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Would this be acceptable in your workplace?

187 replies

olderbutwiser · 06/05/2025 14:43

I’ve started to receive out of office emails saying “I am out of office until xxx. Please resend your email after that date”.

I may be a dinosaur, but to me it’s unacceptable to put the onus on the sender to resend their email on some random future date. Clearing piled-up emails when I get back to the office is just one of those things you have to factor into your working life.

Votes please:

Perfectly acceptable nowadays, you’re a dinosaur —> You Are Being Unreasonable
It’s completely unacceptable, time for a Meeting Without Coffee —> You Are Not Being Unreasonable

OP posts:
Laura95167 · 07/05/2025 23:28

I know i sometimes get OOO messages. I never read them. I just assume the person will get it once they're back because I didn't send a self deleting email.

lovegoodlovegood · 07/05/2025 23:39

My managers internal one used to be “I’m not interested until x date unless the place is on fire”
he had to change it after the place actually set on fire Blush (it wasn’t him!)

Jayne35 · 07/05/2025 23:43

Mine states if urgent email xx otherwise I will deal with it on my return.

HamptonPlace · 08/05/2025 01:16

Cariad10 · 07/05/2025 20:01

A couple of years ago I came back from 7 days leave and had just over 1500 emails. I had to go through each item it took me 2 days. Now I have an ooo which says I am in leave and your email will be forwarded to my admin team. Then any emails that come in are forwarded so that someone else can deal with it. Not sure I would be happy if any of my team were to say resend after I return .but I didn't want to have to spend days dealing with old emails again

That’s ((office working) life!

CiaoMeow · 08/05/2025 06:52

Paintsplatters · 06/05/2025 14:53

nothing worse than coming back to an inbox of several thousand emails, many of which may have been dealt with already and the sender doesn’t tell you it is no longer necessary to do.

I delete everything and if you still need it then you can follow up

Haha!! I like your style!!!😅

Paaseitjes · 08/05/2025 08:57

It's normal for internal emails on my organisation, but we also provide an alternate contract for urgent things. Realistically most emails aren't important. Anything that's really important will be remembered

Tryingtokeepgoing · 08/05/2025 13:11

SwanOfThoseThings · 06/05/2025 18:20

The idea is that people bulk delete emails received in their absence when they get back from leave.

Or, in the case of some companies, the email is never delivered, just deleted, if the member of staff is on holiday :)

moomoo1967 · 10/05/2025 11:43

olderbutwiser · 06/05/2025 14:43

I’ve started to receive out of office emails saying “I am out of office until xxx. Please resend your email after that date”.

I may be a dinosaur, but to me it’s unacceptable to put the onus on the sender to resend their email on some random future date. Clearing piled-up emails when I get back to the office is just one of those things you have to factor into your working life.

Votes please:

Perfectly acceptable nowadays, you’re a dinosaur —> You Are Being Unreasonable
It’s completely unacceptable, time for a Meeting Without Coffee —> You Are Not Being Unreasonable

Perfectly acceptable except mine says if the email is still urgent after that date resend, with names of who to speak to in the interim

TheKeatingFive · 10/05/2025 11:53

AthWat · 06/05/2025 16:44

This seems to utterly disregard situations where the email is more important to you and your company than it is to the sender.

"Hi, would you be interested in the 100 million pound contract we are looking to give someone - you are one of a number of companies we are approaching so we would appreciate a reply indicating your interest..."

No, just delete that, if it's important they'll follow up.

This was my thought.

I work in consultancy. Absolutely no way could we treat emails like that. I can't expect people to chase me multiple times to give me work. 😱

Needlenardlenoo · 10/05/2025 12:06

I've only seen this once, from a professor on a graduate course on which I was a student. Certainly established the pecking order!

TorturedParentsDepartment · 10/05/2025 12:06

I'd flipping love to be able to do it with certain care providers who send emails to personal clinicians for everything a notch up from a paper cut and flag EVERYTHING as high priority - but it would not go down well.

We just put an expected return date, and signpost people to our single point of access (which the damned care providers should be using anyway) or our shared service inbox which whoever is in work should be monitoring at least once a day.

Mind you I quite like the leisurely coffee and trudge through the emails gentle return to work anyway to get over the trauma of being back from holidays.

Dontlletmedownbruce · 10/05/2025 12:13

What if the sender is on leave when the recipient returns, then the sender has to ask someone to resend during a handover which is ridiculous. No I don't agree with this. Having a build up of emails after leave is the employers problem and responsibility to come up with a system for cover.

However a good idea would be an immediate automated response bouncing back the email and providing details of an alternative email during leave, then asking the sender if they want to proceed with the email to hit a particular instruction, send anyway etc. That would naturally filter any unnecessary stuff away and prevent duplications. It can't be that hard to organise, again entirely the employers responsibility.

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