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Police Not Guilty of assault of elderly care home resident

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Nanny0gg · 28/05/2025 17:22

The police that tasered the 92 year-old amputee in the nursing home have been found not guilty of assault!

What on earth? What does constitute assault then?

I'm appalled by this judgement

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 29/05/2025 00:45

titchy · 28/05/2025 17:40

No they really don’t. Have you actually seen the footage? Times how long they gave an elderly disabled man to put the butter knife down? Seen how they shouted at him rather than talk gently?

I expect the staff had been doing that for many hours before calling the police.

uncomfortablydumb60 · 29/05/2025 00:46

Fucking disgraceful The poor man wasn't threatening them and he was holding a chunky handled butter knife, not a Zombie knife
Staff trained in Dementia care should've de escalated the situation and talked to him calmly not called the fucking police who were armed with Pepper spray and a baton
The 92 year old had a UTI, was an amputee sat in a wheelchair which apparently the police failed to notice!!!
Without a doubt, they were both guilty( it was filmed!) Both they and the carers should be sacked

HomericEpithet · 29/05/2025 00:47

This is the knife, everyone. It's a butter knife with a big plastic handle to make it easy to hold for people with poor dexterity. I am a fit healthy adult and I can barely manage to cut cooked meat on a plate with these, so how can a 92 year old in a wheelchair be a credible threat with one?

Police Not Guilty of assault of elderly care home resident
HomericEpithet · 29/05/2025 00:59

OonaStubbs · 29/05/2025 00:43

If it was only a butter knife and the man presented no danger, why were the police called in the first place?

I will guess someone followed some training to the letter. I had to attend an external training session, in which the trainer said, "what would you do if one of your service users had a mental crisis and grabbed a knife and started threatening to harm staff or another service user?"

I said I'd de-escalate the situation, but if all else failed, I'd remove the knife. Trainers said, "what makes you so sure you could remove the knife safely?" I said, "working with these people day-in, day-out, assisting them with their personal care. There's not a single one of them whom I couldn't remove a knife from without injury to either of us". Another member of staff backed me up on this because it was true. Trainer said, "hmm, but you're supposed to say that you'd call the police."

I do have service users who could and might jab me with a butter knife tomorrow Grin, but I wouldn't call 999 to manage that.

AnotherName2025 · 29/05/2025 01:21

TheignT · 28/05/2025 19:27

One little old man in a home locally murdered another resident. Maybe just accept the jury heard all the evidence.

And was that an amputee in a wheel chair with a butter knife, in his room, on his own???

I think not. Apples/ oranges. Or rather bananas!

Raniqw · 29/05/2025 01:40

From Sky News “PC Comotto faces a further misconduct allegation relating to comments she made on social media after the incident”.

Does anyone know what the comments were?

Giftser · 29/05/2025 01:42

Unbelievable

Firefly1987 · 29/05/2025 02:39

Can we protest? Doing that to such an elderly person is nothing short of brutal and inhumane.

OonaStubbs · 29/05/2025 03:12

I think the people working at the care home are more to blame than the police are. The police get there and all they can see is they have what looks like a deranged man wielding a knife. The care home workers would have a much better idea of who the man was, what is situation was and what he was capable of.

QuaintShaker · 29/05/2025 03:32

I guess there's a distinction between police failing miserably at their role and criminal assault. It isn't as though they intended or wanted to attack the man, rather they failed miserably at risk assessing and de-escalating.

countrygirl99 · 29/05/2025 03:56

Womanofcustard · 28/05/2025 20:44

Never underestimate the strength of people with dementia. All of a sudden they’re not frail.

So just keep out of reach. He wasn't going to leap up at them.

GarlicPile · 29/05/2025 04:29

Womanofcustard · 28/05/2025 20:44

Never underestimate the strength of people with dementia. All of a sudden they’re not frail.

Can they grow a new leg all of a sudden?

GarlicPile · 29/05/2025 04:34

QuaintShaker · 29/05/2025 03:32

I guess there's a distinction between police failing miserably at their role and criminal assault. It isn't as though they intended or wanted to attack the man, rather they failed miserably at risk assessing and de-escalating.

Thanks. I was just trying to think this through - the police do have to be able to 'assault' people, so it's a more complicated question than if another civilian had done this to an old man.

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 05:06

I’m not sure what to make of this. You would think that experienced care staff and police would be able to de escalate the situation, but then I remember a friend of mine describing her father with dementia, and what was later found to be a UTI, as out of control and dangerous. She was very frightened.

The jury have heard and seen all of the evidence including footage and care home staff statements and they have come to the not guilty decision. It doesn’t seem like the police officers got off due to a lack of evidence so I think we have to trust they’ve made the right decision in terms of these charges having been presented with all of the evidence.

I can’t imagine that the officers won’t face some consequences from the gross misconduct hearing as how they behaved doesn’t seem to show they tried very hard or long to de escalate, which surely can’t be how they’re trained to deal with such situations. However, if they really didn’t know the extent of the man’s disabilities, maybe they weren’t communicated properly by the care home, and they may have deemed him as far more of a threat that what he was. Many police officers aren’t good people, even ones that are can make mistakes. I also think they’re probably under pressure to deal with incidents quickly which won’t have helped.

Its a very sad situation.

Destiny123 · 29/05/2025 07:21

EmeraldRoulette · 28/05/2025 18:45

Pp saying blunt knife

you can injure with a blunt knife

in this situation, why not try to get him to drop it first before using pepper spray and a taser? Keep in mind he was alone in his room when police arrived. As well as being an amputee in a wheelchair.

Or just shut the door, he'd have put it down at some point

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 07:29

Destiny123 · 29/05/2025 07:21

Or just shut the door, he'd have put it down at some point

Neither the care home staff or police could leave a distressed elderly man with a knife. They had a duty to keep him safe, not that it worked out that way, but that should have been the aim, as well as obviously keeping others safe too. It’s very sad.

Destiny123 · 29/05/2025 07:39

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 07:29

Neither the care home staff or police could leave a distressed elderly man with a knife. They had a duty to keep him safe, not that it worked out that way, but that should have been the aim, as well as obviously keeping others safe too. It’s very sad.

Having lived for 8y with a grandad with advanced dementia that used to hit us aggressively with a zimmer frame, and a year as a Dr on dementia/stroke wards where often bite and kicked by patients (and 10y as an anaesthetist having to sedate drug induced violent patients smashing up a&e and abusing staff), I can assure you distraction works well in such patients and can easily just watch him from a distance and intervene in the unlikely instance managed to harm himself

TheignT · 29/05/2025 07:46

Destiny123 · 29/05/2025 07:39

Having lived for 8y with a grandad with advanced dementia that used to hit us aggressively with a zimmer frame, and a year as a Dr on dementia/stroke wards where often bite and kicked by patients (and 10y as an anaesthetist having to sedate drug induced violent patients smashing up a&e and abusing staff), I can assure you distraction works well in such patients and can easily just watch him from a distance and intervene in the unlikely instance managed to harm himself

If distraction works so well how come you got hit or bitten?

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 07:47

Destiny123 · 29/05/2025 07:39

Having lived for 8y with a grandad with advanced dementia that used to hit us aggressively with a zimmer frame, and a year as a Dr on dementia/stroke wards where often bite and kicked by patients (and 10y as an anaesthetist having to sedate drug induced violent patients smashing up a&e and abusing staff), I can assure you distraction works well in such patients and can easily just watch him from a distance and intervene in the unlikely instance managed to harm himself

I’m sure the care staff were experienced and had dealt with many, many patients with dementia over the years without resorting to calling the police. I imagine something was different in this situation. Everyone is different so you can’t assure anyone of anything.

Chiseltip · 29/05/2025 07:49

Nanny0gg · 28/05/2025 17:22

The police that tasered the 92 year-old amputee in the nursing home have been found not guilty of assault!

What on earth? What does constitute assault then?

I'm appalled by this judgement

Well, the jury, who listened to all the evidence, decided that they weren't guilty.

FedupofArsenalgame · 29/05/2025 07:52

Womanofcustard · 28/05/2025 20:44

Never underestimate the strength of people with dementia. All of a sudden they’re not frail.

Ok so if there was at 92 year old man in a wheelchair threatening you with a butter knife then you wouldn't be able to move away faster than he could chase you ? Really?

FedupofArsenalgame · 29/05/2025 07:54

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 07:29

Neither the care home staff or police could leave a distressed elderly man with a knife. They had a duty to keep him safe, not that it worked out that way, but that should have been the aim, as well as obviously keeping others safe too. It’s very sad.

The staff had left the man in his room before the police arrived though. They then put went in and started shouting at him. Most people people would go into " fight or flight m" mode if that happened.

SomethingInnocuousForNow · 29/05/2025 08:01

Islagetmycoat · 28/05/2025 17:54

They’re really not all sweet. It’s so easy to watch a video and make comments. Even sweet and gentle old people can be violent. Very naive of people to assume otherwise. Hats off to anyone doing that job.

How violent could it have got with a butter knife and a missing leg?

Lifestooshort71 · 29/05/2025 08:03

They used excessive and unnecessary force according to the verdict and both face charges of gross misconduct. This isn't over yet.

SweetSound · 29/05/2025 08:09

Lifestooshort71 · 29/05/2025 08:03

They used excessive and unnecessary force according to the verdict and both face charges of gross misconduct. This isn't over yet.

Yes, I think they will face consequences and from what we’ve heard about this case, I think they should.