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Work colleague thinks it’s ok to steal my job because I’m “just” bank!

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fib88 · 17/05/2025 05:09

I work in a hospital and been in my job 2.5 years - I am on a zero hours contract (bank staff) and as such considered a temporary worker (so basically have no employee rights). The hospital are making 500 redundancies and looking at which staff to get rid of with bank employees being first in the firing line.

A permanent staff member, being a woman that I work closely with, who sits next to me (and I considered a close friend) has gone behind my back and offered to do my job resulting in her being allowed to do part of my role at weekends and is being paid overtime for this. She has made my position even more vulnerable now. To say I’m devastated at her betrayal would be an understatement. Because of her actions I’m literally hanging on to my job by a thread. She is very close with our manager (go back years) and this is how she has managed to talk her away into being allowed to do this. She is lazy, constantly being complained about my other members of our team for passing her work to others, including me. She talks all day and doesn’t pull her weight. She has had at least 10 weeks of faux sickness over the two years I have known her whilst I’ve had four days in total (Covid) and work very hard with hardly any holidays off over that 2 years.

I don’t know how to handle this, she knows I’m unhappy and has said such to other employees and passes it off as “it is what it is and she need to get over it”! if I complain to our manager, he will take her side as they have a long history together. She is going on holiday and keeps complaining she needs the money badly as she in debt.

The fact that a so called friend would betray me, who incidentally I’ve stuck up for repeatedly has gutted me, my question is how do I behave going forward - if I kick off they’ll get rid of me anyway for being a troublemaker. I just don’t know how to behave and what is my best course of action?.

Needless to say she is not my friend anymore, but I still have to keep up the pretence/professional front in the office. I haven’t been able to sleep for days over this. Maybe I’m just got to accept what she’s doing is acceptable in the workplace. I feel very disillusioned with people right now.

OP posts:
Viviennemary · 23/05/2025 16:13

She sounds a horror and is no friend of yours. Don't stick up for her again and don't do her work. But bank staff are always first to go before employees on a permanent contract.

EleanorReally · 24/05/2025 05:42

Anonymousforthisone2025 · 23/05/2025 16:06

You've had it good for years. Bank staff costs are crippling the NHS and it's ridiculous! If regular employees can do the hours then they absolutely should and bank staff should be a last resort

Edited

that is totally untrue, admin bank staff are paid less than regular employees and are often vital to the service

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 25/05/2025 11:01

fib88 · 17/05/2025 05:54

Itseatingmeup

I do the same hours every week, and have done so for the last 2.5 years. .

We sit next to each other and I thought she was a close friend. The senior managers have said in a meeting “oh we don’t think k of you as bank, you're one of us”.

She is the most disliked member of staff in the office, She talks all day, on her phone and is constantly off “pretending to be sick”. Other members of staff have complained about her to management and I’ve literally covered for her on several occasions because I felt sorry for her. I would go as far as to say I was her only friend in the office.

Very often, she doesn’t finish her work and gives it to me to help her out, which I’ve always done.

more fool me!

“oh we don’t think of you as bank, you're one of us”.

While this is all well and good, when push comes to shove you are bank to them

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