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To think we CAN live on the mortgage

743 replies

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 09:34

Advice please -

Couple - Earn £10,500 a month
Mortgage - 3,700 a month
Nursery - 1,000 a month

Considering all other possible outgoings, do you think we can afford this and not feel pressured each month. What am I not considering? We've done the spreadsheet but I'm still unsure.

We will have about £65,000 in savings at the beginning of this venture.

Thanks in advance. House of a lifetime.

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Hwi · 28/05/2025 12:33

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:25

If I actually gave a shit....

No need to be so rude. Read the room!

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:34

Hwi · 28/05/2025 12:33

No need to be so rude. Read the room!

It's my room, my thread.

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Tripadvisor101 · 28/05/2025 12:34

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:12

Yes exactly, we put down a deposit of about £300,000. We thought putting more money into the deposit was better than holding back savings.

1 child that's it.

State school 100%

Salary 1 - 4,200 monthly net
Salary 2 - 5,200 monthly net

Large house but not old. Council tax is 230 monthly.

It annoys me that my council tax is about 70% of this but my wage is only about a quarter.

Jafferz · 28/05/2025 12:35

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WhereHasMyPlanetGone · 28/05/2025 12:37

Tripadvisor101 · 28/05/2025 12:34

It annoys me that my council tax is about 70% of this but my wage is only about a quarter.

Our council tax is higher than that and our wage is much, much lower.

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:38

boredoflaundry · 28/05/2025 12:28

@JaneEyre40 look at income protection insurance! For health and other options.

if you don’t touch your savings and one of you loses your job, you’ve still got more than 10 months in the bank.

look at your bank statements. Yes it’ll be sobering.
when you’re in the new house, spend some time enjoying it! Rather than being out spending.
have been on toast and whack £100+ in your savings on a Saturday night!!

it doesn’t sound like you make much of a conscious effort to manage your money, do. Even if you’re the type that likes to spend … spend it into a savings account.

you’ll be AMAZED what you can tuck away.

your council tax sounds REALLY cheap! … I guess that’s because London live on top of each other, so plenty paying it.
See if you can work out your other household bills too and put together a proper budget.

£150 a week for food should be plenty if you cook.

There loads of money to spare if you think about it rather than just spending it.

Thank you! Yes, spend into savings account, I like it. We absolutely don't spend unnecessarily, I can't remember the last time we had a takeaway or anything other than sweet potato and veg for dinner. Looking at income protection already so than you for that.

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JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:39

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 12:28

This is not the place ever for financial advice.

I know but I've already been given some interesting things to think about.

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MissRaspberryRipples · 28/05/2025 12:39

Surely this is a bait post. No way can anyone on this wage be stupid enough not to know what stoppages are plus further responding they pick up £4,200 and £5,200. That's £9,400 not £10,500

MaggieBsBoat · 28/05/2025 12:40

AllyCart · 28/05/2025 10:35

These type of threads drive me mad when posters don't state NET or GROSS income.

If it's net then it's a non-issue, plenty spare.

If it's gross - and earned by one person - it could mean going into debt each month.

We get "earn", "make", "bring home", "income", all sorts of colloquialisms, and I've seen every one of them used interchangeably as net/gross, and yet we're supposed to guess what the poster means.

Why can't people just be clear?

I always assume net with these posts. There is no way anyone with any brains will take on a mortgage of that size (no one should anyway unless they are millionaires imo) if it’s gross surely.

Hwi · 28/05/2025 12:40

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:34

It's my room, my thread.

OK, go ahead, be rude!

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:40

Silversaxo · 28/05/2025 12:32

This has got to be rage bait

Why, are you enraged by it?

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RampantIvy · 28/05/2025 12:40

Why have there been so many "I earn pots of money" threads on MN recently?

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:41

Baby woke up. Thank you for the advice!!

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Lalalol · 28/05/2025 12:41

BCBird · 28/05/2025 09:40

Can't believe people have these sort of incomes- another world!!

I think the point is we shouldn’t believe it.

no-one genuinely in this position would be asking this question on mumsnet

unless they’re a dickhead who gets a kick out of showing off to people they don’t know

irregularegular · 28/05/2025 12:42

What am I not considering? We've done the spreadsheet but I'm still unsure.

If you shared this, then we might be able to tell you what you've forgotten. Obviously it is more than doable. But (equally obviously) if you have been used to a much lower mortgage and are not currently saving the difference, then you are going to have to make cutbacks somewhere and you need to know where they will be.

FWIW we earn similar money but only have a mortgage of 2k and no childcare costs. I consider our mortgage to be very low relative to our income. We are currently putting a lot into pensions, paying off mortgage quickly, and saving towards a lump sum for our young adult kids.

GertieLawrence · 28/05/2025 12:42

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:12

Yes exactly, we put down a deposit of about £300,000. We thought putting more money into the deposit was better than holding back savings.

1 child that's it.

State school 100%

Salary 1 - 4,200 monthly net
Salary 2 - 5,200 monthly net

Large house but not old. Council tax is 230 monthly.

Is £230 council tax an error? We’re not in London, but suburb county and ours is £400 per month. Doesn’t sound right to me.

angela1952 · 28/05/2025 12:43

AlorsTimeForWine · 28/05/2025 12:30

In that case you'll likely be in for a shock 😅
We certainly were but are used to it now.
Our water is over £100pm in the flat it was about £15-20

Edited

If your water is already metered there is no reason why a metered supply in your new place would be drastically higher, you're likely to use much the same amount unless you have a big garden and water it a lot. Unless you're very heavy water users it is important to be metered though, as otherwise your bill will depend on the "rateable value" (or whatever they call it now) of your new larger property.

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 12:45

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:39

I know but I've already been given some interesting things to think about.

If you’re relying on mumsnet for this kind of advice there’s a problem.

angela1952 · 28/05/2025 12:45

GertieLawrence · 28/05/2025 12:42

Is £230 council tax an error? We’re not in London, but suburb county and ours is £400 per month. Doesn’t sound right to me.

Yes, I agree, that does sound fairly low - though some London boroughs are lower than others. Also does the current owner get the single person discount? I think that is 25% at the moment.

Northernladdette · 28/05/2025 12:45

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:05

Ignorance here, what are stoppages?

Stoppages are tax, national insurance, pension contributions etc 😉

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:46

Lalalol · 28/05/2025 12:41

I think the point is we shouldn’t believe it.

no-one genuinely in this position would be asking this question on mumsnet

unless they’re a dickhead who gets a kick out of showing off to people they don’t know

Right...no one post a financial question on MN unless you have a low salary 🙄

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pinkyredrose · 28/05/2025 12:46

Seriously? You're on over £120 and you're worried about money?

Hellokittysmum · 28/05/2025 12:46

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 28/05/2025 09:39

Couple - Earn £10,500 a month
Mortgage - 3,700 a month
Nursery - 1,000 a month

Is the £10,500 net or gross?
Makes a big difference

What I came here to say.

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:47

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 12:45

If you’re relying on mumsnet for this kind of advice there’s a problem.

Who said I'm relying...relax.

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Lancasterel · 28/05/2025 12:49

JaneEyre40 · 28/05/2025 12:46

Right...no one post a financial question on MN unless you have a low salary 🙄

Don’t worry about them OP, they’re presumably just jealous. You can post about whatever financial circumstances you like! And you don’t have to always “read the room.”
These jealous posters drive me mad…. I’m an only child and proper jealous of people with a
sibling. Doesn’t mean I’m rude to people who post about their brothers and sisters!