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Is Mumsnet an English forum?

289 replies

Purpleturtle43 · 09/05/2025 11:16

Seems like pretty much every poster and responder assumes everyone on here is from England.

When asking questions regarding schools, health care, tenancy etc surely it would be useful to say what country you live in since the rules and laws are different all over the UK/world.

OP posts:
tinytemper66 · 09/05/2025 19:35

I assume that most people posting are English, unless they specify another location. I am in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

Eagle2025 · 09/05/2025 19:45

I'm always surprised by the number of people who type mom instead of mum. Makes me wonder where they are from.

BethDuttonYeHaw · 09/05/2025 19:50

Eagle2025 · 09/05/2025 19:45

I'm always surprised by the number of people who type mom instead of mum. Makes me wonder where they are from.

Birmingham and the midlands I believe

Eagle2025 · 09/05/2025 19:52

BethDuttonYeHaw · 09/05/2025 19:50

Birmingham and the midlands I believe

I wondered about America and Canada

MissConductUS · 09/05/2025 19:56

Eagle2025 · 09/05/2025 19:52

I wondered about America and Canada

I can't speak for Canada, but mom is common usage in the U.S.

Elsvieta · 09/05/2025 21:04

Purpleturtle43 · 09/05/2025 11:33

People don't assume they are talking about Britain, they assume they are talking about England.

Well unless they're talking about legal issues or stuff to do with the healthcare or education systems, which can be different in Scotland (and Northern Ireland, and the Channel Islands, and maybe the Isle of Man), it won't be relevant. And if it is about those things, people from those places will know they need to say.

Elsvieta · 09/05/2025 21:05

Eagle2025 · 09/05/2025 19:45

I'm always surprised by the number of people who type mom instead of mum. Makes me wonder where they are from.

That's what they say in parts of the Midlands I think.

Thegodfatherreturns · 09/05/2025 21:10

Arina22 · 09/05/2025 15:47

"People in the UK dont think its the centre of the world".

And yet we have so many posters on mumsnet, who think that every poster on mumsnet - lives in England.

That is a small minded mentality.

You see it in so many threads. Like the poster above mentioned. She wrote that she had just dropped her child off at school.

Another poster wrote "you're lying because its a bank holiday in England"

Instead of writing - where are you living? Which would have been a more rational response.

She indeed thought that everyone on mumsnet lived in England

How do you know that posters are assuming the person is English though? It doesn't usually make a difference unless it is a legal discussion in which case Scotland might be different but people who aren't Scottish wouldn't necessarily know that.

queenmeadhbh · 09/05/2025 21:16

GarlicPile · 09/05/2025 18:52

I didn’t know the cut off in England was different so how would I know to say “it’s different here”??

Oh, no, @queenmeadhbh, that must have been awful 😭 The sheer horror of dealing with ordinary people who don't know the school admission dates in other countries. The utter humiliation of having to explain! So traumatic for you Flowers

I do hope you're recovering safely. Thoughts and prayers.

Edited

Where did I say it was awful? You’re pretending I’m devastated when I’m just agreeing with the OP that it’s annoying.

it’s quite clear from my point that the annoying bit is not whether or not they know; but the assumption that instead of being from somewhere where it is different, I must just be wrong. If someone told me the cut off for the school year was January I would say “where are you?” and not “it’s not January, it’s June”.

GarlicPile · 09/05/2025 21:46

Oh, god, it's Everybody Takes Themselves Seriously Day. I'd have marked on my calendar if I'd known.

queenmeadhbh · 09/05/2025 21:57

GarlicPile · 09/05/2025 21:46

Oh, god, it's Everybody Takes Themselves Seriously Day. I'd have marked on my calendar if I'd known.

Was that directed at me?? You’re being pretty unpleasant, I was just contributing. Don’t know why you had to mock me by pretending I was distressed with the implication I’m being melodramatic and should get over it.

quantumbutterfly · 09/05/2025 23:54

@GarlicPile ' curdle my groats' may be my new favourite phrase.

lolalei3 · 10/05/2025 10:58

I’m Australian Smile

quantumbutterfly · 10/05/2025 11:20

Is this going to be a confession thread? My name is quantum and I live in the UK

(which to be honest isn't very united and I have my doubts about the kingdom thing too.)

YourLuckyPlumJoker · 10/05/2025 11:31

It's based in England and most of the posters are presumably, UK based.

Of course not all.

Needlenardlenoo · 10/05/2025 11:36

Haven't rtft so sorry if I'm repeating others, but around 84% of the UK population live in England and this is a UK site, so not an unreasonable assumption where a poster doesn't say which education system or whatever they mean?

Arina22 · 10/05/2025 13:42

MissConductUS · 09/05/2025 19:56

I can't speak for Canada, but mom is common usage in the U.S.

They also say mom in some parts of Ireland

YourLuckyPlumJoker · 10/05/2025 13:53

Arina22 · 10/05/2025 13:42

They also say mom in some parts of Ireland

And the Midlands.

Xenia · 10/05/2025 15:24

Most posters are from England. Most people in the UK are from England.Anyone can post however, even men!

Jc2001 · 10/05/2025 15:25

Purpleturtle43 · 09/05/2025 11:37

The assumption that everyone would be talking about England on a 'British Website' unless otherwise stated.

Well it's a London based company so it an English website if you're going to get all funny about it. So it's not surprising it's got an English bias.

If it was based is Edinburgh you'd be evangelising about the fact that it's Scottish not British.

Stop being so petty.

Willyoujustbequiet · 10/05/2025 15:27

I assume British but not English no.

SnoozingFox · 10/05/2025 15:29

It is British, with a predominance of English posters because England has the largest population out of the 4 home nations.

I am Scottish. It does wind me up when you go on a thread where people are expressing disbelief that children are out of school on holiday first week of July when ours break up last week in June, or recommending someone go to Ofsted about their childminder in Glasgow, or mentioning a whole host of other things which only apply in England.

And it's even MORE annoying when the same posters just refuse to accept that they are wrong because they have no concept that people in Armagh/Aberdeen/Aberystwyth do things differently to people in Altrincham/Andover.

MelliC · 10/05/2025 15:58

I guess we could have flags next to our user names to aid better communication but if people don't know school holidays are different in Scotland that's not going to help. They come to this forum and leave better informed, you'd hope.

But I do worry for you getting annoyed at it. You are going to live in a perpetual state of outrage if you ae triggered by other people's ignorance.

Thegodfatherreturns · 10/05/2025 16:01

SnoozingFox · 10/05/2025 15:29

It is British, with a predominance of English posters because England has the largest population out of the 4 home nations.

I am Scottish. It does wind me up when you go on a thread where people are expressing disbelief that children are out of school on holiday first week of July when ours break up last week in June, or recommending someone go to Ofsted about their childminder in Glasgow, or mentioning a whole host of other things which only apply in England.

And it's even MORE annoying when the same posters just refuse to accept that they are wrong because they have no concept that people in Armagh/Aberdeen/Aberystwyth do things differently to people in Altrincham/Andover.

It's not because they assume everyone is English though. They just don't know school summer holidays are earlier in Scotland than England. Why would they?

Purplebunnie · 10/05/2025 16:28

I know Scottish school holidays are different from England but I'm not sure about Wales and NI? Can anyone let me know for future reference,

As for mom/mum I originate in the Midlands and it is a thing there, I also call them islands and not roundabouts? Is this a Midland thing too?

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