Maybe I'm blowing this out of proportion i don't know.
I requested at the start of a weekend city break not to post any pictures of me on Facebook.
I mentioned it a few times throughout the trip to my brother not to. I don't give consent.
Tonight i noticed that he had put up a 'facebook' story and i am in a group picture.
I managed to get him to remove it immediately (although had been up for 5 hours).
My mum had explained he asked her first and she said do it as it is a nice family picture and will be up for only 24 hours as a result he put it up.
I'm feeling upset that my wishes were ignored. For reference we are in our 30s not 12 years old.
Whilst i shouldn't really have a reason as to why i don't want my pictures on fb etc. The main reason is for work as my job is sensitive. My profile is locked down, privatised and not used but I can't guarantee the same for close family and friends..
There is more. Such as my mum gaslighting me and saying I'm showing signs of a personality disorder and that i must be ashamed of my family for not wanting my picture up but not sure if relevant. I did offer to get it printed and framed as an alternative so she can see it every day which i felt was a fair compromise but no.
Reading it back it sounds like a stupid minor thing but has totally wound me up.