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Are my dinners rubbish?

636 replies

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 13:38

Been told they are

Here’s an example of an average week, more or less:

Monday (I work at 6, so do something simple)

Feta & red onion salad with new potatoes & rice

Tuesday

Pasta with jar pesto (working today)

Wednesday

Dh to do omlette/eggs on toast with salad (working today)

Thursday

Salmon, salad, new potatoes

Friday

Homemade chilli with rice, nachos & dips

Saturday

Takeaway

Sunday

Roast dinner/homemade lasagne

Are they?

OP posts:
lovegoodlovegood · 11/05/2025 16:00

Calliopespa · 11/05/2025 15:57

I’m thinking the same! I’ve got some sourdough and avocados and tomatoes but an now battling an overwhelming desire to sneak out for a naughty wodge of soft cheese to put with it!

Tried a new one today - toasted sourdough with cottage cheese, pesto and sun dried tomatoes

Calliopespa · 11/05/2025 16:00

lovegoodlovegood · 11/05/2025 16:00

Tried a new one today - toasted sourdough with cottage cheese, pesto and sun dried tomatoes

Yum!

Clownsy · 11/05/2025 16:09

My daughters friend just turned 18, the child of two doctors.
Her diet has been plain pasta or roast potatoes 5/7 a week for years.
She likes buttered toast.
No veg whatsoever.
Chicken goujons too in recent years.
Her parents aren't the type to cook so they have fed her this.
I have cooked pasta when she was here and my children had sauce, she always had it plain.

She has it sometimes with ketchup.
Unbelievable, but true.
I have never heard of such a diet.
Her 2 older brothers, both doing medicine eat normally, but have been reared on a lot of take out.

The OP's diet sounds great.

faerietales · 11/05/2025 16:19

lovegoodlovegood · 11/05/2025 16:00

Tried a new one today - toasted sourdough with cottage cheese, pesto and sun dried tomatoes

I had similar to this for lunch, but a flatbread instead of sourdough, and goats cheese instead of cottage cheese. It was lovely!

WhineAndWine1 · 11/05/2025 16:29

timeforachange999 · 11/05/2025 13:26

But costs a lot more money than cooking your own food.

You cook your own food with gousto. It’s not ready meals it just saves going to the supermarket every week

WhineAndWine1 · 11/05/2025 16:30

faerietales · 11/05/2025 13:34

And honestly for me, 40 minutes is too long to spend cooking every day. I have so many other things I'd rather be doing.

What are you cooking every day ? It’s not ready can’t be anything of substance if it takes less than 40 mins.

soupyspoon · 11/05/2025 16:33

Calliopespa · 11/05/2025 15:05

The full amount is quite high. I’ve tried it a couple of times and my sphincter area felt quite quivery. I think it could vary from person to person . So long as you go daily I wouldn’t worry.

Yes but thats too sensible.

I think the right thing is to build the 'fibre score count' into any discussion about how fantastic your diet is, how rounded, how varied and how much better you are as a person if you have 30g of fibre per day, or even more, lets say 60 because you're so fabulous. .

Carbs and protein talk is so last year.

soupyspoon · 11/05/2025 16:36

WhineAndWine1 · 11/05/2025 16:30

What are you cooking every day ? It’s not ready can’t be anything of substance if it takes less than 40 mins.

You're being a parody arent you?

faerietales · 11/05/2025 16:39

WhineAndWine1 · 11/05/2025 16:30

What are you cooking every day ? It’s not ready can’t be anything of substance if it takes less than 40 mins.

I don't cook everyday as I have so many more things I'd rather be doing.

If you genuinely think you need to spend at least 40 minutes cooking to produce "anything of substance" then I think you need to take a look at what you're doing, quite frankly.

soupyspoon · 11/05/2025 16:56

faerietales · 11/05/2025 16:39

I don't cook everyday as I have so many more things I'd rather be doing.

If you genuinely think you need to spend at least 40 minutes cooking to produce "anything of substance" then I think you need to take a look at what you're doing, quite frankly.

Edited

My dinner is only going to take 39 minutes this evening. Its going to be a pile of shite and nutritionally devoid.

If I only had picked a different recipe that perhaps took 42 minutes, it would be a culinary masterpiece, worthy of Michelin.

intrepidpanda · 11/05/2025 17:02

Monday. 2 carbs, no veg, wouldn't serve cheese as a mai protein.
Tuesday. No veg, no protein, just unhealthy bridge carbs
Wednesday. This is a lunch, not a dinner. Again veg??
Rest is fine.

Why are you putting working?
It's not an excuse to just shove a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta.

faerietales · 11/05/2025 17:04

Why are you putting working? It's not an excuse to just shove a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta

I often do that even when I'm not working - I must be some kind of heathen 😂

WtafIsThat · 11/05/2025 17:33

Isn’t shoving a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta how most of us got through university? That and instant noodles.

TheTwinklyLilacSquid · 11/05/2025 17:48

intrepidpanda · 11/05/2025 17:02

Monday. 2 carbs, no veg, wouldn't serve cheese as a mai protein.
Tuesday. No veg, no protein, just unhealthy bridge carbs
Wednesday. This is a lunch, not a dinner. Again veg??
Rest is fine.

Why are you putting working?
It's not an excuse to just shove a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta.

Quite! No excuse at all, she should be whipped. I'm surprised she has the strength to open the jar of sauce with the lack of protein in her diet from that evil pesto pasta once a week! She's probably a type 3 diabetic from all those double carb Mondays.

Sowhatbigdeal · 11/05/2025 17:52

intrepidpanda · 11/05/2025 17:02

Monday. 2 carbs, no veg, wouldn't serve cheese as a mai protein.
Tuesday. No veg, no protein, just unhealthy bridge carbs
Wednesday. This is a lunch, not a dinner. Again veg??
Rest is fine.

Why are you putting working?
It's not an excuse to just shove a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta.

Read them again, ffs

OP posts:
harriethoyle · 11/05/2025 17:58

I think all of your dinners sound delicious @Sowhatbigdeal - are you near Yorkshire and if so can I come round for my tea?!

GlitteryUnicornSparkles · 11/05/2025 18:00

Am I the only person on here that thinks salad with potatoes and rice sounds like a bloody bizarre concoction!?

I’m a bit confused about what an onion salad is, don’t most salads contain some form of onion thus just making it a salad with feta or is this some sort of mixed heavily oniony salad!?

Pesto pasta I’d probably add some meat or something or do something with it.

Salad with egg on toast also sounds a bit of an odd mix to me, and an omelette on its own as a main meal sounds a bit lacklustre, I’d probably do something to go with it.

Personally I’d do veg with the salmon over salad but each to their own.

Everything else sounds fine.

Cheesyfootballs01 · 11/05/2025 18:02

@Sowhatbigdeal what do you want from this thread?

You have asked if they are rubbish dinners - the majority have said yes but you are just arguing back at them that they are not??

Who has said that they are unhealthy? If you and your family are happy with them then just carry on as you are?!

YouMustBeTheWeasleys · 11/05/2025 18:05

Not the worst and I wouldn’t mind any one of these maybe once a week if there is stuff in but none of them very inspiring or comforting - to be fair your weekend meals found totally fine but your weekend meals feel quite studenty. I would be looking to bring the lasagne energy to the rest of the week

Theyreeatingthedogs · 11/05/2025 18:14

Sowhatbigdeal · 10/05/2025 13:53

No just pasta with pesto sauce, Dc loves it, is this bad

I'd add in some veg in with pasta. Stir fry onions, peppers, mushrooms, carrots and herbs and use passata for sauce. The pesto will probably be UPF.

DrPrunesqualer · 11/05/2025 18:16

WtafIsThat · 11/05/2025 17:33

Isn’t shoving a jar of sauce into a bowl of pasta how most of us got through university? That and instant noodles.

Edited

And wine 🍷 🥳

SpidersAreShitheads · 11/05/2025 18:20

Cheesyfootballs01 · 11/05/2025 18:02

@Sowhatbigdeal what do you want from this thread?

You have asked if they are rubbish dinners - the majority have said yes but you are just arguing back at them that they are not??

Who has said that they are unhealthy? If you and your family are happy with them then just carry on as you are?!

Edited

Exactly this really.

I don’t think the Mon-Weds dinners are great for a child tbh.

Will there be others out there who eat worse? Definitely.

But then maybe don’t put up a post with your week’s menu expecting compliments ….and get arsey when people say it’s not ideal nutrition for a growing child.

ZenGarden89 · 11/05/2025 18:23

It all just sounds uninspired and rather dull. I don’t think the Monday to Wednesday dinners are appropriate for a child, no. Maybe a lunch on the run but not dinner. And rice and potatoes with a salad is just bizarre.

intrepidpanda · 11/05/2025 18:28

Sowhatbigdeal · 11/05/2025 17:52

Read them again, ffs

Sorry, I have. What am I missing?

ChaiLarious · 11/05/2025 18:33

soupyspoon · 11/05/2025 14:54

Well talking of fibre, does everyone get their full amount of fibre. This can be another shaming device and thing to worry over.

I might start bringing it up on multiple threads.

Maybe we could all discuss how healthy our bowel movements are based on our fibre intake. A four on the Bristol Stool Chart is the aim lol

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