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I have begun relying on AI and I don’t know how I feel about it.

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Tusktusk · 21/05/2025 22:16

So far this month I have used AI to:

Analyse my colours (thanks MN) and suggest outfits

Create a menu of packed lunches around my dietary requirements and preferences, complete with a shopping list

Plan a holiday itinerary

Save me hours and hours of work and stress by suggesting really useful ways to overcome very particular work difficulties, having been thrown into an out of my comfort zone situation. I have used AI for this on a daily basis this week

Tonight, instead of posting my current family dilemma on mumsnet I chatted about it with Claude. The responses were really good. Wise, thoughtful, non judgemental, practical, understanding… like the best mumsnetters.

Am I starting to rely on it too much?

What have you been using it for?

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taxguru · 20/06/2025 17:25

ColourlessGreenIdeasSleepFuriously · 17/06/2025 19:30

The Japan comparison comes from the International Energy Agency. If AI is used to find ways of optimising and reducing energy use, then that's all good, but randomers using it billions of times a day to get recipes widely available in books and ask whether they should go for a walk to improve their mood is just insanely wasteful.

By undermining the social contract I mean its unprecedented capacity to pollute information sources and spread misinformation on a grand international scale.

How much energy is used and pollution caused by printing books and shipping the raw materials to the print works and then the finished books to book-shops??

taxguru · 20/06/2025 17:27

VeryQuaintIrene · 18/06/2025 09:31

And actually, though obviously I use calculators, which (let it be said yet again) are a poor analogy for AI, I am glad that I was taught enough maths (traditionally, and much against my will at the time) to realize when I've clearly input the wrong number and got an answer that doesn't make sense. What worries me is people latching straight on to AI without acquiring solid cognitive skills in the first place, something that no AI cheerleader in this discussion has engaged with yet.

People already do that with calculators and spreadsheets, i.e. not realise they've made an input error. Garbage in, garbage out. Hopefully AI can be "taught" to do sanity checking of the results.

Flamethrowers · 23/06/2025 08:19

Chat gpt makes so many mistakes (like the rest of the internet, for example, it struggles with a pound to stone conversion) and it hallucinates like crazy even when specifically prompted not to. Recently told it I was Jesus and it concurred with me for a good ten minutes until we got into a debate (me slagging it off like it was a lazy student) about why it was validating a clearly false claimsz interestingly the only behaviour it has not endorsed is that of my emotionally abusive ex boyfriend, and there even when I've tried writing his behaviour from his point of view or asking it to analyse the dynamic just based on our emails. That's validating. Less so is it's frank appraisal of my looks.

Swirlythingy2025 · 26/06/2025 16:20

MistressoftheDarkSide · 25/06/2025 10:54

https://www.upworthy.com/google-ai-overview-search-results-are-unreliable

And a perfect illustration of why AI will never be "one of my favourite things" 😂

but then same arguement can be made towards wikipedia as people often do, but it does not mean because it makes errors then dont use it

taxguru · 26/06/2025 16:38

At the end of the day, it's unwise to rely on any single source of facts/information, whether it's google, chatgpt, Encyclopedia brittanica, mainstream media, the bloke down the pub or even professionals such as solicitors or doctors. Pretty unwise for anyone in any scenario not to check a few different sources and double check/get a second opinion, etc. The more important/critical the outcome, the more different checks you should be doing.

Swirlythingy2025 · 26/06/2025 16:47

taxguru · 26/06/2025 16:38

At the end of the day, it's unwise to rely on any single source of facts/information, whether it's google, chatgpt, Encyclopedia brittanica, mainstream media, the bloke down the pub or even professionals such as solicitors or doctors. Pretty unwise for anyone in any scenario not to check a few different sources and double check/get a second opinion, etc. The more important/critical the outcome, the more different checks you should be doing.

excatly this, its puzzling all the omg about chatgpt yet people don't think eg energy costs of leaving tv on all day, or the energy with various facebook, servers

taxguru · 26/06/2025 18:20

Swirlythingy2025 · 26/06/2025 16:47

excatly this, its puzzling all the omg about chatgpt yet people don't think eg energy costs of leaving tv on all day, or the energy with various facebook, servers

Nail on the head. A couple of minutes via chatgpt may well take massive resources, but if the alternative is spending an hour googling through various websites to find the same information, it probably evens out as using Google uses resources too!

Sdrena · 27/06/2025 12:31

taxguru · 26/06/2025 16:38

At the end of the day, it's unwise to rely on any single source of facts/information, whether it's google, chatgpt, Encyclopedia brittanica, mainstream media, the bloke down the pub or even professionals such as solicitors or doctors. Pretty unwise for anyone in any scenario not to check a few different sources and double check/get a second opinion, etc. The more important/critical the outcome, the more different checks you should be doing.

These things are not the same.

Random bloke down the pub - absolutely an unreliable source. Encyclopaedia Britannica - I’d expect it to be generally reliable, but aware there could be unintentional errors. Professionals - high level of trust since they are subject to sanctions for substandard practice and are insured for errors in opinion. People generally don’t get second opinions on legal advice, for example. AI - as well as any errors in its underlying sources (see above), known to simply hallucinate.

The fact all sources are ultimately fallible in some way does not make them equally credible.

Elbowpatch · 28/06/2025 12:16

Swirlythingy2025 · 26/06/2025 16:47

excatly this, its puzzling all the omg about chatgpt yet people don't think eg energy costs of leaving tv on all day, or the energy with various facebook, servers

I do.

chaosmaker · 30/06/2025 12:34

The only thing left on all the time in my house is the modem and the fridge. Nothing left on standby.
The modem gets switched off if I'm away too.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 01/07/2025 07:07

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jul/01/tech-firms-suggested-placing-trackers-under-offenders-skin-at-meeting-with-justice-secretary

Of course, this is one area where people would probably think such applications of big tech are perfectly justifiable, because those who break the law deserve everything they get..... I disagree.

Again, Robocop and Minority Report were works of dystopian fiction, not hand books.

Tech firms suggested placing trackers under offenders’ skin at meeting with justice secretary

Exclusive: Shabana Mahmood told companies she wanted ‘deeper collaboration’ to tackle prisons crisis

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jul/01/tech-firms-suggested-placing-trackers-under-offenders-skin-at-meeting-with-justice-secretary

AlecTrevelyan006 · 01/07/2025 08:32

I was watching Wimbledon highlights last night and thought something was missing. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Then I realised there were no line judges. Turns out they’ve been replaced by Ai. Bit sad really.

Swirlythingy2025 · 01/07/2025 08:46

MistressoftheDarkSide · 01/07/2025 07:07

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/jul/01/tech-firms-suggested-placing-trackers-under-offenders-skin-at-meeting-with-justice-secretary

Of course, this is one area where people would probably think such applications of big tech are perfectly justifiable, because those who break the law deserve everything they get..... I disagree.

Again, Robocop and Minority Report were works of dystopian fiction, not hand books.

add in demolition man where they did do it

Swirlythingy2025 · 01/07/2025 10:20

MistressoftheDarkSide · 01/07/2025 09:01

https://www.theguardian.com/money/2025/jul/01/digital-nomad-dream-turns-sour

Another interesting article examining the effect of digital life in general on the psyche.

id say thats more a technology thing etc

CapitalAtRisk · 01/07/2025 14:23

Swirlythingy2025 · 01/07/2025 10:20

id say thats more a technology thing etc

Exactly. But now everything we don't like (as we watch Wimbledon via satellite signal on our smart TV) is down to "AI".

chaosmaker · 06/07/2025 23:32

The only worse ai you could have would be to make the poxy thing out of brioche. It would be even more revolting and impossible to avoid then.

edited to add a bit on and correct something that didn't make grammatical sense.

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