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To wonder if people were actually healthier when everyone smoked

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Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:11

(I have never smoked and used to hate going to bars etc that stank of smoke so this is a very against my own interests question but)

Smoking makes people thinner (it just does)

Cigarettes can be good for people with anxiety

Smoking is a social activity and social connection is good for health

Should we try and get a tiny bit more going?

(Not me I still don't want my hair to smell)

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Rockhopper1 · 29/05/2025 22:53

Interestingly people in the 50s were slimmer even though they frequently consumed more calories. As a pp mentioned above they sat down & ate 3 meals rather than grazing / snacking . This prevented them constantly causing their insulin to spike - which causes us to store fat .

MJMaude · 29/05/2025 22:53

Wait, so this thread is a dig about WLI? What a twist, fantastic work OP!

justasking111 · 29/05/2025 22:54

SquashedMallow · 29/05/2025 22:34

There are some benefits to smoking (reduced appetite, reduced weight generally, boosted metabolism) beneficial to some people with mental health problems such as anxiety.

However, the cons by far outstrip any pros.

Alcohol is now to what cigarettes was then. In a couple of decades alcohol will be something only "old people" do too. (Thank god)

Was just thinking this. My granny had a sherry on Christmas Day at no other time. My mother only had sherry in the house which she used in cooking. My father would go to the pub once in a blue moon with family. We'd all sit in the garden with a lemonade as children, father would drink a beer. Was a lovely pub down by the river. All the calories in alcohol were absent back then.
Coffee was rarely drunk, copious pots of tea though.

Mother would bake a fruit cake and a sponge cake every week. Occasionally butterfly cakes. Biscuits were plain and boring .

We did eat jam, or banana sandwiches I recall as a treat.

lifeonmars100 · 29/05/2025 22:54

Need an option which says " are you mad?"

HeyWiggle · 29/05/2025 22:57

I agree with a referral from the GP

i also think you and your ex need to spend quality 1:1 time alone with her regularly so that she feels treasured.

lock away knifes, medicines, cleaning products. Bare in mind lots of random things can become a weapon - a torn Coke can, a smashed glass

chocolatelover91 · 29/05/2025 22:58

mathanxiety · 29/05/2025 22:51

Lots of people were exposed to both environmental pollutants and second hand smoke in workplaces, entertainment venues, and on public transport back in the day.

Smoking is a leading cause of lung cancer.

Yes I agree with you that smoking is the lead cause of lung cancer! Definitely fact! But he had prostate cancer which spread viciously unfortunately 😭 but this poster made it seem as though smoking is the only cause of cancer! Which isn't true! It's unfortunate that even healthy people can get cancer and become so unwell! Life can be a bi**h! 😞

PawsAndTails · 29/05/2025 22:58

chocolatelover91 · 29/05/2025 22:48

My father in law died of cancer last year and didn't touch a cigarette in his life! This is a stupid statement!

Their statement isn't stupid. Smoking does give people cancer. It doesn't mean other people don't also get cancer.

I know someone who's had lung cancer and never smoked a day in her life. They suspect asbestos.

userlotsanumbers · 29/05/2025 22:59

U OK, hun?

PeppyLilacLion · 29/05/2025 23:00

This thread is a bit odd, as it occurred to me the other day how much people not smoking might have contributed to the general increase in obesity. Anyone I know who has stopped smoking has really put the weight on. I think the same good feelings are given from puffing on a cigarette as to putting snacks in a mouth. No doubt something sensory and enjoyable from the mouth area being utilised that’s transmitted to the brain. Not for one minute am I suggesting smoking is good- I absolutely hate it. But two things have always stayed in my brain about smoking. The first was watching my friend who used to get so tense and stressed when she had her first puff of a cigarette. You’d literally see the tension pour out of her, it was quite a thing to witness. The second is relating to chrons and colitis (I have the latter). I remember reading a ln old study that basically suggested that smokers suffer from these conditions far, far less. Obviously no health organisation would push that message or study now. But it strikes me that the stress relief that comes from smoking and the making 5 minutes for yourself of pure selfish indulgence might be the reason why rather than the nicotine. So now I go to the gym everyday instead 🤣👍🏻same thing really but hopefully healthier.

StScholastica · 29/05/2025 23:00

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:20

Healthy life expectancy is still well below 72

So why bother with an extra 9 years in nappies

This is ageist crap. I work with older people and mostly they are very fit and active into their 80s.

LogicalBlodge · 29/05/2025 23:00

It's a fair point that maybe people who would have smoked are eating more - possibly those with the addictive type personality.

But no absolutely do not bring smoking back.

I worked in this sector and the tobacco and vapes bill is an absolute triumph.

I found myself on a female thoracic (chest) surgery ward at a major London hospital after a sudden hospitalisation needing an operation. Most of our surgeries were the next day and it was like the worlds weirdest sleepover as we bonded and shared stories of what brought us there - numerous women who were having tumours removed who had smoked in younger years or still did and were basically all saying THANK FUCK I caught it in time and have a second chance, I am never smoking again. Don't be one of them as you might not get lucky.

BashfulClam · 29/05/2025 23:01

The smell is horrendous. I grew up with chain smoking parents and like a pp there was money for smoking but not for decent shoes that didn’t leak, food or decent holidays. Kids at school said I smelled smoke (everything in my house did) both parents smoked up tl 60 each a day. They had awful faggy breath and my dad got annoyed at me for refusing to hold his hand when I was a child but it made my hands stink of smoke. When I fondly admitted that he looked embarrassed.

Recently a man say down on the train diagonally across from me and I had to move away as the stale smoke smell was overwhelming.

My friend is dying from cancer, she has lymphoma, it has gone into her lung lining due to smoking it is in her spine and she has mouth cancer she had moles for 40 years. She has been ‘giving up’ for the last 25 years as soon as ‘Christmas is over/she has smoked the cigarettes she bought abroad/summer is over and it’s horrible to stand outside’….. she’s still smoking ‘but not inhaling’

LogicalBlodge · 29/05/2025 23:03

PeppyLilacLion · 29/05/2025 23:00

This thread is a bit odd, as it occurred to me the other day how much people not smoking might have contributed to the general increase in obesity. Anyone I know who has stopped smoking has really put the weight on. I think the same good feelings are given from puffing on a cigarette as to putting snacks in a mouth. No doubt something sensory and enjoyable from the mouth area being utilised that’s transmitted to the brain. Not for one minute am I suggesting smoking is good- I absolutely hate it. But two things have always stayed in my brain about smoking. The first was watching my friend who used to get so tense and stressed when she had her first puff of a cigarette. You’d literally see the tension pour out of her, it was quite a thing to witness. The second is relating to chrons and colitis (I have the latter). I remember reading a ln old study that basically suggested that smokers suffer from these conditions far, far less. Obviously no health organisation would push that message or study now. But it strikes me that the stress relief that comes from smoking and the making 5 minutes for yourself of pure selfish indulgence might be the reason why rather than the nicotine. So now I go to the gym everyday instead 🤣👍🏻same thing really but hopefully healthier.

Exactly - if more people realised that the best way to manage addiction is through exercise.

Nominative · 29/05/2025 23:04

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace

Simply not true.

shuggles · 29/05/2025 23:04

@Fragmentedbrain There are some controversial ideas that exposure to very low levels of smoking, or very low levels of radiation, is beneficial for human health.

*Please note that these are fringe ideas, and medical advice is to minimise exposure to cigarette smoking and/or radiation as much as possible.

HeartyViper · 29/05/2025 23:04

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

As a daughter of someone who died from lung cancer within 12 months from diagnosis, i find your viewpoint, wild, frankly.

Devilsmommy · 29/05/2025 23:05

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

Nicotine is an appetite suppressant. I'm a heavy smoker but even I know that it's better that people don't smoke😂 oh and I've suffered with depression and anxiety in the past so smoking is not a cure

sweetkitty · 29/05/2025 23:05

I’m a non smoker who grew up with two chain smoking parents and it was horrible, I must of stank to the high heavens. Try being in a car with 2 smokers (oh they opened the window an inch to let it out), always money for fags but went without food and heating, never had a holiday until I left home.

My father is 71 now and has COPD, still smoking, always has “the cold” will do anything but blame smoking on the fact he can’t climb a flight of stairs.

Thedogscollar · 29/05/2025 23:12

@Fragmentedbrain
Your critical thinking around smoking requires some work.
One of the most stupid threads ever.

Nanny0gg · 29/05/2025 23:12

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

Of course they're not obese

That's because a lot of them are dead

What is wrong with you?

Nothankyov · 29/05/2025 23:12

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:15

I think maybe you're dismissing too quickly the fact that hardly anyone was obese when smoking was commonplace and nobody was long term unemployed with anxiety when smoking was commonplace

I guess I forget that people rarely think about health and just believe what they are expected to believe (understandably survival attitude)

I’m sorry so your solution to obesity is smoking? That’s just shifting the problem. Both are unhealthy.

and I disagree that people don’t think about health. We do more now that’s ever before - partly because we have more accurate information.

Nanny0gg · 29/05/2025 23:15

PeapodMcgee · 29/05/2025 21:21

Emphysema is a horrible way to go.

Oh it is

User79853257976 · 29/05/2025 23:15

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 21:19

And nobody needed specially reinforced hospital beds for their enormous hefts

It not not smoking that’s made people fat…it’s food.

JemimaPiddlepot · 29/05/2025 23:17

Fragmentedbrain · 29/05/2025 22:14

Most people can't get mounjaro, though.

20 Benson and Hedges cost £16.50. If you’re on ten a day, that’s £55 a week. It’s cheaper to get Mounjaro privately. Without the whole pesky lung cancer and emphysema business.

Anyway, I’m only here for the deletion message.

Nanny0gg · 29/05/2025 23:17

goudacheese · 29/05/2025 21:23

I'm not a smoker but I can see where you're coming from. The only smokers in my family lived to 82 and 95. People in the smoking era were slimmer and possibly happier but I can't stand the smell, the cost is horrendous so I don't think I'll chance it.

Lucky you

One parent in their 50s and the other in their 70s

And yes they were slimmer - because they were bloody ill!!

And dying of emphysema or cancer does not make you happy