:54

i have no idea about council housing to know what’s fair and what’s not. Haven’t we got MPs earning large salaries living in council housing in London with subsidised rents? That stuff is bizarre. Surely there needs to be a means tested elements re. the rents that are paid.

Soal · 05/06/2025 19:54

SkibidiSigma · 05/06/2025 19:46

How do the rest of us on low incomes afford extortionate private rents?! We do, because we have to. I totally agree with the OP, although also agree that if the council houses hadn't been sold off via right to buy it wouldn't be such an issue now.

For some reason council house swap pages keep appearing on my Facebook. I cannot believe how large and nice the houses are and the entitlement of what people are asking for. Council housing was supposed to be for people who needed help, not so people who have good jobs can pay cheap rent and live a luxury lifestyle.

You know that many/ most council houses are supplied in an extremely basic condition, right? Not like private rental. I lived in a HA house for a while. No fridge for months till I could afford to buy one. No curtains till I made them, no carpets or flooring - never got those, had to paint the floorboards to make it safe for kids. Bare plaster walls.

Those people in those "luxurious" houses have likely scrimped and saved like hell to make them nice over the years.

"Luxury lifestyle" ffs.

Frostiesflakes · 05/06/2025 19:55

In my street there is one council house
worth around 350 -400k
4 HA worth around the same if you were selling

council house rent 415 a month for a 2 bed
private rent min of 1300 a month
Victorian terrace type

Modern large 3 bed / 3 storey town house type double drive and big gardens
HA rent around 500 a month
private rent at least 1500 easily as you could make if a four bed

Soal · 05/06/2025 19:55

butteredradish4 · 05/06/2025 19:53

It's one the reasons people hate people in council houses. They just take take take. Even when their circumstances change and they could afford to live else where they often don't release the space for someone else to benefit from - they just pull up the draw bridge.

Once their circumstances change they will be producing revenue for the council as they will be paying rent. Councils make money on council housing. The councils should buy more houses. This is a political problem.

PorgyandBess · 05/06/2025 19:55

Council tenants pay rent, and it’s not peanuts.

I often go into council houses through work, I would not want to live in one. I’m sure many council tenants would much rather live in their own homes.

But I believe right to buy should be scrapped and tenants should be obliged to downsize if they have more bedrooms than they need.

EdithBond · 05/06/2025 19:56

MoominMai · 05/06/2025 19:49

Yup, like Levi Roots a millionaire refusing to move out his council place in South London to ease the waiting lists of those more in need. It’s a ridiculous thing to me for people like him to state ‘but this is my home’. Erm yes and no. Only for the duration to get on your feet! It’s like me in private rented when my partner left and the rent went up I couldn’t say ‘but it’s my home!’. Because it’s only my home as long as my circumstances can afford (or in public sector) justify it. It’s not a case about being jealous either. Years later, I’m single and settled with an affordable mortgage luckily enough. But at uni I studied Social Policy and did my dissertation on homelessness and honestly it just triggers me bad the inequality of the system! Don’t get me started on the Right to Buy either and how it depleted housing stock, family members getting together to ‘buy for Nana’ then sell on her death making a killing especially in the more desirable parts. And all (allegedly) so Thatcher could be assured of votes 🙄

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Sad you’ve got so used to private tenants having so few rights, you think no tenants should have the right to a permanent home at a not-for-profit rent.

People who use private healthcare will be saying that about the NHS soon: why should they get free healthcare when I have to pay? [not that a council home is free]

butteredradish4 · 05/06/2025 19:56

Frostiesflakes · 05/06/2025 19:49

it’s the system that is to blame

not people - hate the game not the players

you can’t blame anyone for securing a secure fairly cheap tenancy for themselves

People have choice. Just because something isn't illegal doesn't make it immoral.

Soal · 05/06/2025 19:56

Frostiesflakes · 05/06/2025 19:55

In my street there is one council house
worth around 350 -400k
4 HA worth around the same if you were selling

council house rent 415 a month for a 2 bed
private rent min of 1300 a month
Victorian terrace type

Modern large 3 bed / 3 storey town house type double drive and big gardens
HA rent around 500 a month
private rent at least 1500 easily as you could make if a four bed

And rather than thinking the private rent is wrong, you're upset about the council one?

TheJinxMinx · 05/06/2025 19:57

I agree we have a housing crisis they all need to be reassessed based on need regularly and means tested. There are benefits to a council house such as yes people pay rent but it is a lot lower than the current rental market at present. U are guaranteed maintenance repairs paid for etc. I know loads of older couples still living in 4 or 5 bed council houses with kids all moved out, meanwhile people with young families are stuck in a 2 bed council house kids all sharing rooms. People need to see even those within the system are being affected. It should not be a right but a means tested support and seen as a benefit that gets reviewed just like every other benefit in this country. Those that don't meet the criteria can move out and rent elsewhere. It is not their home. They do not own it as many posters on here say its their home, they rent it and could be evicted if needed. I'm not cruel or unkind I just see those in need struggling who should have access to housing and alot of people abuse the system. Obviously this does not apply to every council tenant some can't afford standard rent or cannot work because of disabilities etc but there 100% has to be some sort of means testing brought even to move those around in council accomidation. And before I get jumped saying but the council dont pay for unused extra bedrooms so they pocket for it themselves, they clearly then can afford to pay higher rent than benefits allow and also do not need the extra bedrooms so relocate to a smaller home and let the families cramped into 2-3 beds move in

Nannydoodles · 05/06/2025 19:57

The thing is a council/HA property may be your home but it is not your property, it should be yours for as long as it meets your needs and when it doesn’t or you have empty bedrooms you move into somewhere more suitable thus freeing up a larger property for more families.
I know of several older single people in 3 bedroom houses that are now to big for them to manage independently and the gardens are neglected, surely this isn’t right while so many families are needing housing.

PinkiOcelot · 05/06/2025 19:57

TomatoSandwiches · 05/06/2025 18:29

Your mortgage, when paid off will have given you an asset to use for your benefit.
Living in social housing and paying a slightly subsidised rent is not the same thing.

It will also go towards paying care home fees those in social housing won’t have to pay.

They also don’t have to pay for repairs etc.

TartanMammy · 05/06/2025 19:58

AirborneElephant · 05/06/2025 19:37

Of course it’s unfair. The subsidies need to stop. All rents should be at full market rate, then there will be a good incentive to downsize when children leave, and it will remove the huge relocation penalty if people get a better job offer elsewhere.

They're not subsided, they are not for profit, it's not the same thing. Many councils actually do make profit from rents.

BastardesEverywhere · 05/06/2025 19:59

Frostiesflakes · 05/06/2025 19:37

You would absolutely hate my nephew OP
he split up with his girlfriend around 18months ago and they owned house is being sold

he moved in with his Nan who has a large 2 bed lovely Victorian style council house in a very desirable area His Nan is very happy to have the company as she is elderly and on her own

Nan has just added him to the tenancy a few months ago after a year of living there and it’s perfectly legal to do

he is paying the council tax and rent which comes to just over 600 a month for both

he’s very happy as at 32 he’s got a lovely house and a secure joint tenancy for life
when his Nan passes away he can carry on living in the house

he earns around 45k which will go up and he will also eventually have the money from his house sale

his sister is really angry as she could have moved in with her nan but didn’t want to at the time so it’s caused a few arguments

do I blame him - nope not at all
it’s the system that’s messed up

I wouldn't hate him.

I just think it's a bit pathetic that the peak of a 32 year olds ambition is to rent a Council House for the rest of his life. I sincerely hope none of my dc ever get to that position...genuinely no envy here.

However, agree that it's the system at fault. No one should be able to pass on/take over a council tenancy.

Soal · 05/06/2025 19:59

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 05/06/2025 19:54

i have no idea about council housing to know what’s fair and what’s not. Haven’t we got MPs earning large salaries living in council housing in London with subsidised rents? That stuff is bizarre. Surely there needs to be a means tested elements re. the rents that are paid.

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So the government should act unethically because banks and some private landlords do?
Should the government pay their workers badly and give them zero hours contracts because that's the standard some businesses set?
The rents on the market aren't some magic standard of "rightness" that councils should follow. In fact right now they're fucking insane. Just because you CAN get people to pay more for something doesn't make it the "right price." Doesn't mean council rents are "wrong."

Whistlingformysupper · 05/06/2025 19:59

Blackbookofsmiles1 · 05/06/2025 18:29

Yes council tenants pay rent if they work, but let’s not pretend; the rent is minuscule compared to what rents are for others not so privileged to be a council tenant.

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This. I hate when people bang on about how council housing isn't free.... It's extremely extremely cheap and it's rare that the social rents charged are at market rate - they are often barely a fraction of what would be paid in the private sector.
Council tenants might pay rent but they aren't paying much.

EdithBond · 05/06/2025 20:00

PorgyandBess · 05/06/2025 19:55

Council tenants pay rent, and it’s not peanuts.

I often go into council houses through work, I would not want to live in one. I’m sure many council tenants would much rather live in their own homes.

But I believe right to buy should be scrapped and tenants should be obliged to downsize if they have more bedrooms than they need.

What do you think about homeowners? Should they downsize and stop hoarding homes they don’t need. So young families can buy?

GintyM · 05/06/2025 20:00

It’s totally valid to feel frustrated—especially when you’re working hard and struggling. But housing isn’t means-tested once someone’s in a council property, and that’s part of the wider issue: a shortage of social homes and no clear path for moving people on when their circumstances improve.

The system does need reform to be fairer and more responsive to current needs—but it’s not the tenants abusing it, it’s the policy that hasn’t caught up. Your feelings are understandable, but the real issue is the lack of affordable options for everyone.

Halfull · 05/06/2025 20:00

That’s not what council housing was set up to be! It was meant to be decent homes, for a fair rent, with a secure tenancy. For working people! There just aren’t enough of them. Anyone who wants to rent a house from the council should be allowed to do so, and pay rent to them but people probably never get to the front of the waiting list. If we forget what it’s supposed to be we’re really in trouble. Right to buy caused this because the law prevented councils from building more new stock when they sold houses to tenants. That’s why there’s a huge shortage now. Show me a council house built in the 1980s.

Frostiesflakes · 05/06/2025 20:00

Soal · 05/06/2025 19:56

And rather than thinking the private rent is wrong, you're upset about the council one?

Mmm
where did I say I was upset about the rent difference
I’m just pointing out the big differences in the cost of private / council / HA

I don’t care what the rent is and fair play to anyone who gets a decent council / HA place

as I said my nephew is on his nans tennancy now so when she dies he will be the main Tennant on a very nice house in an expensive city

MoominMai · 05/06/2025 20:00

EdithBond · 05/06/2025 19:56

Sad you’ve got so used to private tenants having so few rights, you think no tenants should have the right to a permanent home at a not-for-profit rent.

People who use private healthcare will be saying that about the NHS soon: why should they get free healthcare when I have to pay? [not that a council home is free]

I’m sure you’d have a different opinion if you were stuck on a waiting list for an eternity.

butterpuffed · 05/06/2025 20:01

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 05/06/2025 18:30

No not like everyone else. Their rent is significantly lower than market rate.

You can still get Housing Benefit if you rent privately , whether or not you're receiving other benefits . Its based on the market rate for your area and your wages .

Justsomethoughts23 · 05/06/2025 20:01

EdithBond · 05/06/2025 19:50

What about the level of entitlement of NHS users in that case?

Why shouldn’t people be entitled to not-for profit council housing? They pay taxes and still have to pay rent. It’s not free.

Would you rather taxpayers carry on getting ripped off by private temporary accommodation providers who charge a fortune to house record numbers of homeless families because there isn’t enough council housing?

Don’t think that argument holds because the NHS provides services free at the point of use for ALL. Council housing is not provided for all. Also, those that would be prevented from using the NHS would be the ones actually paying for it via taxes.

Chipsandricetonight · 05/06/2025 20:01

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EdithBond · 05/06/2025 20:02

Whistlingformysupper · 05/06/2025 19:59

This. I hate when people bang on about how council housing isn't free.... It's extremely extremely cheap and it's rare that the social rents charged are at market rate - they are often barely a fraction of what would be paid in the private sector.
Council tenants might pay rent but they aren't paying much.

It’s just not-for-profit. If a tenant lives in their council home for 50 years, they more than pay back the cost of building it.

But you appear to be an advocate of profiting from people’s need to live somewhere.